FabSwingers.com forum: Who likes a fat guy??

By *ereforgiggles OP Man
over a year ago

Scotland

Yes I know that going to the gym is a thing nowadays and that being ripped is awesome... But I like a kebab and a drink and sweets and cake..

So the question is, do ladies prefer a Gym rat or a fatman?

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

You're certainly not a fat guy, OP.

And nice pic, too!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

neither I like women

Seriously there has to be an attraction.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Im not into really fat men no. Neither am i into very slim men. I definitely wouldn’t call you anywhere near fat though.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I’m fat. I’m not just my fatness though, and I like guys based on them, how they shine as people, not their body size.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

not a fan of gym bods or skinny peeps myself, no slur on them, just not my cup of tea... each to their own, they probably wouldn't like me either, and thats cool too lol

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By *arol321Woman
over a year ago

Poole

I wouldn’t have said you were fat. Personally my preference is for guys who look after themselves doesn’t mean they need to be a gym rat but not a sumo wrestler either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll be lurking on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I hadn’t posted under the sumo wrestler comment

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

I’m not attracted to really obese men but nor am I attracted to really skinny men.

Anything in between I find attractive. I don’t mind if a bloke is carrying a few extra lbs or if he’s gym fit.

I looked at your pictures also. You are far from fat OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a man who loves his grub

Somehow, I equate this with manliness. Not too fat and not too skinny, I would say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a bit of belly on a guy

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I don't like that term gym rat at all!

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By *mnipotent_BehemothMan
over a year ago

near Merry Hill shopping centre

I’m going to watch this thread with interest, I don’t see how You see yourself as fat OP everyone is different I am blessed with being very tall and broad shouldered but I’m still fat and not really worried about that fact

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By *esi_Dingg_DonggCouple
over a year ago

london

Ofcourse the women like gym rats and bad boys. We live in an age where looks is everything and good manners and upbringing is not sexy enough to the ladies

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By *litreMan
over a year ago

everywhere

I agree whole heartedly... Manners makes the man.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Ofcourse the women like gym rats and bad boys. We live in an age where looks is everything and good manners and upbringing is not sexy enough to the ladies "

That's not applicable for me. Manners, respect, attitude that is so important, but then so is attraction. You can have both and I'd settle for no less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ofcourse the women like gym rats and bad boys. We live in an age where looks is everything and good manners and upbringing is not sexy enough to the ladies "

Is being gym fit and having manners mutually exclusive?

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By *esi_Dingg_DonggCouple
over a year ago

london

"Ofcourse the women like gym rats and bad boys. We live in an age where looks is everything and good manners and upbringing is not sexy enough to the ladies

Is being gym fit and having manners mutually exclusive?

Mr"

Good manners will get you not far. Whip out your six pack and you’re in

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By *ay731973Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

As a large guy I think it's what the person is like not the size of them

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

"Ofcourse the women like gym rats and bad boys. We live in an age where looks is everything and good manners and upbringing is not sexy enough to the ladies "

Some of the nicest guys I know are gym fit and some of the biggest twats are dad bods or fat guys

One of my biggest turn offs is where a good guy bleats about how good he is and what a crime it is that no one wants that.

Also I’m not a fan of fat guys, only because I’m fat enough for both of us and then we don’t fit very well.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

If I like you I like you, irrespective of size.

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By *esi_Dingg_DonggCouple
over a year ago

london

"If I like you I like you, irrespective of size."

So how many fat guys have you done ? None!

Always the fit guys I Bet!

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

"If I like you I like you, irrespective of size.

So how many fat guys have you done ? None!

Always the fit guys I Bet! "

And how is that any of your business?

Anyway judging by your responses on here and being so rude you must be ultra fit. Because as you said…only gym fit guys are rude without manners.

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By *esi_Dingg_DonggCouple
over a year ago

london

"If I like you I like you, irrespective of size.

So how many fat guys have you done ? None!

Always the fit guys I Bet!

And how is that any of your business?

