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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe this is the wrong site but does anyone know or have any suggestions to find a dom/domme.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good start would be to show them the respect they deserve and use a capital ‘D’. Patience is key when looking for a Dom/me, it takes time and effort to find one that is willing to take you on as a sub.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

Just posting.....

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Hiya OP, my advice would be to understand what it is you are looking for in a D and what it is you bring to the table also.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hiya OP, my advice would be to understand what it is you are looking for in a D and what it is you bring to the table also."

Yes, i think you are right, its something i have wanted for a long time but i do agree its also what i bring to the table. Thank you for the advice

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

You need to know what you are looking for and how the D can provide that.

What dynamic do you want,

Male or female D?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need to know what you are looking for and how the D can provide that.

What dynamic do you want,

Male or female D? "

I am open to either male or female.

Dynamic i would say start slow and build up to something serious amd maybe permanent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A good start would be to show them the respect they deserve and use a capital ‘D’. Patience is key when looking for a Dom/me, it takes time and effort to find one that is willing to take you on as a sub. "

Thats not my experience.

Iv always had my pick.

Trust has to earned and any genuine Dom knows that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A good start would be to show them the respect they deserve and use a capital ‘D’. Patience is key when looking for a Dom/me, it takes time and effort to find one that is willing to take you on as a sub.

Thats not my experience.

Iv always had my pick.

Trust has to earned and any genuine Dom knows that. "

I think male subs often find it takes longer because there are fewer Dommes or male Doms interested in men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A good start would be to show them the respect they deserve and use a capital ‘D’. Patience is key when looking for a Dom/me, it takes time and effort to find one that is willing to take you on as a sub.

Thats not my experience.

Iv always had my pick.

Trust has to earned and any genuine Dom knows that.

I think male subs often find it takes longer because there are fewer Dommes or male Doms interested in men. "

I am finding it hard yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A good start would be to show them the respect they deserve and use a capital ‘D’. Patience is key when looking for a Dom/me, it takes time and effort to find one that is willing to take you on as a sub.

Thats not my experience.

Iv always had my pick.

Trust has to earned and any genuine Dom knows that.

I think male subs often find it takes longer because there are fewer Dommes or male Doms interested in men.

I am finding it hard yeah "

You will struggle on this site but it's not impossible.

Maybe have a look to see what Fetish socials or clubs there are in your area.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A good start would be to show them the respect they deserve and use a capital ‘D’. Patience is key when looking for a Dom/me, it takes time and effort to find one that is willing to take you on as a sub.

Thats not my experience.

Iv always had my pick.

Trust has to earned and any genuine Dom knows that.

I think male subs often find it takes longer because there are fewer Dommes or male Doms interested in men.

I am finding it hard yeah

You will struggle on this site but it's not impossible.

Maybe have a look to see what Fetish socials or clubs there are in your area. "

Yeah, i am on a fet site as well. I am trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A good start would be to show them the respect they deserve and use a capital ‘D’. Patience is key when looking for a Dom/me, it takes time and effort to find one that is willing to take you on as a sub.

Thats not my experience.

Iv always had my pick.

Trust has to earned and any genuine Dom knows that.

I think male subs often find it takes longer because there are fewer Dommes or male Doms interested in men.

I am finding it hard yeah

You will struggle on this site but it's not impossible.

Maybe have a look to see what Fetish socials or clubs there are in your area.

Yeah, i am on a fet site as well. I am trying "

Thats all you can do and be as proactive as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As mentioned above, going to fetish munches and parties is your best bet. But keep in mind that the number of options you have as a male sub is much less. So finding a partner is not guaranteed.

Also be vary of scammers. Male subs are easy targets for online scammers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As mentioned above, going to fetish munches and parties is your best bet. But keep in mind that the number of options you have as a male sub is much less. So finding a partner is not guaranteed.

Also be vary of scammers. Male subs are easy targets for online scammers. "

Yeah, thank you for the advice x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to everyone so far for the advice, means a lot x

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