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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Probably been posted many times before, but what is your biggest regret?

not necessarily relationships, but missed job, or other life changing opportunities you wish you had taken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing I regret is wasted time but I also believe that things happen in our lives when they are meant to be

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

not travelling as often as we could have before lockdowns were a thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regret having my left knee replaced in 2016!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my list of regrets is far too long for fab.

and i don't want to be a Debbie Downer Px

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I have none. I've put myself through some shit and I've not always made the most of opportunities, but I'm happy with who I am, and happy with my life as it is. No regrets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try to live without regret if you can, you can't change the past so not much point getting hung up on it. Feel how you need to feel and then move forward.

Learn from your mistakes and experiences, something can only be a regret if you don't learn from it and implement that lesson the next time a similar situation arises.

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By *irminghamlady08Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow


"I have none. I've put myself through some shit and I've not always made the most of opportunities, but I'm happy with who I am, and happy with my life as it is. No regrets."

Me too x

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Regrets, I've had a few

But then again, too few to mention

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

None at all as they were meant to be, whether they were shit or not.

I am happy and that is all that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Non je ne regrette rein

Little bird......

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By *heonix_flamesWoman
over a year ago

Midlands

Biggest regret is my ex. But there’s a few others that could still happen

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Not having the work place sex with my older shift manager.

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only thing I regret is wasted time but I also believe that things happen in our lives when they are meant to be"

This…

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Having Children

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't have any

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


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Don’t know how I removed that, but thank you!

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Nothing significant no.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Not standing up for myself to bullies in school and as an adult, maybe I wouldn’t have been so walked over

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I don’t think I have any big regrets in my life. Maybe little things I wish I had or hadn’t done but nothing significant.

I definitely think my outlook has changed now since covid and hitting 40 though. I want to take every opportunity to do the things I want to do.

Kx

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I have some major regrets but then I wouldn't be the person I am today so maybe I just need to change my mindset and view them as learning curves rather than regrets.

Mrs

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Quite a few.

I regret buying the air pistol, that a mate blinded me in one eye with.

I regret not fighting my own corner, when I was clearly in the right.

I regret not enjoying crossdressing more in my late teens and early twenties, as I had a fantastic figure back then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All life’s actions bring us to where/who we are today. No regrets. X

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

Far too many to list

Main one was living in a fairytale land believing my dad would last a while when he was diagnosed with cancer, my mate who I worked with at the time told me to take time off (he was in charge of dept so could authorise it) and spend as much time as possible can with him, I believed my dad was so strong he would have years so carried on as usual still working and working on my house on days off (house was nearer my dad so once it was ready to move in I’d be closer and see him more) 5 weeks after diagnosis he was gone. I did see him in those 5 weeks but not nearly as much as I should

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing, ive made mistakes but ive learned from those mistakes & thats made me the person i am today. I cant regret something thats built & shaped me

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

For what is a man, what has he got?

If not himself, then he has naught

Not to say the things that he truly feels

And not the words of one who kneels

The record shows I took all the blows

And did it myyyyyyyyy way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing, ive made mistakes but ive learned from those mistakes & thats made me the person i am today. I cant regret something thats built & shaped me "

This….sums up perfectly…yes I do but because of those I’m me.x

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Wasting time on people who don’t appreciate you but you live and learn

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By *eekfreek00Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I've had a few

But then again, too few to mention

I did what I had to do

And saw it through without exemption

I planned, each chartered course,

Each careful step, along the byway

But more, much more than this

I did it myyyy wayyyyyyyyy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should only regret the things you didn’t do. You learn from mistakes so shouldn’t regret them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few but at the same time, the sutuations happened for a reason. I've come through them and I'm stronger for it too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sad part of it is you only discover regrets until you go through them ..no one knows at the exact time wether it'll be a regret or not ..the biggest regrets for me in my life was..1. l didn't follow my gut instinct..and 2... l didn't follow my heart ...both regrets involved ladies and each occasion l got them wrong

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By *eekfreek00Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Sorry op, I couldn't resist...

Read all the comments in the tune of Frank Sinatra My Way...

Comedy gold!!

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Not making enough effort to spend time with my mum.

Too late now. I just get one last time to say goodbye

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By *eekfreek00Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Not making enough effort to spend time with my mum.

Too late now. I just get one last time to say goodbye "

I now regret my previous post after reading this...

That shit just hit me.....wish I also had more time....cherish that last time my man, something I never got...apologies to all that found offence to my last post...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not listening to others when they told me someone was toxic and wasn’t right for me

Would have saved my self a life time off pain if I just had listened

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"Not making enough effort to spend time with my mum.

Too late now. I just get one last time to say goodbye

I now regret my previous post after reading this...

That shit just hit me.....wish I also had more time....cherish that last time my man, something I never got...apologies to all that found offence to my last post... "

No need to apologise. I don't get offended easily, and my mum would have found it funny... God, I hope she wasn't on here!

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Not joining the army in my early 20's and staying in a few dead end jobs longer than I should have. I did join up in the end but I could have gone down a very different path if I'd done it in the early 00's.

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

I had a few. But I have realised that regrets only pull you down. So I'm trying to learn and move on

It's not easy

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I've had a few, but then again, to few to mention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biggest regret would probably be fighting my sexuality for so long, not accepting who i am sooner.

Even now still struggle and regret

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

I've only had regrets for the things I haven't done, not the things I have.

I work on the basis that if the thing didn't work out, chalk it up to experience, learn from it or ignore it, and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wagging it too much at school and doing my exams when all my teachers pushed me too, don't get me wrong I've done ok in management most my working life but woukd have been so much easier had I got qualifications and studied Morland then of course past relationships so many years wasted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rejoining fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not going to university like I wanted too and being weak enough to be bullied into a job I never wanted to do by my father. But then again a different path would have meant a different life and I wouldn't have the children I have today. And they are enough to make any and all regrets worth while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try and not have regrets, I call them learning curves! I've had plenty of those and still at the age of 42 I still keeping learning.

Ok, I probably do have regrets, if I had known I would want to be a midwife in my mid 20s when I was at school I would have paid attention in school, if I hadn't of got in the car with the boy I knew from school 23 years ago life would be very different now for me but then I wouldn't have my boys.

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t ever say I regret anything. I think of everything as a lesson learned.

Everything you have ever done has got you to this exact moment in time.

No regrets.

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