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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no

Just wondering how many of you got what you wanted from fab??

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By *iverredMan
over a year ago

Aberystwyth


"Just wondering how many of you got what you wanted from fab??"

Not yet, still wanting to meet someone!!

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Laugher, fun, friendship and cake

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"Just wondering how many of you got what you wanted from fab??

Not yet, still wanting to meet someone!!"

Aww, don’t worry someone will come along and you will get the meet you want

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"Laugher, fun, friendship and cake "

I see you managed to get the cake

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By *aui.Man
over a year ago

around here

I didn’t, then I did, then I didn’t again now I totally do!

I think what I want from fab is constantly evolving though. I definitely don’t want the same things now as when I first joined

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"Just wondering how many of you got what you wanted from fab??"

No yet I haven’t, someone to talk to would be a start I guess

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

Still looking.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

So far so good yes

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"Laugher, fun, friendship and cake

I see you managed to get the cake "

I stole it but shusshhhh don’t tell anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip I do lol

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Cant complain

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

At times… overall no.

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"I didn’t, then I did, then I didn’t again now I totally do!

I think what I want from fab is constantly evolving though. I definitely don’t want the same things now as when I first joined "

I totally understand that, what I want from fab changes from time to time

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"Yip I do lol "

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Laugher, fun, friendship and cake "

Most of the above; still waiting to get cake but in the words of Meat Loaf, "two out of three ain't bad".

I've also got my feeling of self worth back back; it's nice to be wanted sexually again.

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"Laugher, fun, friendship and cake

I see you managed to get the cake

I stole it but shusshhhh don’t tell anyone "

I won’t. Your Secret is safe with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely. Helped me get some great club meets and stay in touch with people I met there. Also enjoy the pure hedonistic escapism of it...well as long I avoid the 'V' threads.

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

Not yet, but I've found a lot of other things that have kept me happy enough for the time being

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet. But I come with no expectations so anything from a wink to a meet is a bonus. Plus I do enjoy reading the forums.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Nope. Not even close.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will let you know in the morning

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By *ore4fundevonCouple
over a year ago

West Devon

Yes we did... And some things we weren't expecting too.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

So far so good, only going to get better hopefully

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Yes and more.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

I wanted to have a chance to explore my sexuality on my terms. 99% of the time I'd say that I've been able to do that so yes, I did. And more than I knew I wanted as well so that's a bonus.

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"I wanted to have a chance to explore my sexuality on my terms. 99% of the time I'd say that I've been able to do that so yes, I did. And more than I knew I wanted as well so that's a bonus. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still getting it

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By *eardybobMan
over a year ago

the Goldilocks Zone

Sure did.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I got far more than I asked more

J x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Yes and more

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I got more than I bargained for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't complain. Moan yes. Complain no.

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"I got more than I bargained for "

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Yes I have. Nice surprises and a disappointment or two but having a great time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had no expectations at first, so I've adjusted them as I go along to fit what seems possible. Expectation management seems key to a good Fab experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and more

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I got something that I didn't even know I wanted, but I'm glad I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

A town near you perhaps

Absolutely, and much more.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Had no expectations at first, so I've adjusted them as I go along to fit what seems possible. Expectation management seems key to a good Fab experience."

That for me too.

It hasn't been the mind-expanding, life-changing experience that some seem to find it, but on balance it's been a laugh.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Sure did. "

I didnt know what I wanted from fab. But it turns out I wanted him

Also have myself an amazing group of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes thank you and to be honest presently surprised , in a good way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"Sure did.

I didnt know what I wanted from fab. But it turns out I wanted him

Also have myself an amazing group of people "

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than I even wanted

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Came on here not wanting anything but to pass some time, got a hell of a lot more than I bargained for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined fab again with no expectations but I have found something I never thought I ever would. My needle in the haystack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to. Hopefully normal service will be resumed and I will again. Only had one meet since July and that was with an old flame who is still just as kinky as me ;-p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how many of you got what you wanted from fab??

Not yet, still wanting to meet someone!!"

Lol . The search goes on for many..

