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By *ver the hill for fab OP   Man
over a year ago

LONDON

Just done a quick search of 18/35 years old within 10 miles radius of London NW10 it said 300 plus Just like to know do you still go clubbing and pubbing when i was that age we were always out on the prowl why so young and be on a swinging site

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Damn it I’m old

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Some of us don’t particularly enjoy the clubs/pubs environment & rather prefer quiet social events and company.

Last time I visited a nightclub it was awful, the music was shit, the drinks overpriced and shit. The pub was the same.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Obviously I'm not young but I'd say that swinging is very different to "normal" clubbing and dating etc. I think it's possible to do both

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Damn it I’m old "

I just had a message that used the line "you seem a senile lot of fun".

I'm not getting any younger but that just felt unnecessarily harsh.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Damn it I’m old

I just had a message that used the line "you seem a senile lot of fun".

I'm not getting any younger but that just felt unnecessarily harsh."

Maybe they had messaged you before but you couldn’t remember

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Damn it I’m old

I just had a message that used the line "you seem a senile lot of fun".

I'm not getting any younger but that just felt unnecessarily harsh."

That is very harsh I think some men get off on all that unfortunately I got called mature by someone two years younger than me I don’t know how to be mature

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Some of us don’t particularly enjoy the clubs/pubs environment & rather prefer quiet social events and company.

Last time I visited a nightclub it was awful, the music was shit, the drinks overpriced and shit. The pub was the same."

I'm clearly not the demographic to answer the question, but I think also meeting people online has been normalised by the likes of tinder. It's a part of life now, where it wasn't for me when I was in my 20s.

The days of it being normal to wake up bleary eyed on a Sunday morning and try to see what you'd brought home when pissed the night before without waking him up are over I think, but they weren't exactly paradise anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

24yo here. I've probably been in about 10 different pubs/cocktail bars and zero nightclubs.

I like to be able to converse without shouting and I don't like the hustle/bustle headaches.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Damn it I’m old

I just had a message that used the line "you seem a senile lot of fun".

I'm not getting any younger but that just felt unnecessarily harsh.

Maybe they had messaged you before but you couldn’t remember "

I'm pretty sure it auto corrected from "stunningly attractive". That's what I'm telling myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust me over the age of 25 clubbing is over rated. I much prefer quiet nights in the pub now with good company. Im 30 and I can’t party like I’m 18 anymore. Swinging is a completely different thing though as someone said very different indulgence and pass time haha. I drink to get d*unk I wouldn’t be d*unk if I was swinging I want to remember it.

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By *ver the hill for fab OP   Man
over a year ago

LONDON

Swinging clubs are totally different to pubs and clubs for a young single girl on this site she is like a queen as for young single guys there sort of piranhas

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By *igg25Man
over a year ago

andover


"Damn it I’m old "

Me too

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Damn it I’m old

Me too "

Wanna start a knitting club

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island


"Some of us don’t particularly enjoy the clubs/pubs environment & rather prefer quiet social events and company.

Last time I visited a nightclub it was awful, the music was shit, the drinks overpriced and shit. The pub was the same.

I'm clearly not the demographic to answer the question, but I think also meeting people online has been normalised by the likes of tinder. It's a part of life now, where it wasn't for me when I was in my 20s.

The days of it being normal to wake up bleary eyed on a Sunday morning and try to see what you'd brought home when pissed the night before without waking him up are over I think, but they weren't exactly paradise anyway!"

Absolutely, it’s a lot easier these days to meet people online than before. With that though, it’s also become a bit of a burden as you’re competing with literally thousands at a push of a button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Damn it I’m old "
nope. Just not young.

Although I'm definitely old as I no longer want to be classed as a young person .... Makes me think kids rather than 20somethings!

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

“young single guys there sort of piranhas“

Dayyyummmm, talk about slapping the young single guys down.

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By *igg25Man
over a year ago

andover


"Damn it I’m old

Me too

Wanna start a knitting club "

Sounds like fun, maybe even bowls

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Swinging clubs are totally different to pubs and clubs for a young single girl on this site she is like a queen as for young single guys there sort of piranhas "

Its incredibly tough for a young single guy to get into a swingers club, and the pricing is a difficult thing to get past. I couldn't have afforded it in my 20s.

A single woman in her 20s looking for age-appropriate guys is more likely to find them on site where they can restrict their age filters than they are in a club, no matter how queenly they're treated in there.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Damn it I’m old

Me too

Wanna start a knitting club

Sounds like fun, maybe even bowls "

Ohh yeah I’m good with balls

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By *igg25Man
over a year ago

andover


"Damn it I’m old

Me too

Wanna start a knitting club

Sounds like fun, maybe even bowls

Ohh yeah I’m good with balls "

Ahhh yeah I’m good at all ball games that require a hole snooker, pool, golf

You name it and I’ll be there

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Damn it I’m old

Me too

Wanna start a knitting club

Sounds like fun, maybe even bowls

Ohh yeah I’m good with balls

Ahhh yeah I’m good at all ball games that require a hole snooker, pool, golf

You name it and I’ll be there "

You can teach me how to play them

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By *igg25Man
over a year ago

andover

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By *igg25Man
over a year ago

andover


"Damn it I’m old

Me too

Wanna start a knitting club

Sounds like fun, maybe even bowls

Ohh yeah I’m good with balls

Ahhh yeah I’m good at all ball games that require a hole snooker, pool, golf

You name it and I’ll be there

You can teach me how to play them "

Can use my cue to practice

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Damn it I’m old

Me too

Wanna start a knitting club

Sounds like fun, maybe even bowls

Ohh yeah I’m good with balls

Ahhh yeah I’m good at all ball games that require a hole snooker, pool, golf

You name it and I’ll be there

You can teach me how to play them

Can use my cue to practice "

