FabSwingers.com forum: What's your huge turn-off when you open other people's profiles

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's your huge turn-off when you open other people's profiles

(Some of mine)

Poor hygiene one of my biggest turn off

Profiles with alot of different meets all playing bareback scares me

Too many playing verifications... I don't mind too many social verifications!!

Profiles with alot of different pictures of a lady's private parts covered in cum all the time.

Big asked to play bare

Ladies and gents What's your turn off point !!

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Close up pics

I’m not a gynaecologist ffs

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

None

I don't judge

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Pictures of anyone smoking

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Top knots and flip flops

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Close up pics

I’m not a gynaecologist ffs

That’s not what you told mw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are so many things to turn me off

The biggest

are nasty clunge pics

which look as hygienic and looked after as roadkill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guys profiles where you can see more of the women they've fucked than them.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Bum holes especially gaping ones

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Close up pics

I’m not a gynaecologist ffs

That’s not what you told mw

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Bum holes especially gaping ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face pics then blabber in the bottom box that they're discreet.. I think someone is telling porkies or don't realise you lose everything you put on the Internet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty finger nails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If their profile pic is of them getting shafted, it's generally an instant turn off.

Also, If there's orgy/gangbang photos in their profile. Threesome photos are fine, but when they're being shafted three ways from Sunday, it's an instant 'ok cool cya later'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Close ups of wide open Vulva with cum all over it…..

Photos of erect cocks over a toilet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If their profile pic is of them getting shafted, it's generally an instant turn off.

Also, If there's orgy/gangbang photos in their profile. Threesome photos are fine, but when they're being shafted three ways from Sunday, it's an instant 'ok cool cya later'

Such a way with words ahah! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If their profile pic is of them getting shafted, it's generally an instant turn off.

Also, If there's orgy/gangbang photos in their profile. Threesome photos are fine, but when they're being shafted three ways from Sunday, it's an instant 'ok cool cya later'

Nooooo, I'll have to change mine then. Although it doesn't look like I'm sat with a cock in my pussy - right?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

There's definitely certain kinds of profile text that let me know we won't get along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback pics unless a couple,

Dirty/messy backgrounds or toilets

Dirty fingernails in pics

Cock pics at 3000 different angles or with items to compare to.

They’re the main ones that annoy me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dirty finger nails

Yessss

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Kettering

"Dirty finger nails

Yessss"

I saw a man on the tube the other day. Designer suit, expensive shoes, not a hair out of place but his finger nails were full of black crap! Either he was the worlds best dressed mechanic or he was a dirty bastard !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If their profile pic is of them getting shafted, it's generally an instant turn off.

Also, If there's orgy/gangbang photos in their profile. Threesome photos are fine, but when they're being shafted three ways from Sunday, it's an instant 'ok cool cya later'

Nooooo, I'll have to change mine then. Although it doesn't look like I'm sat with a cock in my pussy - right? "

No you don't have to change a thing. It's your preference, and you're right, it doesn't look that way, which is why I said it generally is a turn off. There can be tasteful pics, like yours. It's all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dirty finger nails

Yessss

Eewwwwww men can get manicures these days!

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By *idsCouple1Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

Yep, dirty fingernails..

Or just general ‘dirt’ within their photos (background mess, stains on bedding etc)

Also, photos that are staring directly into the slit of a mans dick! Vom.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Most commonly it's actually if the profile is too bare.

I don't often see profiles with x-rated content described by many above, to be fair, but wouldn't be that keen on it myself unless it is done aesthetically.

I do discount profiles with a series of cock pics straight away. Why have so many? They all look the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just profiles with the word "Daddy" mentioned anywhere on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any pictures with a toilet in them, stand in the shower or bath for fucks sack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hairy balls.

Unkept situations.

Cum pics.

Just a series of dic pics.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Inconsistencies.

If the collar doesn't match the cuffs when it comes to pics and bio and it's obvious they don't practice what they preach.

Eg. Shy and reserved but have gynae pics

Selective but have had 8 meets in the last 7 days.

Etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gaping anything

Cum dripping out

Bareback photos

Lots of action shots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally what makes me hit the back button is statuses!

