FabSwingers.com forum: Gents....sex on offer....or not......

By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

Evening gents

If you happened to be kindly invited to an organised social event with a not so posh lady, would you be happy with the opportunity of company with the lady or would you not bother to make the effort and arrangements if no sex was on offer?

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

It would be a great way to spend an evening

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

"Said event is in the Leeds area so any northern gents, don't be shy."

Ah, I thought it was hypothetical! I’m a bit far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being invited to an organise social event kind of implies straight away that no sex was on offer.

Personally I think it would be a lovely way to spend any evening with someone and make new friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds great

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton

What's the event? Can I wear my tux?x

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"Said event is in the Leeds area so any northern gents, don't be shy.

Ah, I thought it was hypothetical! I’m a bit far"

It's a hypothetical question too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Said event is in the Leeds area so any northern gents, don't be shy.

Ah, I thought it was hypothetical! I’m a bit far"

Ooops so did I

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By *he FAB Social - MCRCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester

This would be a good one for the many who always state they ‘darent go on their own’.

Leeds social events are always good nights though.

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"Said event is in the Leeds area so any northern gents, don't be shy.

Ah, I thought it was hypothetical! I’m a bit far

Ooops so did I

It is hypothetical too, very interested to know gents honest opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Evening gents

Yeah. Of course. Better than sitting at home.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I have great evenings socially... went to a gig last weekend with someone I'd been chatting with but never met before ...I'm happy to met people..not necessarily for sex

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"What's the event? Can I wear my tux?x"

Yes, yes you can!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"This would be a good one for the many who always state they ‘darent go on their own’.

Leeds social events are always good nights though. "

Precisely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would as it would be a great way to meet new people and enjoy their company.

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"I have great evenings socially... went to a gig last weekend with someone I'd been chatting with but never met before ...I'm happy to met people..not necessarily for sex

Hope the gig was good too as well as the company

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By *racknellboy1971Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

I treat any socials as just that. I never have expectations, so if anything happens, it’s a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's sex

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By *hill44Man
over a year ago

hinckley

Yeah sounds good to me I've met a few couples for a social conversation topics are great while your in a pub people overhearing it

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton

"What's the event? Can I wear my tux?x

Yes, yes you can!

Are we arriving by limo?

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

I would love an opportunity, hypothetical or otherwise, to have a drink and a chat. Never any expectations other than that. Especially if it's the initial meet and I would be soooo nervous anyway and on my best behaviour.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I have great evenings socially... went to a gig last weekend with someone I'd been chatting with but never met before ...I'm happy to met people..not necessarily for sex

Hope the gig was good too as well as the company "
certainly was ... erasure at the O2...and she was lovely company

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"What's the event? Can I wear my tux?x

Yes, yes you can!

Are we arriving by limo?

Nahhhh you'd have to perhaps slum it in a taxi

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By *he FAB Social - MCRCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester

You know. A little bit related. The amount of messages we get daily asking if ‘they can just have sex anybody’ when they haven’t read the profile to see it’s a social event and when it’s explained STILL ask how many ladies are going is laughable

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Social ls with nice people are God, so yes we'd go for it.

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By *ustfun1000Man
over a year ago

hanwell

Hi I’m a little more mature than you prefer but as a social it’s great to mingle and socialise with different people xx

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton

"What's the event? Can I wear my tux?x

Yes, yes you can!

Are we arriving by limo?

Nahhhh you'd have to perhaps slum it in a taxi

I'm sure we could manage that. Are you joining me in dressing up to the nines?

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"You know. A little bit related. The amount of messages we get daily asking if ‘they can just have sex anybody’ when they haven’t read the profile to see it’s a social event and when it’s explained STILL ask how many ladies are going is laughable "

Some people are only capable of thinking with their genitals unfortunately. The dimwits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a little unfair that folks assume that a guy will always have sex on his mind, or work to change a social situation sexual

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"Evening gents

I enjoy the socialising meeting people.. if it was just sex I'd have left this site years ago

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By *he FAB Social - MCRCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester

"I think it's a little unfair that folks assume that a guy will always have sex on his mind, or work to change a social situation sexual"

A lot do though. Plans are often cancelled when some hear there’s no sex on the agenda as this is apparently a ‘sex site’ after all

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"I think it's a little unfair that folks assume that a guy will always have sex on his mind, or work to change a social situation sexual"

I totally agree

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"I think it's a little unfair that folks assume that a guy will always have sex on his mind, or work to change a social situation sexual

I totally agree

some people have no concept of browsing, just like shopping on a Sunday, when the shop opens early, but the tills won't open up for another 30 mins.

