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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Friendly reminder ladies or those with a vagina/cervix to get your smear test. I’m just off for mine. 5 mins of discomfort vs potential cancer.

Don’t put them off. I did and needed treatment. Hoping this one is all clear.

Also for ladies of a certain age get those mammograms too!x

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

All up to date here - good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope all goes well x

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Fingers crossed for you x

My last smear I declared on Facebook I'd just been fingered by a lovely lady

I clarified the scenario to raise awareness as you are now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All up to date here - good luck xx"

Ahh well done. The things we have to go through! I’m sure this one will be ok. Well I hope anyway x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

All up to date here, I hope your results come back all clear OP.

And even if you're not an old dear, you can still check your boobs for any changes/irregularities.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fingers crossed for you x

My last smear I declared on Facebook I'd just been fingered by a lovely lady

I clarified the scenario to raise awareness as you are now

Hahahaha sounds like something I’d do! I just think that it’s so important. I put mine off and had to have treatment. Jade Goody died at my age! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All up to date here, I hope your results come back all clear OP.

And even if you're not an old dear, you can still check your boobs for any changes/irregularities. "
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So true xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hope all goes well x"

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh crap, I need to arrange mine and get a repeat urine screen at the same time.. Thanks for the reminder !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh crap, I need to arrange mine and get a repeat urine screen at the same time.. Thanks for the reminder ! "

You’re welcome. Exactly why I put the post up. Good luck. Sure you’ll be ok. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my to do list in front of me and need to add both as I'm overdue. Thanks for the reminder!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got my neg letter yesterday. For someone who has had hundreds on internal exams and then eventually recoiled and refused anymore it took alot of guts to finally get mine done. I didn't feel a thing at all, not sure what I was worried about at all!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Got my neg letter yesterday. For someone who has had hundreds on internal exams and then eventually recoiled and refused anymore it took alot of guts to finally get mine done. I didn't feel a thing at all, not sure what I was worried about at all! "

That’s what I was like, I have trauma around examinations due to past experiences and stuff but I figured that it’s 5 mins and it could save my life so have to get it done. I wanted to be under GA for my treatment as I found the biopsies so traumatising but I was a big brave girl and got it done with just local. That was 3 years ago so this is my next routine smear, so I am hoping this one is ok. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wonder how much of an increase in treatment there will be as during covid they won’t routinely doing smears and I expect it’ll have had an impact.

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

Wow thanks just reminded me to chase up my results from mine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

See how important word of mouth is. I’ve reminded a few of you, if you then remind your friends and so on and so forth. Power in numbers. X

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Friendly reminder ladies or those with a vagina/cervix to get your smear test. I’m just off for mine. 5 mins of discomfort vs potential cancer.

Don’t put them off. I did and needed treatment. Hoping this one is all clear.

Also for ladies of a certain age get those mammograms too!x"

What age ?

They are stopped when you reach a certain year.

Always seemed odd to me. At a time in life when your body starts to fail they stop the check ups.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Friendly reminder ladies or those with a vagina/cervix to get your smear test. I’m just off for mine. 5 mins of discomfort vs potential cancer.

Don’t put them off. I did and needed treatment. Hoping this one is all clear.

Also for ladies of a certain age get those mammograms too!x

What age ?

They are stopped when you reach a certain year.

Always seemed odd to me. At a time in life when your body starts to fail they stop the check ups."

They only start at 25. So that’s weird xx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"See how important word of mouth is. I’ve reminded a few of you, if you then remind your friends and so on and so forth. Power in numbers. X"

People need reminding. After the Covid year and more people have got out of the swing of things.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Friendly reminder ladies or those with a vagina/cervix to get your smear test. I’m just off for mine. 5 mins of discomfort vs potential cancer.

Don’t put them off. I did and needed treatment. Hoping this one is all clear.

Also for ladies of a certain age get those mammograms too!x

What age ?

They are stopped when you reach a certain year.

Always seemed odd to me. At a time in life when your body starts to fail they stop the check ups.

They only start at 25. So that’s weird xx"

It is weird. I just re checked and smears stop at 65 and boob screening at 71 but you can have a mammogram if you want one every three years but they wont be sending to remind you

AND .... and it's a big AND on the NHS website itself ......

If you are 71 or over you are more at risk of getting breast cancer than a younger woman. This is because the risk of getting breast cancer increases with age. About 1 in 3 of all breast cancers occur in women aged 71 or over.

Yet they don't call you for screening

Maybe the oldies are 'dispensable'.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Friendly reminder ladies or those with a vagina/cervix to get your smear test. I’m just off for mine. 5 mins of discomfort vs potential cancer.