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By *ikAshCouple
over a year ago

London

Yes - have met some lovely couples, and our relationship is stronger than ever x

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By *ikAshCouple
over a year ago

London


"I joined fab again with no expectations but I have found something I never thought I ever would. My needle in the haystack.

"

That is so lovely x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"I got something that I didn't even know I wanted, but I'm glad I did "

So cute!

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

Intermittently.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

No set list of things, I’m not shopping. I just enjoy it for what it is, no expectations, but lots of laughs so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes!

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

Partly, yes… ask again on Sunday!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Yes, it's been interesting and I've made some brilliant friends

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

Yeah, it did what it said on the tin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still hoping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havnt yet taken two men to bed at the same time. I think I thought that might have been easier to arrange. But To be fair I havn't actually tried, I got sidetracked.

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"I havnt yet taken two men to bed at the same time. I think I thought that might have been easier to arrange. But To be fair I havn't actually tried, I got sidetracked. "

Hehe

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"Still hoping "

Just remember, fingers crossed, Touch wood, and whatever other superstitions people use to get lucky

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes deffo so far few more experiances to achieve though x

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"More than I even wanted "

That'll explain why some people aren't getting anything out of Fab, you're taking more than you need... Don't be greedy, share the lurve!

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

Not yet still wanting to meet someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, it works fine for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how many of you got what you wanted from fab??"

I joined a few weeks ago and it’s been great. No regrets. I can’t imagine I’ll be on here long-term, but I’ve had a couple of enjoyable socials, a boost to my self-confidence, a trip outside of my comfort zone, some distraction and fun.

I can’t complain really.

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Difficult to tell as I'm not sure what I want from it, but so far it's been largely fun

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We've had a couple of good meets from off here and we follow what's going on in the events and clubs so we'd say yes

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

I’ve met people I never would’ve met, and had some good experiences, but I’ve not really found my ideal…. Yet….

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

It’s been a great journey so far

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By *ibi_curiousCouple
over a year ago

Shepperton

We got more than we both expected. We got each other xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get to perv and meet hot guys so yeah I'm good.

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By *hostwolfMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

Not as often as wanted but the meets I have had have been amazing

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By *evoncream2017Couple
over a year ago

exeter

Fab mmf then not met the right man since

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Working on it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have made friends had fun cammed in lockdown and now meeting so yes fab has been good ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting there. I've had a ton of NSA meets, and did have a couple of FWB. Now I'm after a female FWB and more club or group experience xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how many of you got what you wanted from fab??"

Straight answer to a straight question ..yes .

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Ohhhhhhh oh! I'm halfway there....!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Yep just got to perve heats peachy bum

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’ve got what I didn’t t even know I was looking for

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Yep just got to perve heats peachy bum "

aww thanks Frida.

There's a matching video coming soon

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Yep just got to perve heats peachy bum

aww thanks Frida.

There's a matching video coming soon "

Well know that's above and beyond my expectations of fab

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I know I came in here looking for something but I can't remember what it was!

Anyone see my keys?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I know I came in here looking for something but I can't remember what it was!

Anyone see my keys? "

I may have found them but you will have to search me to find them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok an abridged version, so if you are a woman or a couple most likely yes you are getting what you want from Fab. If you a bloke you probably have more chance of pissing in the queens handbag than getting laid from this website. In fact a reply to a message is a good day. Hope this saves someone reading all the previous posts ????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet!

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"Ok an abridged version, so if you are a woman or a couple most likely yes you are getting what you want from Fab. If you a bloke you probably have more chance of pissing in the queens handbag than getting laid from this website. In fact a reply to a message is a good day. Hope this saves someone reading all the previous posts ????????"

Honestly I would say you are correct on that one. BUT......

if you are a absolute bomb shell of a woman on here then you are more likely to get meets from couples and men

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By *est Mims LookingCouple
over a year ago

Crofton

Nope but still looking for that to be fulfilled.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Ok an abridged version, so if you are a woman or a couple most likely yes you are getting what you want from Fab. If you a bloke you probably have more chance of pissing in the queens handbag than getting laid from this website. In fact a reply to a message is a good day. Hope this saves someone reading all the previous posts ????????"

