FabSwingers.com forum: Am I the only one

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am 55 years old I am not well endowed but not small either been member of fab for some time never met anyone or got verified because of the roles and walls people put up such as must be 6 foot tall must have six pack must be non-smoking dick size over 9 inches the list is endless member of swingers clubs to sign thing applies try to talk to couples and told to F off or words to that effect it really lose your confidence and yourself belief no longer go to social clubs I don’t have the confidence anymore just wondering am I the only one that gets treated that way I will now spend my money and time on other things would just like to know how everyone feels when we are post to be open minded and be lovely people

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It's not just you. It happens to us all.

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

"It's not just you. It happens to us all."

Mail me again and I’ll reconsider

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"It's not just you. It happens to us all.

Mail me again and I’ll reconsider

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By *ickyxxx69Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Yep happens all the time. Just keep trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am 55 years old I am not well endowed but not small either been member of fab for some time never met anyone or got verified because of the roles and walls people put up such as must be 6 foot tall must have six pack must be non-smoking dick size over 9 inches the list is endless member of swingers clubs to sign thing applies try to talk to couples and told to F off or words to that effect it really lose your confidence and yourself belief no longer go to social clubs I don’t have the confidence anymore just wondering am I the only one that gets treated that way I will now spend my money and time on other things would just like to know how everyone feels when we are post to be open minded and be lovely people"

Happens to us all the time.

Just be positive and keep going.

There are that many men on here it’s hard to get a positive response.

Eventually you’ll get there

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

It'll happen... I got turned down twice tonight alone... guess what? I wasn't their cup of tea...

I'll try again with a different person

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Unfortunately, OP, people have preferences and the complete right to those.

Many of us don't have the same preferences you detail, however.

I'm sorry you aren't having a fulfilling time here, maybe change things up a bit, or do what people always day and let your personality shine through by engaging on the forum and visiting clubs.

But it happens to us all. We can't be what everyone we want wants after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me there isn't enough information on your profile. It says 'I'm back, had vaccinations, non pushy, member of Xtasia, open minded'..this is my portfolio. Nice photo though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree, I've probably got a shit info interests etc on site had a few vino when joined

Buttt !! Tried the pleasant approach,tried filthy approach,never put cock pics on, got nowhere

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

"It'll happen... I got turned down twice tonight alone... guess what? I wasn't their cup of tea...

I'll try again with a different person"

Twice tonight???

Idiots!

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

"It'll happen... I got turned down twice tonight alone... guess what? I wasn't their cup of tea...

I'll try again with a different person

Twice tonight???

Idiots!"

Not at all... I'm not what they want... totally reasonable

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Happens to everyone OP.

You may not be one persons cup of tea but, you may be another’s. Try not to dwell too much, chat and have a laugh with people and you’ll be fine.

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By *ookie doughMan
over a year ago

leic

I was a member here some years back and it took about a year before I finally had my first meet, I left then came back again recently and within a few weeks I met a fantastic couple and ive had a few really nice social meets since. I personally very rarely make first contact other than the odd wink, but I do add meets and if someone is attracted by my profile then that's great. Appearing desperate is a massive put off. Not at all suggesting that the OP is though.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Jordan Patterson. your bottom lobster right now youtube him.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Very brave telling forum but look at the to support you have given.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being bi and a cd here hard as to get even a conversation going

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

At least if people are listing their "musts" on their profile it saves you sending a message that won't get answered OP.

Just find the profiles where you meet the criteria listed. Even then I've been turned down and had messages ignored plenty - personal choice is a beautiful thing even when it goes against me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for your comments are a very big help or think about my portfolio and how I look at the swinging scene but once again thank you to everyone who responded

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