Anything about milking, sucking, ANYONE free today, draining, can accommodate now or desperate to lick a pussy

Bye Hen.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Photos of poorly maintained boilers or sullied radiators put me right off.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Any profile which has lots of close ups of genitals or says they are drug friendly, is not for me.

Lack of information, inconsistent information, text language, lack of punctuation ... I could go on but I won't

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

There are things that are not for me so I would move on by. The way a profile is written, an arrogant edge for instance, certain styles of photos and if what we are looking for is not compatible.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Pic wise. Cum pics just turn my stomach. And single profiles with other people in the pics. Instant delete. And anything gaping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No effort

Negativity

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’m not sure about a turn off but if they have that ridiculous ‘legal disclaimer’ on their profile then I know that they won’t be the type of person/people for me. Text speak and and awful lot of ranty *donts* also have that same effect on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics of women on a single man's profile.

More than 4 veris showing.

Public face pics.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Male profiles with more pics of other women's bits than him, so you can't even make him out...

Couple pics with no pics of the man on the profile.

Some really crude usernames or references to Mr gray /50 shades.

Nasty status updates about other people on here or constantly saying I'm horny/bored/need a Bj.

Lack of any effort to fill out any information ie ask/fill in later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 20/10/21 18:15:59]

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Inserted vegetables, my food hygiene goes into over drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Multiple close up boob shots. Hairy fannys.

multiple action shots with different partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Untidy houses, petty I know…

But when someone takes a picture in a mirror and you see dirty clothes or just general crap all over the floor or bed!

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Multiple close up boob shots. Hairy fannys.

multiple action shots with different partners.

Hairy fannys made me laugh more than it should

I agree on the action shots

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By *GentlemanMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

The condition of their room! Some scruffy buggers around

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Random close up pictures of either sex

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By *r Discreet 75Man
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL

Icebergs ... all head shots then they let a body shot in and its huge... I'm not against big boned girls but it's just not for me

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By *idsCouple1Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

"Icebergs ... all head shots then they let a body shot in and its huge... I'm not against big boned girls but it's just not for me "

I’m a woman with a little extra.. and this made me laugh

Never heard of that expression before!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Inserted vegetables, my food hygiene goes into over drive "

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Forgot one use of term heavy Cummer or big load

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Icebergs ... all head shots then they let a body shot in and its huge... I'm not against big boned girls but it's just not for me "

Those slim faced bitches

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Quite like icebergs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Icebergs ... all head shots then they let a body shot in and its huge... I'm not against big boned girls but it's just not for me "

Lettuce be kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pics over the toilet! And single male profiles with varies women in them. I always imagine half the ladies have no idea their pictures are on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pictures where a desperate trip to the GU clinic is order.

I mean seriously what type of person puts pictures of there gentials with clear potential STI issues it beggars belief.

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

Blokes who only have cock pics, from every possible angle.

Gaping arseholes.

Cream pie pics.

Filthy backgrounds.

Single male profiles that you can only see enough of them to know they're not wearing a rubber, the rest is a previous meets arse.

Probably more.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Bad pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bum holes especially gaping ones

Bwaaahhh isn't this horrid. What guy thinks their gross bum hole is nice to luck at through a shit photo. Makes me ill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll be honest, some of the pictures are fucking disgusting. I saw a picture of a fanny with a lock over it the other day. And as for one with cum all over it ...

I like it when guys show a bit of class and discretion. Some of the forumite pics, on the other hand, are really so good

You can’t beat a nice bum, chest, torso, strong arms ...

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Icebergs ... all head shots then they let a body shot in and its huge... I'm not against big boned girls but it's just not for me

Lettuce be kind

Romaine calm

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Some great inspiration for new photos here!

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

Dirty messy background in their pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Close up pics

I’m not a gynaecologist ffs

Pretty much

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

"Blokes who only have cock pics, from every possible angle.

Gaping arseholes.

Cream pie pics.

Filthy backgrounds.

Single male profiles that you can only see enough of them to know they're not wearing a rubber, the rest is a previous meets arse.

Probably more.

This!

And vulgar user names!

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Poor grammar. It's like having someone shit in your pillow.

