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"yeah cos i pay £5 a month lol.. " Haha yes me too... Would be cheaper | |||
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"Personally for the small amount off action i have had from the site i would have to say my profile would be getting deleated!" personally I think that people who call it "action" don't have great sense on what swinging actually is for a whole lot of people.... as a silver site supporter I have my fiver every other month... so 30 quid a year and worth it for the sense of communuty here.... | |||
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"i would because i pay more than that now Depends how you use the site tho, i like the forums and the chat room so even if i didnt get a meet id pay £25 a year just for the entertainment value" | |||
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"Personally for the small amount off action i have had from the site i would have to say my profile would be getting deleated!" Does the paying of SS go hand in hand with guaranteed "action"? I thought the paying of SS is to get the extra features, not a guarantee of a meet. | |||
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"we pay £30 a year now so would be cheaper for us but we would paymore if it got rid of the idiots on site not every one branded a time waister is one so if it got rid of idiots then charge more" I think plenty of these 'idiots' have got a few quid | |||
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"Personally for the small amount off action i have had from the site i would have to say my profile would be getting deleated! Does the paying of SS go hand in hand with guaranteed "action"? I thought the paying of SS is to get the extra features, not a guarantee of a meet." you would be right but i have to ask my self if i was paying to spend time sending all these messages to only get the odd reply and even fewer actual meetings would i be bothering waisting my time and monney, Mmm i dont think i would to be honest, i guess being free you stick with it and get lucky once in a while. | |||
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"Does the paying of SS go hand in hand with guaranteed "action"? " If it does Ive been robbed | |||
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"i would because i pay more than that now Depends how you use the site tho, i like the forums and the chat room so even if i didnt get a meet id pay £25 a year just for the entertainment value" | |||
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"Personally for the small amount off action i have had from the site i would have to say my profile would be getting deleated! personally I think that people who call it "action" don't have great sense on what swinging actually is for a whole lot of people.... as a silver site supporter I have my fiver every other month... so 30 quid a year and worth it for the sense of communuty here...." | |||
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"Personally for the small amount off action i have had from the site i would have to say my profile would be getting deleated!" Paying £5 every 30 days already? Yep! What's £25 when you're having this much fun!! | |||
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"i would because i pay more than that now Depends how you use the site tho, i like the forums and the chat room so even if i didnt get a meet id pay £25 a year just for the entertainment value " | |||
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"Being able to pay per month as and when you want the extra services is great. However free or paying you aren't guaranteed a shag no matter how much you pay, and I'd take exception to anyone saying to me I pay my fiver every month, so no refusing me! " Damn! and I was just about to complete a FAB bequeethment form under the impression I'd get a shag Laine | |||
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"Being able to pay per month as and when you want the extra services is great. However free or paying you aren't guaranteed a shag no matter how much you pay, and I'd take exception to anyone saying to me I pay my fiver every month, so no refusing me! Damn! and I was just about to complete a FAB bequeethment form under the impression I'd get a shag Laine " See you would get a shag, freebie or not as you are a regular here and don't think the place is a guaranteed sex-fest from first day of joining. | |||
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"Not going to give a _iew on this one way or the other, but would just like to pass on my experience of another site (no names!!) which I was on for about 18 months before Perky and I met. It is 'supposedly' for married people who are looking for a 'bit on the side' - i.e. cheating, and the complete antithesis of what swinging is all about. There were no couples on that site - only male and female profiles. And to all intents and purposes, it was pretty much for straight people. To join, women could register for free. Men had to pay... wait for it..... £129 for the first MONTH! It dropped down over the next 6 months to about £30 a month. So what difference did that make? Quite simply, I never heard a single complaint from any of the women that the men on there were 'timewasters' or 'just out for a shag'. Most told me that the guys they met were 100% genuine and usually quite financially stable (I won't say well off, cos that certainly doesn't describe me!! Lol!!) In 18 months, I met somewhere between 50-60 ladies. Didn't sleep with all of them, but certainly had a LOAD of fun and saw a small number 'more than once'... So... If Fabs was to charge more (which is what I think this thread and the OP was getting at) would it be worth it? If I had NOT had the experience with the other site, I would say no. As I HAVE had the other experience, I would say a definite YES. If you are going to lay out £129 for the first month you are 'somewhat unlikely' to be a fake, timewaster, after a quick fuck etc etc etc., are you.....??? Just a thought..... " I was on that site. I thought that if blokes had to pay it would cut out the timewasters and idiots. It didn't. Maybe I was just unlucky. I wouldn't pay anything at all for any site. | |||
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"Personally for the small amount off action i have had from the site i would have to say my profile would be getting deleated!" Yes we would, and just paid £20 to extent our gold supporters badge. | |||
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"Personally for the small amount off action i have had from the site i would have to say my profile would be getting deleated! Does the paying of SS go hand in hand with guaranteed "action"? I thought the paying of SS is to get the extra features, not a guarantee of a meet." Please tell me your joking ! I have only just paid my fiver. DaveJR guaranteed me I would be knee deep in clunge within the hour | |||