Not sure I agree at all…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm... married? Not what I was looking for but so happy I got it

Doughnut

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"Erm... married? Not what I was looking for but so happy I got it

Doughnut "

Xxx

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Nah not really.

I did for a while, boosted confidence, felt like I was really moving forward in who I was. Now I'm further back than when I arrived here as I barely trust anyone and feel like I'm rarely seen as human other than from some forum folk and simply a vagina in the eyes of the majority of members.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok an abridged version, so if you are a woman or a couple most likely yes you are getting what you want from Fab. If you a bloke you probably have more chance of pissing in the queens handbag than getting laid from this website. In fact a reply to a message is a good day. Hope this saves someone reading all the previous posts ????????"

I did quite successfully as a single guy (even if I do have a dad bod and a nerdy personality).

So we'll in fact I married the last person I met as a single male on here

Doughnut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok an abridged version, so if you are a woman or a couple most likely yes you are getting what you want from Fab. If you a bloke you probably have more chance of pissing in the queens handbag than getting laid from this website. In fact a reply to a message is a good day. Hope this saves someone reading all the previous posts ????????

Not sure I agree at all…"

I certainly don’t agree with him. Then again I have a different attitude towards fab

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

So far so good I wanted that fabled expression

NSA sex

And I've got it.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Just wondering how many of you got what you wanted from fab??"

It's not bad. Fab is like a vending machine...I insert my currency of introduction and then kick the machine when my potential playmate gets stuck.

I'm not making sense. I'm inebriated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how many of you got what you wanted from fab??"

Don't expect anything from fab, then you will always get what you want from it. "Aiden"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not yet "

Know the feeling lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how many of you got what you wanted from fab??

It's not bad. Fab is like a vending machine...I insert my currency of introduction and then kick the machine when my potential playmate gets stuck.

I'm not making sense. I'm inebriated.

"

Or the machine kicks you

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Ok an abridged version, so if you are a woman or a couple most likely yes you are getting what you want from Fab. If you a bloke you probably have more chance of pissing in the queens handbag than getting laid from this website. In fact a reply to a message is a good day. Hope this saves someone reading all the previous posts ????????

Honestly I would say you are correct on that one. BUT......

if you are a absolute bomb shell of a woman on here then you are more likely to get meets from couples and men"

I disagree with both of you....

I'm no bombshell and I've had meets.

And many, many single guys I know have had meets as well.

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"Nah not really.

I did for a while, boosted confidence, felt like I was really moving forward in who I was. Now I'm further back than when I arrived here as I barely trust anyone and feel like I'm rarely seen as human other than from some forum folk and simply a vagina in the eyes of the majority of members."

You are a very pretty lady in my opinion,

And honestly that’s how it is on a site like this. We are all seen as sex objects.....

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"Just wondering how many of you got what you wanted from fab??

Don't expect anything from fab, then you will always get what you want from it. "Aiden""

Oh that’s my life motto on fab and when I go to clubs

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent


"Ok an abridged version, so if you are a woman or a couple most likely yes you are getting what you want from Fab. If you a bloke you probably have more chance of pissing in the queens handbag than getting laid from this website. In fact a reply to a message is a good day. Hope this saves someone reading all the previous posts ????????"

I’ve pissed in the Queen’s handbag!

Oh, hang on, I mean I’ve been pissed in the Queen’s Head

That’s not quite the same thing, is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much like life; Highs and Lows, things I'm glad I did, things I regret doing, things I didn't do, things I still want to do.

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"Ok an abridged version, so if you are a woman or a couple most likely yes you are getting what you want from Fab. If you a bloke you probably have more chance of pissing in the queens handbag than getting laid from this website. In fact a reply to a message is a good day. Hope this saves someone reading all the previous posts ????????

Honestly I would say you are correct on that one. BUT......

if you are a absolute bomb shell of a woman on here then you are more likely to get meets from couples and men

I disagree with both of you....

