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Hardest 24 hours of my life

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By *gent Coulson OP   Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

This year definitely hasn't been my best year, I believe the queen used the phrase annus horribilis.

And I am wondering what else can it throw at me.

I have just had to say goodbye to my dad as he enters end of life care, although I has been expected, seeing how fragile and frail he looked, brought me to tears.

For those of you with parents still with you, never take them for granted because one day they will be gone leaving a big hole where your mum or dad should be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh OP I'm sorry sorry. Xx

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

My sincerest condolences to you at this very sad time.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I'm so sorry that you are going through this.

I lost my mum 9 years ago and I cared for her at home for her final month.

It's a very painful time.

Sending love your way.

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By *inell1Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Lost my mum during the 1st lockdown to cancer and it was the worst feeling in the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear OP. Know how you feel.. This year is absolutely horrible.

My ex wife's mother passed away in Jan, my mum (who I cared for) passed away overseas and I didn't have a chance to speak with her and more recently a family member committed suicide last week.

Still 2 months of this shitty year left.

One day at a time OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear OP. Know how you feel.. This year is absolutely horrible.

My ex wife's mother passed away in Jan, my mum (who I cared for) passed away overseas and I didn't have a chance to speak with her and more recently a family member committed suicide last week.

Still 2 months of this shitty year left.

One day at a time OP.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’m so sorry AC. Sending big hugs your way xxxxxx

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Ah Chuck I’m so sorry

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By *ed velvet thornWoman
over a year ago

over the rainbow


"This year definitely hasn't been my best year, I believe the queen used the phrase annus horribilis.

And I am wondering what else can it throw at me.

I have just had to say goodbye to my dad as he enters end of life care, although I has been expected, seeing how fragile and frail he looked, brought me to tears.

For those of you with parents still with you, never take them for granted because one day they will be gone leaving a big hole where your mum or dad should be"

Big hugs ((())) op x

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I'm so sorry to hear that AC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear this mate Sending you a virtual hug

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Big hugs op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This year definitely hasn't been my best year, I believe the queen used the phrase annus horribilis.

And I am wondering what else can it throw at me.

I have just had to say goodbye to my dad as he enters end of life care, although I has been expected, seeing how fragile and frail he looked, brought me to tears.

For those of you with parents still with you, never take them for granted because one day they will be gone leaving a big hole where your mum or dad should be"

So sorry to hear this. We have this image don't we of out parents being invincible, it's a shock when we realise they're not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sending you so much love, and all the boobie cuddles AC. Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im so sorry to hear this, I know exactly how that feels and it is awful xx sending big big hugs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This year definitely hasn't been my best year, I believe the queen used the phrase annus horribilis.

And I am wondering what else can it throw at me.

I have just had to say goodbye to my dad as he enters end of life care, although I has been expected, seeing how fragile and frail he looked, brought me to tears.

For those of you with parents still with you, never take them for granted because one day they will be gone leaving a big hole where your mum or dad should be"

Can you just expand on this bit AC...

"I have just had to say goodbye to my dad as he enters end of life care"

Are you not allowed to be with them at the end any more?

I'm only asking as my Mum has a, terminal diagnosis (4 months ish) and I'm not sure how we will cope if we can't be with her at the very end

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Sorry to hear this sad news. Sending virtual hugs xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I'm dreading this with my parents, my dad's not his usual self at the moment but won't listen to what I'm saying he should do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be thankful for having great dads

Not all families are fortunate enough/

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By *gent Coulson OP   Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"This year definitely hasn't been my best year, I believe the queen used the phrase annus horribilis.

And I am wondering what else can it throw at me.

I have just had to say goodbye to my dad as he enters end of life care, although I has been expected, seeing how fragile and frail he looked, brought me to tears.

For those of you with parents still with you, never take them for granted because one day they will be gone leaving a big hole where your mum or dad should be

Can you just expand on this bit AC...

"I have just had to say goodbye to my dad as he enters end of life care"

Are you not allowed to be with them at the end any more?

I'm only asking as my Mum has a, terminal diagnosis (4 months ish) and I'm not sure how we will cope if we can't be with her at the very end"
I don't live near and had to leave as the Macmillan nurse had turned up,it's a 2 hour drive there, so I am on alert as they say, but I was told to get there sooner rather than later.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Sorry to hear that, I lost mine 5 years ago and certainly didn't expect it in my early 30's watching a big strong and switched on bloke fade to nothing and then pass on was a big blow. Expect to do a lot of soul searching and going through a whole load of emotions, even years later. Just take care of yourself and let yourself feel however you feel on any given day while you process it.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"This year definitely hasn't been my best year, I believe the queen used the phrase annus horribilis.

And I am wondering what else can it throw at me.

I have just had to say goodbye to my dad as he enters end of life care, although I has been expected, seeing how fragile and frail he looked, brought me to tears.

For those of you with parents still with you, never take them for granted because one day they will be gone leaving a big hole where your mum or dad should be"

Absolutely. I lost my Dad last year but luckily got to stay with him till he passed. Hardest thing I’ve had to do

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Feel your pain op'as we grow older we know that time on this planet is limited for all.. its a terrible feeling knowing that that time is so close.

I took a break from here for a while my old mum needed caring for, I looked after her through those months until the day she passed, I was with her at the end. my abiding memory I couldn't get warm so so cold, I took comfort she was out of pain at last.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

So sorry to hear, OP.

Hug of support to you and anyone else going through the same.

From my own experience, it's heartbreaking,I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know you OP, but am very sorry to hear this. I hope you have some real life support.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So very sorry mate.

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By *ikAshCouple
over a year ago

London


"This year definitely hasn't been my best year, I believe the queen used the phrase annus horribilis.

And I am wondering what else can it throw at me.

I have just had to say goodbye to my dad as he enters end of life care, although I has been expected, seeing how fragile and frail he looked, brought me to tears.

For those of you with parents still with you, never take them for granted because one day they will be gone leaving a big hole where your mum or dad should be"

Oh I’m so sorry… sending warm hugs your way, and hoping you have someone to comfort you xxx

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool

My deepest condolences to you and your loved ones OP, sincerely hope you get given the support on offer to you.

I hope your dad has a well earned sleep, RIP OPs dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww AC sending strength to you with big hugs too, so sad to here this and definitely right we here for you if needed xx

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Sending love. Am dealing with similar heartache and every moment is precious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m

So sorry for you, I lost my dad at 19 and had to say goodbye to my step dad January this year. You’re right about the holes left behind

My condolences to you my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending all the love and hugs OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am so very very sorry for this and I hope his passing is comfortable and dignified for you.

. X

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending hugs and love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear this. Big hugs. I have lost both my parents and I always say to people don’t take your parents for granted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m so sorry .

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Sorry to hear about your dad, sending love x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Literally going through this at the moment with my mum , sending you love

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By *gent Coulson OP   Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Thank you all, it's good to know I'm not alone

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Aw, Agent C. Sending you a lot of love & hugs. Been there, done that with both of mine.

Doesn't matter how old you are, you fall apart when your folks go.

Keep chatting & try to do a little something nice for yourself every day.

Stay strong

Xxx

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

So sorry to hear about your dad. I hope his time left is peaceful and pain free. I've lost both parents and it all feels so unreal for a long while after. Sending you a comforting hug xx

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