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"Not weird at all, welcome to the wonderful world of being a cuckold! Enjoy!" Why does that make him a "cuckold"? | |||
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"Not weird at all, welcome to the wonderful world of being a cuckold! Enjoy!" not all that enjoy that are cuckold. think about porn much of that is a woman with a guy. master would prefer to watch me with other men than have another woman himself. Cali | |||
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"Benz loves seeing me with othe guys but is def not a cuckold. He isn't bothered about other woman just enjoys watching me be a dirty girl " Snap | |||
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"Why do I find it so horny watching my wife suck other mens cocks ? In totally staraight yet love it and apart from it really turns us on I don't get why haha ? " Love watching K with other men, but surely that is just one of the preferances in swinging,think she likes seeing me with other women too | |||
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"Billy loves seeing me with other guys. He isn't bothered about other woman just enjoys watching me be a dirty girl " | |||
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"I know I'm on here looking for a couple and what I'm going to say may be a fair bit hipacritical of me and It may come across as judgemental but I have to say I've always found it a bit odd that a man or women would want the person they love to sleep with someone else even with them present. Don't get me wrong I'm all for having fun with mmf but I personally don't think I could share my partner if I was in a long term relationship with someone I was in love with. Also, just like most people I have a strong sense to protect the ones I love and care about, so if a guy acted like the one from the thread about the fella who took off his condom and tried to force himself on another guys partner after she said no, I don't think I could just calmly report it to the people who run the club, I think I would be spending quite a bit of time in an 8x10 with bars on the window. I do have a temper and won't pretend otherwise, I know violence is not the option but It's still a good one. I like to fuck, who doesn't? But I do find intimate love making where you connect with someone on a level where you completely lose yourself far more enjoyable then cold sex or fucking with someone I only like. So when I meet the one and I'm in a longterm relationship my swinging day will be done and dusted. My relationship rule is. If I'm your man, then your my women and no one else will be touching either of us because we only give ourselves to each other. Rabble over. " Mr Slut here now. I am head over heels in love with J, and MMFs are something we enjoy together. As this is a swinging site, I have a feeling most people here are happy to share their partner physically with other people. | |||
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"Why do I find it so horny watching my wife suck other mens cocks ? In totally staraight yet love it and apart from it really turns us on I don't get why haha ? " I get it, but I don't know why either and my wife struggles to understand why I like it ( whilst enjoying the other guy lol ) I try to explain it to her as I love seeing her enjoy herself, and if it is another guy doing it then that is good because we can help her enjoy herself twice as much... I love my wife dearly, but have never felt jealous , nor humiliated, just really, really turned on! | |||
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" Mr Slut here now. I am head over heels in love with J, and MMFs are something we enjoy together. As this is a swinging site, I have a feeling most people here are happy to share their partner physically with other people. " I understand that, It's just my opinion and what I would do. I'm not trying to say any of you are in relationships with people you don't love and respect, I just couldn't personally stand to see my partner with anyone else in a sexual way man or women. | |||
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"if you dont understand why a guy who loves his wife would want to share her then you shouldnt be looking to play with couples i love my wife she is every thing to me but we also love to play im not intrested in playing with other women but love watching and sometimes just listning to her playing" It is their chose to share, I just couldn't personally share my partner. But when It's their chose and their happy with it then I have no problems as I wouldn't be in love with either of them and we would just be having fun. Everyone is different. A guy could be out with a friend and could meet a girl in a club who wants a threesome and would do it. But then when that guy is in a longterm relationship he wouldn't want his friend joining them too. Because its a completely different situation, See what I mean now? | |||
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"if you dont understand why a guy who loves his wife would want to share her then you shouldnt be looking to play with couples i love my wife she is every thing to me but we also love to play im not intrested in playing with other women but love watching and sometimes just listning to her playing It is their chose to share, I just couldn't personally share my partner. But when It's their chose and their happy with it then I have no problems as I wouldn't be in love with either of them and we would just be having fun. Everyone is different. A guy could be out with a friend and could meet a girl in a club who wants a threesome and would do it. But then when that guy is in a longterm relationship he wouldn't want his friend joining them too. Because its a completely different situation, See what I mean now?" just about every guy we have met off here have become realy good friends and we still play with them infact we prefer to play with friends so with what your saying we must be doing it wrong | |||