I'm no bombshell and I've had meets.

And many, many single guys I know have had meets as well."

What if someone isn’t looking for single males??

And from your pictures you are at least a 9/10

And honestly based on my experience not many women or couples are into moi (I would say black women but I’m not 100% sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok an abridged version, so if you are a woman or a couple most likely yes you are getting what you want from Fab. If you a bloke you probably have more chance of pissing in the queens handbag than getting laid from this website. In fact a reply to a message is a good day. Hope this saves someone reading all the previous posts ????????

Honestly I would say you are correct on that one. BUT......

if you are a absolute bomb shell of a woman on here then you are more likely to get meets from couples and men

I disagree with both of you....

I'm no bombshell and I've had meets.

And many, many single guys I know have had meets as well."

Agreed we know some incredibly successful single males on fab. Also they are not super well endowed (just average) or gym chisled in the slightest (dad bods).

What they do have it a genuine respect and understanding of the swinging scene which they embrace and have become part of, along aside great personalities and positive can attitudes.

If as a single guy you haven't got the confidence and crack to get other people to become interested in you as a person and subsequently a sexual being in real life then you highly unlikely to succeed on fab either. So many fail to realize that the same social normaties apply here as well.

In fact over messages without the benefit of body language it becomes even more important to have an interesting personality to drawn people in.

KJ

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"Ok an abridged version, so if you are a woman or a couple most likely yes you are getting what you want from Fab. If you a bloke you probably have more chance of pissing in the queens handbag than getting laid from this website. In fact a reply to a message is a good day. Hope this saves someone reading all the previous posts ????????

Honestly I would say you are correct on that one. BUT......

if you are a absolute bomb shell of a woman on here then you are more likely to get meets from couples and men

I disagree with both of you....

I'm no bombshell and I've had meets.

And many, many single guys I know have had meets as well.

Agreed we know some incredibly successful single males on fab. Also they are not super well endowed (just average) or gym chisled in the slightest (dad bods).

What they do have it a genuine respect and understanding of the swinging scene which they embrace and have become part of, along aside great personalities and positive can attitudes.

If as a single guy you haven't got the confidence and crack to get other people to become interested in you as a person and subsequently a sexual being in real life then you highly unlikely to succeed on fab either. So many fail to realize that the same social normaties apply here as well.

In fact over messages without the benefit of body language it becomes even more important to have an interesting personality to drawn people in.

KJ"

I just want to put it out there that I understand that men and women and couples get their meets and stuff like that but from what I have noticed is that I could send 5 people a paragraph saying who I am what I’m looking for and send a face picture as well and still get no shows or excuses. I do have confidence but I feel like some women get intimidated by me. I could literally remove all my pictures and then get a meet but as soon as they see my face that’s when the bs starts. I don’t know what it’s like for men on the site, but what I do know is some men on the site make it hard for women on the site. Were the man that is a decent guy wouldn’t even get a look in because of the other half of the men on the site

Sorry for rambling

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Just wondering how many of you got what you wanted from fab??"

Yes and it was not sex but that was a happy bonus..

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Ok an abridged version, so if you are a woman or a couple most likely yes you are getting what you want from Fab. If you a bloke you probably have more chance of pissing in the queens handbag than getting laid from this website. In fact a reply to a message is a good day. Hope this saves someone reading all the previous posts ????????

Honestly I would say you are correct on that one. BUT......

if you are a absolute bomb shell of a woman on here then you are more likely to get meets from couples and men

I disagree with both of you....

I'm no bombshell and I've had meets.

And many, many single guys I know have had meets as well.

What if someone isn’t looking for single males??

And from your pictures you are at least a 9/10

And honestly based on my experience not many women or couples are into moi (I would say black women but I’m not 100% sure"

The comment I made about single males was aimed at the guy that made the first part of the comment I quoted, who said that a bloke can't get laid on here.

I'm absolutely nowhere near a 9/10 at all, but I appreciate the compliment, thank you.

I can't comment on your experience on here as I don't know what it's been, but I hope you find those you're searching for.

