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Do you think it’s easier to meet at a club or

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no

I just want to see what others think and other people’s opinions,

Is it easier to try and arrange a meet on fab, or is it easier to meet at a club???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the scenario. If it's something specific it's easier to arrange via Fab as details can be agreed in advance.

Clubs are for just shagging.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Depends what you mean by that.

Someone you've been talking to on here already and meeting them for the first time at a club or hooking up in a club for some sex?

Depends what you want.

Just a shag off nobody in particular then yeah, could get that proper easy by messaging on here.

If it's shagging someone you actually find attractive and engaging, then a club is definitely far easier.

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"

I just want to see what others think and other people’s opinions,

Is it easier to try and arrange a meet on fab, or is it easier to meet at a club???"

What I mean is if you wanted a quick shag,

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

A club but not for a pre arranged meet.

At least in there you get to see who / what you are talking to and there are no keyboards to hide behind.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Easier at a club than on here.

At a club they’re there at the time, so no endless messaging or trying to say the right thing or get blocked.

Preferences can be relaxed, not altogether ignored but meeting someone in the flesh always helps.

No distance issues or waiting for that person to get back to you with a convenient time to meet.

No social before play.

Convivial atmosphere and a few drinks, means people will relax more and consider going further.

Go to clubs

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Club every time

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"A club but not for a pre arranged meet.

At least in there you get to see who / what you are talking to and there are no keyboards to hide behind."

P.S. Also depends on which club too.

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

In my experience finding other bi women on here is hard work, but I've had fun at clubs, not every time I've been, but it's easier to tell the attraction in person.

First time meets can be at clubs, then if no show/not compatible etc, it's still a night out, bonus of being in a safe environment.

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By *ue and robCouple
over a year ago

ware

Given up trying home meets clubs and parties from now on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends really what you mean exactly but simply if you want to meet other swingers then it’s far easier to go to a club. But nothing is guaranteed

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By *nly4funMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Personally I prefer a house party with some people that you already know to help get into the mood, etc. All the benefits of a club with none/less of the awkwardness of a no chemistry private meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally ive found both to be equal to eachother in regard to the ease of arranging a meet... but i 100% prefer clubs. they're just so much fun Px

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Depends on the scenario. If it's something specific it's easier to arrange via Fab as details can be agreed in advance.

Clubs are for just shagging. "

And socialising

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Speaking as a single male, I've found that I only get meets in clubs, and nobody online is interested.

I remain mystified as to why, as I'm way better in writing than I am in person.

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"Speaking as a single male, I've found that I only get meets in clubs, and nobody online is interested.

I remain mystified as to why, as I'm way better in writing than I am in person. "

The odds are more balanced in a club than on here.

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By *oTouchPleaseAndTeaseMan
over a year ago

Harlow

Got to be clubs

Never tried (or had the opportunity) to meet via messages alone - & never had a random one drop in requesting - no surprise there !!

In person, can see if there is a spark both ways & results can be special for all

Online, age (as advanced as mine is) certainly I assume a big "no" to many.

In person, this more mysterious & I think I punch below mine.

Lots of nice times in clubs

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Got to be clubs as far as meeting and chatting. Meets where we have played is probably more from Fab as we are terrible at reading signs and actually inviting other couples to join us in a room or on a bed yet somehow can manage it on a fab meet with another couple.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Hmmm we have probably met more people at clubs than through Fab but then we don’t go searching for meets on fab. Guess it’s easier for people to see how you are in person at a club or party than judging you by your age and other things on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs. We have to plan meets well in advance and conversation often dies off by the time we get close to a meet.

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