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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you do if you find an absolutely amazing profile, you're with in the age range and preferences but they are clearly so far out of your league.

Do you message and expect the rejection and if its not rejection then that's a bonus.

Or do you just not bother to your time??

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Just go for it. What’s the worst that can happen

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Meh. They're all out of my league. So I wait until they're least expecting it and then send a wink. Or a really subtle message like "hello".

And then wait for the rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably look at it. Not wink or message as normal

Damn shyness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no league on fab just sexual compatibility

It’s what makes fab wonderful

You can meet people form all walks off live

Form the rich and famous to the average normal person

1 can hook up with 10s

And 10s can hook up with 1s

As long as sexual compatibility is there

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

There’s no such thing as leagues just go for it

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

OP that’s a defeatist attitude.

Nothing ventured nothing gained

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Michael Jordan, what do you have to say on this matter?

"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take".

Thanks Mike.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you do if you find an absolutely amazing profile, you're with in the age range and preferences but they are clearly so far out of your league.

Do you message and expect the rejection and if its not rejection then that's a bonus.

Or do you just not bother to your time??

"

Just go for it, what is the worst that can happen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s no such thing as leagues just go for it "

I 100% agree

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Out of her league? Very amusing (LOL)

Say hello, be polite, be kind. Give it a whirl. You get shot down in flames - pick yer self up & start again.

There is no such thing!

Now pull my finger......

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Just go for it. What’s the worst that can happen "

They can delete your well constructed and thoughtful faf message

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge


"Meh. They're all out of my league. So I wait until they're least expecting it and then send a wink. Or a really subtle message like "hello".

And then wait for the rejection."

Out of your league? You're Premier League! I wouldn't reject you! The only reason I wouldn't be able to meet you is the physical distance between us

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

No point asking me, I’ve decided that people who have messaged me are out of my league and have declined them before now

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Send a message and have a cup of tea

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

It's fascinating who likes what in fab land. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Just go for it. What’s the worst that can happen

They can delete your well constructed and thoughtful faf message "

Awwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s no such thing as leagues just go for it "

Second this

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By *91kMan
over a year ago

Maidstone


"What do you do if you find an absolutely amazing profile, you're with in the age range and preferences but they are clearly so far out of your league.

Do you message and expect the rejection and if its not rejection then that's a bonus.

Or do you just not bother to your time??

"

Give it a shot, what have you got to lose? If they don't reply you are in the exact same position before messaging them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to quite often bypass profiles that looked amazing and thought would never be interested, and the same when i had messages from those profiles i thought too good to be true, in hind sight a bog regret. These days i message anyone i like the look of, and hell if they aren’t interested or we don't click, its move on.

If you never ask or put it out there you’ll never know.. no one is to good just different wants, needs and likes.xx

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By *ryingitout19Man
over a year ago

Wales

You don’t ask, you don’t get

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"There is no league on fab just sexual compatibility"

Very well said

We are all people, and when people get together the fun can really start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, I don't bother. I don't get replies at the best of times so there's no chance even hoping for a reply from someone I consider "out of my league"

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I wait until I have the time and energy to write the best possible message I can, send it, and then watch it never get read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meh. They're all out of my league. So I wait until they're least expecting it and then send a wink. Or a really subtle message like "hello".

And then wait for the rejection."

This... self esteem issues galore

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By *ohnj21Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Just go for it. What’s the worst that can happen "

Went for it but I'm 2 years older than your range so couldn't message you.

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By *hunkymonkey81Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Message definately dont be scared of rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All women are way above me but don’t stop me trying at least

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

If you spend your life putting others on pedestals you'll never appreciate the view from up there yourself and you'll have a stiff neck from always looking upwards.

If you spend your life expecting others to put you on a pedestal, sooner or later they'll pull you down and toss you in the river.

Treat everyone equally and you may find they are approachable after all.

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