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon


"Ok an abridged version, so if you are a woman or a couple most likely yes you are getting what you want from Fab. If you a bloke you probably have more chance of pissing in the queens handbag than getting laid from this website. In fact a reply to a message is a good day. Hope this saves someone reading all the previous posts ????????"

I don’t agree with that. I’m one of the thousands of outnumbered men on here and to be fair I’ve got no complaints. I’ve met quite a few in different ways. Social events and more private intimate encounters. Made great friends and most importantly great memories. So men can do well on here

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Nah not really.

I did for a while, boosted confidence, felt like I was really moving forward in who I was. Now I'm further back than when I arrived here as I barely trust anyone and feel like I'm rarely seen as human other than from some forum folk and simply a vagina in the eyes of the majority of members."

You are not a vagina, Peachy. You are a cunt. *Nods sagely*

A lovely, warm, inviting one

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Hell yes, moreover i continue to do so.

Thank you fabswingers.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I wanted a long service medal. And a mentioned in dispatches (forums) and a services to women certificate.

I got a green flag, a green circle and a silver button hole.

Expectation =/= reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually got a lot more than I bargained for.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"Just wondering how many of you got what you wanted from fab??"

I'm still waiting for the 50% off clunge vouchers but the free sky remote is pretty useful

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By *ustdaveHantsMan
over a year ago

chippenham


"I actually got a lot more than I bargained for. "

I was literally about to say the same thing....... I bloody love fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually got a lot more than I bargained for.

I was literally about to say the same thing....... I bloody love fab "

I got my further husband, what did you get?

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By *ikAshCouple
over a year ago

London


"Ok an abridged version, so if you are a woman or a couple most likely yes you are getting what you want from Fab. If you a bloke you probably have more chance of pissing in the queens handbag than getting laid from this website. In fact a reply to a message is a good day. Hope this saves someone reading all the previous posts ????????

Honestly I would say you are correct on that one. BUT......

if you are a absolute bomb shell of a woman on here then you are more likely to get meets from couples and men

I disagree with both of you....

I'm no bombshell and I've had meets.

And many, many single guys I know have had meets as well.

Agreed we know some incredibly successful single males on fab. Also they are not super well endowed (just average) or gym chisled in the slightest (dad bods).

What they do have it a genuine respect and understanding of the swinging scene which they embrace and have become part of, along aside great personalities and positive can attitudes.

If as a single guy you haven't got the confidence and crack to get other people to become interested in you as a person and subsequently a sexual being in real life then you highly unlikely to succeed on fab either. So many fail to realize that the same social normaties apply here as well.

In fact over messages without the benefit of body language it becomes even more important to have an interesting personality to drawn people in.

KJ

I just want to put it out there that I understand that men and women and couples get their meets and stuff like that but from what I have noticed is that I could send 5 people a paragraph saying who I am what I’m looking for and send a face picture as well and still get no shows or excuses. I do have confidence but I feel like some women get intimidated by me. I could literally remove all my pictures and then get a meet but as soon as they see my face that’s when the bs starts. I don’t know what it’s like for men on the site, but what I do know is some men on the site make it hard for women on the site. Were the man that is a decent guy wouldn’t even get a look in because of the other half of the men on the site

Sorry for rambling "

Hey, I hope you’re ok xx

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By *are damageMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Ok an abridged version, so if you are a woman or a couple most likely yes you are getting what you want from Fab. If you a bloke you probably have more chance of pissing in the queens handbag than getting laid from this website. In fact a reply to a message is a good day. Hope this saves someone reading all the previous posts ????????

I don’t agree with that. I’m one of the thousands of outnumbered men on here and to be fair I’ve got no complaints. I’ve met quite a few in different ways. Social events and more private intimate encounters. Made great friends and most importantly great memories. So men can do well on here "

Yeah but mate come on, your 6FT3 and look like you spend your life in the gym. I'm useless at picking out the hottest guys for girls who ask, but even I can tell your a high 8, minimum.

