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"Hmmm divorce can be a delicate one… it’ll really depend on the circumstances which is probably why it’s not as widely celebrated. But if it is I’d expect cake Bx" Cake?? It's a divorce not a Birthday party love | |||
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"Congratulations, you've lost the house the kids and 50 percent of everything you own to a Toxic ex partner. Yeah defo has a ring to it. " Plus you have to pay for the party  | |||
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"Congratulations, you've lost the house the kids and 50 percent of everything you own to a Toxic ex partner. Yeah defo has a ring to it. " Was that your personal experience? You seem pretty young to be so jaded. Not all divorces end with the women shafting the man I can assure you. You’ll be delighted to know that sometimes the woman gets well and truly shafted! | |||
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"Congratulations, you've lost the house the kids and 50 percent of everything you own to a Toxic ex partner. Yeah defo has a ring to it. Was that your personal experience? You seem pretty young to be so jaded. Not all divorces end with the women shafting the man I can assure you. You’ll be delighted to know that sometimes the woman gets well and truly shafted! " Nope I've never had a partner. It happened to someone I know though, and I never mentioned gender I said Toxic ex partner. Because either side can be the toxic one. | |||
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"When my divorce came along on 23rd December 2016, it was the day of Doughnuts cousins funeral so kind of past us by but the next day, doughnut proposed to me and that was the perfect celebration we needed. Danish x" Here we go again! We never learn | |||
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"Congratulations, you've lost the house the kids and 50 percent of everything you own to a Toxic ex partner. Yeah defo has a ring to it. Was that your personal experience? You seem pretty young to be so jaded. Not all divorces end with the women shafting the man I can assure you. You’ll be delighted to know that sometimes the woman gets well and truly shafted! Nope I've never had a partner. It happened to someone I know though, and I never mentioned gender I said Toxic ex partner. Because either side can be the toxic one. " You didn’t specify a gender but saying ‘losing the kids’ implies the man got shafted as the woman generally gets custody. I’ve had 2 long term relationships and in both I came out worse financially. I’m clearly not that bright.  | |||
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"When my divorce came along on 23rd December 2016, it was the day of Doughnuts cousins funeral so kind of past us by but the next day, doughnut proposed to me and that was the perfect celebration we needed. Danish x Here we go again! We never learn " Rather cynical and unnecessary comment in my opinion op! | |||
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"Congratulations, you've lost the house the kids and 50 percent of everything you own to a Toxic ex partner. Yeah defo has a ring to it. Was that your personal experience? You seem pretty young to be so jaded. Not all divorces end with the women shafting the man I can assure you. You’ll be delighted to know that sometimes the woman gets well and truly shafted! Nope I've never had a partner. It happened to someone I know though, and I never mentioned gender I said Toxic ex partner. Because either side can be the toxic one. You didn’t specify a gender but saying ‘losing the kids’ implies the man got shafted as the woman generally gets custody. I’ve had 2 long term relationships and in both I came out worse financially. I’m clearly not that bright. "Relationships or marriages? | |||
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"When my divorce came along on 23rd December 2016, it was the day of Doughnuts cousins funeral so kind of past us by but the next day, doughnut proposed to me and that was the perfect celebration we needed. Danish x Here we go again! We never learn Rather cynical and unnecessary comment in my opinion op! " Bro you have had 2 relationships you regret. So why again? | |||
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"When my divorce came along on 23rd December 2016, it was the day of Doughnuts cousins funeral so kind of past us by but the next day, doughnut proposed to me and that was the perfect celebration we needed. Danish x Here we go again! We never learn Rather cynical and unnecessary comment in my opinion op! " I'm sorry but you don't know us, how can you possibly say something like that when you have no idea about us? Yes my first marriage didn't work out but this one is completely different on every single level. Not everyone's firsts work out Danish x | |||
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"Congratulations, you've lost the house the kids and 50 percent of everything you own to a Toxic ex partner. Yeah defo has a ring to it. Was that your personal experience? You seem pretty young to be so jaded. Not all divorces end with the women shafting the man I can assure you. You’ll be delighted to know that sometimes the woman gets well and truly shafted! Nope I've never had a partner. It happened to someone I know though, and I never mentioned gender I said Toxic ex partner. Because either side can be the toxic one. You didn’t specify a gender but saying ‘losing the kids’ implies the man got shafted as the woman generally gets custody. I’ve had 2 long term relationships and in both I came out worse financially. I’m clearly not that bright.
