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By *corpion1985 OP   Man
over a year ago

whetstone

Hey,

So I’m looking for a little advice, having realistically identifying as “gay/bi” since my teens, only recently have I been with women intimately and since then I’ve fallen in love but don’t know how to progress further.

I wouldn’t say I’m overly camp (I have had my moments) but I wouldn’t know where to start in speaking with a woman.

I’m hesitant to be too crude but then realise where I am lol. Truth is I’ve tasted the “forbidden fruit” (to me at that time) and I want more.

I definitely think about women more than men since but how do I get there?! Lol

Hopefully someone will help.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I’m straight mate and even I haven’t a fucking clue

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Do you have female friends? Start out chatting like that, relax, don’t overthink it.

Rubbish advice I know…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as taking to guys but throw in a few affectionate phrases that include sweet tits/heart darling and my love . Always gets them wet ha ha ha

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Hey,

So I’m looking for a little advice, having realistically identifying as “gay/bi” since my teens, only recently have I been with women intimately and since then I’ve fallen in love but don’t know how to progress further.

I wouldn’t say I’m overly camp (I have had my moments) but I wouldn’t know where to start in speaking with a woman.

I’m hesitant to be too crude but then realise where I am lol. Truth is I’ve tasted the “forbidden fruit” (to me at that time) and I want more.

I definitely think about women more than men since but how do I get there?! Lol

Hopefully someone will help. "

Oh mate your in for a world of hurt, confusion, rejection and more confusion

Stay gay bro. I dunno if this shits worth it

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By *corpion1985 OP   Man
over a year ago

whetstone

Great feedback so far lol, I should also address that my most frequent relationship has been with my fleshlight.

I’m no romeo when it comes to men either, I just know how to suck a dick lol

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By *corpion1985 OP   Man
over a year ago

whetstone


"Do you have female friends? Start out chatting like that, relax, don’t overthink it.

Rubbish advice I know…

"

2/3 are mates, the third was a work colleague lol.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I’m straight mate and even I haven’t a fucking clue "

Says who???

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Piece of pee Op!

Say to her:-

"Hello, my name is.....", then don't break out into an Eminem track!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Try not to overthink it. There’s no real difference in talking to anyone, just relax and be yourself

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By *corpion1985 OP   Man
over a year ago

whetstone


"Piece of pee Op!

Say to her:-

"Hello, my name is.....", then don't break out into an Eminem track! "

Sorry, how did you know I did?

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By *corpion1985 OP   Man
over a year ago

whetstone


"Try not to overthink it. There’s no real difference in talking to anyone, just relax and be yourself "

Thank you but that is dangerous advice haha

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By *corpion1985 OP   Man
over a year ago

whetstone


"I’m straight mate and even I haven’t a fucking clue

Says who???"

If you’ve just pulled, I want to be best man..

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I’m straight mate and even I haven’t a fucking clue

Says who???

If you’ve just pulled, I want to be best man.. "

Just pulled

We are divorced x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I’m straight mate and even I haven’t a fucking clue

Says who???

If you’ve just pulled, I want to be best man..

Just pulled

We are divorced x"

I would go back there mate. She took half of my penis

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I’m straight mate and even I haven’t a fucking clue

Says who???

If you’ve just pulled, I want to be best man..

Just pulled

We are divorced x

I would go back there mate. She took half of my penis "

You would???

I was hungry that day

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I’m straight mate and even I haven’t a fucking clue

Says who???

If you’ve just pulled, I want to be best man..

Just pulled

We are divorced x

I would go back there mate. She took half of my penis

You would???

I was hungry that day

"

No. Haha tricked you. Trick or treat

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I’m straight mate and even I haven’t a fucking clue

Says who???

If you’ve just pulled, I want to be best man..

Just pulled

We are divorced x

I would go back there mate. She took half of my penis

You would???

I was hungry that day

No. Haha tricked you. Trick or treat "

No you meant wouldn't

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By *corpion1985 OP   Man
over a year ago

whetstone


"I’m straight mate and even I haven’t a fucking clue

Says who???

If you’ve just pulled, I want to be best man..

Just pulled

We are divorced x"

Shit, this is WHY I need advice lol x

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Hey,

So I’m looking for a little advice, having realistically identifying as “gay/bi” since my teens, only recently have I been with women intimately and since then I’ve fallen in love but don’t know how to progress further.

I wouldn’t say I’m overly camp (I have had my moments) but I wouldn’t know where to start in speaking with a woman.

