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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Please can I get your opinion on my latest photo? It's an edited fake of an actual picture of me with blonde hair.

Do you think I should go blonde for real? Xx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Where?

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Love the dark hair, but blonde looks good

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Have you set it to public!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer you with brunette hair OP. Both look good though.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Please can I get your opinion on my latest photo? It's an edited fake of an actual picture of me with blonde hair.

Do you think I should go blonde for real? Xx"

It suits you, if your happy with sure go blonde.

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By *0astMan
over a year ago

Discovering

Prefer your darker colour, more elegant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imo, darker

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

You’re lovely either way but the blonde does look pretty good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It looks good but going blonde can wreck your hair.

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By *hitsbayMan
over a year ago

Whitstable

I'm a brunette guy but I must say I think you could carry off the blonde x

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I was about to say a massive NO, you are such a brunette and it’s sexier than blonde! but had a look and it actually looks ok. Still prefer brunette though, red highlights would look nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look worryingly like my sister in that pic and for that reason, I'm out

Mr

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

First instinct was no, but after looking at the pic, you look really good as a blond. So, up to you.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Suits you , go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No definetly stay brunette

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By *uck-RogersMan
over a year ago

Tarka trail

Blonde makes you look younger an innocent.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"It looks good but going blonde can wreck your hair. "
It does! My best friends brothers partner hers kept falling out. Highlights is all i ever get and i'm dark haired. Also conditioning hair is important OP you do what you want if you like the colour go for it. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer you brunette x

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"It looks good but going blonde can wreck your hair. It does! My best friends brothers partner hers kept falling out. Highlights is all i ever get and i'm dark haired. Also conditioning hair is important OP you do what you want if you like the colour go for it. x "
Just looked at the picture! It does suit you. x

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Ohh it suits you but you would suit anything you have a beautiful face blonde is so bad for your hair Im trying desperately to get my red back and rid of this straw like hair I have x

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

I think your current color is really nice but you could definitely pull off blonde too

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Ohh it suits you but you would suit anything you have a beautiful face blonde is so bad for your hair Im trying desperately to get my red back and rid of this straw like hair I have x"

Yours is beautiful xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have such a pretty face i don’t think it matters what colour your hair is, you still look great xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I love your dark hair, I think it really suits you, but you should do whatever you like .

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

You genuinely suit both so I’d say go for whichever you fancy! x

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Ohh it suits you but you would suit anything you have a beautiful face blonde is so bad for your hair Im trying desperately to get my red back and rid of this straw like hair I have x

Yours is beautiful xxx"

Thank you beautiful

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"Please can I get your opinion on my latest photo? It's an edited fake of an actual picture of me with blonde hair.

Do you think I should go blonde for real? Xx"

You look beautiful as you are blonde just as nice though OP XX

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

You have a beautiful face so suit either.but me personally I prefer you with dark hair

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By *drian HardthrobMan
over a year ago

Worcester

I really like it Jess, you're looking smoking hot

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No Jessica.

You look good in all your pics but colouring a pic is one thing doing it for real is another.

I'm not a fan of bottled blonde but must admit today's colourings are better products that times gone by.

I always think dark hair is much more sophisticated.

There's a reason women dye their hair blonde tho .... I believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The dark hair make you look safistcated

The blond make you look sassy

Both are good looks

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"No Jessica.

You look good in all your pics but colouring a pic is one thing doing it for real is another.

I'm not a fan of bottled blonde but must admit today's colourings are better products that times gone by.

I always think dark hair is much more sophisticated.

There's a reason women dye their hair blonde tho .... I believe. "

To cover the grey in my case!

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I think you suit brunette more. How about having some blonde highlights put through it instead? Either way you’ll look gorgeous.

Kx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"No Jessica.

You look good in all your pics but colouring a pic is one thing doing it for real is another.

I'm not a fan of bottled blonde but must admit today's colourings are better products that times gone by.

I always think dark hair is much more sophisticated.

There's a reason women dye their hair blonde tho .... I believe. "

Which is what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"No Jessica.

You look good in all your pics but colouring a pic is one thing doing it for real is another.

I'm not a fan of bottled blonde but must admit today's colourings are better products that times gone by.

I always think dark hair is much more sophisticated.

There's a reason women dye their hair blonde tho .... I believe.

To cover the grey in my case!"

