FabSwingers.com forum: What do women/men really want?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In this era of online datings where "everything" is available and "easily" reachable..what do really women/men want from women/men in websites like tis one?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

An adventure

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All sorts

To date

Someone to help them with kink

Random fuck

Fb or fwb

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Good sex with people I like.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Fun

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Love

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Lots of good sex with the right people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who cares

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Whatever is not available to them at any given moment.

A complex creature indeed.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Whatever is not available to them at any given moment.

A complex creature indeed."

A train ticket doesn't cut it

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

Men and women, or me?

Because you won't find an answer that applies to all. Except maybe respect.

As for me a connection. A mutual physical, mental, and spiritual connection. Doesn't need to be the big love but it needs to be something meaningful.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I want it all. Then I want it again tomorrow and the next day.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Cake, honesty, tea, sincerity, biscuits & someone to have a laugh with

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Whatever is not available to them at any given moment.

A complex creature indeed."

So you cane in this website not looking for something but just to give whatever they need? ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cake, honesty, tea, sincerity, biscuits & someone to have a laugh with"

Basically someone who invites you to a tea shop?! ??

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By *jsantagCouple
over a year ago

Hfd/Shrop/Worc area

Cake please!

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

"In this era of online datings where "everything" is available and "easily" reachable..what do really women/men want from women/men in websites like tis one?"

Fun

Excitement

Something different

New experiences

Variety

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Men and women, or me?

Because you won't find an answer that applies to all. Except maybe respect.

As for me a connection. A mutual physical, mental, and spiritual connection. Doesn't need to be the big love but it needs to be something meaningful. "
i am not looking for an answer to applies to all..i am just curios to see what people are looking for in here

and it's very interesting to see the variaty of answers

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Cake, honesty, tea, sincerity, biscuits & someone to have a laugh with

Basically someone who invites you to a tea shop?! ??"

That would be a great date.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Fun experiences x

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By *orfun8181Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Coffee! Right now I’d settle for a decent cup of coffee.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"Whatever is not available to them at any given moment.

A complex creature indeed.

A train ticket doesn't cut it"
but a surprise trip to Paris on the gorgeous Eurostar would surely? Most romantic city on earth.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"Whatever is not available to them at any given moment.

A complex creature indeed.

A train ticket doesn't cut it"

Are you stalking me BTW?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Get into my mind, awaken the imagination and well anything after that is just bliss

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Interesting question, do you mean in life or from fab?

From fab: to meet interesting people, to enjoy our time together.

Life: to be happy, freindship, maybe a relationship. Plus the things I've listed from fab.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Someone to flirt with me and make me feel like I’m the only person in their whole world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NSA safe fun

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By *GentlemanMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Minds to connect in turn allowing bodies to connect at a level dimension

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

To zigazig ah

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Honesty. Friendship. Affection. Cuddles.

And to be looked at like I'm the most beautiful, sexy and most desirable person he has ever seen.

Also coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going by a lot of what I observe on here it ranges from the sublime to the ridiculous to the impossible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a conversation would be nice lol

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By *lofeldMan
over a year ago

Redhill

"Honesty. Friendship. Affection. Cuddles.

And to be looked at like I'm the most beautiful, sexy and most desirable person he has ever seen.

Also coffee."

Reasonable

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

An adventure, a connection , friendship and good sex. I think I need all four for it to work.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Nothing special really, just a masochistic fuck toy!

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By *illingVicMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Just a connection. For me it’s a cerebral and adult one, others may be romantic, others friendship - but at the end of the day we’re all just looking for someone to connect with, whether it’s for 50 minutes or 50 years

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Zig-a-zig-ah?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Honesty. Friendship. Affection. Cuddles.

And to be looked at like I'm the most beautiful, sexy and most desirable person he has ever seen.

Also coffee.

Reasonable"

Nah. First 4, last one, totally reasonable. Is the pesky sentence in the middle that I'll not find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Zig-a-zig-ah?"
I'm

I said this in my head when I read the title

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here? Just to meet interesting and engaging new people.

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By *lofeldMan
over a year ago

Redhill

"Honesty. Friendship. Affection. Cuddles.

And to be looked at like I'm the most beautiful, sexy and most desirable person he has ever seen.

Also coffee.

Reasonable

Nah. First 4, last one, totally reasonable. Is the pesky sentence in the middle that I'll not find."

Well, you should at least see that when you are alone and in the act...when he's sheepishly turned up an hour late or been told his cooking is crap...maybe not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends but like the ones that actually want fwb situation, oddly hard to find anywhere these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Just a good sweaty session)

I mean fun socials and someone to connect with

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Going by a lot of what I observe on here it ranges from the sublime to the ridiculous to the impossible

You forgot the coffee...it seems like one of the leading reason ??

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

From my observations I’d say both men and women want to feel special. Not always easy to achieve as different things make ppl feel special. So listen to your ‘partner’ and know your audience. A partner shouldn’t need to be told how to make you feel special. They should want to make you feel special and take the time to know how. If they don’t take that time at the beginning of a relationship they never will and you’re with the wrong person.

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By *heonix_flamesWoman
over a year ago

Midlands

Great sex, great conversation and laughs. Ideally some kind of affection too but I know a lot of people aren’t into that here so I can do without, that’s fine

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"Good sex with people I like."

What about amazing sex with someone you dont like?,

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Honesty and all your time and attention..

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Honesty "

Good luck with that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A connection... The ability to be me

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I joined the library for the books.

I joined the Brownies for the unifirm.

I joined FAB for the sex.

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

"Cake, honesty, tea, sincerity, biscuits & someone to have a laugh with

Basically someone who invites you to a tea shop?! ??

That would be a great date. "

It really would be, wouldn’t it? Even something similar could be fun, like a posh afternoon tea, or some basic, back-to-your-childhood, retro seaside pick n mix, for example. I really am struggling to think of anyone that might be able to offer that, though.

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

A good cup of tea and a yummy cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally for both of us it would be people who we can engage with socially and intimately. They would be able to understand and deliver what we want out of a meet and vice versa.

At this particular moment we'd settle for someone who knows how to sort a turbo position sensor fault on a 2016 Peugeot Boxer van without having to replace the whole turbo.

Life doesn't always deliver what we want though

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