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Why are older woman more hotter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Finding myself looking at the older lady , do women feel more sexy with age and why

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe older women have more experience and self confidence

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe I myself think if your hot your hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the menopause, all those hot flashes.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Experience definitely helps x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You can warm me up lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% agree with this, fab can be a awesome place filled with absolute quality people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age doesn’t make a woman hot. Confidence is the sexiest thing a woman can have. Not age, weight, boob size etc.

I agree op, some women that are older than others are still very hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe older women have more experience and self confidence"

I couldn’t agree more. I have always been attracted to older women and always dated them.

Confidence is a very alluring quality

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Women are incredible age is nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe older women have more experience and self confidence"

For me, this is definitely the key

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent

I have to agree that older women are really sexy. I can only assume it’s the mature confidence that appealing along with the physical aspects.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are confident, cultured, open-minded women better? It's a mystery!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe older women have more experience and self confidence

For me, this is definitely the key"

Absolutely this. Maybe after spending time with an experienced lady (and she's enjoyed it) there is more satisfaction because she really knows what she likes. If that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think age has anything to do with it. It is all about personal preference and whether you click with someone. Personally I prefer women to be height and weight proportionate, minimal or no tattoos, preferably non-smoker and moderate drinker, and able to hold a conversation on a range of subjects.Those are all good starters for me. Obviously no golddiggers are drug takers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got one definitely feel sexier and more comfortable in my own skin now that I am older and I think that comes down to experience for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s because of all those cardigans and double tights they wear ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s the menopause, all those hot flashes."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt I look better than I did when I was 25, but with age comes confidence and I think guys can pick up on that.

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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

When I was a younger man I was always attracted to women in their 40's/50's, the older woman syndrome. Now I'm a much older man I'm still attracted by the same age groups. I just think that slightly more mature women are incredibly sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding myself looking at the older lady , do women feel more sexy with age and why"

It’s taken me until 6mths ago to feel somewhere near sexy….I feel more confident now as an older woman than I ever did in my 20s and 30s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I doubt I look better than I did when I was 25, but with age comes confidence and I think guys can pick up on that. "

I know it's unlikely I look better but I feel like I do (if that makes sense)... Plus, I care much less about others opinions on how I look... And I am fairly confident in my abilities in getting what I need aswell as in what I give, as a lover... Apparently that makes me sexy, to those who are attracted to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman can be hot at any age. We see them everyday in all walks of life, but I do personally find an older woman knows what she wants more, is more experienced which means the sex & foreplay is usually likely to be better and in my personal experience they don’t accept much BS.

I’m all for it

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Depends on your age I guess but

I find younger women pretty hot

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

As I get older I realise time is running out so try and do everything I have always wanted to do do without holding back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on your age I guess but

I find younger women pretty hot "

Cute, thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess older woman have alot of their shit together and a comfortable lifestyle. (hang on, I have that too but doesn't matter).

Confidence is the magic potion imo

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

Confidence and intelligence for me

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

God forgive me now for what I do.

They are either hotter or more hot.

Cos they are ...... they just are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess older woman have alot of their shit together and a comfortable lifestyle. (hang on, I have that too but doesn't matter).

Confidence is the magic potion imo "

I definitely don't have my shit together lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I doubt I look better than I did when I was 25, but with age comes confidence and I think guys can pick up on that.

I know it's unlikely I look better but I feel like I do (if that makes sense)... Plus, I care much less about others opinions on how I look... And I am fairly confident in my abilities in getting what I need aswell as in what I give, as a lover... Apparently that makes me sexy, to those who are attracted to me "

Yeah I think I big part of it is realising that you are desirable, which a lot of us didn't realise when we were younger - we were too focused on our 'flaws'. Now we're older, we just choose to rock it

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By *arry FishermanMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

Sexual confidence

Independent

Freedom

High self esteem

Intelligence

mature men and women tend to tick those boxes, and they’re all attractive qualities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I feel I’m hotter now than in my twenties. Umm no. I could eat what I wanted back then and stay slim, now in requires effort. I didn’t have bags under my eyes or dark circles or deep limes. Was definitely better looking when I was younger. Now it’s just a slippery slope.

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

You still look amazing Annie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they have to turn their heating more often as they get older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You still look amazing Annie x"

I know but I looked better when I was younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are many reasons why older women are more attractive OP

The biggest ones for me are

Maturity

Confidence in who they are and owning their sexuality

Caring less about what other people think

Having life experience and knowing what they do and don’t like/want

Independence

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

C has experience but it’s more the self confidence she has which shines through. She’s also enjoying being comfortable with having her pics taken and the freedom of just being herself.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s the menopause, all those hot flashes."

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

I've never felt sexier in my life than since I turned 40.

That doesn't mean I have confidence or even like myself, I don't. I just have accepted that there are people who, for whatever reason, seem to quite like *this* (gesticulates vaguely at the blob of a body and face)

Posh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I doubt I look better than I did when I was 25, but with age comes confidence and I think guys can pick up on that. "

Yes. Yes we do.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not all women feel more sexy with age. Some of us realise that the small stuff isn't worth bothering about, that nothing bad is going to happen if we experiment a little, nobody cares about the odd lump, bump or slight variation from super model looks and it doesn't matter what other people think of us. This can contribute to us feeling a lot more at ease with ourselves but this doesn't apply to all older women, loads feel invisible, insecure and unattractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s the menopause, all those hot flashes."

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’d say it’s more about confidence and knows no what we like and don’t like

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Definitely care less about what others think.

I do things for me rather than trying to please anyone else.

I will tell you exactly how it is, full disclosure, no sugar coating.

If you're with me it's because I want you, not need you.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Its because I'm done making a family and relationships and am looking for kinky sex adventures

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Was always my dream at 20 for a Dom mature woman to mould and control me x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Finding myself looking at the older lady , do women feel more sexy with age and why"

Maybe it's because at 26,most women are older than you. You have a larger sample group to find hot ones in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife seems to be getting a fair amount of messages from younger guys .. but that’s what she wants !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We knew the life and art of seduction before smartphones and narcissi-sticks aka selfie sticks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Before mobiles lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes love an older woman. Willing cub here

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

They're usually more confident and that to me makes them more sexy and also they're again usually more experienced

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Definitely more confident and we know what we like and want now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely more confident and we know what we like and want now"

Tell me how you like it

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Menopause maybe?

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By *etamax197t6Man
over a year ago

preston

They're not

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By *heron212Man
over a year ago

London

Because they know what they want and aren't about to waste time on bullsh*t.

I mean, in general...

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I doubt I look better than I did when I was 25, but with age comes confidence and I think guys can pick up on that. "

I think I look better near on 40 years later than my 25 year old self which I've set my profile pic to what do peeps think? I certainly feel so x

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Because we know what we want and how to please our partners without all the drama... Well I do lol

X Storm X

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