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By *untime5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cornwall

I find myself turned on by a lot of things in porn that I know wouldn’t work for me in real life. Had a bit of a thing for the German Goo Girls recently. Apart from the risk of bareback gangbangs and an aversion to other guys’ jizz, I imagine there’s a lot of standing around fluffing/wanking and having to make conversation with other guys doing the same.

What do you fantasise about that you probably wouldn’t do for real, or what have you done that didn’t live up to the fantasy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find myself turned on by a lot of things in porn that I know wouldn’t work for me in real life. Had a bit of a thing for the German Goo Girls recently. Apart from the risk of bareback gangbangs and an aversion to other guys’ jizz, I imagine there’s a lot of standing around fluffing/wanking and having to make conversation with other guys doing the same.

What do you fantasise about that you probably wouldn’t do for real, or what have you done that didn’t live up to the fantasy? "

How do you know they wouldn't work for you in real life ?

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By *untime5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cornwall


"How do you know they wouldn't work for you in real life ?"

Mostly the health risk of a bbgb, but you can see in the videos that a lot of the guys are just waiting around. I’ve been in group settings before and would much rather be involved in the action than just stood watching.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I do have one particular fantasy that will probably never happen haha..

1 or 2 know only and its staying that way

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By *untime5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cornwall


"I do have one particular fantasy that will probably never happen haha..

1 or 2 know only and its staying that way "

Hmm mysterious… Does it involve specific people?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I can take this guy Fantasy whoever he is!

What weight are we fighting at?

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By *untime5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cornwall


"I can take this guy Fantasy whoever he is!

What weight are we fighting at? "

This is serious heavyweight stuff!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the past few years we’ve accomplished all my fantasies. The best part the all we’re pretty much better than I expected. So now I don’t fantasise I just think back to what I’ve done.

Don’t know if we’ve achieved all his fantasies yet but I’m very happy x

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I have a gangbang fantasy but I don’t think I’d ever be brave enough to pursue it!

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By *untime5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cornwall


"I have a gangbang fantasy but I don’t think I’d ever be brave enough to pursue it!"

Have you achieved anything close to it? I think most clubs have greedy girl nights that offer a safer environment to try it.

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

We did most of what we wanted.

I have scenes I want to do, rather than fantasies. For example we had threesomes (fantasies fulfilled) but next time I want to make my wife feel a particular way, make her experience specific emotions during the threesome.

And I have been part of messy cum drenched scenes and when you are there you really don't think about that guys balls banging against yours or is that some dudes cum on your hand. You are just focused on what you are doing.

I'm not bi. Sitting here now I am not getting off on the idea of a dudes balls on my leg or arm but I know it's happened and it's ok.

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By *untime5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cornwall


"And I have been part of messy cum drenched scenes and when you are there you really don't think about that guys balls banging against yours or is that some dudes cum on your hand. You are just focused on what you are doing."

What sort of m/f ratio did you have was there a lot of waiting and watching, or was that part of the fun? Have you seen Sex Lives of the Potato Men? One of them’s expecting mff and turns up to mfm. Some good chat about remembering an allen key the next time to tighten up the headboard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being the centre of a bukkake appeals as a fantasy

In reality, my knees are already aching at the thought of it and I'm already gipping at the thought of one guy having funky spunk

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By *untime5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cornwall


"Being the centre of a bukkake appeals as a fantasy

In reality, my knees are already aching at the thought of it and I'm already gipping at the thought of one guy having funky spunk "

I don’t know how anyone can do it. Love the porn outtakes where the guy clearly has vile tasting jizz and the girl shows it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get turned on by the mum and sister porn, though I certainly don't look at mine in that way.

I find it difficult to find good porn now, most of it is obviously fake. I like it to be real but not amateur

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago


"And I have been part of messy cum drenched scenes and when you are there you really don't think about that guys balls banging against yours or is that some dudes cum on your hand. You are just focused on what you are doing.

What sort of m/f ratio did you have was there a lot of waiting and watching, or was that part of the fun? Have you seen Sex Lives of the Potato Men? One of them’s expecting mff and turns up to mfm. Some good chat about remembering an allen key the next time to tighten up the headboard"

I don't know ratios. I was pleasuring two women then one of them grabbed my cock and I was doing something else.

It's hard to explain but higher brain functions don't work. You are in the moment. I want to say animal like but that wouldn't be right either because you know what you are doing.

It can be, "oh there is a pussy, I'm going to play with that for a moment. Oh here is another. I wonder can I play with both." Who is at the other end of the body isn't important at that moment. What they are doing isn't important. You are just giving pleasure.

I was soft when she grabbed me then I wasn't. She had cum on her then she had more. It really can feel like a dream.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I do have one particular fantasy that will probably never happen haha..

1 or 2 know only and its staying that way

Hmm mysterious… Does it involve specific people? "

Haha not specific people no

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By *untime5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cornwall


"I was soft when she grabbed me then I wasn't. She had cum on her then she had more. It really can feel like a dream. "

That sounds hot, not just an arranged gangbang event. I’ve played in big groups before and that’s so fun. It’s the idea of the queue that puts me off. I was getting it on with a girl I’d gone to a club with on a night when single guys were allowed. I knew she only wanted to play with girls, but when one of the wanking zombies approached I though she was reaching out to hold him. That actually quite turned me on at the time, but turned out she was just going to push him away

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"I have a gangbang fantasy but I don’t think I’d ever be brave enough to pursue it!

Have you achieved anything close to it? I think most clubs have greedy girl nights that offer a safer environment to try it. "

No, I haven’t. Never ventured to a club either!

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By *untime5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cornwall


"No, I haven’t. Never ventured to a club either!"

Maybe that should be a New Year’s resolution for 2022! Go with no expectations other than a nice night out and you won’t be disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most sexy things I want to do and think I would enjoy has been born from a fantasy.

A dream, a thought or conversation. Something someone else has said, and yes even from porn.

I think everything if I fulfilled me fantasies would be fabulous, never do I assume they wouldn’t work out. As long as you have a laid back attitude towards it (whatever happens, happens) and don’t ever think you’ll regret trying it, go for it. Sex should be fun, so have some fun.

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"No, I haven’t. Never ventured to a club either!

Maybe that should be a New Year’s resolution for 2022! Go with no expectations other than a nice night out and you won’t be disappointed "

My husband and I have been talking about it, I’m just not convinced I’d like it when I got there, I don’t know if it’s my thing!

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By *untime5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cornwall


"My husband and I have been talking about it, I’m just not convinced I’d like it when I got there, I don’t know if it’s my thing!"

Maybe just start with a night where they don’t allow single guys, that can be a bit overwhelming. I’ve only been to UK clubs on a few occasions and only played with the girl I’ve gone with. There’s no pressure to be involved with anything you don’t want to be.

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By *untime5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cornwall


"Most sexy things I want to do and think I would enjoy has been born from a fantasy.

A dream, a thought or conversation. Something someone else has said, and yes even from porn.

I think everything if I fulfilled me fantasies would be fabulous, never do I assume they wouldn’t work out. As long as you have a laid back attitude towards it (whatever happens, happens) and don’t ever think you’ll regret trying it, go for it. Sex should be fun, so have some fun. "

Ah, yes you’re right. Being involved in a bbgb isn’t actually a fantasy of mine, just something that I find a turn on to watch in the privacy of my own home. I tried to go to a gangbang once and was the only one who turned up on time with two girls. Another guy turned up late and stayed and a few walked in, got scared and left. It was fun, but not quite the numbers the girls had hoped for

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