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"Took the dogs out, to our local park, never had a bad experience ever, and we live in a small village...so I feel completely safe. However yobs will rule, and can be found, had a group of 12 16yr-18yr olds just steal one of my dogs for a "laugh" as my other one protected me. I did stand my ground, and also phoned M, by then with me and my other dog standing her ground, we all have come home. But god what is the world coming to!!!!!! " The little bastards. They would have received a serious good hiding from me...That kind of behaviour seriously gets my blood boiling. I hope you're all okay now, including your dogs. x | |||
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"Well in a small village you will know who they are.. Go round and visit the parents and let them know what the little darlings are up too. " No unfortunately not as moved here in January! But thanks to you all, it was a pretty horrible thing, and I felt very scared & unable to defend myself. I am a strong woman, young, and never faced such an encounter. I just can't believe their pack mentality, and what they did! It has definitely put me off going out around here, which is a shame | |||
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"Took the dogs out, to our local park, never had a bad experience ever, and we live in a small village...so I feel completely safe. However yobs will rule, and can be found, had a group of 12 16yr-18yr olds just steal one of my dogs for a "laugh" as my other one protected me. I did stand my ground, and also phoned M, by then with me and my other dog standing her ground, we all have come home. But god what is the world coming to!!!!!! The little bastards. They would have received a serious good hiding from me...That kind of behaviour seriously gets my blood boiling. I hope you're all okay now, including your dogs. x" Yes I am lucky, my lab is a very good guard dog, but 12 to her and they had my other dog was not a good situation... | |||
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"Well in a small village you will know who they are.. Go round and visit the parents and let them know what the little darlings are up too. No unfortunately not as moved here in January! But thanks to you all, it was a pretty horrible thing, and I felt very scared & unable to defend myself. I am a strong woman, young, and never faced such an encounter. I just can't believe their pack mentality, and what they did! It has definitely put me off going out around here, which is a shame " | |||
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"Sorry to learn of this, unfortunately I imagine there are many here can share a tale alike. Have you reported it to the police? " No and also in answer to Laine, I am just shocked by it all, I also know the Police are pretty powerless to do anything. And even if reported, the thugs will continue. | |||
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"I would contact the local police, tell them what happened. It may not help you but could avoid it happening to others, plus if the police are local they generally have ways of finding the culprits, and parents." | |||
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"Shows how stupid they are as well, they are lucky the dogs didn't attack them! Glad you're okay xxx" Annoying thing is, had the dogs of attacked in defence then the OP would have been the one answering to the police. Hope you're all ok, and try not to let a few idiots scare you off going out. A call to the police may still be useful as they may know where these kids congregate and be able to have a word x | |||
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"Sorry to learn of this, unfortunately I imagine there are many here can share a tale alike. Have you reported it to the police? No and also in answer to Laine, I am just shocked by it all, I also know the Police are pretty powerless to do anything. And even if reported, the thugs will continue. " You may be surprised, they may already be known and this might be enough to get them into the courts. Or, this may be their first of possibly many reports on them, either way it is best to report them to the police. | |||
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"You need to report it to the police and to your local council representative. There was a group of hoods doing similar activities in my local park. I reported it and patrols were increased by the council workers and staff. the crowd of wee bastards soon got bored and moved on to probably hang round street corners and drink. But you need to make the authorities aware of this behaviour. It sounds like a horrible experience and I hope you are soon able to go back to enjoying a walk with the dogs. X" The only thing you can do is report it to the police and it will go on record. If they try and do it to someone else and the dog bites them it will add to any case brought. Its a shame youths these days can't amuse themselves in a more productive way. | |||
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"Well in a small village you will know who they are.. Go round and visit the parents and let them know what the little darlings are up too. No unfortunately not as moved here in January! But thanks to you all, it was a pretty horrible thing, and I felt very scared & unable to defend myself. I am a strong woman, young, and never faced such an encounter. I just can't believe their pack mentality, and what they did! It has definitely put me off going out around here, which is a shame " talk about it in the local pub and shops or church.. other people will know who they are..its best to bring it into the open.. dont be intimidated | |||
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"Where I was, in the local park, there is no cctv, I would report , but as I said ansmall village, so they have come from neighbouring villages, as mainly "older" people here. Re my dogs, one is a guard dog, my lab, but would never bite or harm, as yes I'd be in trouble, plus not in her nature. But she is still scary enough, the funny thing about it all, I am sat here thinking I tackled them....for my spaniel without thinking of what could have happened to me, as it didn't cross my mind. I phoned M after a short stand off, not thinking really, just I wanted our dog back! " = a strong willed woman | |||
