FabSwingers.com forum: Advice to younger self

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I had to fill in a card at the weekemd to someone reaching adulthood. I decided to give them some advice I wish i'd been given

Dont listen to what other people say, unless they say "duck"

What would your advice be?

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By *tefe-MartyCouple
over a year ago

Cambs

Live your life for yourself don't worry what others think of you.

Shame you only learn this as you get older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work hard, be you and have patience

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

fuck as many as you can and wear a condom

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Butlins, Bognor Regis

Don't overthink things and live for the moment.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Apart from don’t start smoking I’d do it all the same. The past makes you what you are today. Live for the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be afraid to admit you're not ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just trust yourself girl and take the fucking leap x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t message her you will safe your self a life time off pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above don’t smoke !

Don’t let anyone make you feel you’re not good enough !

Please take care of body and mind

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Buy property and gold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what makes you happy, not what you think will make others happy.

I found that out the hard way and have to live with it for the rest of my life. *deep inhale.. deep exhale*.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Buy property and gold."

Gold is good advice. We invest in gold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a deep breath

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By *ungle VIP 1Man
over a year ago

colchester

Ask for help

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

If it's really not making you feel right, don't do it

If it's making you feel like it's the right thing to do, just do it.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Trust everyone till they fuck up

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By *est Mims LookingCouple
over a year ago

Crofton

Get your CDL sooner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop being a pussy and ask her out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Step out of your comfort zone and do what makes you happy.

If its taking a chance the worst they can do is reject you.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Don’t bother buying that first house

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Don't listen to people when they say crossdrsssing is wrong, you have a great body and look good in a size 14 dress.

Don't buy your friends, they will forget you soon enough.

Don't give up cycling, you were good at it.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Stay away from tall dark women they will steal your best dresses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m only 28 so still learning!

But I’d say don’t give a flying f*ck about what people think of you as they’ll judge you anyway. You and your loved ones know who you are and that’s all that matters.

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Go for it. Don't overthink it;don't worry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let her cum first

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

If something seems odd/wrong then it probably is.

Just because everyone else is doing something doesn’t mean it is a good idea. Just because no one else is doing something doesn’t mean it is bad (but tread carefully).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear sunscreen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wear sunscreen"

This! My Nan instilled in us to wear it all the time and I’m never without it, she’s 93 with such amazing skin so clearly she did something right! My mom, aunties and uncles all have amazing skin aswell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t get a credit card when you’re 18 and think it’s effectively free money at the time…

Oh and don’t gamble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To have strict boundaries. I have them now, in my 40s, but wish I’d had them earlier in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, and trust your instinct always. It’s there for a reason.

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