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By *r Discreet 75Man
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL

"Icebergs ... all head shots then they let a body shot in and its huge... I'm not against big boned girls but it's just not for me

I’m a woman with a little extra.. and this made me laugh

Never heard of that expression before! "
yes an iceberg is bigger under the water

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By *r Discreet 75Man
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL

[Removed by poster at 20/10/21 19:05:16]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pierced nipples

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By *r Discreet 75Man
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL

"Icebergs ... all head shots then they let a body shot in and its huge... I'm not against big boned girls but it's just not for me

Those slim faced bitches

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my friend loves Big boned girls each to their own x

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By *r Discreet 75Man
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL

"Icebergs ... all head shots then they let a body shot in and its huge... I'm not against big boned girls but it's just not for me

Lettuce be kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's your huge turn-off when you open other people's profiles

(Some of mine)

Poor hygiene one of my biggest turn off

Profiles with alot of different meets all playing bareback scares me

Too many playing verifications... I don't mind too many social verifications!!

Profiles with alot of different pictures of a lady's private parts covered in cum all the time.

Big asked to play bare

Ladies and gents What's your turn off point !!

How can you tell from looking at a profile! That they have bad hygiene?

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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

If there is a one line profile. If you can't be bothered to give a bit of information then it's a no

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

"Blokes who only have cock pics, from every possible angle.

Gaping arseholes.

Cream pie pics.

Filthy backgrounds.

Single male profiles that you can only see enough of them to know they're not wearing a rubber, the rest is a previous meets arse.

Probably more.

This!

And vulgar user names! "
ah yes and lad, or boy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does and don'ts specifically aimed at single guys.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Demanding profiles or ones that have made zero effort and have something like full in later or ask me what you want to know.

Pics some are not appealing to me if they aren't I just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most commonly it's actually if the profile is too bare.

I don't often see profiles with x-rated content described by many above, to be fair, but wouldn't be that keen on it myself unless it is done aesthetically.

I do discount profiles with a series of cock pics straight away. Why have so many? They all look the same."

Same can be said about pussy's and boobs.

Different sizes,shapes,colours, etc lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just profiles with the word "Daddy" mentioned anywhere on them "

Most are fakes.and blaggers ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Overwhelming amounts of cock pictures and nothing else.

Messy backgrounds in photos.

“Sydney university”

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Very explicit close ups of vaginas, especially if they are oozing cum.

Profile where lots of words are in capital letters, we don't do shouty profiles.

Demanding profiles

1001 cock pics of all different angles

We could go on.....

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Picture of big gaping or dripping holes.

Profiles that say no fatties obviously (yet profiles saying this still approach us

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Profiles that express negative views towards drinkers. Nothing wrong with not drinking as long as your not the sort who looks down on us who do like a drink.

No kissing (we both love to kiss)

Couples profiles that only want the women to play together and men watch or want absolutely no physical contact with each others partners at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Picture of big gaping or dripping holes.

Profiles that say no fatties obviously (yet profiles saying this still approach us

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Profiles that express negative views towards drinkers. Nothing wrong with not drinking as long as your not the sort who looks down on us who do like a drink.

No kissing (we both love to kiss)

Couples profiles that only want the women to play together and men watch or want absolutely no physical contact with each others partners at all."
you joking people have words like no fatties on their profiles???

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Action photos, with no protection and multiple women

Untidy background

Nude but left their socks on

Unflattering selfies

Cum shots

Toilet in the background

Kids bedrooms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty feet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Action photos, with no protection and multiple women

Untidy background

Nude but left their socks on

Unflattering selfies

Cum shots

Toilet in the background

Kids bedrooms

Your list dose match most of my turn off too

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"What's your huge turn-off when you open other people's profiles

(Some of mine)

Poor hygiene one of my biggest turn off

Profiles with alot of different meets all playing bareback scares me

Too many playing verifications... I don't mind too many social verifications!!

Profiles with alot of different pictures of a lady's private parts covered in cum all the time.

Big asked to play bare

Ladies and gents What's your turn off point !!

Your profile would not stand a chance with us..

Picture the first line of text but it's Your profile and we do not have any fucks to give maybe stop looking for fault and look for positives...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics that are 5 or 6 years old.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Pics that are 5 or 6 years old."