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"You need to report it to the police and to your local council representative. There was a group of hoods doing similar activities in my local park. I reported it and patrols were increased by the council workers and staff. the crowd of wee bastards soon got bored and moved on to probably hang round street corners and drink. But you need to make the authorities aware of this behaviour. It sounds like a horrible experience and I hope you are soon able to go back to enjoying a walk with the dogs. X The only thing you can do is report it to the police and it will go on record. If they try and do it to someone else and the dog bites them it will add to any case brought. Its a shame youths these days can't amuse themselves in a more productive way. " The vast majority of District & Borough Councils have a Department/Division that will identify problem areas where anti-socialable behavior occurs and will liaise with the Police and work in tandem with PCSO's who are detailed to rural villages. If no reports are made to the Police or your local Council no case can be made to warrant developing projects to engage with the youth in your particular Village. | |||
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"that would do no good as the yobs in this country are running things and the police and parents just stand and watch " That's a defeatist attitude if ever I saw one. Not true either, police have their hands tied but with more and more incidents reported on an individual or group makes it easier for them to deal with. | |||
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"that would do no good as the yobs in this country are running things and the police and parents just stand and watch " I live in a small village and the locals all know who's kid is who so take no nonsense and tell them off if they are seen getting up to mischief. The usual warning is you better get home and tell your mum and dad what you've been up to before I see them. Works like a charm. Plus the police do know the usual suspects and will keep an eye on them when in the area or have a word with the parents, who are usually first to get their kids to 'fess up or point the blame at others. Either way the police eventually get the culprits, whether from this village or a neighbouring one. Village pride means that the incomers are shown no mercy if they were the perpetrators. | |||
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"that would do no good as the yobs in this country are running things and the police and parents just stand and watch " Parents and police need to take back control at least the parents can start a good spanking will not kill the kids my kids still get one good spanking very regular | |||
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"that would do no good as the yobs in this country are running things and the police and parents just stand and watch Parents and police need to take back control at least the parents can start a good spanking will not kill the kids my kids still get one good spanking very regular " I don't raise my hand to my kids, especially as the youngest is 6'2" and still growing and could swat me like a fly if he so wished. I did however instill in them discipline and respect. I still have respect from my kids especially the two who are now adults and I am proud to see my daughter raising my grandson in the same way. With love, mutual respect, and clearly defined boundaries, Not a slap or a spank. Sorry I see regular physical punishment as counter productive. | |||
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"that would do no good as the yobs in this country are running things and the police and parents just stand and watch Parents and police need to take back control at least the parents can start a good spanking will not kill the kids my kids still get one good spanking very regular " Got to wonder if it's working if as you say it's a very regular occurrence. | |||
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"Julie, I agree with others on here; you should report it, next time it could be worse and if the Police are aware of the issues they're more likely to do something (if there is a) next time. You also may not be the only one this happens to, but could you imagine this happening to an elderly member of your community? Also, and I'm sure it wasn't said in seriousness but I wouldn't retaliate, particularly with pepper spray or the like as I'm fairly sure it'd be you that'd end up being arrested. I was sorry to hear this happened though it makes me sad to think that kids of today think its acceptable behaviour. Hope you're ok. " +1 Terrible experience, glad you and your dogs are ok x | |||
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"that would do no good as the yobs in this country are running things and the police and parents just stand and watch Parents and police need to take back control at least the parents can start a good spanking will not kill the kids my kids still get one good spanking very regular I don't raise my hand to my kids, especially as the youngest is 6'2" and still growing and could swat me like a fly if he so wished. I did however instill in them discipline and respect. I still have respect from my kids especially the two who are now adults and I am proud to see my daughter raising my grandson in the same way. With love, mutual respect, and clearly defined boundaries, Not a slap or a spank. Sorry I see regular physical punishment as counter productive." | |||
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"Time to purchase a small cam that can record any incidents... Then you have ready made evidence if the fools try it again... Looks good on the local TV news as well! " | |||
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" No and also in answer to Laine, I am just shocked by it all, I also know the Police are pretty powerless to do anything. And even if reported, the thugs will continue. " You must report it. Whilst no one stands up to them they'll just keep getting away with it. It's typical bully psychology. Its only a small thing but it allows you to Take back the power from them. | |||
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"You really need to report this hunnie, you may be suprised the police may know them or watch out for them now, next person and dog may not be so lucky and god knows the cruelty they may inflict on say, and old person and their pet??? Please please report it. I work with local animal welfair, the thinks ive seen and heard would make you vomit. these assholes need stopping! If your dog bit them you wouldnt get in trouble coz of the situation. Plus her age and breed too. If you need achat orany advice feel free to private message me xx so glad your all safe and steer clear of that park hun xx " Can't contact you because of your filters but I am pretty sure that I would have been in trouble if my lab had bitten one of them. My lab alerted me straight away that she wasn't happy, she had her heckles up and was growling before I had even seen them. I put her straight on her lead because I had no doubt she would tackle them. My cocker I had called back to me but the bastards interjected her. My oh also said after the event that really if the yobs wanted to hurt our animals that my lab wouldn't have been able to defend herself against them all so we are lucky. | |||