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"maybe you dont understand fully, the difference between love and lust and sex, my bf does not have the choice to share me as i'm not an object and will do who and what i want!! if you totally love and trust your partner then you should have no problem with them being sexually active with other guys...its not like they're cheating..! (cum)" So I take it if your boyfriend has no chose then you would cheat if he wanted to stop swinging? After all you did say he has no chose. @NeilandElaine I'm not trying to sell myself to any of you, take me as I am or pee off simple as that, It's just an opinion. As I said each to their own, if you enjoy it and are happy sharing your partner who you love then good for you, but sharing a partner I love is not for me but at the same time I am happy to join a couple who are happy to share because I know they are both fine with it. And they have the freedom to do whatever they want. What's hard to understand about that. | |||
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"thats a massive assumption you just made big man, no i would defo not cheat, i would end the relationship, heal and move on! " So how do you know his not just saying he enjoys it because of his love for you and he would prefer to share you than lose you. Love can make you do things you wouldn't normally do. Just like wifes who stay with men who beat them. | |||
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"Love can make you do things you wouldn't normally do. Just like wifes who stay with men who beat them. " Omg that is such a horrendous thing to say!!!!! | |||
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"Plus isn't it better to be with someone you love than leave them because you want to Fuck other people." i think its better to be with someone who loves me for who i am, if they want me to change then we're prob not right for eachother anymore! | |||
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"What mr punkywunky ? Pee off or you'll beat us up ? Hahaha big boy move on to another site pal you are making a fool of yourself !!! " I don't see how. I accept you for who you are if I didnt then I would pee off. I don't know why you would think I would beat you up either. | |||
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"Sorry mr punk, how can you put in your profile and indeed on the forum that your looking for couples, and at the same time say that you wouldn't want to share your partner if you had one? So you think it's ok to share someone elses OH but not your own if you had one! Myself and mrl can separate love and sex! Making love is something I will only do with mrl! And vice versa, When we meet be it a single guy for mfm or a couple to us it's just good naughty fun sex!! Mrl enjoys watching me play with other guys whilst he joins in, and I enjoy watching him play with other ladies too!! It's all about separating love and sex, and honesty and trust!! Oh and lots and lots of fun " I'm odd I will admit. And I do know the difference between love and sex, for me this is just fun when in a relationship I'll not be doing this. But I understand that you enjoy it and I'm not casting judgement on any of you. | |||
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"Love can make you do things you wouldn't normally do. Just like wifes who stay with men who beat them. Omg that is such a horrendous thing to say!!!!!" You can't sugar coat the truth. | |||
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"I understand the point you are trying to get across Mr Punk. I'm not sure you described it in the best way though and other posters have misunderstood your thoughts. To the other posters. You may have different opinions but there is no need to resort to personal insults" Cheers dude, I don't express myself too well sometimes I know. I'll leave this thread with this....... its your choice, It's your relationship, all I was trying to say is I don't think I could share someone I love, so when I'm in a longterm relationship I'll stop doing this. But if you and your partner like sharing eachother with others then that is completely fine. It's just a personal preference But the reaction I got from some couples for saying this has made me think and I won't be looking for couple any more. So if you can end the messages and insults now, that would be appreciated. | |||
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"I understand the point you are trying to get across Mr Punk. I'm not sure you described it in the best way though and other posters have misunderstood your thoughts. To the other posters. You may have different opinions but there is no need to resort to personal insults" | |||
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"I understand the point you are trying to get across Mr Punk. I'm not sure you described it in the best way though and other posters have misunderstood your thoughts. To the other posters. You may have different opinions but there is no need to resort to personal insults" I must am definitely not but the OP is also way out of line on his thoughts of women who suffer DV! | |||
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"I understand the point you are trying to get across Mr Punk. I'm not sure you described it in the best way though and other posters have misunderstood your thoughts. To the other posters. You may have different opinions but there is no need to resort to personal insults I must am definitely not but the OP is also way out of line on his thoughts of women who suffer DV!" MOST - must not post from phone | |||
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"I understand the point you are trying to get across Mr Punk. I'm not sure you described it in the best way though and other posters have misunderstood your thoughts. To the other posters. You may have different opinions but there is no need to resort to personal insults I must am definitely not but the OP is also way out of line on his thoughts of women who suffer DV!" I used an example of how love can make you do things you wouldn't normally do. It was not my view and I know that there are many reasons why a women would stay with a man that beats her. You don't know me and don't know what I have seen in my life, do not judge me for using something as an example. | |||
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"I understand the point you are trying to get across Mr Punk. I'm not sure you described it in the best way though and other posters have misunderstood your thoughts. To the other posters. You may have different opinions but there is no need to resort to personal insults I must am definitely not but the OP is also way out of line on his thoughts of women who suffer DV! I used an example of how love can make you do things you wouldn't normally do. It was not my view and I know that there are many reasons why a women would stay with a man that beats her. You don't know me and don't know what I have seen in my life, do not judge me for using something as an example. " what are we meant tae judge you on then if not your views? | |||