Hahaha we still look the same

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By *lackwoodGentMan
over a year ago

Pontllanfraith

"For those that don't understand this notice, Fabswingers is now a publicly traded entity..."

Sign me up, where can I get some shares?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same cock, different date

Pants round ankles

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

"Picture of big gaping or dripping holes.

Profiles that say no fatties obviously (yet profiles saying this still approach us

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Profiles that express negative views towards drinkers. Nothing wrong with not drinking as long as your not the sort who looks down on us who do like a drink.

No kissing (we both love to kiss)

Couples profiles that only want the women to play together and men watch or want absolutely no physical contact with each others partners at all. you joking people have words like no fatties on their profiles???

Maybe in slightly more diplomatic terms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pics that are 5 or 6 years old.

Hahaha we still look the same

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Looked at your profile sure of proving you wrong.Damn,!!well it's easier in your younger years

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Pics that are 5 or 6 years old.

Hahaha we still look the same

Looked at your profile sure of proving you wrong.Damn,!!well it's easier in your younger years

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Balls deep in a random is just an instant no for me.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Any reference to drugs, chems, 420, etc.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Really moany, don't be this, don't do this profiles.

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By *allguynowMan
over a year ago

durham

Dirty looking untidy bedrooms and houses. Gaping vaginas dripping cum, shit stained bum holes and cracks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance

It shows in their profiles

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's your huge turn-off when you open other people's profiles

(Some of mine)

Poor hygiene one of my biggest turn off

Profiles with alot of different meets all playing bareback scares me

Too many playing verifications... I don't mind too many social verifications!!

Profiles with alot of different pictures of a lady's private parts covered in cum all the time.

Big asked to play bare

Ladies and gents What's your turn off point !!

Your profile would not stand a chance with us..

Picture the first line of text but it's Your profile and we do not have any fucks to give maybe stop looking for fault and look for positives..."

100 % I agree with you I am not every one's cup of tea which is fine..

We all like different things

Fucks ??

Faults are you sure it's my profile you looking at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's so many things I agree with here. Even the poorly maintained boilers

Mostly though (not in order)

Daddy talk.

Cum dripping out.

Anything gaping.

To much winging about what you're not looking for.

Anyone with a bigger cock than me

Anyone with a profile as bad as mine

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Close up pics

I’m not a gynaecologist ffs

This^ ...fairly sure we all did biology at school

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Really moany, don't be this, don't do this profiles. "

... would you please stop whinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's your huge turn-off when you open other people's profiles

(Some of mine)

Poor hygiene one of my biggest turn off

Profiles with alot of different meets all playing bareback scares me

Too many playing verifications... I don't mind too many social verifications!!

Profiles with alot of different pictures of a lady's private parts covered in cum all the time.

Big asked to play bare

Ladies and gents What's your turn off point !!

Your profile would not stand a chance with us..

Picture the first line of text but it's Your profile and we do not have any fucks to give maybe stop looking for fault and look for positives..."

Is called a forum where people exchange ideas. From the answers, answered by other people trust me we have learnt one or two things like you have said it's my profile and no one is forcing anyone to answer or say anything.. its not fault finding its educational.. from things that have been said people will go back to check there profiles and see where improvements can be done..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's your huge turn-off when you open other people's profiles

(Some of mine)

Poor hygiene one of my biggest turn off

Profiles with alot of different meets all playing bareback scares me

Too many playing verifications... I don't mind too many social verifications!!

Profiles with alot of different pictures of a lady's private parts covered in cum all the time.

Big asked to play bare

Ladies and gents What's your turn off point !!

Thing is, regardless of whether we judge someone for having lots of "play" verifications, at least they're being more up front than most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guys with various pics of his conquests

Messy rooms in pics

The sentence "I wont bite, well unless u ask me to"

A million cock pics all from different angles

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"What's your huge turn-off when you open other people's profiles

(Some of mine)

Poor hygiene one of my biggest turn off

Profiles with alot of different meets all playing bareback scares me

Too many playing verifications... I don't mind too many social verifications!!

Profiles with alot of different pictures of a lady's private parts covered in cum all the time.

Big asked to play bare

Ladies and gents What's your turn off point !!

Your profile would not stand a chance with us..

