FabSwingers.com forum: Are You Serious ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How seriously do you take the Forum ?

Do you take everything here with several pinches of salt and a wry smile, or do you mostly believe what you read and react accordingly?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Take it all with pinch of salt

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I'm very inclusive

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Believe absolutely nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very rarely serious, I think that's obvious

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By *ore4fundevonCouple
over a year ago

West Devon

Definitely with added salt! A smidge of vinegar too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always deadly serious

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I'm very rarely serious, I think that's obvious

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe the compliments so I'm not believing anything else I read

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Always deadly serious

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Some threads are serious and some can be very entertaining, it all makes interesting reading.

I never take anything to heart on Fab, be it forums posts or private messages. I don't think it's mentally healthy for anyone to take this place too seriously.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I rarely take anything seriously on here. Mind you, I don't take too much seriously in real life either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Take it all with pinch of salt "

I'm sure that's the best approach but I still get drawn in sometimes and get sad or pissed off at some comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a bit of fun, I mostly enjoy it, and don’t take it seriously

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I take it as seriously as I take myself.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Take it all with pinch of salt

I'm sure that's the best approach but I still get drawn in sometimes and get sad or pissed off at some comments."

Why

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

The forums are a form of escapism for me. I take it all with a pinch of salt and have a laugh

I can occasionally be found making serious snd hopefully helpful comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the subject at hand most off the time I am just have a joke around

Only time I am serious is it I am paying someone a complement

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Depends on the subject at hand most off the time I am just have a joke around

Only time I am serious is it I am paying someone a complement "

Your lovely x

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Extremely!!

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

On here? Nothing.

I’d still check if they told me the grass was green.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Extremely!!"

You have a cruel cock

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Jebus I don’t know how to be serious

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Take it all with pinch of salt

I'm sure that's the best approach but I still get drawn in sometimes and get sad or pissed off at some comments."

Why let strangers piss you off?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some threads are serious and some can be very entertaining, it all makes interesting reading.

I never take anything to heart on Fab, be it forums posts or private messages. I don't think it's mentally healthy for anyone to take this place too seriously."

I couldn't agree more about the mental health aspect and I hate seeing people feel low or left out because of their Forum experience. But then am I taking their posts too seriously ?

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Extremely!!

You have a cruel cock"

This

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Extremely!!

You have a cruel cock

This

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

A lagoon of maldon sea salt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t take things personally when or if disagreeing with others online. Life’s too short.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't take it too seriously but there are days where I roll my eyes at a lot of the threads and those are the days I just log off and browse Reddit instead

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

A whole bucket of salt.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Leoblooms

You can tell the good eggs

As opposed to the drama queens

Reas between the lines x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the subject at hand most off the time I am just have a joke around

Only time I am serious is it I am paying someone a complement

Your lovely x"

Awww thanks sis so are you x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Depends on the subject at hand most off the time I am just have a joke around

Only time I am serious is it I am paying someone a complement

Your lovely x

Awww thanks sis so are you x "

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

I take the way people behave towards others seriously.

Have seen a ethical thread lately. If you saw someone, someone you fancied , or fab friends behaving badly, openly or underhandedly. Would you call them out or say nothing, even maybe have a giggle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually, I get a little bit jealous when people try to flirt with my guys

Especially you Leo. Why can't I keep you all in the loft for when I need you?

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Lol, this nonsense you joking yes...

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Leoblooms

You can tell the good eggs

As opposed to the drama queens

Reas between the lines x"

FFS

Read

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A lagoon of maldon sea salt"

Ha ha, I live quite near Maldon and it's the finest salt there is !

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Take it all with pinch of salt

I'm sure that's the best approach but I still get drawn in sometimes and get sad or pissed off at some comments."

Most people do at some point or other - I very rarely get pissed off any more, like maybe once a year? But yes, nobody is without emotions. It's hard not to sometimes - I feel sad for people who get bullied or feel like they're excluded.

As far as taking it seriously goes? I don't know. That question could be interpreted in many ways! I see it as being like a theatre, where we're all but players donning different masks, appearing and reappearing in Acts. So I try and not read too much into it and enjoy the show.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

A whole salt mine! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Actually, I get a little bit jealous when people try to flirt with my guys

Especially you Leo. Why can't I keep you all in the loft for when I need you? "

Kept in the loft? I could definitely be converted to that idea

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

It’s all gospel isn’t it?!?!

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"A lagoon of maldon sea salt

Ha ha, I live quite near Maldon and it's the finest salt there is !

Used to live in Burnham on Crouch..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Leoblooms

You can tell the good eggs

As opposed to the drama queens

Reas between the lines x"

Thanks Yasmeen. I do try and mostly succeed but as Meli said, we're only human so it's not necessarily a bad thing to react emotionally now and then.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Not overly ..

I just hope most folk don't take anything I say seriously

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s all gospel isn’t it?!?!

Jebus I hope not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A lagoon of maldon sea salt

Ha ha, I live quite near Maldon and it's the finest salt there is !

