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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A cheeky post…

What’s your ideal weight for your sexual partner?

Do you like thinner or curvier? Advantages and Disadvantages?

I’m 12 stones and have always fantasised about a curvier woman laying over me !!!

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

They need to be thick enough set for me to feel like I won't break/squish them.

Bonus points if they're strong enough to throw my heft around a little

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By *imAndHer1989Couple
over a year ago

DONCASTER

I don't have an ideal in mind. I can't put a number on it because everyone carries weight differently anyway

I used to purely prefer slim + curvy girls and ultra tall guys with big shoulders/thighs. Now I've played with people who are totally different body shapes and sizes and I don't think I have a massive preference

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By *imAndHer1989Couple
over a year ago

DONCASTER


"They need to be thick enough set for me to feel like I won't break/squish them.

Bonus points if they're strong enough to throw my heft around a little "

This lol. I would rather feel like I'm not going to crush some poor girl or guy!

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Jebus

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

When it comes down to bumping uglies there’s more cushion for the pushin’ with a chunky maid, but on the other hand skinny birds are cheaper to keep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Skinny, wafer-thin, twiglet territory. Top marks for being suntan free and smooth chested.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Images of taking scales to a meet! Or carrying scales around a club... "excuse me, do you mind popping on the scales?....also, how old are you?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a woman with curves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When it comes down to bumping uglies there’s more cushion for the pushin’ with a chunky maid, but on the other hand skinny birds are cheaper to keep. "
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You’re a charmer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Images of taking scales to a meet! Or carrying scales around a club... "excuse me, do you mind popping on the scales?....also, how old are you?" "

Clearly a man with an overactive imagination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feelike curvy carries a lot of different definitions so ill go with thicness. If you know you know.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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"They need to be thick enough set for me to feel like I won't break/squish them.

Bonus points if they're strong enough to throw my heft around a little "

This

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

His is perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Numbers means absolutely nothing - 12stone on one person is completely different on another …… I don’t buy into the media perpetuating that there is a specific *golden * number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Numbers means absolutely nothing - 12stone on one person is completely different on another …… I don’t buy into the media perpetuating that there is a specific *golden * number "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Numbers means absolutely nothing - 12stone on one person is completely different on another …… I don’t buy into the media perpetuating that there is a specific *golden * number "

You can view my handsome profile pic. And see for yourself what 12 stones looks on moi

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I’m not exactly going to weigh them on entry to the bedroom anyway!!!! It’s attraction not size for me

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Being more like a twiglet myself I prefer a little cushioning

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

It’s not so much weight, it’s how they’re shaped.

2 girls at 5’5 and 175lbs can look very different.

I’d prefer the one with all the weight in her hips tits and bum

Avoid the one that stores it all on her stomach and chin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

12 st as an ideal..... hmmm

So say this 12st hunk of man is 4ft2....hed be huge....

Or if he was 6ft6...be like a piece of string!

Personally for me, i like a bloke.... something to grab hold of! I dont get the scales out before mounting up and riding him into battle!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People are overthinking, what was meant to be light hearted . I should of

Added BMI score and pulse rate too if we wanted to be serious

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

What a silly question, OP!

You can't qualify weight on its own - surely height comes into it? 5ft and 12st or 6ft and 12 stone? Totally different body compositions, there.

However, being a bigger girl, I much prefer a nice toned bod than someone pretty overweight, like myself. Cheeky, I know!

And anyone wanting to know my weight? Hay to tell you in private message. (Weirdos!!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What a silly question, OP!

You can't qualify weight on its own - surely height comes into it? 5ft and 12st or 6ft and 12 stone? Totally different body compositions, there.

However, being a bigger girl, I much prefer a nice toned bod than someone pretty overweight, like myself. Cheeky, I know!

And anyone wanting to know my weight? Hay to tell you in private message. (Weirdos!!) "

12 stones is my weight and I am 5’9

My profile phone is on view/ clearly a very handsome fellow if I say so myself.

Insert your own weight and do your own math.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put it this way I don’t like my woman wafer thin

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"What a silly question, OP!

You can't qualify weight on its own - surely height comes into it? 5ft and 12st or 6ft and 12 stone? Totally different body compositions, there.

However, being a bigger girl, I much prefer a nice toned bod than someone pretty overweight, like myself. Cheeky, I know!

And anyone wanting to know my weight? Hay to tell you in private message. (Weirdos!!)

12 stones is my weight and I am 5’9

My profile phone is on view/ clearly a very handsome fellow if I say so myself.