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"I understand the point you are trying to get across Mr Punk. I'm not sure you described it in the best way though and other posters have misunderstood your thoughts. To the other posters. You may have different opinions but there is no need to resort to personal insults I must am definitely not but the OP is also way out of line on his thoughts of women who suffer DV! I used an example of how love can make you do things you wouldn't normally do. It was not my view and I know that there are many reasons why a women would stay with a man that beats her. You don't know me and don't know what I have seen in my life, do not judge me for using something as an example. what are we meant tae judge you on then if not your views? " An example is not a view point. I gave an example, not my view on DV. | |||
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"Mr B enjoys watching me suck another man's cock and he is not a cuckold. He prefers to watch me with other men than with women. (not that he doesn't like seeing that too!) Just likes seeing me having fun, same as I get off watching him with other women. " +1 | |||
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"thats a massive assumption you just made big man, no i would defo not cheat, i would end the relationship, heal and move on! So how do you know his not just saying he enjoys it because of his love for you and he would prefer to share you than lose you. Love can make you do things you wouldn't normally do. Just like wifes who stay with men who beat them. " Maybe they stay out of fear!!!! Also the fact they have nowhere else to go!! Such a wrong thing to use as an example | |||
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"sumit ah said? " Ok judge someone on their views yes. But I only gave that as an example, it was not my view on DV and I'm sorry if my example offended you. That was not my intention. | |||
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"thats a massive assumption you just made big man, no i would defo not cheat, i would end the relationship, heal and move on! So how do you know his not just saying he enjoys it because of his love for you and he would prefer to share you than lose you. Love can make you do things you wouldn't normally do. Just like wifes who stay with men who beat them. Maybe they stay out of fear!!!! Also the fact they have nowhere else to go!! Such a wrong thing to use as an example " I'm NOT saying It's the only reason, ok yes it was a bad example. As I've already said plenty of times | |||
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"maybe you dont understand fully, the difference between love and lust and sex, my bf does not have the choice to share me as i'm not an object and will do who and what i want!! if you totally love and trust your partner then you should have no problem with them being sexually active with other guys...its not like they're cheating..! (cum) So I take it if your boyfriend has no chose then you would cheat if he wanted to stop swinging? After all you did say he has no chose. @NeilandElaine I'm not trying to sell myself to any of you, take me as I am or pee off simple as that, It's just an opinion. As I said each to their own, if you enjoy it and are happy sharing your partner who you love then good for you, but sharing a partner I love is not for me but at the same time I am happy to join a couple who are happy to share because I know they are both fine with it. And they have the freedom to do whatever they want. What's hard to understand about that." me personally i don't share oreo with girls we both share each other with a girl as i am bi so i get best of both worlds but i have no issue seeing oreo enjoy himself. | |||
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"The guy has already said about 6 times that he mentioned 'women who get beat up stay for love' ONLY as ONE example!! But i guess people just jump on anything for an argument!! But apart from that, isn't it HIS choice whether he wants to swing with his partner or not?? Just as its YOU have chosen to do so!! " i dont think there's an argument, its a public forum, where people discuss differing views.....!? why you gettin so bent out of shape? | |||
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"The guy has already said about 6 times that he mentioned 'women who get beat up stay for love' ONLY as ONE example!! But i guess people just jump on anything for an argument!! But apart from that, isn't it HIS choice whether he wants to swing with his partner or not?? Just as its YOU have chosen to do so!! " Hey who's arguing ... Im stating my opinion!! | |||
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"The guy has already said about 6 times that he mentioned 'women who get beat up stay for love' ONLY as ONE example!! But i guess people just jump on anything for an argument!! But apart from that, isn't it HIS choice whether he wants to swing with his partner or not?? Just as its YOU have chosen to do so!! i dont think there's an argument, its a public forum, where people discuss differing views.....!? why you gettin so bent out of shape? " | |||
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"The guy has already said about 6 times that he mentioned 'women who get beat up stay for love' ONLY as ONE example!! But i guess people just jump on anything for an argument!! But apart from that, isn't it HIS choice whether he wants to swing with his partner or not?? Just as its YOU have chosen to do so!! i dont think there's an argument, its a public forum, where people discuss differing views.....!? why you gettin so bent out of shape? " Lol, i didn't see a lot of 'discussion'!! Just a lot of badgering and insults!! And if its a 'public' forum, what makes you think i'm 'bent out of shape'? Is because i don't agrd with your point of view and expressing my own? | |||