Also, my girl pointed out that in the pic with the star thaqts supposed to hide your dick, the shadows make it clear you have both length and girth.I'm sure you have pics you send when your asked anyway, ubut I'm sure more than a few have noticed when looking at you and thought... massive, thick, dick into the bargain too... get. him. in. my. throat.

Where's my mini skirt... Nah fuck it, wheres a towel ... lol

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I've always got what I wanted. Met some wonderful people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than I ever expected! Joined from sheer curiousity and gosh was that curiosity satisfied and sated! My little Fab Tribe are amazing people that I'm super grateful to know!

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

Not yet, but I know that my match is out there somewhere waiting for me. I wonder who it might be

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Met some absolutely lovely people

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By *are damageMan
over a year ago

Leeds

When me and my ex were on here as a couple we definitely got what we wanted... well, kinda... I wanted to meet more couples, she didn't.

Things started going wrong when we met a much younger couple at Quest and whilst we both hit it off with each others partners immediately, the other couple liked to spend quie a lot of time together even during a meet... which kinda defies the point of going to meet another couple to me... and both my girl and the other chicks man clearly started getting anxious/jealous of how much we were enjoying each others company... it didn't help when she blurted out "OMG, Now I understand what they mean by multiple orgasm... older guys really do know wha they're dpoing dont they, that was easily the best orgasm I've ever had in my life. Can you teach my guy to do that?"

It might not have mattered but the two of them were sat there apparently bored cos he'd lasted about 5 minutes or whatever and didn' want to eat my girl out cos... reasons?

So the two chicks had given me a double blow job, covered their faces with cum, they snogged each other, then I bent her over and banged her from behind while she used her vibe on herself, then sneakily slipped my cock in her ass and another vibe in her pussy... and a vibrating plug in me for good measure... the pair of us ended up coming simultaneously and collapsing in a heap lo.

He also wan't happy later when he realized his mrs was tossing both of us off whils my girl had fallen asleep... he stormed out of the house so with the place to ourselves this 19 year old starts giving me a fashion show and letting me take shitloads of pictures of her in her best lingerie, shortest skirts, interdespespered with me just grabbing her and face fucking her.

Yes, shit, getting a little bit of topic, try again ... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely

I’ve met wonderful people, (some who have become actual friends) & had some great adventures

No regrets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely

I’ve met wonderful people, (some who have become actual friends) & had some great adventures

No regrets."

Same here x

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"When me and my ex were on here as a couple we definitely got what we wanted... well, kinda... I wanted to meet more couples, she didn't.

Things started going wrong when we met a much younger couple at Quest and whilst we both hit it off with each others partners immediately, the other couple liked to spend quie a lot of time together even during a meet... which kinda defies the point of going to meet another couple to me... and both my girl and the other chicks man clearly started getting anxious/jealous of how much we were enjoying each others company... it didn't help when she blurted out "OMG, Now I understand what they mean by multiple orgasm... older guys really do know wha they're dpoing dont they, that was easily the best orgasm I've ever had in my life. Can you teach my guy to do that?"

It might not have mattered but the two of them were sat there apparently bored cos he'd lasted about 5 minutes or whatever and didn' want to eat my girl out cos... reasons?

So the two chicks had given me a double blow job, covered their faces with cum, they snogged each other, then I bent her over and banged her from behind while she used her vibe on herself, then sneakily slipped my cock in her ass and another vibe in her pussy... and a vibrating plug in me for good measure... the pair of us ended up coming simultaneously and collapsing in a heap lo.

He also wan't happy later when he realized his mrs was tossing both of us off whils my girl had fallen asleep... he stormed out of the house so with the place to ourselves this 19 year old starts giving me a fashion show and letting me take shitloads of pictures of her in her best lingerie, shortest skirts, interdespespered with me just grabbing her and face fucking her.

Yes, shit, getting a little bit of topic, try again ... lol "

Shouldn't this be in stories and fantasies?

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By *are damageMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Another time, the minute we walked in I asked a guy casually whas happening man, and he says... theres some gorgeous brunette getting gangbanged in there if thats yout thing. LOL, Damn Straight.