Picture the first line of text but it's Your profile and we do not have any fucks to give maybe stop looking for fault and look for positives...

Will they really? I certainly wouldn't change anything on my profile based on a forum thread.

If everyone was to adjust their profile to suit what others think should be on it what does that say about them?

Much better leaving then as they are because it's a truer reflection of the person.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"What's your huge turn-off when you open other people's profiles

(Some of mine)

Poor hygiene one of my biggest turn off

Profiles with alot of different meets all playing bareback scares me

Too many playing verifications... I don't mind too many social verifications!!

Profiles with alot of different pictures of a lady's private parts covered in cum all the time.

Big asked to play bare

Ladies and gents What's your turn off point !!

Thing is, regardless of whether we judge someone for having lots of "play" verifications, at least they're being more up front than most.

Now, I see play verifications as a positive.

They not only turn up but get past the social stage.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"Top knots and flip flops

Came to say flips flops. I even say in my profile lol

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By *1c4yMan
over a year ago

stourbridge

"What's your huge turn-off when you open other people's profiles

(Some of mine)

Poor hygiene one of my biggest turn off

Profiles with alot of different meets all playing bareback scares me

Too many playing verifications... I don't mind too many social verifications!!

Profiles with alot of different pictures of a lady's private parts covered in cum all the time.

Big asked to play bare

Ladies and gents What's your turn off point !!

All of that and a passive aggressive bio.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"What's your huge turn-off when you open other people's profiles

(Some of mine)

Poor hygiene one of my biggest turn off

Profiles with alot of different meets all playing bareback scares me

Too many playing verifications... I don't mind too many social verifications!!

Profiles with alot of different pictures of a lady's private parts covered in cum all the time.

Big asked to play bare

Ladies and gents What's your turn off point !!

How many meet veries is too many? And the number shown the profile could be 8 but that could be over 10 years, how do you know if the are social or not if they dont publish the details?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's your huge turn-off when you open other people's profiles

(Some of mine)

Poor hygiene one of my biggest turn off

Profiles with alot of different meets all playing bareback scares me

Too many playing verifications... I don't mind too many social verifications!!

Profiles with alot of different pictures of a lady's private parts covered in cum all the time.

Big asked to play bare

Ladies and gents What's your turn off point !!

How do you know they have poor hygiene just by looking at their profile ?

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Close up pics

I’m not a gynaecologist ffs

This^ ...fairly sure we all did biology at school

Well, until I dropped it in my options.

Still, it pays to study the roadmap.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Close up pics

I’m not a gynaecologist ffs

This^ ...fairly sure we all did biology at school

Well, until I dropped it in my options.

Still, it pays to study the roadmap."

You didn't miss out on sex ed though surely

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By *ecrets4everCouple
over a year ago

Where do I start….

- cigarettes

- jewellery on men

- children’s paraphernalia in the background

- ‘heavy cummers’

- drug references

- ‘will fill in later’

- self pity; “does anyone ever meet” “is anyone real” “I’m leaving”

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

No photos

Graphic photos

Just cock shots

Shorter than me

Married

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's your huge turn-off when you open other people's profiles

(Some of mine)

Poor hygiene one of my biggest turn off

Profiles with alot of different meets all playing bareback scares me

Too many playing verifications... I don't mind too many social verifications!!

Profiles with alot of different pictures of a lady's private parts covered in cum all the time.

Big asked to play bare

Ladies and gents What's your turn off point !!

Thing is, regardless of whether we judge someone for having lots of "play" verifications, at least they're being more up front than most.

I honestly understand and appreciate what you saying most of our verifications don't show the correct information or number of people we have met I for once have met more than my verification... when I say alot of verifications looking at a profile with 300+ just puts me off I don't know why but it dose

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's your huge turn-off when you open other people's profiles

(Some of mine)

Poor hygiene one of my biggest turn off

Profiles with alot of different meets all playing bareback scares me

Too many playing verifications... I don't mind too many social verifications!!

Profiles with alot of different pictures of a lady's private parts covered in cum all the time.

Big asked to play bare

Ladies and gents What's your turn off point !!

How do you know they have poor hygiene just by looking at their profile ?"

What I was meant to say profile and meet ...

