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Advice and putting yourself out there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey everyone, I came onto fab and found it quite hard to get to talk to people etc, I dunno if it’s the age or what. I can’t post my face on my public due to work but definitely can if I get to know you. Just wondering if anyone been in same position and what they did to put themselves out there that bit more. Open to anything x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you asking for profile atvice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not just that really, seeing if anyone else in same boat and seeing if this can bring others together and to me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok I asked because I can’t help in less asked

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Hey everyone, I came onto fab and found it quite hard to get to talk to people etc, I dunno if it’s the age or what. I can’t post my face on my public due to work but definitely can if I get to know you. Just wondering if anyone been in same position and what they did to put themselves out there that bit more. Open to anything x"

Look in the advice forum for some profile tips.

Think of your profile as a sales advert for a car .... would you want to buy the one with lots of info and photos or the one with one pic of the engine and no details?

Good luck!

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok I asked because I can’t help in less asked "

Yeah that’s fine, thanks a lot x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey everyone, I came onto fab and found it quite hard to get to talk to people etc, I dunno if it’s the age or what. I can’t post my face on my public due to work but definitely can if I get to know you. Just wondering if anyone been in same position and what they did to put themselves out there that bit more. Open to anything x

Look in the advice forum for some profile tips.

Think of your profile as a sales advert for a car .... would you want to buy the one with lots of info and photos or the one with one pic of the engine and no details?

Good luck!

Lou x "

Do you mind dropping me a message about this Lou xx

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Hey everyone, I came onto fab and found it quite hard to get to talk to people etc, I dunno if it’s the age or what. I can’t post my face on my public due to work but definitely can if I get to know you. Just wondering if anyone been in same position and what they did to put themselves out there that bit more. Open to anything x

Look in the advice forum for some profile tips.

Think of your profile as a sales advert for a car .... would you want to buy the one with lots of info and photos or the one with one pic of the engine and no details?

Good luck!

Lou x

Do you mind dropping me a message about this Lou xx"

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I asked because I can’t help in less asked

Yeah that’s fine, thanks a lot x"

Forum rules we not allowed to cratique someone profile or in less ask passifly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey everyone, I came onto fab and found it quite hard to get to talk to people etc, I dunno if it’s the age or what. I can’t post my face on my public due to work but definitely can if I get to know you. Just wondering if anyone been in same position and what they did to put themselves out there that bit more. Open to anything x

Look in the advice forum for some profile tips.

Think of your profile as a sales advert for a car .... would you want to buy the one with lots of info and photos or the one with one pic of the engine and no details?

Good luck!

Lou x

Do you mind dropping me a message about this Lou xx

Why? "

Just wanna see what kinda things you mean. Just changed it up there, shall I add more photos too?x

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By *lwenWoman
over a year ago

De12 area


"Hey everyone, I came onto fab and found it quite hard to get to talk to people etc, I dunno if it’s the age or what. I can’t post my face on my public due to work but definitely can if I get to know you. Just wondering if anyone been in same position and what they did to put themselves out there that bit more. Open to anything x

Look in the advice forum for some profile tips.

Think of your profile as a sales advert for a car .... would you want to buy the one with lots of info and photos or the one with one pic of the engine and no details?

Good luck!

Lou x

Do you mind dropping me a message about this Lou xx

Why? "

He's obviously never brought a car via an advert so doesn't understand your meaning

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hahaha you’re damn right there darling x

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester

try a forum search, there are thousands of threads asking the same question, have a read, put some effort in and you might get some answers, sounds harsh but cant realy advise more based on your question, hope this helps

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By *untime5Man
over a year ago

Cornwall

Change your profile pic. Some people like dick pics, most don’t and won’t want to chat to one

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By *untime5Man
over a year ago

Cornwall

(I meant chat to a dick pic, not trying to suggest you’re a dick )

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Re think your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey everyone, I came onto fab and found it quite hard to get to talk to people etc, I dunno if it’s the age or what. I can’t post my face on my public due to work but definitely can if I get to know you. Just wondering if anyone been in same position and what they did to put themselves out there that bit more. Open to anything x"

I love that you're asking about putting yourself out there while you have a picture of your schlong as your profile pic!

Not knocking you, I just love the irony of this site

Just get chatting on here dude, be yerself, boom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your pic is a dick, does that mean you're showing what you are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey everyone, I came onto fab and found it quite hard to get to talk to people etc, I dunno if it’s the age or what. I can’t post my face on my public due to work but definitely can if I get to know you. Just wondering if anyone been in same position and what they did to put themselves out there that bit more. Open to anything x

Look in the advice forum for some profile tips.

Think of your profile as a sales advert for a car .... would you want to buy the one with lots of info and photos or the one with one pic of the engine and no details?

Good luck!

Lou x "

H Lou, vintage model model here, well maintained, low mileage, full Alcantara leather exterior, spare parts, expired MOT, just a few dents,some options,not too many previous owners, a real bargain. Would you be interested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t appreciate a veiny penis as a profile pic ... or any penis for that matter!

I wish you the best of luck though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also can’t/don’t show my face on my public photos OP. I just take other photos and network privately

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I also can’t/don’t show my face on my public photos OP. I just take other photos and network privately"

But your photos are great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also can’t/don’t show my face on my public photos OP. I just take other photos and network privately

But your photos are great"

Thank you but that’s kinda my point. You don’t have to show your face to ‘stand out’

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Some people with jobs post face pics some don’t. Saying you can’t post them due to work just sounds like an excuse. I’d rather people not say anything. Keeping them to friends only means that people will only see them if they accept a friend invite which in turn allows you to see theirs.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Start over? Be creative with any photos, a descriptive bio... I did laugh at the veris line.

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By *innocentMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

Never understand why peoe say can't post photos due to their job.

Anyone from your job who would see your profile would also have an account on here too,so what's the problem ?

It's not illegal to be on here.

More like you don't want the Mrs to catch you.

PS.

No one is interested in an uncooked Richmands profile photo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never understand why peoe say can't post photos due to their job.

Anyone from your job who would see your profile would also have an account on here too,so what's the problem ?

It's not illegal to be on here.

More like you don't want the Mrs to catch you.

PS.

No one is interested in an uncooked Richmands profile photo "

That is a great generalisation you have made there

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By *innocentMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't clicked on your profile as I think the above posters have given sound advice, I will say though that having a dick pic as your pfp is a little off putting for me, I mean some might like it but a more tasteful intro to your profile (profile picture) might be a good start.

Also, chatting to people on the forums and attending socials will help.

Danish x

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Hey everyone, I came onto fab and found it quite hard to get to talk to people etc, I dunno if it’s the age or what. I can’t post my face on my public due to work but definitely can if I get to know you. Just wondering if anyone been in same position and what they did to put themselves out there that bit more. Open to anything x

Look in the advice forum for some profile tips.

Think of your profile as a sales advert for a car .... would you want to buy the one with lots of info and photos or the one with one pic of the engine and no details?

Good luck!

Lou x

H Lou, vintage model model here, well maintained, low mileage, full Alcantara leather exterior, spare parts, expired MOT, just a few dents,some options,not too many previous owners, a real bargain. Would you be interested?"

I’d take you for a test drive but you’d need good suspension.

Lou x

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