I can't remember i think she was sat on her fellas cock as guys rotated around her but as soon as I got mine out she got up and told the next guy it was h is turn, she m ade she he rubberfed up and immediately started deepthroating my dick...really nasty, choking, spitting, licking my smooth balls with it all thew way in her throat.....she did some thing with the muscles in her throat that was like tossing me off then just stopped and took it out and I was like... does she not realize I was about to blow... then she whispers in ur ear... I want u to fuck me... anybody else asks, just tell them no, what are they gonna do,I'll back you up... but please rubber up in my pussy, if you want too come in side me u'll have to do it in my ass...

MY GF was non too amused a tthis point and said "Err, and what do I do I told her.. this girl seems to have the right idea. So, fair play to her, she got on her knees, another circle formed, and before u know it the whole room was a god damn orgy, every girl just covered in cum. The original was my far the hottest though and her and her fella invited me and my girl off to a private room for some fun so that was good

Thing is, my girl (of course) always got way more action than me whenever we went. 2 nights I got no action at all. The first night I went I nearly didn't and probably wouldnt have gone back if it wasnt for some chieck dragging me into a room ten minutes before closing time saying I've spied that cock under your towel, how many women have u done with that thing tonight?

I said none, WTF.. she said, thought so, its way too hard and the ridge is rock solid... you've got loads of cum ... are you gonna shoot it all down this filthy welsh chick lays with her head dangling off the bed so theres a direct path down her throat. I put my cock in her mouth and she says. Now fuck my face. Harder! Harder! HARDER! She's frigging herself real good by this point and all her muscles started tightening to the point it somehow just squeezed the cum out of me, I didn't actuallt have a real orgasm, but it didn't matter...we took the couple home and spent the rest of the night fucking...

Since I split up with that girl, lots of girls talk about going but no joy getting one to actually come with me yet. I went a coule of times on my own and got tossed off in the hot tub ( i know... but hell, its all i got in 3 visits man...) and nearly did end up arranging something really special before I stupidly got barred over something silly.. sorted it out the next da y vut all my hard work had gone to waste by then.

I'd got 2 chinese students in the room and I've only had 1 Asian woman so far and she didn't have the body type I waqnted .. these 2 were like bleeding supermodels.... belt-like skirts...no knickers, they didnt care either, sat in the smoke room grabbing by arms and making me finger them both in front of everyone... unsurprising I managed to get a harem of guys and another 3 girls for that little party eh

Quest tomrrow, anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet im lucky to get a reply off anyone lol x

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

It's hard to find

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"When me and my ex were on here as a couple we definitely got what we wanted... well, kinda... I wanted to meet more couples, she didn't.

Things started going wrong when we met a much younger couple at Quest and whilst we both hit it off with each others partners immediately, the other couple liked to spend quie a lot of time together even during a meet... which kinda defies the point of going to meet another couple to me... and both my girl and the other chicks man clearly started getting anxious/jealous of how much we were enjoying each others company... it didn't help when she blurted out "OMG, Now I understand what they mean by multiple orgasm... older guys really do know wha they're dpoing dont they, that was easily the best orgasm I've ever had in my life. Can you teach my guy to do that?"

It might not have mattered but the two of them were sat there apparently bored cos he'd lasted about 5 minutes or whatever and didn' want to eat my girl out cos... reasons?

So the two chicks had given me a double blow job, covered their faces with cum, they snogged each other, then I bent her over and banged her from behind while she used her vibe on herself, then sneakily slipped my cock in her ass and another vibe in her pussy... and a vibrating plug in me for good measure... the pair of us ended up coming simultaneously and collapsing in a heap lo.

He also wan't happy later when he realized his mrs was tossing both of us off whils my girl had fallen asleep... he stormed out of the house so with the place to ourselves this 19 year old starts giving me a fashion show and letting me take shitloads of pictures of her in her best lingerie, shortest skirts, interdespespered with me just grabbing her and face fucking her.