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"When my divorce came along on 23rd December 2016, it was the day of Doughnuts cousins funeral so kind of past us by but the next day, doughnut proposed to me and that was the perfect celebration we needed. Danish x Here we go again! We never learn Rather cynical and unnecessary comment in my opinion op! Bro you have had 2 relationships you regret. So why again? " Firstly - it wasn’t me who got married for the second time - that was donut and danish. From my point of view - I’m not currently seeking a ‘real’ relationship (I’ve had a non exclusive fwb for the past few months and that’s enough for me) - but if the right person came along at the right time I wouldn’t discount a future relationship - they’d have to be pretty amazing though as I’m very content as I am. In my humble opinion - refusing to even contemplate letting another human being ever get emotionally close when you’ve been hurt may be the ‘safest’ way - but it’s also a form of cowardice isn’t it? | |||
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"When my divorce came along on 23rd December 2016, it was the day of Doughnuts cousins funeral so kind of past us by but the next day, doughnut proposed to me and that was the perfect celebration we needed. Danish x Here we go again! We never learn Rather cynical and unnecessary comment in my opinion op! Bro you have had 2 relationships you regret. So why again? " Bro? When I last checked I was a woman!  | |||
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"When my divorce came along on 23rd December 2016, it was the day of Doughnuts cousins funeral so kind of past us by but the next day, doughnut proposed to me and that was the perfect celebration we needed. Danish x Here we go again! We never learn Rather cynical and unnecessary comment in my opinion op! Bro you have had 2 relationships you regret. So why again? Firstly - it wasn’t me who got married for the second time - that was donut and danish. From my point of view - I’m not currently seeking a ‘real’ relationship (I’ve had a non exclusive fwb for the past few months and that’s enough for me) - but if the right person came along at the right time I wouldn’t discount a future relationship - they’d have to be pretty amazing though as I’m very content as I am. In my humble opinion - refusing to even contemplate letting another human being ever get emotionally close when you’ve been hurt may be the ‘safest’ way - but it’s also a form of cowardice isn’t it? " How do you come out of a long term relationship financially worse off? | |||
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"When my divorce came along on 23rd December 2016, it was the day of Doughnuts cousins funeral so kind of past us by but the next day, doughnut proposed to me and that was the perfect celebration we needed. Danish x Here we go again! We never learn Rather cynical and unnecessary comment in my opinion op! Bro you have had 2 relationships you regret. So why again? Bro? When I last checked I was a woman! "Still bro | |||
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"When my divorce came along on 23rd December 2016, it was the day of Doughnuts cousins funeral so kind of past us by but the next day, doughnut proposed to me and that was the perfect celebration we needed. Danish x Here we go again! We never learn Rather cynical and unnecessary comment in my opinion op! Bro you have had 2 relationships you regret. So why again? Firstly - it wasn’t me who got married for the second time - that was donut and danish. From my point of view - I’m not currently seeking a ‘real’ relationship (I’ve had a non exclusive fwb for the past few months and that’s enough for me) - but if the right person came along at the right time I wouldn’t discount a future relationship - they’d have to be pretty amazing though as I’m very content as I am. In my humble opinion - refusing to even contemplate letting another human being ever get emotionally close when you’ve been hurt may be the ‘safest’ way - but it’s also a form of cowardice isn’t it? How do you come out of a long term relationship financially worse off? " Because I’m a soft arse and I let people who aren’t very nice bully me and take advantage. Hence I’ve been single for 9 years now - to break the cycle of allowing people to treat me like crap. So far it’s working. | |||
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"When my divorce came along on 23rd December 2016, it was the day of Doughnuts cousins funeral so kind of past us by but the next day, doughnut proposed to me and that was the perfect celebration we needed. Danish x Here we go again! We never learn Rather cynical and unnecessary comment in my opinion op! Bro you have had 2 relationships you regret. So why again? Firstly - it wasn’t me who got married for the second time - that was donut and danish. From my point of view - I’m not currently seeking a ‘real’ relationship (I’ve had a non exclusive fwb for the past few months and that’s enough for me) - but if the right person came along at the right time I wouldn’t discount a future relationship - they’d have to be pretty amazing though as I’m very content as I am. In my humble opinion - refusing to even contemplate letting another human being ever get emotionally close when you’ve been hurt may be the ‘safest’ way - but it’s also a form of cowardice isn’t it? How do you come out of a long term relationship financially worse off? Because I’m a soft arse and I let people who aren’t very nice bully me and take advantage. Hence I’ve been single for 9 years now - to break the cycle of allowing people to treat me like crap. So far it’s working. "Still doesn't explain how you'd be financially worse off after a long term relationship lol none of my business just trying to understand so I don't make the same mistakes | |||
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"Hmmm divorce can be a delicate one… it’ll really depend on the circumstances which is probably why it’s not as widely celebrated. But if it is I’d expect cake Bx Cake?? It's a divorce not a Birthday party love " But a wedding is celebrated with cake also  | |||
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"When my divorce came along on 23rd December 2016, it was the day of Doughnuts cousins funeral so kind of past us by but the next day, doughnut proposed to me and that was the perfect celebration we needed. Danish x Here we go again! We never learn Rather cynical and unnecessary comment in my opinion op! Bro you have had 2 relationships you regret. So why again? Firstly - it wasn’t me who got married for the second time - that was donut and danish. From my point of view - I’m not currently seeking a ‘real’ relationship (I’ve had a non exclusive fwb for the past few months and that’s enough for me) - but if the right person came along at the right time I wouldn’t discount a future relationship - they’d have to be pretty amazing though as I’m very content as I am. In my humble opinion - refusing to even contemplate letting another human being ever get emotionally close when you’ve been hurt may be the ‘safest’ way - but it’s also a form of cowardice isn’t it? How do you come out of a long term relationship financially worse off? Because I’m a soft arse and I let people who aren’t very nice bully me and take advantage. Hence I’ve been single for 9 years now - to break the cycle of allowing people to treat me like crap. So far it’s working.