I’m hesitant to be too crude but then realise where I am lol. Truth is I’ve tasted the “forbidden fruit” (to me at that time) and I want more.

I definitely think about women more than men since but how do I get there?! Lol

Hopefully someone will help.

Oh mate your in for a world of hurt, confusion, rejection and more confusion

Stay gay bro. I dunno if this shits worth it "

Is this you coming out?

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By *corpion1985 OP   Man
over a year ago

whetstone


"Hey,

So I’m looking for a little advice, having realistically identifying as “gay/bi” since my teens, only recently have I been with women intimately and since then I’ve fallen in love but don’t know how to progress further.

I wouldn’t say I’m overly camp (I have had my moments) but I wouldn’t know where to start in speaking with a woman.

I’m hesitant to be too crude but then realise where I am lol. Truth is I’ve tasted the “forbidden fruit” (to me at that time) and I want more.

I definitely think about women more than men since but how do I get there?! Lol

Hopefully someone will help.

Oh mate your in for a world of hurt, confusion, rejection and more confusion

Stay gay bro. I dunno if this shits worth it

Is this you coming out? "

Only if you’ll accept me as straight x

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Hey,

So I’m looking for a little advice, having realistically identifying as “gay/bi” since my teens, only recently have I been with women intimately and since then I’ve fallen in love but don’t know how to progress further.

I wouldn’t say I’m overly camp (I have had my moments) but I wouldn’t know where to start in speaking with a woman.

I’m hesitant to be too crude but then realise where I am lol. Truth is I’ve tasted the “forbidden fruit” (to me at that time) and I want more.

I definitely think about women more than men since but how do I get there?! Lol

Hopefully someone will help.

Oh mate your in for a world of hurt, confusion, rejection and more confusion

Stay gay bro. I dunno if this shits worth it

Is this you coming out?

Only if you’ll accept me as straight x"

I'll accept anyone as however they want to be accepted.

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By *corpion1985 OP   Man
over a year ago

whetstone


"Hey,

So I’m looking for a little advice, having realistically identifying as “gay/bi” since my teens, only recently have I been with women intimately and since then I’ve fallen in love but don’t know how to progress further.

I wouldn’t say I’m overly camp (I have had my moments) but I wouldn’t know where to start in speaking with a woman.

I’m hesitant to be too crude but then realise where I am lol. Truth is I’ve tasted the “forbidden fruit” (to me at that time) and I want more.

I definitely think about women more than men since but how do I get there?! Lol

Hopefully someone will help.

Oh mate your in for a world of hurt, confusion, rejection and more confusion

Stay gay bro. I dunno if this shits worth it

Is this you coming out?

Only if you’ll accept me as straight x

I'll accept anyone as however they want to be accepted. "

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By *corpion1985 OP   Man
over a year ago

whetstone


"Hey,

So I’m looking for a little advice, having realistically identifying as “gay/bi” since my teens, only recently have I been with women intimately and since then I’ve fallen in love but don’t know how to progress further.

I wouldn’t say I’m overly camp (I have had my moments) but I wouldn’t know where to start in speaking with a woman.

I’m hesitant to be too crude but then realise where I am lol. Truth is I’ve tasted the “forbidden fruit” (to me at that time) and I want more.

I definitely think about women more than men since but how do I get there?! Lol

Hopefully someone will help.

Oh mate your in for a world of hurt, confusion, rejection and more confusion

Stay gay bro. I dunno if this shits worth it

Is this you coming out?

Only if you’ll accept me as straight x

I'll accept anyone as however they want to be accepted. "

Thank you x

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By *iCurious4WomenMan
over a year ago

Inverclyde

I'm in a similar situation. Always thought I was gay. Recently discovered I am bi. Not looking for a relationship but would love to lose my virginity with a woman as soon as possible. Would like tips on straight sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in a similar situation. Always thought I was gay. Recently discovered I am bi. Not looking for a relationship but would love to lose my virginity with a woman as soon as possible. Would like tips on straight sex."

It’s fairly straight forward, the penis goes in the vagina.

Best of luck.

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By *iCurious4WomenMan
over a year ago

Inverclyde


"Do you have female friends? Start out chatting like that, relax, don’t overthink it.

Rubbish advice I know…

"
Pretty good advice I recon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s about exploring and meeting people and having experiences and seeing what you like

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By *iCurious4WomenMan
over a year ago

Inverclyde


"It’s about exploring and meeting people and having experiences and seeing what you like"
Agreed.

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