Don’t put them off. I did and needed treatment. Hoping this one is all clear.

Also for ladies of a certain age get those mammograms too!x

What age ?

They are stopped when you reach a certain year.

Always seemed odd to me. At a time in life when your body starts to fail they stop the check ups.

They only start at 25. So that’s weird xx"

I looked into this as I had abnormal cells removed years ago when I was about 26. My daughter is 24. The nurse said the reason they wouldn’t do it under 25 is risk of miscarriage is higher apparently.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Friendly reminder ladies or those with a vagina/cervix to get your smear test. I’m just off for mine. 5 mins of discomfort vs potential cancer.

Don’t put them off. I did and needed treatment. Hoping this one is all clear.

Also for ladies of a certain age get those mammograms too!x

What age ?

They are stopped when you reach a certain year.

Always seemed odd to me. At a time in life when your body starts to fail they stop the check ups.

They only start at 25. So that’s weird xx

I heard that it’s to do with the fact that younger woman’s cells are still changing and when you hit 25 they’ve matured so unlikely to give a false positive result. That was what they told me when I wanted one early anyway. Annoying because at 26 I needed treatment so if they’d done it sooner I might not have x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Friendly reminder ladies or those with a vagina/cervix to get your smear test. I’m just off for mine. 5 mins of discomfort vs potential cancer.

Don’t put them off. I did and needed treatment. Hoping this one is all clear.

Also for ladies of a certain age get those mammograms too!x

What age ?

They are stopped when you reach a certain year.

Always seemed odd to me. At a time in life when your body starts to fail they stop the check ups.

They only start at 25. So that’s weird xx

It is weird. I just re checked and smears stop at 65 and boob screening at 71 but you can have a mammogram if you want one every three years but they wont be sending to remind you

AND .... and it's a big AND on the NHS website itself ......

Yet they don't call you for screening

Maybe the oldies are 'dispensable'. "

That is actually quite shocking.

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

Sorry to hear you both have problems with this procedure too. I’m similar… despite telling whichever nurse or doctor (male or female, neither listen) that it can’t be done in the surgery, they all seem to want to try to prove me wrong. After 3 or 4 different doctors or nurses have all had a (lengthy, painful and unsuccessful) pop at it, my GP has to refer me to my local hospital day surgery unit to have it done under sedation.

Every. Single. Time.

Why they can’t just write it up on my notes and save them wasting their (and their patients) time, I really don’t know. It’d also save me a heck of a lot of continued pain and stress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only just had my first one at the age of 32 after pushing out a few kids, my nerves got the better of me which is so silly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had mine recently.

Got to have a cervical pylop removed.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Fingers crossed for your all clear.

I wish they did manograms at 40, would help a lot more people catch it earlier

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Up to date with mine, they found another issue while I was having it which was good as I got it referred and sorted out.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I wonder how much of an increase in treatment there will be as during covid they won’t routinely doing smears and I expect it’ll have had an impact. "

I had my smear in April 2020, smack bang in lockdown 1. They weren't stopped everywhere and they weren't supposed to stop either. This time, the nurse couldn't find my cervix

Last time, they put my knickers in the sink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fingers crossed for your all clear.

I wish they did manograms at 40, would help a lot more people catch it earlier "

I agree, i've been to the breast clinic for lumps 3 times now, all turned out to be fine thankgod but then I walk out feeling like im a drain on the nhs.I wish we could just have regular screening, it would really put my mind at ease, I literally hate my boobs, i'm too scared to touch them incase O find something else now.

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral

"Friendly reminder ladies or those with a vagina/cervix to get your smear test. I’m just off for mine. 5 mins of discomfort vs potential cancer.

Don’t put them off. I did and needed treatment. Hoping this one is all clear.

Also for ladies of a certain age get those mammograms too!x

What age ?

They are stopped when you reach a certain year.

Always seemed odd to me. At a time in life when your body starts to fail they stop the check ups.

They only start at 25. So that’s weird xx

It is weird. I just re checked and smears stop at 65 and boob screening at 71 but you can have a mammogram if you want one every three years but they wont be sending to remind you

AND .... and it's a big AND on the NHS website itself ......

Yet they don't call you for screening

Maybe the oldies are 'dispensable'. "

It's because people over 71 probsbly won't die of the disease so technically you're over diagnosing and therefore potentially treating them with aggressive treatments unnecessarily. You can still request screening though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope all goes well !

Remember ladies you can ask for a smaller speculum if you find it difficult too! Hands under the bottom can make it more comfortable …..

For those that really struggle you can also insert the speculum yourself !