Still doesn't explain how you'd be financially worse off after a long term relationship lol none of my business just trying to understand so I don't make the same mistakes "You couldn’t. You can’t give birth to your partners 2 children and look after them and the home 24/7 whilst your partner sets up a successful business and becomes a millionaire - but says the money is ‘his’ once you split up after 11years! However - I’m happier skint and single than I was when I was with him - he wasn’t very nice at times. | |||
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"Congratulations, you've lost the house the kids and 50 percent of everything you own to a Toxic ex partner. Yeah defo has a ring to it. Was that your personal experience? You seem pretty young to be so jaded. Not all divorces end with the women shafting the man I can assure you. You’ll be delighted to know that sometimes the woman gets well and truly shafted! " Or sometimes people divorce but still do everything they can to support each other as parents. My dad willingly gave my mum extra money on top of child support and let her keep the house as he was the one who left. My mum on the other hand let him keep a key to our house until we were adults. As kids he would still bring us home from school until my mum got home and had us at weekends and we had family meals out with both of them. They were amazing and I still admire them for how well they treated each other after their relationship ended. | |||
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"Congratulations, you've lost the house the kids and 50 percent of everything you own to a Toxic ex partner. Yeah defo has a ring to it. Was that your personal experience? You seem pretty young to be so jaded. Not all divorces end with the women shafting the man I can assure you. You’ll be delighted to know that sometimes the woman gets well and truly shafted! Or sometimes people divorce but still do everything they can to support each other as parents. My dad willingly gave my mum extra money on top of child support and let her keep the house as he was the one who left. My mum on the other hand let him keep a key to our house until we were adults. As kids he would still bring us home from school until my mum got home and had us at weekends and we had family meals out with both of them. They were amazing and I still admire them for how well they treated each other after their relationship ended." My ex had a key some time for the same reasons until a new job meant he wasn’t able to collect from the childminder. Our divorce was as amicable as possible. I drafted the papers & gave to him to make any amendments before filing. He paid the Court fee. We avoided using Solicitors. We kept our own pensions. I bought him out of the house & he kept our beloved VW campervan. I’m not sure why some think we’re all out to screw over our exes & it really annoys me!! J x | |||
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"Congratulations, you've lost the house the kids and 50 percent of everything you own to a Toxic ex partner. Yeah defo has a ring to it. Was that your personal experience? You seem pretty young to be so jaded. Not all divorces end with the women shafting the man I can assure you. You’ll be delighted to know that sometimes the woman gets well and truly shafted! Or sometimes people divorce but still do everything they can to support each other as parents. My dad willingly gave my mum extra money on top of child support and let her keep the house as he was the one who left. My mum on the other hand let him keep a key to our house until we were adults. As kids he would still bring us home from school until my mum got home and had us at weekends and we had family meals out with both of them. They were amazing and I still admire them for how well they treated each other after their relationship ended. My ex had a key some time for the same reasons until a new job meant he wasn’t able to collect from the childminder. Our divorce was as amicable as possible. I drafted the papers & gave to him to make any amendments before filing. He paid the Court fee. We avoided using Solicitors. We kept our own pensions. I bought him out of the house & he kept our beloved VW campervan. I’m not sure why some think we’re all out to screw over our exes & it really annoys me!! J x" Break ups are never easy but I'm so glad it was as smooth as it could be for the two of you. I understand emotions can run high and things can get messy but it always makes me sad when it's the kids that suffer as a result. | |||
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