FabSwingers.com forum: What's your biggest turn off?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When it comes to to a man meeting a woman for the first time or a woman meeting a man for the first time what's your biggest turn off?

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Saying F word as part of normal conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they are glued to their phone.

When they cannot stop talking about themselves.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

"Saying F word as part of normal conversation."

Yes me too!

That Farage cunt!

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Smoking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Saying F word as part of normal conversation.

Yes me too!

That Farage cunt!"

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Lack of flowing conversation

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

When their toes next to the big toe is longer than the big toe on the left foot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phone usage, nasty teeth and ciggy smell

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Bad teeth

Taking their wedding band off under the table.

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

"Smoking "

Agreed. Hurts my eyes and smells horrible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Entitlement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chavvy clothes

Bad smells

Dirty fingernails

Scruffiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turns up in 'vans'

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Lack of compatibility.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Lack of confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

General lack of effort before meeting is a turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they are glued to their phone.

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t get turned off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t get turned off

I do wonder if it'd a fault in design or the opposite - flawless design?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*it's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they are glued to their phone.

When they cannot stop talking about themselves.

Boom

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Talking about their ex and selfish me me me behavior

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Someone who is arrogant and loud x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When I'm out and about and I see a couple together and they're both on their mobile phones it's like does nobody have a civil conversation anymore or maybe I'm just too old fashioned lol

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

Presumption.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Deception of any kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t get turned off

I do wonder if it'd a fault in design or the opposite - flawless design?

Flawless

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By *rOralMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Ego or lack of flawless conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Deception of any kind. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turns up in 'vans'

What’s wrong with vans? I presume we mean the shoes? They’re super comfy!

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Smoking, arrogance, or being unnecessarily rude to other people (especially service staff)

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Deception of any kind. "

So you don’t like magicians?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Deception of any kind.

So you don’t like magicians?

Only ones with magic wands.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

If they say anything hinting on racist or homophobic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Deception of any kind.

So you don’t like magicians?

Only ones with magic wands.

I know a few spells… do you want to see me make my wand disappear?

*I’ll grab my coat.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Fit guy's with smelly gonads

And then they what's up

When I wont go

Down

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Deception of any kind.

So you don’t like magicians?

Only ones with magic wands.

I know a few spells… do you want to see me make my wand disappear?

*I’ll grab my coat. "

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Smoking, arrogance, or being unnecessarily rude to other people (especially service staff)

LvM"

Ditto

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

If the conversation doesn't flow or there's no humour.

They dribble when they kiss you on the cheek when first arriving.

They talk about their mum a lot.

Socks and sandles.

The beard that attracted me is no longer there

That is an absolute shocker and I would feel diddled

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Smoking, arrogance, or being unnecessarily rude to other people (especially service staff)

LvM"
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This maybe not so much the smoking part while I don't smoke and am not keen on smokers breath it would be less of an issue. But rudeness and arrogance is a complete turn off.

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

Bad breath and hygiene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they pay too much attention to their phone. Too touchy-feely before finding out if I’m actually into them

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

Arrogance and bad manners!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a first meet, assuming I had chatted with them beforehand and already liked their face etc, then the nicest turn off would be lack of good conversation and sense of humour.

Or if he smelled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who are self absorbed. Just talk about me dammit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spitting. Anyone who casually spits in the street turns my stomach. And don't get me started on the footballer nostril snot shot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spitting. Anyone who casually spits in the street turns my stomach. And don't get me started on the footballer nostril snot shot."

Wait until you imagine the other players slide tackling on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long nails/toenails added

for them having dirt underneath. Also bad teeth and not talking about crocked teeth but plaque and teeth that look unbrushed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance, selfishness, lack of humour, nastiness. I know that’s a few but they all kinda tie in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Long nails/toenails added

for them having dirt underneath. Also bad teeth and not talking about crocked teeth but plaque and teeth that look unbrushed. "

Hate my teeth. Naturally discoloured. I’d love to get Em done

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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield

A lack of intelligence is an immediate turn off for me. If my prospective man cannot even comprehend the simplest of sentences then I'm just not interested.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Arrogance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cleanliness, personal hygiene, bad breath. I can go on and on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrogance "

Agreed

But also a fuck boy attitude . I mean I’m conflicted as it’s like I’m loving it but hating it at the same time

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

"Arrogance, selfishness, lack of humour, nastiness. I know that’s a few but they all kinda tie in "
Well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swearing too much or unnecessarily.

And this is just me but i hate leopard patterned clothing.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Arrogance

Smoking

Someone calling me babe (cringe)

Jaffa Cakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Long nails/toenails added

for them having dirt underneath. Also bad teeth and not talking about crocked teeth but plaque and teeth that look unbrushed.

Hate my teeth. Naturally discoloured. I’d love to get Em done "

Mine are shocking but hey ho, I like witches and pirates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Long nails/toenails added

for them having dirt underneath. Also bad teeth and not talking about crocked teeth but plaque and teeth that look unbrushed.

Hate my teeth. Naturally discoloured. I’d love to get Em done

Mine are shocking but hey ho, I like witches and pirates. "

In that case, hi, how you doing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrogance

Smoking

Someone calling me babe (cringe)

Jaffa Cakes"

Jaffa cakes are my 2nd favourite biscuit to be fair

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Arrogance

Smoking

Someone calling me babe (cringe)

Jaffa Cakes

Jaffa cakes are my 2nd favourite biscuit to be fair"

What’s in 1st place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrogance

Smoking

Someone calling me babe (cringe)

Jaffa Cakes

Jaffa cakes are my 2nd favourite biscuit to be fair

What’s in 1st place? "

All the rest are tied

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Arrogance

Smoking

Someone calling me babe (cringe)

Jaffa Cakes

Jaffa cakes are my 2nd favourite biscuit to be fair

What’s in 1st place?

All the rest are tied

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Arrogance

Agreed

But also a fuck boy attitude . I mean I’m conflicted as it’s like I’m loving it but hating it at the same time

Tell me about it

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Arrogance

Agreed

But also a fuck boy attitude . I mean I’m conflicted as it’s like I’m loving it but hating it at the same time

Tell me about it

Stud x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrogance

Smoking

Someone calling me babe (cringe)

Jaffa Cakes

Jaffa cakes are my 2nd favourite biscuit to be fair"

They're not a biscuit, they even proved it in a court of law with a massive jaffa cake.

The difference?

Cakes go hard and biscuits go soft when left out.

Personally I'm not a fan of jaffas

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

"Saying F word as part of normal conversation."

That’s a very strange choice. Surely there’s much worse things that turn you off of someone lol.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Arrogance

Agreed

But also a fuck boy attitude . I mean I’m conflicted as it’s like I’m loving it but hating it at the same time

Tell me about it

Stud x"

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

BO, arrogance

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

Flip flops!

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By *AURA6969TV/TS
over a year ago

RUGBY

"Turns up in 'vans'

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Is this white van's or any colour van's ?

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By *AURA6969TV/TS
over a year ago

RUGBY

"Flip flops!"
or Crocs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knowing the second you look into their eyes that their interest in you has ended.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Attitude.

If they suddenly forget that it's not all about them and their needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They talk about their mum a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealousy !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrogance

Agreed

But also a fuck boy attitude . I mean I’m conflicted as it’s like I’m loving it but hating it at the same time

Tell me about it

Stud x"

Ha! I see what you did there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awkwardness and lack of conversation! Nothing worse than a convo going dry as a bone within an hour or so

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