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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi - I’m looking for a verification. Is there anybody willing to chat to me on Skype just to say hi?

I’m ideally looking for females - so female verifications would be better for my profile of that makes sense.

Nothing sexual - happy to return the favour x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi - I’m looking for a verification. Is there anybody willing to chat to me on Skype just to say hi?

I’m ideally looking for females - so female verifications would be better for my profile of that makes sense.

Nothing sexual - happy to return the favour x"

Why aren’t the chat room cams working for you?

Difficult to verify you when you don’t have any public pictures on your profile....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Doesn’t seem to work on my iPad.

Pics are sent in messages - I’m still to take some photos.

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By *orny_biigcockMan
over a year ago

oxford

Me too

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Hi - I’m looking for a verification. Is there anybody willing to chat to me on Skype just to say hi?

I’m ideally looking for females - so female verifications would be better for my profile of that makes sense.

Nothing sexual - happy to return the favour x"

Have you thought of saying 'please' ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion a cam verification is pointless. I prefer meet ones so I know if the person actually turns up. Better still if they are club or group social ones as you see the member is interested in the scene.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You know what I hadn’t even realised - but if you’re about and willing to I would appreciate it please x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree - plenty of time wasters here. Would much rather meet although I find people don’t like meets without verification which is why I’ve asked about cam verification x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Why not head to an organised social and meet people in person?

You have no profile pic so even then a veri to say you are who you say you are means fuck all coz in theory you could just send someone pics that aren't yours and people will think it's you until they learnt otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why not head to an organised social and meet people in person?

You have no profile pic so even then a veri to say you are who you say you are means fuck all coz in theory you could just send someone pics that aren't yours and people will think it's you until they learnt otherwise."

I thought the site filtered out the photos if they’re not of you? I send all mine in messages as I have to be discreet - clubs aren’t really my scene I’m not one for big groups - ptsd has done that to me unfortunately x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Why not head to an organised social and meet people in person?

You have no profile pic so even then a veri to say you are who you say you are means fuck all coz in theory you could just send someone pics that aren't yours and people will think it's you until they learnt otherwise.

I thought the site filtered out the photos if they’re not of you? I send all mine in messages as I have to be discreet - clubs aren’t really my scene I’m not one for big groups - ptsd has done that to me unfortunately x"

There is no filter, only human eye and whether the photos are within site rules.

That excuse doesn't wash with me or many others. Unless you can be recognised by every single body part on it's own having no pics it's nowt but lazy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why not head to an organised social and meet people in person?

You have no profile pic so even then a veri to say you are who you say you are means fuck all coz in theory you could just send someone pics that aren't yours and people will think it's you until they learnt otherwise.

I thought the site filtered out the photos if they’re not of you? I send all mine in messages as I have to be discreet - clubs aren’t really my scene I’m not one for big groups - ptsd has done that to me unfortunately x

There is no filter, only human eye and whether the photos are within site rules.

That excuse doesn't wash with me or many others. Unless you can be recognised by every single body part on it's own having no pics it's nowt but lazy.

"

Oh ok I thought it was to do with if it wasn’t a photo of you it got deleted - could be wrong.

Unfortunately I’ve got a very busy lifestyle - I have a life outside fab and am far from lazy. I can’t please everyone - I’m just putting the feelers out to ask if somebody would be happy to cam and verify me there that I’m genuine on cam and then potentially meet.

If you’re not happy with helping me - you could just say “no” and move on with your life. All the best x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Why not head to an organised social and meet people in person?

You have no profile pic so even then a veri to say you are who you say you are means fuck all coz in theory you could just send someone pics that aren't yours and people will think it's you until they learnt otherwise.

I thought the site filtered out the photos if they’re not of you? I send all mine in messages as I have to be discreet - clubs aren’t really my scene I’m not one for big groups - ptsd has done that to me unfortunately x

There is no filter, only human eye and whether the photos are within site rules.

That excuse doesn't wash with me or many others. Unless you can be recognised by every single body part on it's own having no pics it's nowt but lazy.

Oh ok I thought it was to do with if it wasn’t a photo of you it got deleted - could be wrong.

Unfortunately I’ve got a very busy lifestyle - I have a life outside fab and am far from lazy. I can’t please everyone - I’m just putting the feelers out to ask if somebody would be happy to cam and verify me there that I’m genuine on cam and then potentially meet.

If you’re not happy with helping me - you could just say “no” and move on with your life. All the best x"

If the photo mods are alerted to and can verify that the photo is a stolen/fake one then yes, it will be deleted.

You may not realise it, I was helping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest OP for a man cam veri's don't mean much.

As others have said most people want interact with a profile if there are no pictures what soever.

Don't have to be face photos and I agree with peach asocial maybe better for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be honest OP for a man cam veri's don't mean much.

As others have said most people want interact with a profile if there are no pictures what soever.

Don't have to be face photos and I agree with peach asocial maybe better for you. "

I’m wanting socials but a lot of people want you to have some sort of verification first!