Yes, shit, getting a little bit of topic, try again ... lol "

Damn, one thing I must say is that whenever I play with a couple I never, shout something “ positive” like something that may hurt the other person. And I should hope that the couple that I’m playing with thinks the same, like don’t over hype me. If that makes sense, it’s late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When me and my ex were on here as a couple we definitely got what we wanted... well, kinda... I wanted to meet more couples, she didn't.

Things started going wrong when we met a much younger couple at Quest and whilst we both hit it off with each others partners immediately, the other couple liked to spend quie a lot of time together even during a meet... which kinda defies the point of going to meet another couple to me... and both my girl and the other chicks man clearly started getting anxious/jealous of how much we were enjoying each others company... it didn't help when she blurted out "OMG, Now I understand what they mean by multiple orgasm... older guys really do know wha they're dpoing dont they, that was easily the best orgasm I've ever had in my life. Can you teach my guy to do that?"

It might not have mattered but the two of them were sat there apparently bored cos he'd lasted about 5 minutes or whatever and didn' want to eat my girl out cos... reasons?

So the two chicks had given me a double blow job, covered their faces with cum, they snogged each other, then I bent her over and banged her from behind while she used her vibe on herself, then sneakily slipped my cock in her ass and another vibe in her pussy... and a vibrating plug in me for good measure... the pair of us ended up coming simultaneously and collapsing in a heap lo.

He also wan't happy later when he realized his mrs was tossing both of us off whils my girl had fallen asleep... he stormed out of the house so with the place to ourselves this 19 year old starts giving me a fashion show and letting me take shitloads of pictures of her in her best lingerie, shortest skirts, interdespespered with me just grabbing her and face fucking her.

Yes, shit, getting a little bit of topic, try again ... lol

Damn, one thing I must say is that whenever I play with a couple I never, shout something “ positive” like something that may hurt the other person. And I should hope that the couple that I’m playing with thinks the same, like don’t over hype me. If that makes sense, it’s late"

If hyping up there lady makes them sensitive, maybe they shouldn't swing. I thought swinging was about putting there lady on a pedestal.

Either way it's there girl not ours, and the reclaim sex will be intense

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"When me and my ex were on here as a couple we definitely got what we wanted... well, kinda... I wanted to meet more couples, she didn't.

Things started going wrong when we met a much younger couple at Quest and whilst we both hit it off with each others partners immediately, the other couple liked to spend quie a lot of time together even during a meet... which kinda defies the point of going to meet another couple to me... and both my girl and the other chicks man clearly started getting anxious/jealous of how much we were enjoying each others company... it didn't help when she blurted out "OMG, Now I understand what they mean by multiple orgasm... older guys really do know wha they're dpoing dont they, that was easily the best orgasm I've ever had in my life. Can you teach my guy to do that?"

It might not have mattered but the two of them were sat there apparently bored cos he'd lasted about 5 minutes or whatever and didn' want to eat my girl out cos... reasons?

So the two chicks had given me a double blow job, covered their faces with cum, they snogged each other, then I bent her over and banged her from behind while she used her vibe on herself, then sneakily slipped my cock in her ass and another vibe in her pussy... and a vibrating plug in me for good measure... the pair of us ended up coming simultaneously and collapsing in a heap lo.

He also wan't happy later when he realized his mrs was tossing both of us off whils my girl had fallen asleep... he stormed out of the house so with the place to ourselves this 19 year old starts giving me a fashion show and letting me take shitloads of pictures of her in her best lingerie, shortest skirts, interdespespered with me just grabbing her and face fucking her.

Yes, shit, getting a little bit of topic, try again ... lol

Damn, one thing I must say is that whenever I play with a couple I never, shout something “ positive” like something that may hurt the other person. And I should hope that the couple that I’m playing with thinks the same, like don’t over hype me. If that makes sense, it’s late

If hyping up there lady makes them sensitive, maybe they shouldn't swing. I thought swinging was about putting there lady on a pedestal.

Either way it's there girl not ours, and the reclaim sex will be intense "

What I mean is don’t go overboard, like don’t say something like oh you did better than my girlfriend or you did better than my boyfriend.

I don’t know how other couples feel, but what I do know is that I don’t want to be the cause of their argument....

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