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" No and also in answer to Laine, I am just shocked by it all, I also know the Police are pretty powerless to do anything. And even if reported, the thugs will continue. You must report it. Whilst no one stands up to them they'll just keep getting away with it. It's typical bully psychology. Its only a small thing but it allows you to Take back the power from them. " I am going to report it today | |||
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"Took the dogs out, to our local park, never had a bad experience ever, and we live in a small village...so I feel completely safe. However yobs will rule, and can be found, had a group of 12 16yr-18yr olds just steal one of my dogs for a "laugh" as my other one protected me. I did stand my ground, and also phoned M, by then with me and my other dog standing her ground, we all have come home. But god what is the world coming to!!!!!! " Did you get your dog back? Is it ok? The kids round here are like that but its a bit rough in dudley so you are kind of on guard for it I had a kid kick my dog once just cause his mate dared him to and we went thro as spell last year of kids shooting cats with BB guns, i had twe cats seriously injured and one killed last year thro this It is getting really bad now days, when i was a kid i wouldnt have dared acted like that in front of an adult, if they told you dad you'd be in for the high jump, now days you have a word with their parents you get just as bad abuse from them, so is there any wonder kids are the way they are | |||
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"Time to purchase a small cam that can record any incidents... Then you have ready made evidence if the fools try it again... Looks good on the local TV news as well! " I wouldn't recommend filming - I've known a situation get violent when a friend tried to film an incident outside a pub on her phone - she was assaulted, the phone smashed and no one was ever charged. A couple of subtle quick snaps an your phone cam whilst calling M would have been useful for identification purposes for the police - but never put yourself in a situation where they will be tempted to go further to prevent evidence - especially as a lone female!! I've a friend with a couple of 9 stone Rottweilers - wish I was closer J - a 'group' walk would be interesting if the scumbags are there regularly!! | |||
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"Sorry to learn of this, unfortunately I imagine there are many here can share a tale alike. Have you reported it to the police? No and also in answer to Laine, I am just shocked by it all, I also know the Police are pretty powerless to do anything. And even if reported, the thugs will continue. " What an awful thing to happen. I'm glad you're all ok, BUT its exactly this kind of attitude that let's them continue wreaking havoc on innocent people. Report it to the police. | |||
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"Well in a small village you will know who they are.. Go round and visit the parents and let them know what the little darlings are up too. No unfortunately not as moved here in January! But thanks to you all, it was a pretty horrible thing, and I felt very scared & unable to defend myself. I am a strong woman, young, and never faced such an encounter. I just can't believe their pack mentality, and what they did! It has definitely put me off going out around here, which is a shame " It might be good to go down to the local shops or pub in the village and drop it in. They will likely know who it is. But I would certainly mention it atleast to find out if it's common or not and bring other local people's attention to it. | |||
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"Took the dogs out, to our local park, never had a bad experience ever, and we live in a small village...so I feel completely safe. However yobs will rule, and can be found, had a group of 12 16yr-18yr olds just steal one of my dogs for a "laugh" as my other one protected me. I did stand my ground, and also phoned M, by then with me and my other dog standing her ground, we all have come home. But god what is the world coming to!!!!!! " Bring back the birch hope your all ok | |||
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"Took the dogs out, to our local park, never had a bad experience ever, and we live in a small village...so I feel completely safe. However yobs will rule, and can be found, had a group of 12 16yr-18yr olds just steal one of my dogs for a "laugh" as my other one protected me. I did stand my ground, and also phoned M, by then with me and my other dog standing her ground, we all have come home. But god what is the world coming to!!!!!! Bring back the birch hope your all ok " your not allowed to birch the darlings it goes against there human rights mind you i heard a story where a local youth burglar somewhere somehow tripped and fell into the back of a van where he mysteriously lost all of his cloths and was found in mid wales @ 20 miles from the nearest house one winters night | |||
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"I have reported it, so shall see what happens, but needless to say I shall not be out again after dark, well there anyway. " Good on you girl xx I'm sure the dogs wont mind being walked at a different time any way. For yours and their safety xx | |||
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"I have reported it, so shall see what happens, but needless to say I shall not be out again after dark, well there anyway. Good on you girl xx I'm sure the dogs wont mind being walked at a different time any way. For yours and their safety xx" Thanks and yes indeed, sure dogs can't tell the time lol xx | |||
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"Time to purchase a small cam that can record any incidents... Then you have ready made evidence if the fools try it again... Looks good on the local TV news as well! " This though can backfire if you're seen to be pointing it at them, they may try to force it from you. | |||
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"I can send you a recipe for home made pepper spray, that'll give the little twats something to chew on if they think about it again." Funnily enough when out walking the dog alone I find a big bag of steaming dog shit a very comforting thing to have!.... I hope these little shits are taught a lesson, and that you and the dogs are ok now. | |||
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