FabSwingers.com forum: Blow job. Sex or not ?

By *arleyfatboy2019 OP Couple
over a year ago

Devon

My partner told me the other day that she doesn’t consider a blow job as sex . She said it’s just good fun and enjoys it .

How do others feel?

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I regard anything that, if you did it to children would make you a paedophile, as sex.

Call me old fashioned

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I don’t think I see it as sex either

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I regard anything that, if you did it to children would make you a paedophile, as sex.

Call me old fashioned

That’s a weird way for a mind to work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oral sex is still sex. You are using your dick on just a different hole (the mouth) x

So it’s a yes from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No - not sex for me…. Otherwise I would have had sex with a hell of a lot of people

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Its sex but not sex.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

It sort of is…..but sort of isn’t.

I am now perplexed and discombobulated and shall sit down and scratch my balls…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's such a strange one! I do count women I've been with on the bed post so to speak. But unless a guy has penetrated either hole I don't count men. Illogical I know xx

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

It's sexual activity so yeah I'd consider it sex.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"I regard anything that, if you did it to children would make you a paedophile, as sex.

Call me old fashioned

That’s a weird way for a mind to work!

The problem with semantics is that recently people dont have a baseline.

The fact that you could be arrested for doing it in public, or are a paedophile if its done with a minor, seems to me to be a reasonable baseline for defining a set act.

Its not all-encompassing however.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

If someone said did you have sex and it had just been a blow job I wouldn’t say yes we had sex.

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By *heron212Man
over a year ago

London

Bill Clinton tried to straddle this issue over 20 years ago.

And failed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its sex but not sex. "

Yes exactly x

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I consider it a sexual act but not sex. I don't count fingering as sex either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a sexual act in law.

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By *oodymonsterMan
over a year ago

Near Shrewsbury

"My partner told me the other day that she doesn’t consider a blow job as sex . She said it’s just good fun and enjoys it .

How do others feel? "

She is a keeper mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oral sex is indeed sex, it's just not fucking.

A bit like Jaffa cakes are cakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. It's sex for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oral sex is indeed sex, it's just not fucking.

A bit like Jaffa cakes are cakes

Waits for the inevitable "Jaffa cakes are not cakes..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oral sex is indeed sex, it's just not fucking.

A bit like Jaffa cakes are cakes

Waits for the inevitable "Jaffa cakes are not cakes..."

Reel them in

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

"I don’t think I see it as sex either "

Bit of an inappropriate comments don’t you think

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Of course it’s sex. Saying that sex is only a man putting his penis inside a vagina or anus completely de-legitimises all lesbian sex, and any sex where the man isn’t capable of that act.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"My partner told me the other day that she doesn’t consider a blow job as sex . She said it’s just good fun and enjoys it .

How do others feel? "

A blowjob to completion is just a sex act when you haven't the time or space for full sex.

Sucking a cock to get it hard for full sex is foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot deny nor can I confirm

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

It's a sexual act just not intercourse

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I don’t think I see it as sex either

Bit of an inappropriate comments don’t you think"

Me? How

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

It involves genitals, so yes.

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