FabSwingers.com forum: If it was site rules

By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

That you had to answer every message you received, would you stay or leave?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That you had to answer every message you received, would you stay or leave?"

My inbox isn’t even that busy and I’d leave. Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that's one for the ladies and couples more than us single chaps. But, yes I'd stay, until everyone else left at least.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Replies would become meaningless and just be one word or less.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Just put filters up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That you had to answer every message you received, would you stay or leave?"

Id leave... I can't afford the extra 2 mins it would take me everyday..

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I filter out what I don’t want anyway so I think I could live with that.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"That you had to answer every message you received, would you stay or leave?

My inbox isn’t even that busy and I’d leave. Haha"

That made me smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay. I reply to all first messages anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you still be allowed to put the filters on?

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton

Does deleting and blocking not count as an answer to a message?

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"Would you still be allowed to put the filters on?"

ha no that's cheating in this scenario lol

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"Does deleting and blocking not count as an answer to a message? "
not in this one nope

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

I guess there would be alot of replies consisting of just a .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have an automatic response button.

Thank you.

Thanks, but not thanks.

GTF outta here ya weirdo!

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By *edheadjMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

"Stay. I reply to all first messages anyway. "

I feel sorry for your inbox after this comment

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"I would have an automatic response button.

Thank you.

Thanks, but not thanks.

GTF outta here ya weirdo!

Ha ha if everyone had that I think I'd have a an inbox full of the last one

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton

"Does deleting and blocking not count as an answer to a message? not in this one nope"

If gif responses were added as an option I might stay. They would help my amusement of dealing with the creepy ones

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"Does deleting and blocking not count as an answer to a message? not in this one nope

If gif responses were added as an option I might stay. They would help my amusement of dealing with the creepy ones"

Yes that would be pretty amazing wouldn't it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That you had to answer every message you received, would you stay or leave?"

For some women I think it would be a full time job to answer all messages, for myself I would deffo be on a zero hours contract lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....erm

Do we still get the block button?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave. No way would I answer some of those messages!

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"That you had to answer every message you received, would you stay or leave?

For some women I think it would be a full time job to answer all messages, for myself I would deffo be on a zero hours contract lol "

Aww but surely you get messages from interested men, you have to answer them to as it's in my imaginary rules. I have thought about it and added a gif option though for amusement purposes

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Would you still be allowed to put the filters on?

ha no that's cheating in this scenario lol"

In that case I change my mind!

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"....erm

Do we still get the block button?"

No block button that's cheating!

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

I wonder if there's a penis and scissors gif to send to the unpleasant messengers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay. I always reply to messages (eventually)

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

There would be a lot of people who wouldn't like the reply they got

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put the filters up and hide profile

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Leave. I don’t chat randomly.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"Put the filters up and hide profile

I've banned filters for this exercise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Academic, but stay..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Put the filters up and hide profile

I've banned filters for this exercise"

Cruel, heartless beast!

Can we have the option of "out of office" replies?

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"Put the filters up and hide profile

I've banned filters for this exercise

Cruel, heartless beast!

Can we have the option of "out of office" replies? "

ok I can allow that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Put the filters up and hide profile

I've banned filters for this exercise

Cruel, heartless beast!

Can we have the option of "out of office" replies?

ok I can allow that lol"

I like you lots!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stay. I reply to all first messages anyway.

I feel sorry for your inbox after this comment

My lack of personality and hideous profile work as message filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....erm

Do we still get the block button?

No block button that's cheating!"

I'll stay - some of the messages I receive, make my colouful sex life look dull...

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Can I hire a pa

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd stay

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Stay but my responses would be very short to most.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"Can I hire a pa

No you can not!! Tut tut

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I'd probably just send one word messages that just said "No" if I didn't want to

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

if there was a button that just said no...... i'd press that but if I had to write a reply i'd just leave.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Can I hire a pa

No you can not!! Tut tut

Then I’m just gonna send everyone an emoji

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Can I hire a pa

No you can not!! Tut tut

Then I’m just gonna send everyone an emoji

But which one?

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"Can I hire a pa

No you can not!! Tut tut

Then I’m just gonna send everyone an emoji

GIFs are allowed too, I'm not a monster.

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By *isspurplechesterWoman
over a year ago

Chester

i quite enjoy breaking rules so I’d stay

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Can I hire a pa

No you can not!! Tut tut

Then I’m just gonna send everyone an emoji

But which one?

For you

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Can I hire a pa

No you can not!! Tut tut

Then I’m just gonna send everyone an emoji

GIFs are allowed too, I'm not a monster."

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By *imbob85Man
over a year ago

inverness

I try to answer anyway evan if it’s a polite rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely leave. 100%.

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I'd leave. If I speak to more than two at a time I get confused

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if there was a button that just said no...... i'd press that but if I had to write a reply i'd just leave.

I'm on another site where you can do that! Its awesome. Crappy messages = press the button and job done politely

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"if there was a button that just said no...... i'd press that but if I had to write a reply i'd just leave.

I'm on another site where you can do that! Its awesome. Crappy messages = press the button and job done politely "

Well that would keep the rude not to reply brigade happy then, they can have an inbox of polite no thank yous instead

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

We’d stay but it would likely be a copy and paste message, although that’d suit the copy and paste ones we already receive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if there was a button that just said no...... i'd press that but if I had to write a reply i'd just leave.

I'm on another site where you can do that! Its awesome. Crappy messages = press the button and job done politely

Well that would keep the rude not to reply brigade happy then, they can have an inbox of polite no thank yous instead"

It would be awesome! I think the site sends a message like "This person has said thank you, but they are not interested."

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By *eandHim2019Couple
over a year ago

preston

Defo answer and have some fun

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't get that many messages so I'd stay but ye ones I wouldn't want to reply to would get a no and that's all .

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Does the person who gets a reply also have to reply?

Where would it stop?

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By *AURA6969TV/TS
over a year ago

RUGBY

I tend to reply to all of the messages as I personally believe it is rude to ignore people who have reached out to contact me.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"Does the person who gets a reply also have to reply?

Where would it stop?

Hmm no they wouldn't have to , that would be their choice I guess

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"I tend to reply to all of the messages as I personally believe it is rude to ignore people who have reached out to contact me.

How many messages do you get a day, if you say 500 I'm surprised you find time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Yes, it really wouldn't take up much of our time, 5 minutes a week if that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to reply to all of the messages as I personally believe it is rude to ignore people who have reached out to contact me.

How many messages do you get a day, if you say 500 I'm surprised you find time "

This ^^

I also think there are loads of good reasons not to reply even if you only get 5 or 50 a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would've left after about 48... I tried replying to all messages in that time and didn't sleep the whole time (luckily rather hyper at the time but ya know) I could open 1, of 100 messages,reply and have another 10, everytime I was online...fuck that shit... I would rather be considered rude now but would have left if I had carried on replying... The sex wasn't worth that!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

There is to many to answer so would b thrown out wouldn't leave of my own decision x

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"I would've left after about 48... I tried replying to all messages in that time and didn't sleep the whole time (luckily rather hyper at the time but ya know) I could open 1, of 100 messages,reply and have another 10, everytime I was online...fuck that shit... I would rather be considered rude now but would have left if I had carried on replying... The sex wasn't worth that! "

It can be very overwhelming when you first join can't it

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if I don't read them? Can't reply to something I haven't read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be very overwhelming when you first join can't it"

Definitely!

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