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By *andsome_Chef88 OP Man
over a year ago

London/Milton Keynes

What is your favourite topic to talk about when getting to know someone on here.

sex is obviously the one of the main topics but I am looking for more indepth posts

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Food!!!

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Films

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

A town near you perhaps

I don't have a favourite. I talk about so much random stuff and depends on the person I'm talking to.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

Music

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone knew last week and we pretty much spent an hour and a half talking about motorbikes

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Anything and everything I can talk hind legs of a donkey I'm told x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met someone knew last week and we pretty much spent an hour and a half talking about motorbikes

Good for you! There is some much more to this lifestyle than sex.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I once went out for dinner with someone, and they accidentally got me talking about abandoned places and local history. I didn't realise how long I'd been banging on – with photos and references – until the staff started closing up the restaurant around us.

Needless to say, there was no second date. Oops.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

"Food!!!"

Same here!

Food, wine, restaurants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything. Tho I love to hear about them and their life experiences more than anything.

I want to know what makes them who they are x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Music, food, film, ideal holiday destinations, our impressions of Fab, jobs, etc etc.

Last guy I met, we had messaged for a week or so beforehand. The chat was dynamite and my kids were always asking why I was guffawing with laughter at my phone.

Then we met and for me, the all-elusive chemistry just wasn’t there. I hate it when that happens!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

A town near you perhaps

"Anything. Tho I love to hear about them and their life experiences more than anything.

I want to know what makes them who they are x"

This is such an interesting topic. Some people have lad some very interesting lives.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I don't have a favourite. I talk about so much random stuff and depends on the person I'm talking to.

Very much this.

I usually don't bring topics up in a way that narrows it down in to conversational categories, just wherever the conversation naturally leads to.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Just random stuff to be honest.

Daft chats which enable you to slowly get to know someone.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

No set topics just let the conversation flow naturally

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Just random stuff to be honest.

Daft chats which enable you to slowly get to know someone. "

Same here

Sometimes it works, sometimes they glaze over and sometime they run for the hills!

The ones who get it, get it

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Just random stuff to be honest.

Daft chats which enable you to slowly get to know someone.

Same here

Sometimes it works, sometimes they glaze over and sometime they run for the hills!

The ones who get it, get it

The ones who don't get it usually call me a weirdo

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Man I met last week actual said in verri I was easy to talk to! Think was a polite way of saying I dont shut up! Pmsl!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Me and C talked about anything and everything.

We chatted for about 6 weeks, throughout the day before we met so the conversations were varied.

We formed our foundations before we saw each other face to face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Music film food travel

Deepest darkest secrets

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Food, films, holidays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally depends on the person. If you are interested in them and vice versa the convo should hopefully take care of itself.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"No set topics just let the conversation flow naturally "

Yep this basically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually talk enough for both

With every guy I've dated I think I've played Top 5. What are your top five books / TV shows whatever. I just keep that one up my sleeve if someone I am talking to is a bit shy

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

For others we meet we like to get to know them. We find talking about everything other than sex gives us a better understanding than talking about sex.

Although if we are playing a scenario out then sometimes it’s no conversation with C, just between me and them…

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Everything and anything, I talk to people on here as if I'd met them in the pub.

I don't care what you want to talk about as long as you're interested in what it is and I can sense that.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Everything and anything, I talk to people on here as if I'd met them in the pub.

I don't care what you want to talk about as long as you're interested in what it is and I can sense that.

Fancy a pint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everything and anything, I talk to people on here as if I'd met them in the pub.

I don't care what you want to talk about as long as you're interested in what it is and I can sense that.

Well-said. Conversation often seems a lost art on here.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"Everything and anything, I talk to people on here as if I'd met them in the pub.

I don't care what you want to talk about as long as you're interested in what it is and I can sense that.

You’re both so easy to talk to

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Everything and anything, I talk to people on here as if I'd met them in the pub.

I don't care what you want to talk about as long as you're interested in what it is and I can sense that.

Fancy a pint

With you of course my dear

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Everything and anything, I talk to people on here as if I'd met them in the pub.

I don't care what you want to talk about as long as you're interested in what it is and I can sense that.

Well-said. Conversation often seems a lost art on here. "

Isn't it just, nothing wrong with a nice chat in my opinion

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Everything and anything, I talk to people on here as if I'd met them in the pub.

I don't care what you want to talk about as long as you're interested in what it is and I can sense that.

You’re both so easy to talk to

You are one of my favourite people on here to chat with. We've spoken about everything and anything. You've been a proper mate the last year, thank you x

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Dogs and travel.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Books, food, tv, travel, books, walking, yoga, oh and books.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"Food!!!"

