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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering who guys playing alone on here generally prefer to meet?

1. Completely single women.

2. Hotwives that meet alone with permission.

3. Married or attached women playing discreetly.

4. Don't mind, it's not important.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably get hammered for this but married descreet. Why im not sure but it does it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married and playing away

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By *urtyGentMan
over a year ago

eastleigh

I’d say a mix of 1 and 2. I really love the hotwife dynamic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't met anyone yet but I would prefer completely single women or hotwives playing with permission. Honestly and trust are key.

Plus no angry partners finding out is a huge plus nobody news unnecessary drama

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

I don't mind, personally none of those things enhance my interest.

The individual is what does it.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

6. Anyone offering free tea and cake.

Seriously though I have no preference.

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By *iminey_cricketsMan
over a year ago

barbican

4. Because It’s their business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In order

1

3

4

2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind, personally none of those things enhance my interest.

The individual is what does it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Mr) does not matter but would rather not knowingly support/encourage cheating.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

4 - I don't mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 or 2

Don't want to get involved in the drama of 3.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number 4 for me

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

None of them enhance my interest it’s the person not there relationship status

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By *resto99Man
over a year ago

.

Number 4

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By *r.HMan
over a year ago

A gentleman never tells

Preference would be 1 or 2, I have done 3 but felt uneasy knowing after the event unfolded, less drama, more fun

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

Ladies choice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ladies choice "

So 4?

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull


"Ladies choice

So 4?"

I guess so

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Personally the ones that give me the least aggro, so I’d prefer not to meet 3.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Personally the ones that give me the least aggro, so I’d prefer not to meet 3. "

Interesting. Out of the men I’ve met the married ones are far less aggro!

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number 4,

How the individual chooses to live their life out of fab is none of my business. My meets are based on attraction, not people’s backgrounds.

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Personally the ones that give me the least aggro, so I’d prefer not to meet 3.

Interesting. Out of the men I’ve met the married ones are far less aggro! "

I guess I mean the chances of a disgruntled partner or husband turning up on my door.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I don't think we really mind. If they are with somebody else it's down to their conscience and relationship. We understand that relationships are difficult and needs are often not met.

What's more important is that we get on well and they are reliable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 or 2. No judgement but I'd like to bring pleasure to the world, not pain. And affairs tend to create pain even if it's the stress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would depend on the connection. Unlikely to meet someone cheating, but I wouldn't write the idea off. Especially for a social to find out why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1-2

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By *xmarkxx321Man
over a year ago

sittingbourne

It doesn't matter for me it's personality that counts I prefer a social first anyway...just my personal preference

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By *ookingforfun9970Man
over a year ago

manc

2 and 3 preferably

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By *ave1963BarnsleyMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

I won't knowingly play with someone who is playing away. For example, one of the ladies I play with is married but her hubby has met me a few times and is happy for me to play with her. That'fine. But if it was all secret squirrels I wouldn't want to get involved.

Honesty is everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 or 3

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Just wondering who guys playing alone on here generally prefer to meet?

1. Completely single women.

2. Hotwives that meet alone with permission.

3. Married or attached women playing discreetly.

4. Don't mind, it's not important.

Xx"

5. All of the above.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

3. They are the most genuine and reliable

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By *pectressWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian


"I haven't met anyone yet but I would prefer completely single women or hotwives playing with permission. Honestly and trust are key.

Plus no angry partners finding out is a huge plus nobody news unnecessary drama"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 and 2 for me, 3 isn't really swinging, it's cheating but role playing that scenario would be ok, I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A beautiful smile - then nothing else matters

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Probably 4 if I'm honest

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

1 or 2. I have no preferences for a partner's relationship status other than that they aren't cheating. I've had it done to me, it fucking sucks, and I wouldn't want to discover that I'm the "other guy" either.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably get hammered for this but married descreet. Why im not sure but it does it for me. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't met anyone yet but I would prefer completely single women or hotwives playing with permission. Honestly and trust are key.

Plus no angry partners finding out is a huge plus nobody news unnecessary drama

"

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By *orny_biigcockMan
over a year ago

oxford

Yeah I like sneaky public fun lol xx

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

3 for me if I’m being totally honest

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By *ohnny4playMan
over a year ago

Kinross

2 hot wife meeting with permission, with Huby present, listening in or at least aware.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No preferences, it is the lady I am interested in. Not her status or history.

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

A 2 for me. Definitely not 3 though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering who guys playing alone on here generally prefer to meet?

1. Completely single women.

2. Hotwives that meet alone with permission.

3. Married or attached women playing discreetly.

4. Don't mind, it's not important.

Xx"

Would prefer to meet single ladies , the hotwives that meet alone situation is only based on what they tell you ,they might tell you they have permission but are just lying and cheating so best avoided to wipe out all doubt , no judgement just no interest in maybe being the reason a marriage ends and the potential fallout especially if kids involved in their marriage...the ride would certainly not be worth the fall if that happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number 4. I don’t mind as it’s all a bit of fun and it’s what the mind and body needs sometimes

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By *ools1964Man
over a year ago

Swadlincote

3

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

.

I know a guy who lived locally who was on here who liked to meet married women. Town gossip was full of him being chased down the street by an angry man with a knife, I couldn't help thinking well that will be fab related then. Its all fun and games till they get found out.

