FabSwingers.com forum: Menopause

By *not123 OP Couple
over a year ago

sp1

So how does it affect your sex life some say the loose their sex drive, I've found mines got stronger.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

mines buggered off completely.

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By *not123 OP Couple
over a year ago

sp1

"mines buggered off completely. "

Mines driving me mad lol

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I haven’t had an issue with my sex drive, I’ve just been incredibly hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven’t had an issue with my sex drive, I’ve just been incredibly hot

You do look incredibly hot aswell

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I haven’t had an issue with my sex drive, I’ve just been incredibly hot

You do look incredibly hot aswell

thank you

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By *onny-2008Man
over a year ago

Manchester/ Lancaster

My wife has been off it for 7 years and still getting sweats and flushes

so I feel sorry for all you ladies and the hubbies too

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By *urvytreatWoman
over a year ago

somewhere nice

Definitely increased my sex drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven’t had an issue with my sex drive, I’ve just been incredibly hot

You do look incredibly hot aswell

thank you "

Your welcome

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By *racknellboy1971Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

It must be the word of the day. Got a company email today about it

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By *onny-2008Man
over a year ago

Manchester/ Lancaster

here here ,

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"It must be the word of the day. Got a company email today about it

It’s World Menopause Day

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Mines higher than ever

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

RIP my libido

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I'm peri and hrt has made me horny as hell

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By *not123 OP Couple
over a year ago

sp1

"Definitely increased my sex drive "

Thank god its not just me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My libido is higher than it's ever been. I'm wary of taking HRT because I like feeling like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been a bumpy ride emotionally and physically but I have started HRT and starting to feel like my old self.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going through forced menopause to settle hormones down... im hornier now than ever before and hopefully long may it continue

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By *not123 OP Couple
over a year ago

sp1

"My libido is higher than it's ever been. I'm wary of taking HRT because I like feeling like this. "

I've started on hrt for sleep n sweats sex drive got even higher lol

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

The tiredness affected my sex drive rather than the menopause itself.

I also have the added complications of thyroid problems that took a bit of settling down.

Now on HRT and I'm feeling better than I have for years. No more hot flushes either.

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By *not123 OP Couple
over a year ago

sp1

"It's been a bumpy ride emotionally and physically but I have started HRT and starting to feel like my old self. "

I had a few bad weeks no sleep and emotional and brain fog but 3 weeks into hrt and heads Has cleared, tears have stopped back to happy me but sex drive been there constantly.

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By *est Mims LookingCouple
over a year ago

Crofton

It's totally screwed up.

Sometimes it's like i can't get enough. Other times it's don't touch me. At times it hurts like hell so than it's an instant stop. I hope it gets straighten out soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only suffer with hot flushes now day and night. Can be a pain in the daytime. As far as sex goes I'm wetter than ever and hornier and wanting it as much if not more than I did in my 20s..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My libido is higher than it's ever been. I'm wary of taking HRT because I like feeling like this.

I've started on hrt for sleep n sweats sex drive got even higher lol"

Yikes. I am struggling with everything but anxiety and brain fog are the worst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m on hrt and mines very high. Just the brain fog and fatigue that’s annoying x

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Can't get enough sex at the moment, and consequently stripping off due to the hot sweats!

Mrs NC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am menopausal and on HRT, thankfully my libido hasn't been affected.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m on hrt and mines very high. Just the brain fog and fatigue that’s annoying x "

Not helped with HRT?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My doctor told me three years ago that I'm peri-menopausal but don't have any symptoms. I've been told that it's because I'm still on the mini pill x

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

I'm just beginning. My libido is off the scale and has been for a while.. More than in my 30s for sure. I've always been very sexual and sensual.

The difficulty is that my periods are all over the place and sometimes extended. It's hard to manage but it doesn't affect my capacity for pleasure and sex.

I have an understanding partner who isn't phased which very much helps and I'm very appreciative of that! My body and mind are still responding to and eminating desire!!

It doesnt make me want to pursue new connections much though, unless they are mature and deep enough to be able to flow with the realness of me in this phase of my life.

It scares me to think of losing my want for sexual connection and adventure... But the realms of pleasure and intimacy are there to be experienced and explored.. I won't be giving up that anytime soon.

Sending love to us women and our cycles.

Let's keep talking about it. It's good for us all! Thanks for asking OP

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

It hasn’t affected my libido ( only covid affected that lol )

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I found it has increased my sex drive too!

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

To be fair other than the usual symptoms it’s been ok. My sex drive has gone up and I find parts of my body are way more sensitive. Although where I used to get very wet (TMI SORRY) before I don’t as much as I did so a little lubricant is helpful although I’m still as excitable lol

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By *eandher4and9Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Sex drive not a problem but so bloody hot and sweaty x

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By *eandher4and9Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Love a nice spooning but so so hot he sweats from my back xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m on hrt and mines very high. Just the brain fog and fatigue that’s annoying x

Not helped with HRT?

No, but I’m happy enough that it stopped the night sweats. My fatigue is getting better due to vitamin injections, and new vitamin regime x

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I know I'm at the start of the Peri and I am determined to get as healthy as I possibly can. I've been doing lots of reading and these forums have really helped me. Thank you

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I was lucky as it never really affected me at all. Never had a flush, never put on weight and didn't lose my sex drive. I did suffer very heavy bleeding which was sorted out by having a coil fitted.

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