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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Let's have some appreciation for the oh so slim ladies on here which I love to see.

Never message because there really isn't a point but fabulous to look at all the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are they sbw’s?

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Are they sbw’s?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always message and pay the compliment. Always nice to get a compliment and most are polite to answer xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always message and pay the compliment. Always nice to get a compliment and most are polite to answer xx"

Im always polite, and generally no answers natter how polite. But it's okay, I know they will be inundated and I'm the wrong side of 50

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are they sbw’s?

"

Wouldn't they be fcw?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they sbw’s?

Wouldn't they be fcw?

"

But I always thought the abbreviation was for big beautiful women.

You’re referencing the size of the chest area there and I don’t think that’s reliant on body size.

For example…

My french teacher at school was called Neenah and she had a very very ample chest but was incredibly slender.

I loved that woman, I once took her an apple to school but I got hungry in maths which happened to be before french that day and I eat one side of it.

She still thanked me in her delicious accent after I explained what happened.

Good times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they sbw’s?

Wouldn't they be fcw?

But I always thought the abbreviation was for big beautiful women.

You’re referencing the size of the chest area there and I don’t think that’s reliant on body size.

For example…

My french teacher at school was called Neenah and she had a very very ample chest but was incredibly slender.

I loved that woman, I once took her an apple to school but I got hungry in maths which happened to be before french that day and I eat one side of it.

She still thanked me in her delicious accent after I explained what happened.

Good times."

French women tend to be quite petite and slim x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are they sbw’s?

Wouldn't they be fcw?

But I always thought the abbreviation was for big beautiful women.

You’re referencing the size of the chest area there and I don’t think that’s reliant on body size.

For example…

My french teacher at school was called Neenah and she had a very very ample chest but was incredibly slender.

I loved that woman, I once took her an apple to school but I got hungry in maths which happened to be before french that day and I eat one side of it.

She still thanked me in her delicious accent after I explained what happened.

Good times.

French women tend to be quite petite and slim x "

Ooo la la

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

Why would you say no point in messaging? Always nice to have a compliment.

I ask as we talked about this only yesterday, it feels somedays that slimmer isn't very popular on here and interested to know if there's a reason other than personal preference?

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

It’s Interesting to hear you don’t message slim ladies because there’s no point! You could be missing out on ladies who are looking for your age group and size etc, you just never know right! Do you think they look for something in particular that you can’t offer? It’s great to hear that there’s appreciation for a smaller lady too, I know I definitely enjoy seeing them on here Miss pc

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Why would you say no point in messaging? Always nice to have a compliment.

I ask as we talked about this only yesterday, it feels somedays that slimmer isn't very popular on here and interested to know if there's a reason other than personal preference? "

Your photos are beautiful!

I love to see beautiful photos on here, and there are lots of gorgeous slim ladies here that I often look at and fab.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"It’s Interesting to hear you don’t message slim ladies because there’s no point! You could be missing out on ladies who are looking for your age group and size etc, you just never know right! Do you think they look for something in particular that you can’t offer? It’s great to hear that there’s appreciation for a smaller lady too, I know I definitely enjoy seeing them on here Miss pc "

I'm a huge fan of your photos

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s Interesting to hear you don’t message slim ladies because there’s no point! You could be missing out on ladies who are looking for your age group and size etc, you just never know right! Do you think they look for something in particular that you can’t offer? It’s great to hear that there’s appreciation for a smaller lady too, I know I definitely enjoy seeing them on here Miss pc "

It's just my experience on here, been here multiple times. Had profiles with face pics etc, sent very polite messages to all sorts of ladies, and received no replies from slimmer ladies. As I said my age counts heavily against me. But I appreciate them all the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you say no point in messaging? Always nice to have a compliment.

I ask as we talked about this only yesterday, it feels somedays that slimmer isn't very popular on here and interested to know if there's a reason other than personal preference? "

I think that here (as in society in general) vocalising a preference for slim women is taken as a form of body shaming for those who aren't. Being overweight does carry a lot of negative connotations so this may be fair. In a similar vein there have been a number of appreciation threads for black women. While these often spark strong opinions, no one would dream of starting a thread for white woman appreciation.

My sense of fairness hates these kinds of hypocrisies but my empathy understands them. When you've been made to feel shit about your body it is understandable that you will see praise of a body you can only dream of as yet another dig. As a slim guy who has to work really hard to keep the weight off I also understand that just because others think you have the perfect body shape it doesn't mean you don't have your own insecurities.

Mr

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west


"Why would you say no point in messaging? Always nice to have a compliment.

I ask as we talked about this only yesterday, it feels somedays that slimmer isn't very popular on here and interested to know if there's a reason other than personal preference?

Your photos are beautiful!

I love to see beautiful photos on here, and there are lots of gorgeous slim ladies here that I often look at and fab."

Thank you really appreciate it xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why would you say no point in messaging? Always nice to have a compliment.

I ask as we talked about this only yesterday, it feels somedays that slimmer isn't very popular on here and interested to know if there's a reason other than personal preference?

