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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I've decided to begin new adventure and find a lady to date, and maybe move away from the swinging side of things. I've signed up to a dating site but never had any replies or messages as of yet :/

Does anyone have any advice, my low confidence tells me I'm bit on the ugly sided and so I put a lot off :s

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

What have you done to resolve some of your confidence issues?

good luck on the dating site, hope it goes well and gives you all that you seek

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What have you done to resolve some of your confidence issues?

good luck on the dating site, hope it goes well and gives you all that you seek"
Still trying to think how to resolve my confidence issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont think your ugly.

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By *lgernonMan
over a year ago

cupar


"Well I've decided to begin new adventure and find a lady to date, and maybe move away from the swinging side of things. I've signed up to a dating site but never had any replies or messages as of yet :/

Does anyone have any advice, my low confidence tells me I'm bit on the ugly sided and so I put a lot off :s"

Looks wise, I think you are young, stunning, cheeky and fun. All you have stopping you is learning how to approach people you fancy with a bit of style and confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I've decided to begin new adventure and find a lady to date, and maybe move away from the swinging side of things. I've signed up to a dating site but never had any replies or messages as of yet :/

Does anyone have any advice, my low confidence tells me I'm bit on the ugly sided and so I put a lot off :s"

I'm on a date site and have had no joy... where as on here I am! Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are not ugly your a gorgeous looking guy all i can say is just be yourself. And i hope you find what your looking for on the dating site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck in your new search. Which ever avenue you take, be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TBH much respect to you

I would find the prospect of actively dating (or looking to date) far more daunting than looking for meets on here or sites of a similar ilk.

Good Luck with it and contrary to what you may feel, I don't think you're a bad looking lad at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a twinkle in your eyes.

Good luck in your search for a soul mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not ugly by any stretch of the imagination.

Try to like yourself; confidence comes from the inside out.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its still online behind a screen try finding a new hobby and interacting with people or an adult learning course something you are interested in or maybe speed dating face to face

Good luck and you are gorgeous x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *toneblueMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"Its still online behind a screen try finding a new hobby and interacting with people or an adult learning course something you are interested in or maybe speed dating face to face

Good luck and you are gorgeous x"

Speed dating takes a lot of confidence, though if it goes well it could give yours the boost it may need.

Personally I've had more luck with dating sites than on here, and I would say the best thing to write on your profile is just the truth. Off the top of your head just say why you are there, who you are and who you'd like to meet. Don't start thinking about what might impress or what you think they want to see. Write from the heart and it will resonate with someone.

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By *toneblueMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Forgot to add to previous post, I agree with Shazza that adult learning courses are a great way to meet people. Pick the right evening class (psychology is a good one) and you'll be fighting off divorcees (and the not-yet-divorced!) if my experience is anything to go by.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone, these posts are helpful

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