I agree I need photos - I need somebody to help me make some more x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You said you send pictures privately so you do have pictures, why don’t you put some of them on your profile as public pictures?

Why do you need someone to help you make some more pictures? Can’t you just take pictures of yourself like pretty much everyone else on the site does?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You said you send pictures privately so you do have pictures, why don’t you put some of them on your profile as public pictures?

Why do you need someone to help you make some more pictures? Can’t you just take pictures of yourself like pretty much everyone else on the site does?"

If you read above you’d see that I must be discreet and have only got face pics.

I want to get with someone who will help me take the photos I need for the profile I want to create.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You said you send pictures privately so you do have pictures, why don’t you put some of them on your profile as public pictures?

Why do you need someone to help you make some more pictures? Can’t you just take pictures of yourself like pretty much everyone else on the site does?

If you read above you’d see that I must be discreet and have only got face pics.

I want to get with someone who will help me take the photos I need for the profile I want to create."

Why do you need someone else to take the photos for you though? Why can’t you take them yourself?

I took all the pictures on my profile myself, you really don’t need someone else to take them for you.

Do you know how to take a picture of yourself using your phone? I’m happy to tell you how to if you don’t.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I think adding more to your profile would help a lot more. Pics don't have to show your face if you don't want to show it. I don't show mine publicly anyway.

And plus.. having a look at your profile, you seem to put for your interest quite a lot of things that are online stuff only so perhaps that's putting some people off.

As a few have suggested, why not check to see if there is a social event in your area. Thats probably best may for you to start networking with people and getting your foot through the door so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be honest OP for a man cam veri's don't mean much.

As others have said most people want interact with a profile if there are no pictures what soever.

Don't have to be face photos and I agree with peach asocial maybe better for you.

I’m wanting socials but a lot of people want you to have some sort of verification first!

I agree I need photos - I need somebody to help me make some more x"

Most group socials don't need you to be verified.

Take a look in the meets and request section, loads in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You said you send pictures privately so you do have pictures, why don’t you put some of them on your profile as public pictures?

Why do you need someone to help you make some more pictures? Can’t you just take pictures of yourself like pretty much everyone else on the site does?

If you read above you’d see that I must be discreet and have only got face pics.

I want to get with someone who will help me take the photos I need for the profile I want to create."

You need to be proactive on this site, you will find it very difficult if you are waiting for others to help you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for all the advice

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I would b happy to watch u on cam and verri if u want? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Unfortunately I’ve got a very busy lifestyle - I have a life outside fab and am far from lazy. I can’t please everyone - I’m just putting the feelers out to ask if somebody would be happy to cam and verify me there that I’m genuine on cam and then potentially meet.

"

Once i got to this part too many things just don't add up.

Definitely suspect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not head to an organised social and meet people in person?

You have no profile pic so even then a veri to say you are who you say you are means fuck all coz in theory you could just send someone pics that aren't yours and people will think it's you until they learnt otherwise.

I thought the site filtered out the photos if they’re not of you? I send all mine in messages as I have to be discreet - clubs aren’t really my scene I’m not one for big groups - ptsd has done that to me unfortunately x

There is no filter, only human eye and whether the photos are within site rules.

That excuse doesn't wash with me or many others. Unless you can be recognised by every single body part on it's own having no pics it's nowt but lazy.

Oh ok I thought it was to do with if it wasn’t a photo of you it got deleted - could be wrong.

Unfortunately I’ve got a very busy lifestyle - I have a life outside fab and am far from lazy. I can’t please everyone - I’m just putting the feelers out to ask if somebody would be happy to cam and verify me there that I’m genuine on cam and then potentially meet.

If you’re not happy with helping me - you could just say “no” and move on with your life. All the best x

If the photo mods are alerted to and can verify that the photo is a stolen/fake one then yes, it will be deleted.

You may not realise it, I was helping. "

Absolutely agree with what peach says. There’s no excuse really, especially if you want to get what you desire.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Ok. You want to be verified but according to your excuses, you’re too busy to even take a picture of yourself when every device has a camera?

If you’re too busy to take pictures, then how will you fit in a meet?!

To be honest, your reasons sound like avoidance and excuses, which sound suspicious.

If you want to be verified, go to a club, a group social or onto cam. It’s what every other single guy has managed to do, busy life or not.

No one is going to meet you without pictures and a fuck ton of effort from yourself, either you do it or you don’t, it’s not up to anyone else to make your experience easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, You joined 7 weeks ago, we joined 3 weeks ago.

Your profile biography is sparse, ours took a lot of time and thought.

You have no public photos, we have one.

Neither you nor us has public face pics.

We've put ourselves out there, have found socials newbies and unverified can attend.

We've travelled near and far.

What's my point? We've made a huge effort in every aspect of the Fab opportunity.

You've made very little.

You have no verifications in 7 weeks.

We have 9 in 3 weeks.

Effort = reward.

Lady Astor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi everyone and anyone. I'm happy to verify people via cam on here

I only ask that you do the same for me

Please message me and we can arrange a time to go on fab cams

Joe x

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