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By *1c4yMan
over a year ago

stourbridge

"Evening gents

''Me too I'd much rather make friends than have sex'' ....

Maybe Facebook is more for you....

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By *ustfun1000Man
over a year ago

hanwell

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By *he FAB Social - MCRCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester

It’s nice to see that some can appreciate there’s more to the lifestyle than just trying to seek sex. Refreshing to see

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By *elsh-guyMan
over a year ago

The land of the Dragon and loads of sheep

I would do the event sex or no sex.

Might be a sex sit were on. But it's not all about that.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I would do the event sex or no sex.

Might be a sex sit were on. But it's not all about that.

Swingers site.... but it's still not all about sex.

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Social meets are a great way to get to know people. I love a social meet, even though its been months since I had one

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By *elsh-guyMan
over a year ago

The land of the Dragon and loads of sheep

"I would do the event sex or no sex.

Might be a sex sit were on. But it's not all about that.

Swingers site.... but it's still not all about sex."
haha OK you got me ill give you that one. I was close enough lol.

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"I would do the event sex or no sex.

Might be a sex sit were on. But it's not all about that.

It's a swingers site, at least that's how we view it. If it was all just about sex only we would seek specific sites/people just for sex only.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"Evening gents

I enjoy social events esp if good company, banter, wine & chicken wings are involved haha

the sex is just a bonus I could do with or without

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Yeah, I am a better talker than fucker anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Evening gents

I'd be more than happy with the company. Not every event on here has to lead to sex, I'd just be grateful of a good day/night out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's a little unfair that folks assume that a guy will always have sex on his mind, or work to change a social situation sexual

A lot do though. Plans are often cancelled when some hear there’s no sex on the agenda as this is apparently a ‘sex site’ after all "

I think I'd be more tempted to cancel if sex WAS on the agenda

Perhaps an odd thing to say on a swingers site, but knowing that I will very likely to be having sex at a given time on a given date, days or weeks in advance leaves me stone dead cold

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By *untimes6969Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Nothing better than getting out for a social - who knows where it might lead? Meeting new people is always interesting, go with the flow and enjoy the experience for what it is - few drinks and some craic, what’s not to like!!

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Why not?

It's good for your mental health & theirs too! Especially if you ar single. Covid reminded us about this!

Not everythibg's about jumping their bones ya know.

Conversation, drink, food?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop hiding, it's just a social...

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Personally I’d be happy to make the effort and go chat laugh fun socialising. All sounds good to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would make just as much effort as usual. It’s a swingers site, not a sex site x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had the time I'd happily go for a social only

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Thats an interesting question, I'd guess that the majority would be happy just to go to a fun party and socially mingle with everyone

As long as honest mutual boundaries are set in place early enough, its a fun thing to do

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"Yeah, I am a better talker than fucker anyway."

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By *orfun8181Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Evening gents

I would be happy to go and have gone on/to many social events, great time out and never know who you might meet and what it may set you up fot in the future. Life is far to short to miss opportunities to make friends

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Stop hiding, it's just a social... "

You can't see me. I'm in ninja mode

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

I'd be happy with the company of a lady and the opportunity to get to know her and to learn about new friends hopefully leading to more socials and quality time in her company building up to any fun pleasure

It's never a given

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Evening gents

I would happily accept an offer to a social event like this, as opposed to visiting a club as a single guy. I feel people will be more open to interacting with a single guy at a social event, where no sex is involved, because that pre-supposed assumption of the guy on his own is only there to get his dick wet (so should be avoided), is out of the equation

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’d love to get dressed up and go to a social event with a lady. I love good company. If she got some funny stories then we would get on well. More to life than sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d still go for the free food.

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