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"The guy has already said about 6 times that he mentioned 'women who get beat up stay for love' ONLY as ONE example!! But i guess people just jump on anything for an argument!! But apart from that, isn't it HIS choice whether he wants to swing with his partner or not?? Just as its YOU have chosen to do so!! i dont think there's an argument, its a public forum, where people discuss differing views.....!? why you gettin so bent out of shape? Lol, i didn't see a lot of 'discussion'!! Just a lot of badgering and insults!! And if its a 'public' forum, what makes you think i'm 'bent out of shape'? Is because i don't agrd with your point of view and expressing my own? " your use of capital letters in your text would suggest that your frustrated or angry!! | |||
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"Wish I was a mod I could get all domme and hand out lines and stuff " ide much prefer a good spanking | |||
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"The guy has already said about 6 times that he mentioned 'women who get beat up stay for love' ONLY as ONE example!! But i guess people just jump on anything for an argument!! But apart from that, isn't it HIS choice whether he wants to swing with his partner or not?? Just as its YOU have chosen to do so!! i dont think there's an argument, its a public forum, where people discuss differing views.....!? why you gettin so bent out of shape? Lol, i didn't see a lot of 'discussion'!! Just a lot of badgering and insults!! And if its a 'public' forum, what makes you think i'm 'bent out of shape'? Is because i don't agrd with your point of view and expressing my own? your use of capital letters in your text would suggest that your frustrated or angry!! " No, not at all! My use of capital letters was to highlight key words!! I was just expressing MY own view as everyone is entitled to! And btw, i'm a single guy, so i'm ALWAYS frustrated! | |||
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"I understand the point you are trying to get across Mr Punk. I'm not sure you described it in the best way though and other posters have misunderstood your thoughts." Agrees with the above Sharing your partner is not for everyone and at least he is being honest saying that he doesn't think he would be able too. | |||
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"Why do I find it so horny watching my wife suck other mens cocks ? In totally staraight yet love it and apart from it really turns us on I don't get why haha ? " To quote a famous peom.... Theirs is not to question why. Theirs is but to suck and try. | |||
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"The guy has already said about 6 times that he mentioned 'women who get beat up stay for love' ONLY as ONE example!! But i guess people just jump on anything for an argument!! But apart from that, isn't it HIS choice whether he wants to swing with his partner or not?? Just as its YOU have chosen to do so!! i dont think there's an argument, its a public forum, where people discuss differing views.....!? why you gettin so bent out of shape? Lol, i didn't see a lot of 'discussion'!! Just a lot of badgering and insults!! And if its a 'public' forum, what makes you think i'm 'bent out of shape'? Is because i don't agrd with your point of view and expressing my own? " Some people think that everyone should agree with their views. They can't understand that anyone else would think differently! I have read the whole thread and and I think that it's pathetic how some people jump on one person, typing insults yet then get all self righteous when that person tries to defend themselves. (And why on earth he would feel the need to defend himself I have no idea. It's his life, his views and he's not hurting anybody!!) He merely stated his own view about his own life and how he felt. Some people like to share, some don't. What difference does it make??? Why the need to slag that person off???!! He wasn't slagging off people that do share. I think the childish people have shown themselves in their true colours. Again. | |||
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"The guy has already said about 6 times that he mentioned 'women who get beat up stay for love' ONLY as ONE example!! But i guess people just jump on anything for an argument!! But apart from that, isn't it HIS choice whether he wants to swing with his partner or not?? Just as its YOU have chosen to do so!! " | |||
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"The guy has already said about 6 times that he mentioned 'women who get beat up stay for love' ONLY as ONE example!! But i guess people just jump on anything for an argument!! But apart from that, isn't it HIS choice whether he wants to swing with his partner or not?? Just as its YOU have chosen to do so!! i dont think there's an argument, its a public forum, where people discuss differing views.....!? why you gettin so bent out of shape? Lol, i didn't see a lot of 'discussion'!! Just a lot of badgering and insults!! And if its a 'public' forum, what makes you think i'm 'bent out of shape'? Is because i don't agrd with your point of view and expressing my own? Some people think that everyone should agree with their views. They can't understand that anyone else would think differently! I have read the whole thread and and I think that it's pathetic how some people jump on one person, typing insults yet then get all self righteous when that person tries to defend themselves. (And why on earth he would feel the need to defend himself I have no idea. It's his life, his views and he's not hurting anybody!!) He merely stated his own view about his own life and how he felt. Some people like to share, some don't. What difference does it make??? Why the need to slag that person off???!! He wasn't slagging off people that do share. I think the childish people have shown themselves in their true colours. Again. " | |||
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"I know I'm on here looking for a couple and what I'm going to say may be a fair bit hipacritical of me and It may come across as judgemental but I have to say I've always found it a bit odd that a man or women would want the person they love to sleep with someone else even with them present. . " I know you have now said you are not going to be playing with couples anyway....but....you wrote this as you were looking for couples to play with....and for me this type of post would be ringing alarm bells for me. I get that some people can't play these games, it isn't for everyone and I would never condemn anyone for that....but for you to want to play with couples while saying they are odd for letting you and others play with them is probably why you got questioned over it. | |||
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