FabSwingers.com forum: Scenario for males

By *jorkish OP Man
over a year ago

Seaforth

Your at a non swingers club. You see a girl, visually she ticks all your boxes. You start chatting. Things seem to be going very well. She leans over and whispers "I'm post op trans". How would you react?

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Exactly the same way I would be with a cis woman.

If things went well then maybe at some point talk about her journey if she wanted to but other than that she is a normal woman and should be treated as such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same as any other woman, ask her your place,mine or anywhere she wants it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would probably have lots of questions and hope I wouldn't offend her with any clumsy ones.

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By *traight_no_iceMan
over a year ago

Stoke

Should this happen I would be very thankful for her honesty. Things obviously would not go any further but if she does not mind we could continue having a conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless they want to talk about it I'd just reassure them I'm not transphobic, I guess?

I remember an episode of the IT crowd which was centred around this sort of "predicament"; I just never got it personally. Why would it matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unless they want to talk about it I'd just reassure them I'm not transphobic, I guess?

I remember an episode of the IT crowd which was centred around this sort of "predicament"; I just never got it personally. Why would it matter?"

M, by the way. Oh how I wish the forums had an edit button..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Prove it”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unless they want to talk about it I'd just reassure them I'm not transphobic, I guess?

I remember an episode of the IT crowd which was centred around this sort of "predicament"; I just never got it personally. Why would it matter?"

This

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I'd smile, say thank for for letting me know &, would you like a cuppa tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*chatting to a girl…. things going well…. Good gracious, this imagination of mine is out of control.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’d hope most people would react by acknowledging her honesty and either carry on chatting with the possibility it would lead on to something more, or politely make your exit because it’s something you’re not comfortable with.

She’s a human being, so deserving of respect and decency.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"“Prove it”

Prove that shes

Post OP????

Surgery is great these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy her another drink and keep chatting then enjoy the evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d hope most people would react by acknowledging her honesty and either carry on chatting with the possibility it would lead on to something more, or politely make your exit because it’s something you’re not comfortable with.

She’s a human being, so deserving of respect and decency. "

Exactly this

Manners cost nothing, she gave you the respect to tell you, show her the same respect in return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"“Prove it”

Prove that shes

Post OP????

Surgery is great these days

I was making a shit joke, I doubt I’ll ever be in a position where this is an actual scenario for me, so I’ll never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your at a non swingers club. You see a girl, visually she ticks all your boxes. You start chatting. Things seem to be going very well. She leans over and whispers "I'm post op trans". How would you react? "

Whoo hoo! It's not a problem for me as I have dated several pre-op trans girls. Just meet them and see how it goes.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"“Prove it”

Prove that shes

Post OP????

Surgery is great these days

I was making a shit joke, I doubt I’ll ever be in a position where this is an actual scenario for me, so I’ll never know "

Ok thankyou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would probably have lots of questions and hope I wouldn't offend her with any clumsy ones."

You rarely need to ask as they will tell you in their own time. I am talking from experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would probably have lots of questions and hope I wouldn't offend her with any clumsy ones."

This. I once had a (regular) date (two actually) with a gorgeous ex athlete who had 1 forearm missing. I just ignored that, in the thought of just accepting it was best, and not trying to ask her questions she’d probably answered a hundred times. But since, I’ve often wondered if I did the right thing not being openly (but respectably) curious.

I don’t know much about Trans matters, but if the above scenario played out, I hope I’d know a lot more one way or the other by the following morning

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By *heron212Man
over a year ago

London

I would whisper back "I don't care."

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