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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

What encourages you to respond to a message? Sense of humour ? Someone who has read your profile? Similar interests? Or just physical attraction?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Politeness and personality are they main ones for me

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

For me it's sense of humour, but having something in the message to respond to.

I'm unlikely to respond to "hey" or "ur tits are sexy" because there's nothing to respond to. Equally I'm unlikely to respond to "wot u into" because it's too broad and I just can't be arsed.

A question from a forum post or about something in my profile normally gets a response, because it's something specific to respond to.

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By *eacupsbearCouple
over a year ago

York

Politeness.

The sense that our profile has actually been read.

Non existence of cut and pastery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a great deal really.

I generally only do if I recognise the sender

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Someone who read my profile, respected my boundaries, looking for the same thing and fanciable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something a bit different maybe? Intelligence and humour. A message tailored to me and my profile.

‘Hey gorgeous’ messages go ignored. They’re tedious.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Things that encourage me to respond to a message:

1. They're hot.

2. They actually meant to send me a message, rather than just hitting the wrong button in the forum.

3. There's something in the message I can reply to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will reply if I see a conversation will go somewhere. I also reply to amuse myself. Sometimes I message myself just so I can practice my polite responses

Seriously though, I reply because I polite, which can be pushed sometimes in messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i try and reply, because its the polite thing to do.

its not always feasible though.

ones i want to reply to are usually the friendly faces i know from forums.. or if someone sends me a whopper of a one liner that has me on my ass laughing.. that always deserves a 'bravo' Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something a bit different maybe? Intelligence and humour. A message tailored to me and my profile.

‘Hey gorgeous’ messages go ignored. They’re tedious."

AAAAAAAAH so thats why you never replied gorgeous

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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"i try and reply, because its the polite thing to do.

its not always feasible though.

ones i want to reply to are usually the friendly faces i know from forums.. or if someone sends me a whopper of a one liner that has me on my ass laughing.. that always deserves a 'bravo' Px"

I’ll have to improve my one liner game !!

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