Your photos are beautiful!

I love to see beautiful photos on here, and there are lots of gorgeous slim ladies here that I often look at and fab.

Thank you really appreciate it xx "

Added to my Hotlist still not going to message this little beauty though

But my lord she's a hot little lady ...

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west


"Why would you say no point in messaging? Always nice to have a compliment.

I ask as we talked about this only yesterday, it feels somedays that slimmer isn't very popular on here and interested to know if there's a reason other than personal preference?

I think that here (as in society in general) vocalising a preference for slim women is taken as a form of body shaming for those who aren't. Being overweight does carry a lot of negative connotations so this may be fair. In a similar vein there have been a number of appreciation threads for black women. While these often spark strong opinions, no one would dream of starting a thread for white woman appreciation.

My sense of fairness hates these kinds of hypocrisies but my empathy understands them. When you've been made to feel shit about your body it is understandable that you will see praise of a body you can only dream of as yet another dig. As a slim guy who has to work really hard to keep the weight off I also understand that just because others think you have the perfect body shape it doesn't mean you don't have your own insecurities.

Mr"

Really interesting, thank you for the reply and hound said very similar... its great to hear other people's opinions. I am all about everyone being happy and confident the way that they are, so maybe hadn't seen it from the negative side, I just happen to feel more confident and happy the size I am... Mr would defo prefer a bit more meat on my bones but we all need to feel good about ourselves first.

Its a tricky one...everyone has their own preferences, but sometimes that also means that someone might feel knocked if they are turned down.

Thank you again, great response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you say no point in messaging? Always nice to have a compliment.

I ask as we talked about this only yesterday, it feels somedays that slimmer isn't very popular on here and interested to know if there's a reason other than personal preference?

I think that here (as in society in general) vocalising a preference for slim women is taken as a form of body shaming for those who aren't. Being overweight does carry a lot of negative connotations so this may be fair. In a similar vein there have been a number of appreciation threads for black women. While these often spark strong opinions, no one would dream of starting a thread for white woman appreciation.

My sense of fairness hates these kinds of hypocrisies but my empathy understands them. When you've been made to feel shit about your body it is understandable that you will see praise of a body you can only dream of as yet another dig. As a slim guy who has to work really hard to keep the weight off I also understand that just because others think you have the perfect body shape it doesn't mean you don't have your own insecurities.

Mr

Really interesting, thank you for the reply and hound said very similar... its great to hear other people's opinions. I am all about everyone being happy and confident the way that they are, so maybe hadn't seen it from the negative side, I just happen to feel more confident and happy the size I am... Mr would defo prefer a bit more meat on my bones but we all need to feel good about ourselves first.

Its a tricky one...everyone has their own preferences, but sometimes that also means that someone might feel knocked if they are turned down.

Thank you again, great response "

My partner is convinced I would prefer someone skinnier - it doesn't help that my ex wife was very petite. Are you sure it isn't just you that thinks he would prefer you with more meat on your bones?

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"Why would you say no point in messaging? Always nice to have a compliment.

I ask as we talked about this only yesterday, it feels somedays that slimmer isn't very popular on here and interested to know if there's a reason other than personal preference?

I think that here (as in society in general) vocalising a preference for slim women is taken as a form of body shaming for those who aren't. Being overweight does carry a lot of negative connotations so this may be fair. In a similar vein there have been a number of appreciation threads for black women. While these often spark strong opinions, no one would dream of starting a thread for white woman appreciation.

My sense of fairness hates these kinds of hypocrisies but my empathy understands them. When you've been made to feel shit about your body it is understandable that you will see praise of a body you can only dream of as yet another dig. As a slim guy who has to work really hard to keep the weight off I also understand that just because others think you have the perfect body shape it doesn't mean you don't have your own insecurities.

Mr"

Couldn’t say it better myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you say no point in messaging? Always nice to have a compliment.

I ask as we talked about this only yesterday, it feels somedays that slimmer isn't very popular on here and interested to know if there's a reason other than personal preference?

I think that here (as in society in general) vocalising a preference for slim women is taken as a form of body shaming for those who aren't. Being overweight does carry a lot of negative connotations so this may be fair. In a similar vein there have been a number of appreciation threads for black women. While these often spark strong opinions, no one would dream of starting a thread for white woman appreciation.

My sense of fairness hates these kinds of hypocrisies but my empathy understands them. When you've been made to feel shit about your body it is understandable that you will see praise of a body you can only dream of as yet another dig. As a slim guy who has to work really hard to keep the weight off I also understand that just because others think you have the perfect body shape it doesn't mean you don't have your own insecurities.

Mr"

We kinda touched over about it yesterday on a thread I did as it is seems like curvy is what most men seem to like (while thin is what seems to be more of a female collective idea) generally

And totally, I mean body happiness doesn’t come just because somebody might be naturally thin/slim (think of like not liking own small boobs and being conscious of it for example)

I think tho that either way, if someone is attractive, Is attractive no matter what her size is

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