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I hope all goes well !

Remember ladies you can ask for a smaller speculum if you find it difficult too! Hands under the bottom can make it more comfortable …..

For those that really struggle you can also insert the speculum yourself !

I have a disability that means I can't push up with my leg to lift my bum off the bed and I have a prolapsed uterus. My last smear was 10mins of the nurse fishing around to find my cervix. Not pleasant.

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

Oh yeah, mine must be due soon

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I hope all goes well !

Remember ladies you can ask for a smaller speculum if you find it difficult too! Hands under the bottom can make it more comfortable …..

For those that really struggle you can also insert the speculum yourself !

Did all of the above today. Minus the self insert, nurse said it really helps when a woman knows her body. I told her I’m tilted slightly and my cervix likes to hide. Saved her poking around. Was done in 5 mins and she had a trainee with her.

Now just waiting the results x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a good reminder, thank you. Hope your test goes well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have looked after ladies who have had what’s sounds like a similar disability- you can also use a wedge (some doctors surgeries have them ) to help tilt the pelvis back to make the cervix more reachable , or even ask if they have a pillow ?

They really should be more hot on ensuring it isn’t a distressing / faffing process for everyone but also ensuring that women with disabilities don’t feel put off attending due to reasons such as your own !

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

ALL Up to date here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mammogram was clear, but. I’ve got to go for a colposcopy next month after my smear x

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"My mammogram was clear, but. I’ve got to go for a colposcopy next month after my smear x "

Same here but hard to explain but I could have put money on that I would have something not quite right with the results

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My mammogram was clear, but. I’ve got to go for a colposcopy next month after my smear x "

I did a few month back because of abnormal cells. Nothing found in there. Smear test next year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My mammogram was clear, but. I’ve got to go for a colposcopy next month after my smear x

Same here but hard to explain but I could have put money on that I would have something not quite right with the results "

Yes, I had a gut feeling too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My mammogram was clear, but. I’ve got to go for a colposcopy next month after my smear x

I did a few month back because of abnormal cells. Nothing found in there. Smear test next year."

Good to hear x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Up to date with smear due next year.

Even with the checks and all clears it is important you know your body, do regular checks and spot any differences. 6 weeks after an all clear mammogram I discovered a 3cm lump, things can develop very quickly.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Smear and mammogram are up to date. Very important stuff.

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By *idsCouple1Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

Thank you for the reminder! I really must book mine in..

Hope all is well with you OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had the all clear last week. One bit of me in working order at least.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Got mine next month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was due my smear test last year but it never happened because of Covid. Got my letter in late July this year and my appointment in August so up to date now x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just had my results thankfully all negative.

Hopefully you lovely ladies will have negative results. X

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Just had my results thankfully all negative.

Hopefully you lovely ladies will have negative results. X"

Excellent news!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had my results thankfully all negative.

Hopefully you lovely ladies will have negative results. X"

Mine came back neg too

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I have mine booked in for in two weeks. Had a mammorygram a few weeks ago and I'm grateful it came back negative.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just had my results thankfully all negative.

Hopefully you lovely ladies will have negative results. X

Mine came back neg too

Yay!!! Go us x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm up to date and let my social media posses know I've had it in the hope that all the ladies have theirs.

They found something not quite right last time. With that and abnormal bleeding, I've had biopsies and an MRI and I'm seeing a consultant next week about treatment for a pre-cancerous condition. This would never have been detected had I not gone to see the nurse in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Friendly reminder ladies or those with a vagina/cervix to get your smear test. I’m just off for mine. 5 mins of discomfort vs potential cancer.

Don’t put them off. I did and needed treatment. Hoping this one is all clear.

Also for ladies of a certain age get those mammograms too!x"

Great reminder.

After having CIN3 cells removed a couple of years ago I never miss another smear test.

Believe me, those treatments are not nice. Smear each and every time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Friendly reminder ladies or those with a vagina/cervix to get your smear test. I’m just off for mine. 5 mins of discomfort vs potential cancer.

Don’t put them off. I did and needed treatment. Hoping this one is all clear.

Also for ladies of a certain age get those mammograms too!x

Great reminder.

After having CIN3 cells removed a couple of years ago I never miss another smear test.

Believe me, those treatments are not nice. Smear each and every time"

Yes I had CIN3 also. Had the loop excision. Not fun. Definitely take a smear test over that any day. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm all clear and up to date. Very important reminder

we look after our looks.. let's look after what is on the inside too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had my results thankfully all negative.

Hopefully you lovely ladies will have negative results. X"

Great news

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending you and all your ladyparts good thoughts..

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