FabSwingers.com forum: My sister wants us to take her to a swingers club

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My sister, (she’s single), discovered we were swingers and wants us to take her to a swingers club.

We can’t get our heads around this.

What would you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her to join fab and have someone else take her

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I'd take her! She's obviously curious and at least she knows she'd be safe with people she knows around rather than going on her own or with a random she may not know properly

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

You could take her on the understanding that it would be just a visit to gauge any interest. Dress sexily but not too revealing, show her around, introduce her to people if the opportunity arises. Stay and have a drink, then leave her there if she feels comfortable,or all leave together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my sister was single I said I would take her to a swingers club

I dont know that I could have walked around naked with her or been in the vicinity of she found any action though. Luckily she found a new boyfriend so it never came to anything.

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By *jekimMan
over a year ago

Wigan

Well if she is comfortable enough to ask you why nit take her but not alone make sure she can do her thing an you can yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And have her possibly play with people you've played with before that then tell her.

Or have someone tell you in future that they did things with your sister too... Ewww

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I would sugest her to join me

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"And have her possibly play with people you've played with before that then tell her.

Or have someone tell you in future that they did things with your sister too... Ewww

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton

"My sister, (she’s single), discovered we were swingers and wants us to take her to a swingers club.

We can’t get our heads around this.

What would you do? "

Does she fully understand that if she comes with you, what she will see of you and your partner and that you will see of her

I would guess she likes the idea of going to a club and doesn't want to go alone but hasn't really thought what would happen through if you were the two of you to accompany her

She may change her mind if she fully understood, or at least you will know she understands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And have her possibly play with people you've played with before that then tell her.

Or have someone tell you in future that they did things with your sister too... Ewww

With three sisters all close in age going out, we were used to a bit of overlap. Beginning to think that may not be normal then

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

At most clubs single ladies enter either free of charge, or a very nominal entrance fee compared with single guys and couples, so it won't cost much to take her along to one that you are members of, and who knows, she might just find it as addictive as the rest of us do once we cross over the line, and push a few boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And have her possibly play with people you've played with before that then tell her.

Or have someone tell you in future that they did things with your sister too... Ewww

With three sisters all close in age going out, we were used to a bit of overlap. Beginning to think that may not be normal then

Has anyone ever commented/compared to you? They will probably have said something to someone.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I could take my sisters ( if they were single ) , same as I took several of my vanilla besties ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, it's a wee bit strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd take her. I don't really see an issue xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd take her... perhaps agreeing that your hubby/wife was 'out of bounds'

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I'd definitely take her. You can give her some advice, make sure she is ok.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

How do you feel about it, OP? The relationship you have with your sister is an important factor. If you feel uncomfortable, don't take her. If she starts going to the same club as you it could end up awkward. If you are fine with what she and you can potentially see of each other then why not?

I know I would never go with my brother, but that's because he's a total cockwomble. I don't know how things are between you too.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd take her, with some rules agreed in advance. Especially for hers and your comfort and potentially having some privacy.

I'd also validate her reasons, so it's not like visiting a zoo

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Get one of me single male friends I knew to take her!

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

....On a different night I wasn't going on! I'd go to a different club too!

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By *orestguy28Man
over a year ago

Glos

"I'd definitely take her. You can give her some advice, make sure she is ok."

I’ll drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My sister, (she’s single), discovered we were swingers and wants us to take her to a swingers club.

We can’t get our heads around this.

What would you do? "

Take her and if you need a plus 1 give me a shout

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

Take her, I took my brother to a club as he wanted to explore the bi night.

Ground rules agreed before (we split the club in half and agreed to not share space in anyway) then had a laugh about the night on the way home!

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Send her down to the Midlands & she can go to the one near me!

I've never been either....

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

I'm just curious,which part of the couple is she the sister of?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Let's flip this on its head.

Is a bloke taking his brother to a club weird?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s up to you and what you feel comfortable with in yourself - you have to think about yourself too! However I think that if she’s going to go - better with you than with a stranger she doesn’t know x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd take her! She's obviously curious and at least she knows she'd be safe with people she knows around rather than going on her own or with a random she may not know properly

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

"My sister, (she’s single), discovered we were swingers and wants us to take her to a swingers club.

We can’t get our heads around this.

What would you do? "

Are you sure she don’t secretly want to play with you and your hubby

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By *illy123789Man
over a year ago

bracknell

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By *illy123789Man
over a year ago

bracknell

"Let's flip this on its head.

Is a bloke taking his brother to a club weird?"

I ended up “accidentally” going to a swingers night with my brother years ago… he was a brand manager for a soft drinks company and had the right to do spot inspections on nightclubs that stocked the brand… he and I were out one night and he did a spot check on a particular club and it happened to be running a swingers night… after our initial shock we had a great night… we played very separately but joined up at the bar periodically to talk about what we’d been up too… it was not as weird as you might think; we both had a very good night. I’m guessing the qualm in the original question though is really the presence of your hubby with your sister and how that needs to be agreed to be out of bounds…

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Don't see a problem with it. The scene is great, why wouldn't you want to introduce your sister? And I can totally understand her wanting to go with you guys first time for safety and reduces anxiety. A club is more than just a sex place it's a social place. I think you need to set a few ground rules first to make sure you don't see or come in contact with each other in a way that'd make you sick. Likewise rules if she was to continue going alone afterwards. You wouldn't be the first siblings/relatives on the scene.

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

How did she find out??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The females sister.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"My sister, (she’s single), discovered we were swingers and wants us to take her to a swingers club.

We can’t get our heads around this.

What would you do?

Are you sure she don’t secretly want to play with you and your hubby"

That's a bit of a leap isn't it?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Steer clear of the gloryholes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are your main concerns? I don't really see anything wrong with it? Would be safer to go with you than on her own?

I think with a few ground rules you'd be fine?

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