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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay guys… new day , NEXT query

So…

do you think online porn is making men worse at sex? Is it conditioning how they fuck in the bedroom?

Have men forgotten how to tap into sensuality and be more passionate in bed (in a different way than just raw carnal passion) and now think that the best way to fuck is to bulldoze away at a pussy for hours and be literally fuck studs, cos that’s what you seem to see in porn/amateur porn??

I admit I have been slightly guilty of it, especially taking inspo from what I saw in porn because that’s what (In my mind) I thought I had to do to get men to like me in the bedroom

If you arch ur body that way, and move your ass another way , and moan just right. They will see you as this sex doll.

I don’t know maybe I’m becoming a bit of a softie lately since becoming MRS G (

), and I’m getting growing out the hyper sexual MEGA SLUTE phase … (still a slutey tho mind u)

Also, women… do you feel pressured to perform certain acts/things in the bedroom because of porn??

Anyway I’m happy to hear your opinions on the matter !! Healthy discuss only , please

PS: disclaimer: I just wanna clarify that I did enjoy the sex I had a lot with all my previous partners and I’d do it all again !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no think it more to do with the way things are

Lot off people haven’t had sex from last year there a lot off pent up horn and they just want to ravish

And god no porn dose not make me want to perform serton accts

As you should know pritty shour you can realt to what I am talking about

The category that I get asked the most tv toping guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me. I pay attention and learn from doing things

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

No men choose what they do

Porn has nothing to do with it

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Worse how

Men are great

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

You could alternatively argue its made people better at sex, as a greater proportion of the population are now more adventurous than 3 minutes of missionary and have more idea about anatomy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Worse how

Men are great"

You're great

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I don't watch the porn

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Worse how

Men are great

You're great "

Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it more to do with the type of meets that happen on here?

Like if you have a quick 2-3 hour session it's more than likely just about straight fucking

If you have an overnight and more of a connection it's likely to be more sensual in general and some slow fucking mixed in with some hard fucking and a bit more exploration in general?

Something to think on anyway

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Not necessarily. It may be damaging to young people as they are more likely to be exposed to it due to advance tech. But probably why I prefer getting to know someone first, then you kinda get to know what the other person likes amd dislikes. Besides there is a different between just banging away for the sake of it and animalistic passion which is where the passion takes over and you both just go at it. I find the two are very different and probably know which one I prefer

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I find that porn has made sex for some people (both sexes) a "performance", with boxes to tick that tally with the porn catagories,rather than something spontanious.

That's a total turn off for me.

I want to enjoy the ride, not endure someone very obviously going through their "moves".

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not necessarily. It may be damaging to young people as they are more likely to be exposed to it due to advance tech. But probably why I prefer getting to know someone first, then you kinda get to know what the other person likes amd dislikes. Besides there is a different between just banging away for the sake of it and animalistic passion which is where the passion takes over and you both just go at it. I find the two are very different and probably know which one I prefer "

I agree I think it is kinda weird for young people nowadays cos I’m sure some just think that that’s how sex should be…

U know Aheago style and hands round my throat type

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm just glad I'm older and most people had very limited access to porn when I was younger. None of us really knew what we were doing so we had to make it up as we went along, this also meant we had very little to compare ourselves to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't think of any men that seem like they are trying to roleplay a porn scene. Maybe it's because the men I shag are of the dirty mag generation.

I don't feel pressured to do anything. If they come across that way I drop them. They want a porn star not me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Worse how

Men are great"

I never said men aren’t great!

I love men x I’m just asking if porn is affecting performance and if it sometimes make it a bit staged. And porny…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just glad I'm older and most people had very limited access to porn when I was younger. None of us really knew what we were doing so we had to make it up as we went along, this also meant we had very little to compare ourselves to. "

Just some crumpled magazine in the overgrowth showing women 'Yellow paging' themselves

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Jackhammering away for 30 mins is the goal now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it has positive and negative affects on both men and women on how sex is perceived.

I’d personally say I’ve learned bits from porn, various positions but also learning in reality it can be very different. It can make you more adventurous though. I’ve never felt pressured from it because I prefer things to go naturally and what’s comfortable…

I’m tactile and passionate naturally so I can’t say it’s changed me

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Yes. Not only men though. Women are picking this up too.

Time was when everyone enjoyed sex. It seems now that unless a bloke is dishing out some kind of sexual punishment and a woman is not glad to be used then sex hasn't taken place.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm just glad I'm older and most people had very limited access to porn when I was younger. None of us really knew what we were doing so we had to make it up as we went along, this also meant we had very little to compare ourselves to.

Just some crumpled magazine in the overgrowth showing women 'Yellow paging' themselves "

I don't know what yellow paging is but otherwise yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find that porn has made sex for some people (both sexes) a "performance", with boxes to tick that tally with the porn catagories,rather than something spontanious.

That's a total turn off for me.

I want to enjoy the ride, not endure someone very obviously going through their "moves".

"

I think this site creates the tick box thing too. The Interests section (that some people assume is a sex menu that they can demand on a meet) and verifications (that some people think is a rating system for how good a shag they are).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Worse how

Men are great

I never said men aren’t great!

I love men x I’m just asking if porn is affecting performance and if it sometimes make it a bit staged. And porny… "

Do you get hugs from your chap when you say, well, pretty much anything?

Or am I just getting really soft lately?

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over a year ago

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"Jackhammering away for 30 mins is the goal now. "

I could always write a shopping list i guess...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just glad I'm older and most people had very limited access to porn when I was younger. None of us really knew what we were doing so we had to make it up as we went along, this also meant we had very little to compare ourselves to.