I'm looking forward to going grey. It's coming but it's not quite here yet.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do look better blonde, infact you look like my xfb with blonde hair.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

All of the above. The fakery is really good.

do it!

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

You look great blonde, Jess. But your dark hair is so beautiful. And even with today's products, your hair will suffer - especially if it's a block colour.

What about red lowlights, as someone suggested?

But, to be honest, if you really want blonde just do it. You'll look great! Xx

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"No Jessica.

You look good in all your pics but colouring a pic is one thing doing it for real is another.

I'm not a fan of bottled blonde but must admit today's colourings are better products that times gone by.

I always think dark hair is much more sophisticated.

There's a reason women dye their hair blonde tho .... I believe.

To cover the grey in my case!

I'm looking forward to going grey. It's coming but it's not quite here yet..... "

I think it can look lovely, it’s not something I’m quite ready to embrace yet though!

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

It suits you

but I think you will struggle to get a nice blonde with being brunette

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By *orneyloverMan
over a year ago

Boston

You look absolutely gorgeous blonde but at the end of the day it's how you feel that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the dark. And if you're bleaching it's not great for your hair and you'll have to do your eyebrows to match.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"I prefer the dark. And if you're bleaching it's not great for your hair and you'll have to do your eyebrows to match. "

Busty Belle left her brows darker.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Try a wig.

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By *ave1963BarnsleyMan
over a year ago

Barnsley


"Please can I get your opinion on my latest photo? It's an edited fake of an actual picture of me with blonde hair.

Do you think I should go blonde for real? Xx"

Go with the way whichever colour makes you feel best about yourself.

In my opinion you look fantastic regardless of the colour of your hair.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

You do suit the blonde but I prefer the brunette. You're a gorgeous girl either way so go with what you really want. You can always dye it back to brunette if you don't like it blonde.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went blonde for a few years. The beauty is, you can always go back to brunette, really easily, if you change your mind.

You look great btw

Give it a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer the dark. And if you're bleaching it's not great for your hair and you'll have to do your eyebrows to match.

Busty Belle left her brows darker."

Good point. I've got quite thick eyebrows and they looked weird when I went blonde.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow, thanks for all the feedback. It's fairly even but I think brunette is edging it. I'm actually red atm, but I'm naturally a brunette. The blonde in the picture app thing came out way better than I expected! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer the dark. And if you're bleaching it's not great for your hair and you'll have to do your eyebrows to match.

Busty Belle left her brows darker.

Good point. I've got quite thick eyebrows and they looked weird when I went blonde. "

I’ve got really dark eyebrows, and I was really blonde, and it looked fine

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Go Blonde.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks gorgeous! The upkeep for dark to blonde is quite time consuming and spenny. Go the opalex route, will give your hair more protection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer the dark. And if you're bleaching it's not great for your hair and you'll have to do your eyebrows to match.

Busty Belle left her brows darker.

Good point. I've got quite thick eyebrows and they looked weird when I went blonde.

I’ve got really dark eyebrows, and I was really blonde, and it looked fine "

Oh maybe I was just being self conscious but I thought it made mine look too thick and dark. I had to tone them down with Jolene!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U suit blonde x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, you could pull it off easily. But if you're red and have always dyed your hair dark it will cost a fortune and also a good few sessions to get you to a nice shade of blonde. Also that shade of blonde can damage your hair and take away the softness and shine. I love the dark hair on you and would stay brunette. If you do decide to go blonde though it would look fab. Maybe get some caramel type highlights to start?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, you could pull it off easily. But if you're red and have always dyed your hair dark it will cost a fortune and also a good few sessions to get you to a nice shade of blonde. Also that shade of blonde can damage your hair and take away the softness and shine. I love the dark hair on you and would stay brunette. If you do decide to go blonde though it would look fab. Maybe get some caramel type highlights to start? "

Good points. I've dyed red a few times now.

I did do blonde highlights once ages ago. Looked ok xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So it seems that most people messaged or posted for brunette. But my blonde pic is on page one where my brunette ones never where lol xx

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By *wales_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

They do say blondes have more fun

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We both think blonde suits you but if your natural colour is brunette do you want the maintenance that comes with it?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

If I say yes do we FAF?

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE

You look great brunette, but, if you wanting a change, then you look good blonde.

