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"Many profiles that you stalk in or out of the forums but just don't have the balls to message as you think there either out of your league or you just fear the rejection? I'm a culprit of this with a few. Should we bite the bullet and just do it? What we got to lose? " Only yours! | |||
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"Many profiles that you stalk in or out of the forums but just don't have the balls to message as you think there either out of your league or you just fear the rejection? I'm a culprit of this with a few. Should we bite the bullet and just do it? What we got to lose? " Just do it, I am fed up of you stalking me | |||
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"Many profiles that you stalk in or out of the forums but just don't have the balls to message as you think there either out of your league or you just fear the rejection? I'm a culprit of this with a few. Should we bite the bullet and just do it? What we got to lose? " I regularly view your pictures as I find them exceptionally sexy. Kind of stalking as I’m miles away from you. If I was a little closer I doubt I’d still pluck the courage up | |||
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"Many profiles that you stalk in or out of the forums but just don't have the balls to message as you think there either out of your league or you just fear the rejection? I'm a culprit of this with a few. Should we bite the bullet and just do it? What we got to lose? I regularly view your pictures as I find them exceptionally sexy. Kind of stalking as I’m miles away from you. If I was a little closer I doubt I’d still pluck the courage up " what he says | |||
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"Not really. I do have a few I look at because there pics are great but they’re too far/too young/too beardy x" *their pics | |||
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"Confirmation that we’re not good enough? Sometimes hope is better than certainty in our minds, so we think" But we only live once.. | |||
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"Many profiles that you stalk in or out of the forums but just don't have the balls to message as you think there either out of your league or you just fear the rejection? I'm a culprit of this with a few. Should we bite the bullet and just do it? What we got to lose? Only yours! " | |||
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"Many profiles that you stalk in or out of the forums but just don't have the balls to message as you think there either out of your league or you just fear the rejection? I'm a culprit of this with a few. Should we bite the bullet and just do it? What we got to lose? Just do it, I am fed up of you stalking me " | |||
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"Oh yes I have many, probably all of my hotlist I should rename it my fantasy fab list, included on list is OP xx" Oh thank you | |||
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"Many profiles that you stalk in or out of the forums but just don't have the balls to message as you think there either out of your league or you just fear the rejection? I'm a culprit of this with a few. Should we bite the bullet and just do it? What we got to lose? " Do it. | |||
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"Many profiles that you stalk in or out of the forums but just don't have the balls to message as you think there either out of your league or you just fear the rejection? I'm a culprit of this with a few. Should we bite the bullet and just do it? What we got to lose? " Don’t fear their rejection although it’s easier said than done. Put yourself out there and say ‘Hi’. If you’re an emoji person or a ‘lol’ person put them in there too. If you’re not matched then enjoy better times with someone more matched to you. Sex, friendships, situationships can be great but even greater with someone who is on your level. That person you’re questioning might be as dull as dishwater. | |||
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"Definitely! I can’t speak for everyone but I can imagine the problem being 10 times worse for single men than women and couples but could be wrong!" But why don't you do something about it? | |||
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"Many profiles that you stalk in or out of the forums but just don't have the balls to message as you think there either out of your league or you just fear the rejection? I'm a culprit of this with a few. Should we bite the bullet and just do it? What we got to lose? " I don't think you either have to worry about being out of their league or getting rejected. Just go for it and as you are truly gorgeous and it would be a fool who turns you down. | |||
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" It’s the bullet OP. Life is for living and unless you make yourself known and that you appreciate them, then they might be totally unawares " Exactly this. Your definitely right | |||
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"There's still a couple who I'd love to speak to.. But I'm also speaking to a couple that I didn't have the guts to message. Thanks to forum threads/challenges we now talk every day and I *think* get on really well " That's great, but don't forget about the others Do it! | |||
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"Many profiles that you stalk in or out of the forums but just don't have the balls to message as you think there either out of your league or you just fear the rejection? I'm a culprit of this with a few. Should we bite the bullet and just do it? What we got to lose? Don’t fear their rejection although it’s easier said than done. Put yourself out there and say ‘Hi’. If you’re an emoji person or a ‘lol’ person put them in there too. If you’re not matched then enjoy better times with someone more matched to you. Sex, friendships, situationships can be great but even greater with someone who is on your level. That person you’re questioning might be as dull as dishwater." Exactly.!!! | |||
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"Many profiles that you stalk in or out of the forums but just don't have the balls to message as you think there either out of your league or you just fear the rejection? I'm a culprit of this with a few. Should we bite the bullet and just do it? What we got to lose? I don't think you either have to worry about being out of their league or getting rejected. Just go for it and as you are truly gorgeous and it would be a fool who turns you down." What a lovely thing to say Thank you xxxxx | |||
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"The thing I struggle with is that first message to someone and what to bloody say hehe " Erm, your as fit as fuck maybe start with? Lol.. | |||
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"The thing I struggle with is that first message to someone and what to bloody say hehe " I’ll message you to take away the problem!!! | |||
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"The thing I struggle with is that first message to someone and what to bloody say hehe " Me too. I always struggle to think what to put in the initial message! | |||
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"The thing I struggle with is that first message to someone and what to bloody say hehe " Blocked all men !! Now I can’t message!! Lol I think you could just say hi and you will guarantee a response!! | |||
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"The thing I struggle with is that first message to someone and what to bloody say hehe " Haha that is true! I did try messaging you first to save you from the trouble but I’m blocked | |||
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"Confirmation that we’re not good enough? Sometimes hope is better than certainty in our minds, so we think But we only live once.." We only die once, we live every day | |||
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"Yep also ones that o have messaged and had no reply confirming I’m not good enough " It means you are not for them. It doesn't mean you're not good enough. I no longer have the energy to reply to all of my messages. It doesn't mean those who messaged are less than - it means they're not for me. That's all. | |||
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"Many profiles that you stalk in or out of the forums but just don't have the balls to message as you think there either out of your league or you just fear the rejection? I'm a culprit of this with a few. Should we bite the bullet and just do it? What we got to lose? " They're the ones that go in my hotlist until i got the balls to message. 99% of the time ends up with a read/delete. If it's read but not deleted i live in hope for a few days..... | |||
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"Many profiles that you stalk in or out of the forums but just don't have the balls to message as you think there either out of your league or you just fear the rejection? I'm a culprit of this with a few. Should we bite the bullet and just do it? What we got to lose? " I stalk someone’s profile that is way out of my league many times per day. Fortunately I messaged her | |||
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"Confirmation that we’re not good enough? Sometimes hope is better than certainty in our minds, so we think But we only live once.. We only die once, we live every day" Well corrected | |||
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"Yep. I've added them to my hotlist, as I want to eventually contact them. But, I know I'm too busy at the moment to really give the conversation the focus I'd want... or am I just making excuses... probably " That definitely sounds like me .. | |||
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"Yeah there's a few. Reasons for not messaging - Usually they are popular hotties who get 1000's of messages each day or, being bloody miles away. " This is a good point. We've been reluctant to message some of the ladies who regularly appear in Hot Pics, as let's face it, of the thousands of messages, fabs and winks they receive... Why would we stand out? We have messaged a couple over the years and chatted, but not sure our attraction to them is mutual. | |||
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"If I have an interest in somebody I will let them know. I don't "stalk" anyone that I've not made my interest known to. " I'm the same | |||
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