Just some crumpled magazine in the overgrowth showing women 'Yellow paging' themselves

I don't know what yellow paging is but otherwise yes

"

Two fingers spread apart.....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

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Whassup ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes. Not only men though. Women are picking this up too.

Time was when everyone enjoyed sex. It seems now that unless a bloke is dishing out some kind of sexual punishment and a woman is not glad to be used then sex hasn't taken place. "

Yes absolutely and that’s why I mentioned that I am/was slightly guilty in obliging x

But I have to say porn was partly to blame in ways

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"Jackhammering away for 30 mins is the goal now.

I could always write a shopping list i guess... "

No way, you'd be in sex heaven with the jackhammering.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Worse how

Men are great

I never said men aren’t great!

I love men x I’m just asking if porn is affecting performance and if it sometimes make it a bit staged. And porny…

Do you get hugs from your chap when you say, well, pretty much anything?

Or am I just getting really soft lately?"

I usually get a smack on the bum and a “go make me a brew, love!”

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"Jackhammering away for 30 mins is the goal now.

I could always write a shopping list i guess...

No way, you'd be in sex heaven with the jackhammering. "

I'd be smokin' ..... and no ceeeegar!

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

No. Men, as a whole are not mindless and brainwashed. They are able to watch porn critically and how it is intended, as enhancement, stimulation and fantasy. It's no different to watching action films.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Worse how

Men are great

I never said men aren’t great!

I love men x I’m just asking if porn is affecting performance and if it sometimes make it a bit staged. And porny…

Do you get hugs from your chap when you say, well, pretty much anything?

Or am I just getting really soft lately?

I usually get a smack on the bum and a “go make me a brew, love!”

"

Aw!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am not gonna admit or deny the fact that I may have started yoga ages ago , for all the wrong reasons!!

Them opening back arching poses need/needed to be mastered!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get what you are meaning by saying that x but i think that watching porn makes guys better at everything to do with sex x i know what you mean by some guys that just bulldoze their way and think that's the normal x i think they are the guys that don't watch enough of the porn categories lol xxx great threat

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm just glad I'm older and most people had very limited access to porn when I was younger. None of us really knew what we were doing so we had to make it up as we went along, this also meant we had very little to compare ourselves to.

Just some crumpled magazine in the overgrowth showing women 'Yellow paging' themselves

I don't know what yellow paging is but otherwise yes

Two fingers spread apart....."

Well! Every day's a school day

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I'd agree that the young generation are probably more influenced by online porn than the dirty mag generation.

I liked to read the letters/articles (allegedly) written by women to see sex from a woman's perspective, what they liked, what they wanted. Also liked reading problem pages in women's magazines.

The first time I had sex the lady in question wouldn't believe it was my first time when I told her days later. I thank my reading habits for that

Frank

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No. Men, as a whole are not mindless and brainwashed. They are able to watch porn critically and how it is intended, as enhancement, stimulation and fantasy. It's no different to watching action films."

I know but I feel like there’s this pressure to perform !! Especially younger lads!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Then again some young guys do try and end up nutting pretty quickly

It does take self control

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I do feel for younger girls as I think the expectations for certain sex acts are higher now. I wouldn’t have even thought of asking for anal or even expect a girl to squirt by finger blasting her when I was in my 20’s

or 30’s for that matter!

I’d rather see what develops from the connection you develop with someone as the better the connection the more you want to explore and go further.

Pure fucking would completely bore me. Finger blasting is not in my sexual arsenal.

But I don’t think it’s solely porn…I’m sure things like 50 shades has had an effect on people too. Like 9 1/2 weeks and basic instinct had an effect on the older generation.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just glad I'm older and most people had very limited access to porn when I was younger. None of us really knew what we were doing so we had to make it up as we went along, this also meant we had very little to compare ourselves to.

Just some crumpled magazine in the overgrowth showing women 'Yellow paging' themselves

I don't know what yellow paging is but otherwise yes

Two fingers spread apart.....

Well! Every day's a school day "

I never got that pose. There are way mor nicer ways to spread lovely lips......

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Worse how

Men are great

I never said men aren’t great!

I love men x I’m just asking if porn is affecting performance and if it sometimes make it a bit staged. And porny… "

Ahhhh x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"I do feel for younger girls as I think the expectations for certain sex acts are higher now. I wouldn’t have even thought of asking for anal or even expect a girl to squirt by finger blasting her when I was in my 20’s

or 30’s for that matter!

I’d rather see what develops from the connection you develop with someone as the better the connection the more you want to explore and go further.

Pure fucking would completely bore me. Finger blasting is not in my sexual arsenal.

But I don’t think it’s solely porn…I’m sure things like 50 shades has had an effect on people too. Like 9 1/2 weeks and basic instinct had an effect on the older generation.

K

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What about my generation ? Where did I get my ideas from ?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"I do feel for younger girls as I think the expectations for certain sex acts are higher now. I wouldn’t have even thought of asking for anal or even expect a girl to squirt by finger blasting her when I was in my 20’s

or 30’s for that matter!

I’d rather see what develops from the connection you develop with someone as the better the connection the more you want to explore and go further.

Pure fucking would completely bore me. Finger blasting is not in my sexual arsenal.

But I don’t think it’s solely porn…I’m sure things like 50 shades has had an effect on people too. Like 9 1/2 weeks and basic instinct had an effect on the older generation.

K

What about my generation ? Where did I get my ideas from ?"

The Bitch and The Stud…

or Debbie Does Dallas

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