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"we pay £30 a year now so would be cheaper for us but we would paymore if it got rid of the idiots on site not every one branded a time waister is one so if it got rid of idiots then charge more I think plenty of these 'idiots' have got a few quid " Spot on it just means that they pay to be time wasters | |||
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"Not going to give a _iew on this one way or the other, but would just like to pass on my experience of another site (no names!!) which I was on for about 18 months before Perky and I met. It is 'supposedly' for married people who are looking for a 'bit on the side' - i.e. cheating, and the complete antithesis of what swinging is all about. There were no couples on that site - only male and female profiles. And to all intents and purposes, it was pretty much for straight people. To join, women could register for free. Men had to pay... wait for it..... £129 for the first MONTH! It dropped down over the next 6 months to about £30 a month. So what difference did that make? Quite simply, I never heard a single complaint from any of the women that the men on there were 'timewasters' or 'just out for a shag'. Most told me that the guys they met were 100% genuine and usually quite financially stable (I won't say well off, cos that certainly doesn't describe me!! Lol!!) In 18 months, I met somewhere between 50-60 ladies. Didn't sleep with all of them, but certainly had a LOAD of fun and saw a small number 'more than once'... So... If Fabs was to charge more (which is what I think this thread and the OP was getting at) would it be worth it? If I had NOT had the experience with the other site, I would say no. As I HAVE had the other experience, I would say a definite YES. If you are going to lay out £129 for the first month you are 'somewhat unlikely' to be a fake, timewaster, after a quick fuck etc etc etc., are you.....??? Just a thought..... " alot of you girls seem to complain about fake men on the site, that always surprises me, wht go to the truble of getting a womens interest if your then just going to waiste there time and not really meet them ??? beats the hell out off me. then you have little old me here a 100% genuine and not getting to much interest and i have never messed anyone about i have never stood up anyone Mmm you got to laugh | |||
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"yeah cos i pay £5 a month lol.. " I agree, I go for silver surporter so it would still save me cash. | |||
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"Personally for the small amount off action i have had from the site i would have to say my profile would be getting deleated! personally I think that people who call it "action" don't have great sense on what swinging actually is for a whole lot of people.... as a silver site supporter I have my fiver every other month... so 30 quid a year and worth it for the sense of communuty here...." | |||
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"alot of you girls seem to complain about fake men on the site, that always surprises me, wht go to the truble of getting a womens interest if your then just going to waiste there time and not really meet them ??? beats the hell out off me. then you have little old me here a 100% genuine and not getting to much interest and i have never messed anyone about i have never stood up anyone Mmm you got to laugh " Maybe you need to work out why the guys getting the interest are getting that interest and present yourself more like them. | |||
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"Where did £30 come from?" Silver SS £5 for roughly 2 months. | |||
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"Maybe you need to work out why the guys getting the interest are getting that interest and present yourself more like them." Mmm if i could figure that one out i certanly would do it lol, i seem to get a womens interest for a short time then get forgotten, i guess they just get so menny offers | |||
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"Where did £30 come from? 12 x £5 = £60. Worth every penny. Had hours of fun on the forums and have met some great people." Silver membership lasts 2 months | |||
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"Where did £30 come from? 12 x £5 = £60. Worth every penny. Had hours of fun on the forums and have met some great people. Silver membership lasts 2 months" oh yeah so it does .... Duh | |||
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"Personally for the small amount off action i have had from the site i would have to say my profile would be getting deleated!" yipo | |||
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"Personally for the small amount off action i have had from the site i would have to say my profile would be getting deleated!" £25 per year ? Most "conventional" dating websites charge that and more per month for men and couples | |||
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"Seeing as the site is free and the fee is to support the site (ie pay for its upkeep) I don't know why some people think they deserve a shag for putting their hands in their pockets. Its for extra photos, threaded messages, 'looked at me' page, no ads, and extra cams. It's not for guaranteed meets. I could probably have just as much fun on here whether I pay or not. I choose to pay to help keep the site running." | |||
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"Being able to pay per month as and when you want the extra services is great. However free or paying you aren't guaranteed a shag no matter how much you pay, and I'd take exception to anyone saying to me I pay my fiver every month, so no refusing me! " How about if I offered to pay you a fiver a month?? Tempting offer eh | |||
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"As a silver site member I pay £30 per year, so £25 would be a bonus! " | |||
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"Seeing as the site is free and the fee is to support the site (ie pay for its upkeep) I don't know why some people think they deserve a shag for putting their hands in their pockets. Its for extra photos, threaded messages, 'looked at me' page, no ads, and extra cams. It's not for guaranteed meets. I could probably have just as much fun on here whether I pay or not. I choose to pay to help keep the site running." | |||