Amen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like getting to know people, I am interested in people and definitely don't want to go straight into talking about sex.... in fact that has a strong probability of putting me off.

NBVN x

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

Godstone

Talk about anything except politics and religion but generally listen to the other person and find what subjects they are enthused about.

Then food, travel and the scene/interests.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"Everything and anything, I talk to people on here as if I'd met them in the pub.

I don't care what you want to talk about as long as you're interested in what it is and I can sense that.

You’re both so easy to talk to

You are one of my favourite people on here to chat with. We've spoken about everything and anything. You've been a proper mate the last year, thank you x "

Ah don’t thank me,it’s been my pleasure. And the feelings mutual,you’re both so nice and easy to get on with and a good laugh too.

Oh and you have nice boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just conversation and see where it goes. I’ll talk about almost anything so making conversation is not difficult.

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

Godstone

Lots of people on the forums (as generally they seem fairly articulate conversation wise) i'd love to talk with more about random stuff but it's others finding the time and not making assumptions that you have only one goal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most random one i ever had was the difference in outcome of using various combinations of laundry powder/liquid to fabric conditioner!

I still chat to him to this day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything and everything, Space, Hell, the gutter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like talking about most things. Something that they're interested in is a good start!

I avoid politics, religion and covid. None of it interests me and it's something that can get heated depending on what the other person feels about it all.

I've had conversations with people about breastfeeding (in a none kink way), career and exams.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

The Russo-Sino war

Always a hot topic

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Anything random… conversation should naturally flow. Although I’m not a prolific chatter so will often bugger off and not look at my inbox for days. Sex chat is a huge turn off for me. I’ll have that conversation when I’ve met someone and if I fancy them and not before.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"Anything random… conversation should naturally flow. Although I’m not a prolific chatter so will often bugger off and not look at my inbox for days. Sex chat is a huge turn off for me. I’ll have that conversation when I’ve met someone and if I fancy them and not before."

You’re bloody right about your inbox! I’ve sent 247 messages and you haven’t even replied!

Anyway I’m going shopping for daps,peace out moron

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like getting to know people, I am interested in people and definitely don't want to go straight into talking about sex.... in fact that has a strong probability of putting me off.

NBVN x"

Oh me too - "what are your kinks then" stops the convo dead for me.

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By *es_ivebeen_hereb4Man
over a year ago

I'm always around here

"What is your favourite topic to talk about when getting to know someone on here.

sex is obviously the one of the main topics but I am looking for more indepth posts "

Once people find out what I do for a job/business the conversation usually goes in that direction as they wanna know all the little secrets

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

You’re bloody right about your inbox! I’ve sent 247 messages and you haven’t even replied!

Anyway I’m going shopping for daps,peace out moron

Sozzz. You know I’m crap with messages!!! Have fun Mong

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Food, politics and general chit chat...Sex talk puts me right off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like getting to know people, I am interested in people and definitely don't want to go straight into talking about sex.... in fact that has a strong probability of putting me off.

NBVN x

Oh me too - "what are your kinks then" stops the convo dead for me.

Yeah absolutely. I can practically feel my foof put an out of order sign up

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Travel where they’ve been and where they want to visit, Food, music tastes, interests and Outlook on life. I like to get to know someone and connect

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Travel, adventure and food, I think you can tell a lot about a person by where they’ve chosen to go and what they choose to put in their mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like talking about most things. Something that they're interested in is a good start!

I avoid politics, religion and covid. None of it interests me and it's something that can get heated depending on what the other person feels about it all.

I've had conversations with people about breastfeeding (in a none kink way), career and exams. "

This ^^^ except the breastfeeding

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

TV shows, films, exercise, food

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I tend not to talk about sex as much as you'd expect on here. While I love the doing of it, the discussion of it I find repetitive and a bit dull after a while.

Previous experiences are different - tell me about your first crush, when you last had your heart broken, the best holiday romance you ever had. Don't tell me how you're going to destroy my vagina with your massive throbbing tool.

I'd much rather know about someone's life, the good meaty values and beliefs stuff right through to the inconsequential everyday stuff. People are endlessly interesting and I absolutely love it when someone has a passion they can geek out about.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I dont talk about sex, my view is those that do are all talk and no action

I like to talk about food. You simply don’t hear enough about food

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Cheam

Anything geeky always gets me in the mood… especially when talking about wands

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By *GentlemanMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Food!

Tells me a lot about individuals.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

ABC

Anything but Covid

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