For this reason I would intentionally keep to single, but the problem is a fair few lie about it.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Just wondering who guys playing alone on here generally prefer to meet?

1. Completely single women.

2. Hotwives that meet alone with permission.

3. Married or attached women playing discreetly.

4. Don't mind, it's not important.

Xx"

If I know their status, some ladies don't tell the truth, then I can make a choice.. their status is important to me

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

I like single women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One that doesn't feel the need to be under a label or designation.

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By *ames5169Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

1 or 3 for me xx

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By *elsh-guyMan
over a year ago

The land of the Dragon and loads of sheep

Single women more than anything.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

1 and 2

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"Just wondering who guys playing alone on here generally prefer to meet?

1. Completely single women.

2. Hotwives that meet alone with permission.

3. Married or attached women playing discreetly.

4. Don't mind, it's not important.

Xx"

You only need to read the forum for that. Most guys would prefer to meet an attached or married woman.

1) one its a big ego trip for them

2) NSA less likely to want anything from the just sex especially if they are attched themselves.

Makes them feel good they believe they are giving the woman something her parner can't

Its all in the forums

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Don't mind it's not important... really fancy a hot wife meet

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

I only meet for cake, so status is irrelevant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering who guys playing alone on here generally prefer to meet?

1. Completely single women.

2. Hotwives that meet alone with permission.

3. Married or attached women playing discreetly.

4. Don't mind, it's not important.

Xx"

Well 1 and 2, 3 would only meet in a club ...I mean just how discrete exactly are they?

Also though I actually enjoy a straight threesome with their partner involved...it adds to the eroticism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married and discreet xx

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

In the past, n° 4

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the replies. So after a rough count up so far, most people aren't bothered or have no preference. Following that, it's married women playing away discreetly xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the replies. So after a rough count up so far, most people aren't bothered or have no preference. Following that, it's married women playing away discreetly xx"

We need a polling function on fab, be funny to see the results!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the replies. So after a rough count up so far, most people aren't bothered or have no preference. Following that, it's married women playing away discreetly xx

We need a polling function on fab, be funny to see the results!"

Yeah I've often thought that. One of the many features this forum is missing xx

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By *oghicksMan
over a year ago

Brackley

The ones that genuinely want to meet out of all the options.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Thanks for all the replies. So after a rough count up so far, most people aren't bothered or have no preference. Following that, it's married women playing away discreetly xx

We need a polling function on fab, be funny to see the results!

Yeah I've often thought that. One of the many features this forum is missing xx"
this would be a great idea ... interactive and informative fun

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Not 3.

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By *GentlemanMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

I don’t mind any status. It’s their lives to live and not for me to judge them

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Thanks for all the replies. So after a rough count up so far, most people aren't bothered or have no preference. Following that, it's married women playing away discreetly xx

We need a polling function on fab, be funny to see the results!

Yeah I've often thought that. One of the many features this forum is missing xx this would be a great idea ... interactive and informative fun "

Definitely. And anonymous

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number 4 for me!

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

My order of preference would be 2, 1 and then 3.

Hotwives come in first as being married myself, meeting someone in the same situation is just more comfortable. Same reason I like couples.

I put married but discreet last even though the relationship component is there; I’ve no problem with their choice, it’s none of my business, but it just potentially means more complication in meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 and 2, but not 3. I don't judge, I'd just like to avoid the potential drama that could come from 3. I have friends who have experienced the fallout from 3.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

4 - I don’t want to be judged for my situation so I won’t judge anyone elses choices

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

Why is it ok for married women to meet discreetly, but if your male, married its cheating and you get slated for cheating?.....just wondering.

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

4 it doesn’t bother me too much each to their own

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"Why is it ok for married women to meet discreetly, but if your male, married its cheating and you get slated for cheating?.....just wondering. "

It is just the way it is and always has been. It is the central hypocrisy of the scene. Women are more sort after than guys, which means people are a lot more fluid in their so called ethics/judgement - simples

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By *hilltoofarMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Definitely number 4! If only I could find some...

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Why is it ok for married women to meet discreetly, but if your male, married its cheating and you get slated for cheating?.....just wondering. "

Because Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely 2 and 3.

But 3. Turns me on so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other missing information though in the question for 3 is:

A is the husband huge or a martial arts expert?

B How fast can they run?

C Are they clever enough too track you down?

This I feel is important information OP!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The other missing information though in the question for 3 is:

A is the husband huge or a martial arts expert?

B How fast can they run?

C Are they clever enough too track you down?

This I feel is important information OP!"

Let's just assume she's good at keeping it secret lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 for me, I still think 2 could offer up some drama

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere


"The other missing information though in the question for 3 is:

A is the husband huge or a martial arts expert?

B How fast can they run?

C Are they clever enough too track you down?

This I feel is important information OP!

Let's just assume she's good at keeping it secret lol xx"

Perfect - when do you need me by??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1,2,4

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"1,2,4

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Lol, surely if you pick 4 then the others are irrelevant? Or was that preferred order? Xx

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

1 or 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't matter.

I don't judge people and would never know the full story behind another person's reasons for being here.

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

i prefer single women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4

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By *olourpurpleMan
over a year ago

Waterford

1 or 2.

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