Anyway judging by your responses on here and being so rude you must be ultra fit. Because as you said…only gym fit guys are rude without manners. "

I asked a question followed by a cheeky assumption! I’m not judging you or trying to be rude. Just making the point that it’s the gym fit guys most ladies go for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All good

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"If I like you I like you, irrespective of size.

So how many fat guys have you done ? None!

Always the fit guys I Bet! "

you’d lose that bet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, you're not fat in the slightest. I don't know where you got that from.

Everyone has their own taste. I've seen some absolutely stunning ladies with guys who are larger than life. There is nothing wrong with that.

I don't see being overweight being a deal breaker.

I personally love BBW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, you're not fat in the slightest. I don't know where you got that from.

Everyone has their own taste. I've seen some absolutely stunning ladies with guys who are larger than life. There is nothing wrong with that.

I don't see being overweight being a deal breaker.

I personally love BBW

I echo his sentiments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m fat. I’m not just my fatness though, and I like guys based on them, how they shine as people, not their body size. "

I think you look stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I like you I like you, irrespective of size.

So how many fat guys have you done ? None!

Always the fit guys I Bet!

you’d lose that bet."

At least I stand a chance at some point

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By *esi_Dingg_DonggCouple
over a year ago

london

"OP, you're not fat in the slightest. I don't know where you got that from.

Everyone has their own taste. I've seen some absolutely stunning ladies with guys who are larger than life. There is nothing wrong with that.

I don't see being overweight being a deal breaker.

I personally love BBW

It’s ok for you talk MR terminator shrek gym fit body six pack man !

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By *outhman15Man
over a year ago

southampton

Hope for me yet then glad to see so many positive coments from lovely ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s ok for you talk MR terminator shrek gym fit body six pack man !"

Thats a massive compliment, I love Shrek..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see loads of woman saying there into the dad bod an I would say I am a dad bod guy an am still to losse my fab carry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done OP on getting some extra views on your profile!. I wouldn't say (unless you have used some serious fat filters or they are old photos of you) would quailfy for the 'dad bod appreciation club". Although unfair of me to say because we all feel differently about our bodies of course.

Personally I love a man with more meat on his bones, nicer to rest your head on when on the sofa or in bed!.

Danish x

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

John Candy was pretty awesome, and he was rather rotund

Seriously though, I personally prefer toned or muscular men.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I don’t like guys too big or too skinny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure there’s a middle between “gym rat” and fat man.

I don’t like overly ripped men (makes me self conscious

) but very overweight is not for me either. I guess I just like “average”?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't prefer either... If I like the face and the person then I like it all, regardless

nice pics btw OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I'm larger than most but I've never been called fat on here, dad bod yes but never fat

It's preference though I know I'm not going to tick a lot of people's boxes but, at the same time a lot of people don't tick mine

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Prefer a dad bod x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to suck fat guys off, it’s good when they do me from behind too

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

"Ofcourse the women like gym rats and bad boys. We live in an age where looks is everything and good manners and upbringing is not sexy enough to the ladies "

So nice of you to speak for us. Shame you got the answer wrong

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Fat guy reporting for duty, just in case you need back up?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"I like a bit of belly on a guy "

Waves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ofcourse the women like gym rats and bad boys. We live in an age where looks is everything and good manners and upbringing is not sexy enough to the ladies "

Is that how your misses feels too? Ffs

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

Children at Christmas...just grow the facial hair and wear a red coat and some wellies

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Policemen , undertakers and Tailors.

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

"I see loads of woman saying there into the dad bod an I would say I am a dad bod guy an am still to losse my fab carry "

Plenty of other factors involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s not fat, that’s a lovely dad bod!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ofcourse the women like gym rats and bad boys. We live in an age where looks is everything and good manners and upbringing is not sexy enough to the ladies "

Could not be more wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ofcourse the women like gym rats and bad boys. We live in an age where looks is everything and good manners and upbringing is not sexy enough to the ladies

Could not be more wrong

I'm with hippy. Women are drawn to who they find attractive. Just like men. I've with men of all different sizes except super skinny - I worry about squashing them

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like all shapes and sizes..if that person is fun and outgoing that does it for me

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