FabSwingers.com forum: Preparation

By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’m sure that most people have a set of things that they do with regards to preparing for sex; plucking, shaving, preening, washing, scouring, picking out the sexy outfit… all to excite and look our best.

How do you prepare for a social though, is it the same? Is it more of a mental preparation? Is it a case of hoping that they turn up and just focusing on your Costa order?

How do you get yourself ready for a social meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wash and go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above, if the social turns sexy.. you need to be prepared!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get dressed. Turn up. I then recheck where I need to be as inevitable I’ve gone to the wrong place. Turn up again. Tuck myself in (don’t be rude, I meant my shirt). Run my fingers through my hair so nobody thinks I am a vagrant, and introduce myself.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

I come looking my roughest

If they can’t handle me at my roughest they don’t deserve me at my bestest

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

What’s a social?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think all of the above… it’s more mental preparation… so you feel good about yourself and maybe less nervous…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I come looking my roughest

If they can’t handle me at my roughest they don’t deserve me at my bestest "

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

Depends on the social really! I've had a few on a nudist beach so not much preparation involved there

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

If its a possibility of turning into play then I am ready to go

If I don't want to put out but like them then I don't trim my foof

If its friendzone, then I'm happy to go casual but clean

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

"I come looking my roughest

If they can’t handle me at my roughest they don’t deserve me at my bestest "

I like this. I might have to start doing it.

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

"I’m sure that most people have a set of things that they do with regards to preparing for sex; plucking, shaving, preening, washing, scouring, picking out the sexy outfit… all to excite and look our best.

How do you prepare for a social though, is it the same? Is it more of a mental preparation? Is it a case of hoping that they turn up and just focusing on your Costa order?

How do you get yourself ready for a social meet? "

I prepare as if I’m about to go on a sex date but I don’t really mentally prepare. We either click or we don’t.

I only ever order tea from costa too. Got that part figured out.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I prepare to meet a friend. So normal casual clothing and bit of makeup to make me look alive. I don’t make much effort at all. I like to meet new people as I am say to day.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

All depends on the activity for the social and time of day. I’ve turned up in jeans and trainers as going hiking, through to heels (sometimes) and clothes I feel comfortable in for evening drinks. With all though I just treat it as meeting friends, so they take me as I come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just dress for the day and the weather. I’ve met people for socials wearing a summer dress, wearing leggings a hoody and sliders, wearing a prison custody officer uniform. A social is just a social. I wouldn’t fuck on the day. I wouldn’t promise anything on the day but sometimes I’d suck the guy off. I haven’t met anyone off here for almost 2 years now though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually if I've ran a brush through my hair then they're getting the most effort out of me.

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Smart casual and smelling nice.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I would probably dress for the time of day we are meeting, the place and the time of year, I wouldn’t be all glammed up in heels and stockings for a quick coffee if you see what I mean

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I refrain from eating any food that's liable to make me fart later in the day.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Shower, shave, wash hair, dry and style hair, get dressed, put on make up (except lipstick), brush teeth, put on lipstick just before I leave the house.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Depends how I'm feeling on the day and about the person, and what the plan is. Might be jeans and a jumper, could be a dress and heels. Might me completely whacky and go jeans and heels. Because I'm unpredictable like that. I do my best to ensure that it's something not stained from when I've dropped coffee down it though, because I'm totally classy like that.

But I like to wear the sexy undercrackers because it makes me feel better about me and that makes me smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've kicked myself when a social meet has got sexy and I've been really conscious of an untidy lady garden.. Or even worse unshaved legs if I've told myself 'that'll keep my jeans on'

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"I've kicked myself when a social meet has got sexy and I've been really conscious of an untidy lady garden.. Or even worse unshaved legs if I've told myself 'that'll keep my jeans on'

I had this and when we were pillow talking he said that he didn't notice it, I guess we are aware more about it than what they are actually concerned about x

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I've kicked myself when a social meet has got sexy and I've been really conscious of an untidy lady garden.. Or even worse unshaved legs if I've told myself 'that'll keep my jeans on'

I had this and when we were pillow talking he said that he didn't notice it, I guess we are aware more about it than what they are actually concerned about x"

Perhaps that’s the point? It’s about making ourselves feel our best so we feel comfortable?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Social means the same effort as a meet, except the stuff that can't be seen under the clothes.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I like to have a team meeting with a project plan and a PowerPoint presentation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I come looking my roughest

If they can’t handle me at my roughest they don’t deserve me at my bestest "

Yeah this!

(My bestest isn't much of an improvement.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also have a plan B if they don't turn up. Bit of cake, read the forums, do a bit of shopping. Top tip many years ago from Miss_tress.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I also have a plan B if they don't turn up. Bit of cake, read the forums, do a bit of shopping. Top tip many years ago from Miss_tress.

That kind of plan B is a good thing to have.

Personally I like to beat myself with birch twigs whilst reciting “be more likeable”, but it’s a personal preference and what works for you

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I've turned up to 2 different socials for a coffee after work. I don't live in town so it's more convenient. I just say that I'm on my way home from work if they fancy a coffee. It's up to them if they find that acceptable.

The other social was with one of the forum ladies, and I did dress especially and was more nervous for that lol.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I do all that for a social. I like to look and feel my best.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I once put a spare pair of knickers in my pocket for a social, planning to hand them over at the end ( a bit like the Queen with Maundy Money) but I forgot.Sexy social fail!

Now I just make sure I've got my glasses on the right way round and my shoes on the right feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I also have a plan B if they don't turn up. Bit of cake, read the forums, do a bit of shopping. Top tip many years ago from Miss_tress.

That kind of plan B is a good thing to have.

Personally I like to beat myself with birch twigs whilst reciting “be more likeable”, but it’s a personal preference and what works for you"

Even if I was twatted by a 30ft Birch tree I wouldn't be likeable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I also have a plan B if they don't turn up. Bit of cake, read the forums, do a bit of shopping. Top tip many years ago from Miss_tress.

Me too. It usually involves some sight seeing or a new coffee shop and a treat.

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