Insert your own weight and do your own math. "

I'm quite capable of doing mental arithmetic, thanks. But, as has already been pointed out, weight is not a great indicator of body type.

I'll carry on judging in my own way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What a silly question, OP!

You can't qualify weight on its own - surely height comes into it? 5ft and 12st or 6ft and 12 stone? Totally different body compositions, there.

However, being a bigger girl, I much prefer a nice toned bod than someone pretty overweight, like myself. Cheeky, I know!

And anyone wanting to know my weight? Hay to tell you in private message. (Weirdos!!)

12 stones is my weight and I am 5’9

My profile phone is on view/ clearly a very handsome fellow if I say so myself.

Insert your own weight and do your own math.

I'm quite capable of doing mental arithmetic, thanks. But, as has already been pointed out, weight is not a great indicator of body type.

I'll carry on judging in my own way "

Judging people . Oh dear me.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Looking at 2 people of the same weight you will never see a mirror image, one could work out and have far more muscle bulk than body fat or vice versa

I for one will always be bottom heavy as I’ve danced all my life, I’ve a big ass and thighs and I’m proud of them! Equally I can appreciate a slim or curvaceous woman just as I can appreciate a broad built man and a slim man…attraction comes in many forms, ideals are often unrealistic and a tad shallow x

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"What a silly question, OP!

You can't qualify weight on its own - surely height comes into it? 5ft and 12st or 6ft and 12 stone? Totally different body compositions, there.

However, being a bigger girl, I much prefer a nice toned bod than someone pretty overweight, like myself. Cheeky, I know!

And anyone wanting to know my weight? Hay to tell you in private message. (Weirdos!!)

12 stones is my weight and I am 5’9

My profile phone is on view/ clearly a very handsome fellow if I say so myself.

Insert your own weight and do your own math.

I'm quite capable of doing mental arithmetic, thanks. But, as has already been pointed out, weight is not a great indicator of body type.

I'll carry on judging in my own way

Judging people . Oh dear me. "

We all do it, OP

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Looking at 2 people of the same weight you will never see a mirror image, one could work out and have far more muscle bulk than body fat or vice versa

I for one will always be bottom heavy as I’ve danced all my life, I’ve a big ass and thighs and I’m proud of them! Equally I can appreciate a slim or curvaceous woman just as I can appreciate a broad built man and a slim man…attraction comes in many forms, ideals are often unrealistic and a tad shallow x"

And you look bloody fantastic, lovely!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Judging people . Oh dear me.

We all do it, OP "

Loud and proud about it.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"

Judging people . Oh dear me.

We all do it, OP

Loud and proud about it. "

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling


"Looking at 2 people of the same weight you will never see a mirror image, one could work out and have far more muscle bulk than body fat or vice versa

I for one will always be bottom heavy as I’ve danced all my life, I’ve a big ass and thighs and I’m proud of them! Equally I can appreciate a slim or curvaceous woman just as I can appreciate a broad built man and a slim man…attraction comes in many forms, ideals are often unrealistic and a tad shallow x

And you look bloody fantastic, lovely! "

Aw thank you Red! Back at you xx

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I have no idea what people weigh just by looking at them

As long as they're not obese or very heavily built muscle wise it's ok, I don't want to be squashed underneath someone!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have no idea what people weigh just by looking at them

As long as they're not obese or very heavily built muscle wise it's ok, I don't want to be squashed underneath someone!"

I find a person with good abdominal strength will be safe for most people. Aka planking .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of different women make me go Wayay to be fair, so that’s perfect! Probably not the answer you wanted OP but a silly answer to a silly question.

I’m 16 half stone and six foot i won’t say I’m better than a Guy the same the same height but a different weight. As long as I can lift them and compatibly hold them in my arms while kissing and more then that’s ideal.

But OP I can lift a lot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some people just don’t read the opening thread.

Just read and take it for what it is

To many vocal people adding their own assumptions. Why ?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't have an ideal weight for a partner. I probably wouldn't find extremes on either side attractive but that's as far as it goes.

I think advantages/disadvantages depend on what you find attractive really. Curvier people can be as flexible. Maybe not easier to throw around unless you're strong. Thinner people might work better with my curves. I'm not sure. I don't spend too long thinking about thinner/curvier, I see them as people and don't have fantasies based on size (unless we're talking about hand size).

I can't be arsed to make this a cheeky response so I'll chuck this at the end, , job done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea what a partner would weigh.. I like strong guys that are tall and could pin me down.

I am extremely heavy and actually been offered money to sit on blokes lol

my body type is not for the faint hearted haha

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