Ohhhh what a good idea

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By *igg25Man
over a year ago

andover


"Damn it I’m old

Me too

Wanna start a knitting club

Sounds like fun, maybe even bowls

Ohh yeah I’m good with balls

Ahhh yeah I’m good at all ball games that require a hole snooker, pool, golf

You name it and I’ll be there

You can teach me how to play them

Can use my cue to practice

Ohhhh what a good idea "

You know where my inbox is

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Damn it I’m old

Me too

Wanna start a knitting club

Sounds like fun, maybe even bowls

Ohh yeah I’m good with balls

Ahhh yeah I’m good at all ball games that require a hole snooker, pool, golf

You name it and I’ll be there

You can teach me how to play them

Can use my cue to practice

Ohhhh what a good idea

You know where my inbox is "

And you know where mine is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a couple of drinks I forget I'm not 22 any more. Last few times I went out in Glasgow for "1 or 2 pints" I've ended up going mad with some 20-somethings I've met that day and it ends up in an all-nighter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and wife were swingers at 24 + 19 respectively.

We also went to night clubs.

Rarely did both things cross paths.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Just done a quick search of 18/35 years old within 10 miles radius of London NW10 it said 300 plus Just like to know do you still go clubbing and pubbing when i was that age we were always out on the prowl why so young and be on a swinging site "

When you were that age then meeting people online was not an option, meaning you had to go to pubs and clubs. The world is a very different place today and people have far more variety and choice as to how they meet one another.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Why not!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Just done a quick search of 18/35 years old within 10 miles radius of London NW10 it said 300 plus Just like to know do you still go clubbing and pubbing when i was that age we were always out on the prowl why so young and be on a swinging site "

At your sge people are home drinking horlicks and watching minder. Why so old and be on a swingers site?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just done a quick search of 18/35 years old within 10 miles radius of London NW10 it said 300 plus Just like to know do you still go clubbing and pubbing when i was that age we were always out on the prowl why so young and be on a swinging site "

I think when we were younger you went out looking to drink, dance and be merry. There was always the thrill of catching someone's eye and sparks flying. I recently worked in a bar and all the young people were glued to their phones. We didn't have that distraction back then.

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By *ver the hill for fab OP   Man
over a year ago

LONDON


"Just done a quick search of 18/35 years old within 10 miles radius of London NW10 it said 300 plus Just like to know do you still go clubbing and pubbing when i was that age we were always out on the prowl why so young and be on a swinging site

I think when we were younger you went out looking to drink, dance and be merry. There was always the thrill of catching someone's eye and sparks flying. I recently worked in a bar and all the young people were glued to their phones. We didn't have that distraction back then."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The internet is just easier. Going out is time, effort, money, and no guarantee. On here we can find people to have sex with that night and just turn up xx

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By *ver the hill for fab OP   Man
over a year ago

LONDON

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dating and hook ups have changed so much over the last decade. Things like "singles bars" are a thing of the past.

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By *ge_load_ladMan
over a year ago

NW & Mids

I Personally welcome and would encourage more younger blood to FAB and in swing clubs / lifestyle.

As we all know, Hindsight is a wonderful thing, for those of us older than OP's age bracket, I ask, if you knew about the swingers lifestyle / FAB earlier would you have joined sooner??? I deffo would have!

For the old farts who dis the younger ones saying they should go pubbing or clubbing, IMO the younger ones have just as much right to be here as you or I! Provided they are all over 18 of course.

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By *oruseandabuseCouple
over a year ago

chichester

So intentionally being provocative

Could it be that the group that go to clubs are slim and active and the ones on fab are not?

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

FAB is full of women gagging for young cock

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Just done a quick search of 18/35 years old within 10 miles radius of London NW10 it said 300 plus Just like to know do you still go clubbing and pubbing when i was that age we were always out on the prowl why so young and be on a swinging site "

Because they're very different things and it doesn't mean they don't go out.

If you want to swap partners or ti arrange a threesome, somewhere like Fab is a better bet than your local nightclub.

I'm 48 and still enjoy going to a pub or club for a dance and a few drinks. I don't see why it's an age thing.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

I'm just really happy that I'm still young. Thank you OP, you've made this young turtle cry tears of joy.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have never had good sex with someone following a night out drinking. D*unkeness, tiredness and sweatiness does not make for good sex. Especially if they got a kebab on the way home

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Swinging clubs are totally different to pubs and clubs for a young single girl on this site she is like a queen as for young single guys there sort of piranhas

Its incredibly tough for a young single guy to get into a swingers club, and the pricing is a difficult thing to get past. I couldn't have afforded it in my 20s.

A single woman in her 20s looking for age-appropriate guys is more likely to find them on site where they can restrict their age filters than they are in a club, no matter how queenly they're treated in there."

I've been going to clubs since I was 19 and I've personally not had a problem.

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By *igg25Man
over a year ago

andover


"I have never had good sex with someone following a night out drinking. D*unkeness, tiredness and sweatiness does not make for good sex. Especially if they got a kebab on the way home "

Wrong type of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs and parties are not for me at all. Not a fan of overpriced drinks, loudness and the lacklustre sex that comes with Ons.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I enjoy clubs and pubs, clubs I only go to if there's some music I want to see. The mainstream places don't interest me

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By *ally hopeWoman
over a year ago

sleaford

Thanks I'm older and I hate horlicks. But I am partial to young men. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally hate the thought of nightclubs. Loud music, d*unk people, shouting to talk to people. I'm not a huge fan of swingers clubs either for the same reason, I just want to be able to have a conversation with someone

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