So with the poor hygiene thing you can take on the background of the pictures

I have meet people that I had to cancel a meet and go back.. wearing a sexy outfit still covered in cum etc

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By *ristobaltMan
over a year ago

penryn

"What's your huge turn-off when you open other people's profiles

(Some of mine)

Poor hygiene one of my biggest turn off

Profiles with alot of different meets all playing bareback scares me

Too many playing verifications... I don't mind too many social verifications!!

Profiles with alot of different pictures of a lady's private parts covered in cum all the time.

Big asked to play bare

Ladies and gents What's your turn off point !!

Bareback scares me has bareback photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance (especially if they've winked it sent a nice message to me)

That usually results in my penis making a sad face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe not a turn off, but an instant red flag is a huge passage of text with zero punctuation! I get stressed out just attempting to read it.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Distance (especially if they've winked it sent a nice message to me)

That usually results in my penis making a sad face

...some say 'distance is no object though'???

...they've got it wrong after all

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"Really moany, don't be this, don't do this profiles.

... would you please stop whinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's your huge turn-off when you open other people's profiles

(Some of mine)

Poor hygiene one of my biggest turn off

Profiles with alot of different meets all playing bareback scares me

Too many playing verifications... I don't mind too many social verifications!!

Profiles with alot of different pictures of a lady's private parts covered in cum all the time.

Big asked to play bare

Ladies and gents What's your turn off point !!

How many meet veries is too many? And the number shown the profile could be 8 but that could be over 10 years, how do you know if the are social or not if they dont publish the details?"

You can't and I understand people have been in this beautiful lifestyle for a very long time it's just me when I see so many verifications i don't feel like messaging.. or when I see alot of bareback etc I don't judge what so ever we all like different things I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Distance (especially if they've winked it sent a nice message to me)

That usually results in my penis making a sad face

...some say 'distance is no object though'???

...they've got it wrong after all

It creates barriers. And I'd only consider it to not be a problems if she was the love of my life already x

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Looking for girl on girl fun looking for vwe men dick pics ect just a few

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's your huge turn-off when you open other people's profiles

(Some of mine)

Poor hygiene one of my biggest turn off

Profiles with alot of different meets all playing bareback scares me

Too many playing verifications... I don't mind too many social verifications!!

Profiles with alot of different pictures of a lady's private parts covered in cum all the time.

Big asked to play bare

Ladies and gents What's your turn off point !!

Thing is, regardless of whether we judge someone for having lots of "play" verifications, at least they're being more up front than most.

Now, I see play verifications as a positive.

They not only turn up but get past the social stage. "

100% true verifications can be a positive and negative at the same time.. I am talking from experience

My first account, when I had a few verifications people did not want to meet. When I had 110 verifications other people did not want to meet said I have too many meets

No I understand them because when I see 200+ most from playing I pass the account I don't know why

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By *ristobaltMan
over a year ago

penryn

Mate regardless you fuck people’s wife’s bareback u can not say that puts you off. To fuck people’s wife’s alone proves the person you are. Shithouse

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mate regardless you fuck people’s wife’s bareback u can not say that puts you off. To fuck people’s wife’s alone proves the person you are. Shithouse "

Thanks for your opinion bro

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's your huge turn-off when you open other people's profiles

(Some of mine)

Poor hygiene one of my biggest turn off

Profiles with alot of different meets all playing bareback scares me

Too many playing verifications... I don't mind too many social verifications!!

Profiles with alot of different pictures of a lady's private parts covered in cum all the time.

Big asked to play bare

Ladies and gents What's your turn off point !!

Bareback scares me has bareback photos "

Did u see my dick in side ?? But again why I'm I even replying when clearly you fake

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By *ristobaltMan
over a year ago

penryn

"What's your huge turn-off when you open other people's profiles

(Some of mine)

Poor hygiene one of my biggest turn off

Profiles with alot of different meets all playing bareback scares me

Too many playing verifications... I don't mind too many social verifications!!

Profiles with alot of different pictures of a lady's private parts covered in cum all the time.

Big asked to play bare

Ladies and gents What's your turn off point !!