Used to live in Burnham on Crouch.."

Know it well, lovely town for a visit.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Leoblooms

You can tell the good eggs

As opposed to the drama queens

Reas between the lines x

Thanks Yasmeen. I do try and mostly succeed but as Meli said, we're only human so it's not necessarily a bad thing to react emotionally now and then."

No it's not bad people have digs at me all the time but they don't know me x

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I take some of it seriously and some of it with a huge dose of salt.

In general the negativity and bickering I take seriously, the flirting and fawning I don’t.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not overly ..

I just hope most folk don't take anything I say seriously

So that story wasn't true about you, the twins and a bathful of custard ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never take anything serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like most things online I don't take things too seriously

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"Leoblooms

You can tell the good eggs

As opposed to the drama queens

Reas between the lines x

Thanks Yasmeen. I do try and mostly succeed but as Meli said, we're only human so it's not necessarily a bad thing to react emotionally now and then.

No it's not bad people have digs at me all the time but they don't know me x"

Aww u are my favourite formite _asmeen x

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"It’s all gospel isn’t it?!?!

Jebus I hope not

Be bloody funny if it was though…

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Leoblooms

You can tell the good eggs

As opposed to the drama queens

Reas between the lines x

Thanks Yasmeen. I do try and mostly succeed but as Meli said, we're only human so it's not necessarily a bad thing to react emotionally now and then.

No it's not bad people have digs at me all the time but they don't know me x

Aww u are my favourite formite _asmeen x"

Awww xx

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Here, and very often in real life, it's best not to take anything seriously enough to unnecessarily negatively affect your emotions

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By *picknspanMan
over a year ago

North West Leeds

Surely it is all true... isn't it?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I think I do now. I am less bitey with folk anyway, so I think that’s a good sign.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Surely it is all true... isn't it?"

Only if it's on Facebook and in the Daily Mail too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hardly ever take it seriously and just avoid the salty ones normally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mostly take it with a pinch of salt, especially over on the swinger’s chat, where it’s clear many guys are full of shit (yeah, I’m sure that what you’re talking about really happened

) and are just looking for wank fodder.

I do think many on here seem really nice though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always assume everyone is taking the piss and dont take it at all seriously. The forum has quite a dark dry humour at times that I like. Unless its obvious its a serious thread then I will be good and serious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mostly take it with a pinch of salt, especially over on the swinger’s chat, where it’s clear many guys are full of shit (yeah, I’m sure that what you’re talking about really happened

) and are just looking for wank fodder.

I do think many on here seem really nice though."

There are forums other than the lounge?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is my fave for sure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How seriously do you take the Forum ?

Do you take everything here with several pinches of salt and a wry smile, or do you mostly believe what you read and react accordingly?

Depends. Majority of the time I don't take the forums seriously, however it's not nice to see the nastiness that is aimed at people, and it's horrible when the bandwagon rolls out the sheeple behaviours...

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

A bucket of salt is always handy. As with life this place has all the characters, not everyone will get on, some you can tolerate and others not one bit, you become blind to their presence.

I don’t take anyone seriously unless it is obviously a serious thread topic, but even then there are some you think, really ?!

Try not to let it get to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe nothing, trust no one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How seriously do you take the Forum ?

Do you take everything here with several pinches of salt and a wry smile, or do you mostly believe what you read and react accordingly?

A drum of salt tbh , l do believe that if anyone gets all hot and bothered and worked up about the forums they shouldn't be on them..this whole joint should be all about fun for people and no one should try to ruin or destroy that for others , forums are only peoples thoughts and opinions and should be respected even if you don't agree with them, so that's what l try to do ..read them ..give my tuppence worth and that's it .

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"It’s all gospel isn’t it?!?!

True story. All of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't take anything seriously on here. It's respite from real life so I avoid the deep stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About as serious as life! Try to be the same person in anything I do.....which includes being 90% sarcastic, trying to have a bit of a laugh and being nice with the odd serious moment thrown in there when needed!

You only get one life dont take it too seriously & enjoy the time with the people around you who you care alot about

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the posts. I didn't think this thread needed lots of my replies but I'm pleased most people enjoy their Forum with lashings of salt and only occasional vinegar.

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

It's something to read when I have a few minutes to spare. Nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm very inclusive "

You are. Its your most endearing quality.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I'm very inclusive

You are. Its your most endearing quality.

Mr"

Thankyou xxx

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Not at all.

But it's great for passing some time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not to take much seriuosly

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Not overly ..

I just hope most folk don't take anything I say seriously

So that story wasn't true about you, the twins and a bathful of custard ?

Of course not, it was Rice Pudding

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I'm not very serious in general, so the forums huge pinch of salt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jebus I don’t know how to be serious

Purse your lips together and furrow your brow. Take a picture and let us see the results

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

A very small pinch of salt all about having a giggle don't take s*** too seriously some people do

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I'm as solemn as a Church preacher *nods*

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