Sometimes a change is as good as a rest. So go for it

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

you look great as a blonde

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I went blonde once, never again. It's a nightmare to keep up, dries your hair out and just didn't suit me. Soon went back to red! Took years to grow the blonde and damage out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooooo. The bleach will ruin them.. you have gorgeous dark hair !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15th August pic.. just took it to 2k fab with mine

Wouldn't change anything. Just add more layers perhaps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please can I get your opinion on my latest photo? It's an edited fake of an actual picture of me with blonde hair.

Do you think I should go blonde for real? Xx"

Comedy gold, your first pic is your arse.

Which is very nice btw

I think you look great blonde but great dark.

I’m just no help at all am I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you should go with whichever you prefer, it's you who will be living with it. Personally I prefer the darker hair - but hey, I prefer myself with darker hair but now it's white.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Already fabbed the blonde pic.

often mention blonde would be a nice look, S's colour is too dark for blonde, you women and your roots

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By *xiled BikerMan
over a year ago

Beverley

As nice as blonde pic is Darker every time for me

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Already fabbed the blonde pic.

often mention blonde would be a nice look, S's colour is too dark for blonde, you women and your roots"

Men get roots too you know ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Already fabbed the blonde pic.

often mention blonde would be a nice look, S's colour is too dark for blonde, you women and your roots

Men get roots too you know ?"
we got the just for men stuff,you just need to slap that stuff on. bit like mens shower gel.

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By *lipy123TV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Brunette you look to serious blonde

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look fabulous whatever. Though darker hair would brobably be better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you go a lighter brown ? Split the difference given both work ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you look good blonde

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the replies!

I'm very 50/50. The maintenance and damage is starting to put me off, the women on here that have actually done it seem to be warning me off xx

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I think you look good either way, but I would stay as you are.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Personally I've always preferred darker hair, but either look good on you.

What do you prefer?

Do you just fancy a change?

You can always go back if you don't like it anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be aware that’s a filter and going from dark (reddish) to blonde is a process and it may not look exactly like that and will take time to get that blonde

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I like the blonde but for such a radical change you probably need to get it done professionally, to make sure it's doneproperly.

I'm too much of a tight arse abd dye my own... fortunately I don't care if it's not quite as planned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are a stunning brunette, its a really sophisticated and sultry look on you. I went from Red to white blonde and it took my hairdresser 3 attempts, cost a fortune, wrecked my hair and it didn't last long before I died it again (every colour of the rainbow). The upkeep, roots and dealing with snapping frizzy hair was totally not worth it. Blonde does look pretty but you really suit a darker colour xx

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"You are a stunning brunette, its a really sophisticated and sultry look on you. I went from Red to white blonde and it took my hairdresser 3 attempts, cost a fortune, wrecked my hair and it didn't last long before I died it again (every colour of the rainbow). The upkeep, roots and dealing with snapping frizzy hair was totally not worth it. Blonde does look pretty but you really suit a darker colour xx"

The damage is very much dependent on the hair. Mine is bleached under the random colours and has been for years but is in good condition.

I rarely blow dry it, don't use straighteners and use a nourishing conditioner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please can I get your opinion on my latest photo? It's an edited fake of an actual picture of me with blonde hair.

Do you think I should go blonde for real? Xx"

Fabbed picture but always say just be you’re self

Sexy !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I see in the latest picture is a centre parting.

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Please can I get your opinion on my latest photo? It's an edited fake of an actual picture of me with blonde hair.

Do you think I should go blonde for real? Xx"

Wowzers, you look totally different, I think it will look amazing blonde! Equally, brunette is very appealing too x

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Please can I get your opinion on my latest photo? It's an edited fake of an actual picture of me with blonde hair.

Do you think I should go blonde for real? Xx"

Do what makes you happy OP x

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield


"Please can I get your opinion on my latest photo? It's an edited fake of an actual picture of me with blonde hair.

Do you think I should go blonde for real? Xx"

You are gorgeous anyway butt fuck me when I saw the blonde pic it was instant erection xx

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

So suits u blonde yes ! X

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By *urtyGentMan
over a year ago

eastleigh


"Please can I get your opinion on my latest photo? It's an edited fake of an actual picture of me with blonde hair.

Do you think I should go blonde for real? Xx"

Yeah, you look elite as a blonde

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