Bareback scares me has bareback photos

Did u see my dick in side ?? But again why I'm I even replying when clearly you fake "

I’m not fake which I will show if wanted. Look I don’t care u fuck people’s wife’s blob or not don’t care. Just don’t say it bothers you when you clearly do it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's your huge turn-off when you open other people's profiles

(Some of mine)

Poor hygiene one of my biggest turn off

Profiles with alot of different meets all playing bareback scares me

Too many playing verifications... I don't mind too many social verifications!!

Profiles with alot of different pictures of a lady's private parts covered in cum all the time.

Big asked to play bare

Ladies and gents What's your turn off point !!

Thing is, regardless of whether we judge someone for having lots of "play" verifications, at least they're being more up front than most.

Its not judgement at all its just something that I personally find hard to contact people with alot of verifications. Just the same one someone has age limits, colour you get my point.. no judgement of any kind what so ever

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By *ristobaltMan
over a year ago

penryn

"What's your huge turn-off when you open other people's profiles

(Some of mine)

Poor hygiene one of my biggest turn off

Profiles with alot of different meets all playing bareback scares me

Too many playing verifications... I don't mind too many social verifications!!

Profiles with alot of different pictures of a lady's private parts covered in cum all the time.

Big asked to play bare

Ladies and gents What's your turn off point !!

Thing is, regardless of whether we judge someone for having lots of "play" verifications, at least they're being more up front than most.

No judgment at all. But u do fuck people bareback yes or no?

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By *ristobaltMan
over a year ago

penryn

"What's your huge turn-off when you open other people's profiles

(Some of mine)

Poor hygiene one of my biggest turn off

Profiles with alot of different meets all playing bareback scares me

Too many playing verifications... I don't mind too many social verifications!!

Profiles with alot of different pictures of a lady's private parts covered in cum all the time.

Big asked to play bare

Ladies and gents What's your turn off point !!

Thing is, regardless of whether we judge someone for having lots of "play" verifications, at least they're being more up front than most.

No judgment at all. But u do fuck people bareback yes or no? "

Don’t sit there and falsely tell ppl you are something you are not. Bad crack pal. Very bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cocks with household objects for scale

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By *ristobaltMan
over a year ago

penryn

Women who don’t have to power to leave there man, and fuck other men. Stay with there husband cause of money

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Close up pics

I’m not a gynaecologist ffs

This^ ...fairly sure we all did biology at school

Well, until I dropped it in my options.

Still, it pays to study the roadmap.

You didn't miss out on sex ed though surely

Theory? No

Practical? Yes, to ages to sort that one out.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Smokers and no kissing.

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

"I’m not sure about a turn off but if they have that ridiculous ‘legal disclaimer’ on their profile then I know that they won’t be the type of person/people for me. "

This. It does demonstrate fantastic "copy-pasta" skills, but a complete ignorance of the law. Which makes me think, "If you think this protects you, what else are you clueless about ? Safe sex ? STI mitigation ?"

Anything about 420-friendly puts us off entirely.

Poor spelling, grammar and punctuation also make us wary.

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

A cock pic, while sat on a toilet

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

A big list of dos and donts written in a bit of an arrogant way just sounds wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Face pics then blabber in the bottom box that they're discreet.. I think someone is telling porkies or don't realise you lose everything you put on the Internet. "

I think if someone says they are discreet, they imply they care about keeping your confidentiality enclosed within there own mind and not blabber mouthing, or showing pictures of you to their mates. Not that they care about there own confidentiality

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By *ristobaltMan
over a year ago

penryn

"What's your huge turn-off when you open other people's profiles

(Some of mine)

Poor hygiene one of my biggest turn off

Profiles with alot of different meets all playing bareback scares me

Too many playing verifications... I don't mind too many social verifications!!

Profiles with alot of different pictures of a lady's private parts covered in cum all the time.

Big asked to play bare

Ladies and gents What's your turn off point !!

Thing is, regardless of whether we judge someone for having lots of "play" verifications, at least they're being more up front than most.

Been blocked by this man. I hope that speaks volumes. Went through his profile and ripped to bits every statement he made earlier.

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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Statuses asking for snow ... In July!

Can't stand unrealistic expectations

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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Face pics then blabber in the bottom box that they're discreet.. I think someone is telling porkies or don't realise you lose everything you put on the Internet.

