FabSwingers.com forum: New Trans Girl Finding it Hard to Find Friends

By *immikat OP Woman
over a year ago

Ely Cambridgeshire

Hello, I'm Kimberly aka Kimmi... I started my journey 2 years ago and lost some friends being my authentic self. Which, now I realise was a blessing.

Any tips? I can find hookups easily, but friends it's a bit harder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello, I'm Kimberly aka Kimmi... I started my journey 2 years ago and lost some friends being my authentic self. Which, now I realise was a blessing.

Any tips? I can find hookups easily, but friends it's a bit harder.

I just make my own up.

Hi btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello and welcome to the forums the lounge is a awesome place

And hugs op on

The friends aspect it can be hard x

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Welcome to the forums.

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

They certainly weren't friends... hang on in there... stick around the forums... there are some awesome peeps here

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Hi friend

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Perhaps add to your profile that you are looking for friendships too.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Plenty of us will help if we can, especially if you want to go to clubs etc…

I know how difficult it was for me when I started my journey but hopefully it’ll be a bit easier now. As a lot of places are more inclusive now.

Sparkle is on again (hopefully) next year and it’s a great celebration for the Trans community.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Hello and welcome.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Hey OP and welcome

You’ve done the right thing by posting in here. The forums are a great way to get to know people and make some new friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey Kimmi and welcome to the forums.

There are some awesome people in here, plenty that will get you into trouble too

It’s a great place to make lots of genuine friends. I’m looking forward to seeing more of you around

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By *ailingSwagmanMan
over a year ago

North Essex / Midlands / Southcoast

Hi *waves*

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By *untime5Man
over a year ago

Cornwall

"Hello, I'm Kimberly aka Kimmi... I started my journey 2 years ago and lost some friends being my authentic self. Which, now I realise was a blessing.

Any tips? I can find hookups easily, but friends it's a bit harder.

Have you heard of Crossbreed? It’s a super inclusive community that should be easy to connect with

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Hello and welcome

mix and mingle in the threads and you will fit right in

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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I can relate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea about making freinds in your situation but I have made alot of my freinds as an adult through hobbies so maybe try a new hobbies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t imagine giving up on a good friend because of that. Loneliness is so very hard. I hope you’re holding up okay

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By *immikat OP Woman
over a year ago

Ely Cambridgeshire

"I have no idea about making freinds in your situation but I have made alot of my freinds as an adult through hobbies so maybe try a new hobbies. "

Oh I have hobbies and have plenty of friends just not trans or lgbtq

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello, I'm Kimberly aka Kimmi... I started my journey 2 years ago and lost some friends being my authentic self. Which, now I realise was a blessing.

Any tips? I can find hookups easily, but friends it's a bit harder.

If you are ever coming Sheffield, I would love to spend time with you, please let me know.

I can cook for you, I could give some presents, and so on. Love to be your friend.

Love you. Stay happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no idea about making freinds in your situation but I have made alot of my freinds as an adult through hobbies so maybe try a new hobbies.

Oh I have hobbies and have plenty of friends just not trans or lgbtq

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oh right I get you well then I suppose a club might be a good place to start or maybe drop a few messages on here to people you think you might get on with and have some socials.

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Hello, I'm Kimberly aka Kimmi... I started my journey 2 years ago and lost some friends being my authentic self. Which, now I realise was a blessing.

Any tips? I can find hookups easily, but friends it's a bit harder.

If you are ever coming Sheffield, I would love to spend time with you, please let me know.

I can cook for you, I could give some presents, and so on. Love to be your friend.

Love you. Stay happy. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Kimmi

Welcome to the forums, join in and enjoy. Friendships will be made in no time my lovely.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello, I'm Kimberly aka Kimmi... I started my journey 2 years ago and lost some friends being my authentic self. Which, now I realise was a blessing.

Any tips? I can find hookups easily, but friends it's a bit harder.

If you are ever coming Sheffield, I would love to spend time with you, please let me know.

I can cook for you, I could give some presents, and so on. Love to be your friend.

Love you. Stay happy.

Jealous!!!

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Hello, I'm Kimberly aka Kimmi... I started my journey 2 years ago and lost some friends being my authentic self. Which, now I realise was a blessing.

Any tips? I can find hookups easily, but friends it's a bit harder.

If you are ever coming Sheffield, I would love to spend time with you, please let me know.

I can cook for you, I could give some presents, and so on. Love to be your friend.

Love you. Stay happy.

Jealous!!!"

Absolutely.

Frank

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Welcome to the forums, just get busy chatting in the forums and sparkle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello, I'm Kimberly aka Kimmi... I started my journey 2 years ago and lost some friends being my authentic self. Which, now I realise was a blessing.

Any tips? I can find hookups easily, but friends it's a bit harder.

If you are ever coming Sheffield, I would love to spend time with you, please let me know.

I can cook for you, I could give some presents, and so on. Love to be your friend.

Love you. Stay happy.

Jealous!!!

Absolutely.

Frank"

Well, I would love to be a host for both of you too

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Hello, I'm Kimberly aka Kimmi... I started my journey 2 years ago and lost some friends being my authentic self. Which, now I realise was a blessing.

Any tips? I can find hookups easily, but friends it's a bit harder.

If you are ever coming Sheffield, I would love to spend time with you, please let me know.

I can cook for you, I could give some presents, and so on. Love to be your friend.

Love you. Stay happy.

Jealous!!!

Absolutely.

Frank

Well, I would love to be a host for both of you too

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Hiya kimmi x

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By *elsh-guyMan
over a year ago

The land of the Dragon and loads of sheep

Hey kimmi go yo a few socials in your area and you will find friends in no time. Welcome.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

"Hello, I'm Kimberly aka Kimmi... I started my journey 2 years ago and lost some friends being my authentic self. Which, now I realise was a blessing.

Any tips? I can find hookups easily, but friends it's a bit harder.

Hi as you can see nobody judges in here so welcome and enjoy

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Finding friends on here is actually one of the easier things to do.

It's made even easier by attending socials, whether one to one or group ones

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By *oveGiving44Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Hi Kimmi! I'm not new to the site but I am fairly new to the forums and can confirm that it's very open and friendly here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just look for people that accept and like you and don't care what others think about being friends with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get out and socialise, smile. It takes time. And sat hello if you see me in pinks

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

"Hello, I'm Kimberly aka Kimmi... I started my journey 2 years ago and lost some friends being my authentic self. Which, now I realise was a blessing.

Any tips? I can find hookups easily, but friends it's a bit harder.

I'd recommend a visit to Leeds for the Leeds first Friday event (LFF..for those in the know..) made a good few friends up there...

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

hello from Pembroke

happy to chat if you want x

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Welcome! Forums a great place to meet peeps to chat first so they get to know you rather than judge!

Loads of lovely people here so have fun xx

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By *immikat OP Woman
over a year ago

Ely Cambridgeshire

It's hard to just look for the accepting ones and I don't care what people think. I just want to find some like minded friends

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By *immikat OP Woman
over a year ago

Ely Cambridgeshire

I'll see you there on Saturday ??

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