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"Personally for the small amount off action i have had from the site i would have to say my profile would be getting deleated! Does the paying of SS go hand in hand with guaranteed "action"? I thought the paying of SS is to get the extra features, not a guarantee of a meet. you would be right but i have to ask my self if i was paying to spend time sending all these messages to only get the odd reply and even fewer actual meetings would i be bothering waisting my time and monney, Mmm i dont think i would to be honest, i guess being free you stick with it and get lucky once in a while." It's not just about getting lucky. Its about meeting new people, putting yourself out there. Since joining here i've plucked up the courage to go to a club alone, attend socials, go to a club accompanied, and genuinely met some great people. Every time I meet or attend a social, "getting lucky" is at the back of my mind. If I meet someone and we decide to play great. But of I meet and its just a coffee and chat then great. I think those that spend time sending loads of mails in the hope of a reply have the wrong approach. | |||
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"Personally for the small amount off action i have had from the site i would have to say my profile would be getting deleated!" Just because a site requires you to pay a fee doesnt guarantee you a fuck. Its not pay as you fuck..... | |||
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"We are on another site where we pay £120 a year and by our opinion it's far better than this one.Our opinion is that more you pay less timewasters you get" But whatever you pay still doesn't guarantee 'performance' of a site's members in any respect. £25 for a year is admittedly very cheap and I think this site would lose revenue at that (so obviously it's not going to happen!), but we still believe that such sites should remain free with the option for extra features that 'enhance the user experience'. Wolf | |||
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"Personally for the small amount off action i have had from the site i would have to say my profile would be getting deleated!Just because a site requires you to pay a fee doesnt guarantee you a fuck. Its not pay as you fuck..... " What an option though. Pay fabs a commission for every fuck you get! How would that work for a stud like me who can outperform a duracell battery? | |||
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"Personally for the small amount off action i have had from the site i would have to say my profile would be getting deleated!Just because a site requires you to pay a fee doesnt guarantee you a fuck. Its not pay as you fuck..... What an option though. Pay fabs a commission for every fuck you get! How would that work for a stud like me who can outperform a duracell battery? " id be skint | |||
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"Personally for the small amount off action i have had from the site i would have to say my profile would be getting deleated!Just because a site requires you to pay a fee doesnt guarantee you a fuck. Its not pay as you fuck..... What an option though. Pay fabs a commission for every fuck you get! How would that work for a stud like me who can outperform a duracell battery? id be skint " I'll give you mates rates | |||
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"Personally for the small amount off action i have had from the site i would have to say my profile would be getting deleated!Just because a site requires you to pay a fee doesnt guarantee you a fuck. Its not pay as you fuck..... What an option though. Pay fabs a commission for every fuck you get! How would that work for a stud like me who can outperform a duracell battery? id be skint " they would owe me | |||
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"Personally for the small amount off action i have had from the site i would have to say my profile would be getting deleated!" yes i pay 60 now as site supporter | |||
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"it has to be said ... paying sites do cut down on a lot of timewasters as the genuine ones dont mind paying for a genuine reason and the timewasters can go elsewhere for cheaper or free.... lol" | |||
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"Personally for the small amount off action i have had from the site i would have to say my profile would be getting deleated!Just because a site requires you to pay a fee doesnt guarantee you a fuck. Its not pay as you fuck..... What an option though. Pay fabs a commission for every fuck you get! How would that work for a stud like me who can outperform a duracell battery? " Ahhhhh but would they charge per person you met or per shag???? | |||
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"it has to be said ... paying sites do cut down on a lot of timewasters as the genuine ones dont mind paying for a genuine reason and the timewasters can go elsewhere for cheaper or free.... lol" it will also cut out people struggling with finances, are we timewasters too? i would dump the site! (cum) | |||
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"We are on another site where we pay £120 a year and by our opinion it's far better than this one.Our opinion is that more you pay less timewasters you get" Then why do you come on here if the other one is so good? Just wondering. | |||
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"We are on another site where we pay £120 a year and by our opinion it's far better than this one.Our opinion is that more you pay less timewasters you get Then why do you come on here if the other one is so good? Just wondering. " as this is free init LOL | |||
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"No it's just like Chinese whispers when people don't read the thread Properly" | |||
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"Personally for the small amount off action i have had from the site i would have to say my profile would be getting deleated! Does the paying of SS go hand in hand with guaranteed "action"? I thought the paying of SS is to get the extra features, not a guarantee of a meet." Don't think he even suggested such a thing | |||
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"No it's just like Chinese whispers when people don't read the thread Properly" Half past nine on the bright side twenty two carrot soup? | |||
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"No it's just like Chinese whispers when people don't read the thread Properly Half past nine on the bright side twenty two carrot soup?" you can do that in 22 steps on WikiHow | |||
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"No, we wouldnt but this is because we go through months where we don't play at all for one reason or another and so a yearly fee may not be worth it for us. But if you needed this place as a social outlet, 25 doesn't seem much." | |||
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"Why are we even asking this? Is it something that the owners have suggested? " just a way to gripe methinks | |||
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