This, and won't make it clear to the whole venue you meet in what you're there for, I've heard about that happening before, possibly on the forums.

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By *ristobaltMan
over a year ago

penryn

Just everyone remember how quite this cunt went remember

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Bareback on a single profile or various women in photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications which give away too much detail or say "would recommend".

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Close-up photos of genitalia (male or female).

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

When they say they don't like lasagne.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

"When they say they don't like lasagne.

I genuinely don’t like it myself

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"When they say they don't like lasagne.

I genuinely don’t like it myself"

Nooooooooooooo.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Pics that show everything.....I like to use my imagination and unwrap my presents myself

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Dirty mirrors!

Why? What's up with Mr Sheen? (& I don't mean Charlie either or any of his relatives....!)

Dirty backgrounds. Blur them out please!

Men deep in women. Thanks I have not forgotten the mechanics! Please leave us with a bit of mystery ladies on your profile... Or is that just me?

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By *nly4funMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Close-ups of cum oozing out of holes. Eeuuww.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Untidy surroundings

Profiles that pictures are all cock pics.

Men that have straight in profile but have veri's from several men, just be honest!

Profiles the state how good they are sexually and you won't be disappointed.

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By *est Mims LookingCouple
over a year ago

Crofton

Too many dick pics.

Blurry pics.

Pics with zits.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Profiles with no verification, no pictures... Asking you to send a face pic with your first message

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

"What's your huge turn-off when you open other people's profiles

(Some of mine)

Poor hygiene one of my biggest turn off

Profiles with alot of different meets all playing bareback scares me

Too many playing verifications... I don't mind too many social verifications!!

Profiles with alot of different pictures of a lady's private parts covered in cum all the time.

Big asked to play bare

Ladies and gents What's your turn off point !!

Thing is, regardless of whether we judge someone for having lots of "play" verifications, at least they're being more up front than most.

Been blocked by this man. I hope that speaks volumes. Went through his profile and ripped to bits every statement he made earlier. "

I'm not surprised you're blocked. Well deserved. You just appeared and started angry ranting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's your huge turn-off when you open other people's profiles

(Some of mine)

Poor hygiene one of my biggest turn off

Profiles with alot of different meets all playing bareback scares me

Too many playing verifications... I don't mind too many social verifications!!

Profiles with alot of different pictures of a lady's private parts covered in cum all the time.

Big asked to play bare

Ladies and gents What's your turn off point !!

Thing is, regardless of whether we judge someone for having lots of "play" verifications, at least they're being more up front than most.

Been blocked by this man. I hope that speaks volumes. Went through his profile and ripped to bits every statement he made earlier.

I'm not surprised you're blocked. Well deserved. You just appeared and started angry ranting.

"
Don't mind him time wasters.. people like him are good at hiding behind the keyboard

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Fussy lot here

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Fussy lot here

FAB=fussy and bored?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad hygene and too many verifications x.

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

"What's your huge turn-off when you open other people's profiles

(Some of mine)

Poor hygiene one of my biggest turn off

Profiles with alot of different meets all playing bareback scares me

Too many playing verifications... I don't mind too many social verifications!!

Profiles with alot of different pictures of a lady's private parts covered in cum all the time.

Big asked to play bare

Ladies and gents What's your turn off point !!

Thing is, regardless of whether we judge someone for having lots of "play" verifications, at least they're being more up front than most.

Been blocked by this man. I hope that speaks volumes. Went through his profile and ripped to bits every statement he made earlier. "

What did you win

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Pics saying fab if you like

Like saying goes 'if you have to ask __' you know the rest

Big turn off for me

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By *ailingSwagmanMan
over a year ago

North Essex / Midlands / Southcoast

A two line profile that only has pictures with spunky cocks next to tv remotes/beer cans.

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By *scarpatMan
over a year ago

sexy town

Dick pics while sat having a shit. Move away from the toilet guys FFS.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Size queens

Stamina pedants

Smoking

Bombsite bedrooms

Leather, leather, leather, a bit more leather, leather, a drop more leather, some leather and don’t forget the leather.

People crochet / mountaineering rope accidents

A list of ‘YOU MUST’s so extensive and specific it would make Mariah Carey blush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies profile that says that they are straight but only want to meet women

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