FabSwingers.com forum: Fancy or fuck

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right so been having a convo with someone I will not name for legal reason

they said they can only fuck someone they fancy, for me fancy is strong and feel there’s a difference between being attracted to someone and finding them sexy to actually fancying them who agrees with me and who agrees with the unknown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say what

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Say what

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Say what

Exactly

Exactly!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what they said

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Eh?

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"what they said

Px "

What she said about what they said.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

¿Que?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Surely if you want to fuck them you fancy them by definition?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I get what you mean

If you fancy someone it means you date them

If you just find them sexy it means you just fuck them

I would say sexy is the start off it and the fancy part is build over time

As someone could be the hottest person in the world

But may not be the nicest person in regards to personally

So in your regard

They good for a bang and such but not date am I picking it up right

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

sorry that was a bit she sells sea shells on the seashore for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I mean it’s not actually that hard to understand

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

You can fancy someone purely in a lust way or just sexually even in some cases platonic! Difference between fancying someone on an emotional mental level with a connection, Rather than just based on physical attraction.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I mean it’s not actually that hard to understand "

. It actually is

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I mean it’s not actually that hard to understand

. It actually is "

Corruption

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I need complete fancy. Your mate is right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confused. Com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was going to be one of those threads where you say what you want to do to the poster above.

I was thinking ‘but what if I don’t fancy them?’, so I guess that answers your question

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I give up

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By *pectressWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

Defo the other person. My mind has to be stimulated or my body just says ‘meh’

They could be considered hot as fuck by others but if there isn’t a connection of sorts I’m not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean it’s not actually that hard to understand

. It actually is "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I need complete fancy. Your mate is right

You’re corrupted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I mean it’s not actually that hard to understand

. It actually is

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By *ikAshCouple
over a year ago

London

Definitely have to fancy him…

Ash x

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I need complete fancy. Your mate is right

You’re corrupted

You’ve mistaken me for someone else clearly…

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I need complete fancy. Your mate is right

You’re corrupted

You’ve mistaken me for someone else clearly…

This thread is now closed

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I need complete fancy. Your mate is right

You’re corrupted

You’ve mistaken me for someone else clearly…

This thread is now closed "

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I need to fancy someone to want to fuck them.

There are some I find sexy but not attractive enough to want to fuck.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I need complete fancy. Your mate is right

You’re corrupted

You’ve mistaken me for someone else clearly…

This thread is now closed "

I fancy you

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I need complete fancy. Your mate is right

You’re corrupted

You’ve mistaken me for someone else clearly…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a question of semantics. What do you mean by fancying someone? The unnamed person says its the minimum level of overall attraction required to fuck someone, you say you can be sexually attracted to someone enough to fuck them without "fancying" them.

I'm inclined to agree with you, to me fancying someone means more than finding them sexually attractive and if I find someone sexually attractive I could by definition fuck them but that is just my interpretation.

PS your OP was perfectly understandable - unless I've got it totally wrong, in which case it wasn't.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

If they get you hard you can fuck em.

You might not fancy them but you will give them one.

Prob quite a male attitude.

However, had a playmate who said she met a guy at a party who she didn't like, but during play she sucked him as his cock was nearby.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It is a question of semantics. What do you mean by fancying someone? The unnamed person says its the minimum level of overall attraction required to fuck someone, you say you can be sexually attracted to someone enough to fuck them without "fancying" them.

PS your OP was perfectly understandable - unless I've got it totally wrong, in which case it wasn't. "

Thank you very much this is exactly what I mean

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

For me, even if a lady isn't my aesthetic ideal, if she kisses well and can get me going, thats enough for me to find attractive.

Everyone has something attractive about them. Concentrate on that.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

By the way this isn’t me saying I would fuck just anyone, the thread was more about difference between finding someone attractive than fancying thwm

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

To me fancying someone just means I find them attractive (physically and mentally)

So yes, I'd need to fancy someone to fuck them.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

PS your OP was perfectly understandable - unless I've got it totally wrong, in which case it wasn't. "

I agree. It’s about the connotations that we attach to words.

You’re basically arguing the same thing just attaching different meanings to the words.

Isn’t language fun when we don’t communicate clearly

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

It's threads like these that make me wonder if I did the wrong degree at Uni ... I'm a scientist, if you do you do and even if you don't you can do

...right?!

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have discovered that what is pleasing to the eye is not always pleasing to the mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right so been having a convo with someone I will not name for legal reason

Is finding someone sexy and attractive not the same as fancying someone then? I’ve always put those things all in the same category.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

I lost it ar "right so"

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Will come down to everyone’s interpretation of the word fancy, we are a strange island and our words don’t mean the same everywhere.

Personally, I fancy a cake not a person

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