FabSwingers.com forum: No Thanks

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Should this not be enough!! what do men get out of push Until they piss you off - no manners!!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

No thanks - delete - block. I never get hassle x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most are nice, to be fair. But yes, some are really pushy and always pestering for photos etc. It’s borne of desperation I think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And yes, the block button can be useful

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex

We just block…saves the hassle….

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No thanks - delete - block. I never get hassle x"

I’ve blocked and deleted many - some people can be partly interesting to chat to but just dont get a NO Thanks

I might like chatting but does not mean I want to meet them

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Most of the people we say no to accept it without a problem. We very rarely have to use the block button. But then we don't get inundated like we know single women do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy with a "no thanks", I have always left it at that... At least they've aknowledged you.

Even deleting without a response is ok, but I think blocking for no reason is pretty cold

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"No thanks - delete - block. I never get hassle x

I’ve blocked and deleted many - some people can be partly interesting to chat to but just dont get a NO Thanks

I might like chatting but does not mean I want to meet them

Yeah I know what you mean there. I chat to loads that won’t ever be anything sexual but some do get the wrong idea. It’s a shame really x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm happy with a "no thanks", I have always left it at that... At least they've aknowledged you.

Even deleting without a response is ok, but I think blocking for no reason is pretty cold

Yeah, I think that’s a bit harsh too. I would always block with good reason.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I'm happy with a "no thanks", I have always left it at that... At least they've aknowledged you.

Even deleting without a response is ok, but I think blocking for no reason is pretty cold

I don’t. It’s just a tool. It stops either of you contacting each other again. It’s never a personal thing. Having said that I’ve never ever blocked anyone from the forum. I just make a note if I need to but I don’t block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No thanks - delete - block. I never get hassle x"

Block me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should this not be enough!! what do men get out of push Until they piss you off - no manners!!

change your profile pic to a pic of me and those pushy messages will soon stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should this not be enough!! what do men get out of push Until they piss you off - no manners!!

change your profile pic to a pic of me and those pushy messages will soon stop

Aww x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"No thanks - delete - block. I never get hassle x

Block me

. Never!!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm too adorable to block.

Surely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No thanks - delete - block. I never get hassle x

I’ve blocked and deleted many - some people can be partly interesting to chat to but just dont get a NO Thanks

I might like chatting but does not mean I want to meet them

Totally he’s blocked now!

they dont help them selves do they!

Yeah I know what you mean there. I chat to loads that won’t ever be anything sexual but some do get the wrong idea. It’s a shame really x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should this not be enough!! what do men get out of push Until they piss you off - no manners!!

change your profile pic to a pic of me and those pushy messages will soon stop

Aww x"

hey,how you doing? call me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Should this not be enough!! what do men get out of push Until they piss you off - no manners!!

change your profile pic to a pic of me and those pushy messages will soon stop

lol thats a brill Idea !

but it could also put off the people I want to chat to xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm too adorable to block.

Surely.

surely!! Not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should this not be enough!! what do men get out of push Until they piss you off - no manners!!

change your profile pic to a pic of me and those pushy messages will soon stop

lol thats a brill Idea !

but it could also put off the people I want to chat to xx

i take that chance everyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys/gents/men/boys 2 Men/lads/geezers/fella's/dads/grandads..

"No means no!!

Dont push until they tell you to FUCK OFF!! piss off buzz off,bugger off. No thanx.

Best hold head up and move on Plent of fish in the sea.

Do not give anybody the power to tell you to go so harshly.

We most sense we are welcomed or non-welcomed.

Actions speak louder than words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No thanks - delete - block. I never get hassle x

Block me

. Never!!"

Please

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By *inglerubixMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Aww we’re not all bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Should this not be enough!! what do men get out of push Until they piss you off - no manners!!

change your profile pic to a pic of me and those pushy messages will soon stop

lol thats a brill Idea !

but it could also put off the people I want to chat to xx

i take that chance everyday

well it might be that you have blocked me already

I’m barred from your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm happy with a "no thanks", I have always left it at that... At least they've aknowledged you.

Even deleting without a response is ok, but I think blocking for no reason is pretty cold

Does a no thnx validate it fully? That they are not interested.

Remember all or most people reply when it suits them and they want to take and make the time..if you hear nothing on this Front.

Move on.

Not like applying for a job that you need for reasons..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Guys/gents/men/boys 2 Men/lads/geezers/fella's/dads/grandads..

"No means no!!

Dont push until they tell you to FUCK OFF!! piss off buzz off,bugger off. No thanx.

Best hold head up and move on Plent of fish in the sea.

Do not give anybody the power to tell you to go so harshly.

We most sense we are welcomed or non-welcomed.

Actions speak louder than words

Totally No is a

complete sentence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm happy with a "no thanks", I have always left it at that... At least they've aknowledged you.

Even deleting without a response is ok, but I think blocking for no reason is pretty cold

Does a no thnx validate it fully? That they are not interested.

Remember all or most people reply when it suits them and they want to take and make the time..if you hear nothing on this Front.

Move on.

Not like applying for a job that you need for reasons.. "

What they mean will be clear by the context in which they say it, clearly no reply is a message in it's self... Don't know why some guys push, it really isn't hard to understand.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Aww we’re not all bad "

This I know !

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By *oveGiving44Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I don't even need a "no thanks". I send a message. If I don't hear anything I move on. I find that preferable in a way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't even need a "no thanks". I send a message. If I don't hear anything I move on. I find that preferable in a way."

Definitely preferable. Sounds like you have good boundaries, which not all do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't even need a "no thanks". I send a message. If I don't hear anything I move on. I find that preferable in a way.

Definitely preferable. Sounds like you have good boundaries, which not all do

hey,how you....whoops

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't even need a "no thanks". I send a message. If I don't hear anything I move on. I find that preferable in a way."

even if I ignored him - me kept on messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't even need a "no thanks". I send a message. If I don't hear anything I move on. I find that preferable in a way.

Definitely preferable. Sounds like you have good boundaries, which not all do

hey,how you....whoops

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

People like that give us genuine good guys a bad name really. I'm not everyone's cup of tea and I get that but end of the day.. we have manners so if no reply r interest, just move on. Some people just never got that memo unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was meant to be the grinning face, but hey ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys/gents/men/boys 2 Men/lads/geezers/fella's/dads/grandads..

"No means no!!

Dont push until they tell you to FUCK OFF!! piss off buzz off,bugger off. No thanx.

Best hold head up and move on Plent of fish in the sea.

Do not give anybody the power to tell you to go so harshly.

We most sense we are welcomed or non-welcomed.

Actions speak louder than words

Totally No is a

complete sentence "

NO..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm happy with a "no thanks", I have always left it at that... At least they've aknowledged you.

Even deleting without a response is ok, but I think blocking for no reason is pretty cold

Does a no thnx validate it fully? That they are not interested.

Remember all or most people reply when it suits them and they want to take and make the time..if you hear nothing on this Front.

Move on.

Not like applying for a job that you need for reasons..

What they mean will be clear by the context in which they say it, clearly no reply is a message in it's self... Don't know why some guys push, it really isn't hard to understand."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't even need a "no thanks". I send a message. If I don't hear anything I move on. I find that preferable in a way."

Best way forwards.

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By *oveGiving44Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"I don't even need a "no thanks". I send a message. If I don't hear anything I move on. I find that preferable in a way.

even if I ignored him - me kept on messaging "

That definitely sounds like a block worthy scenario.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't even need a "no thanks". I send a message. If I don't hear anything I move on. I find that preferable in a way.

even if I ignored him - me kept on messaging

That definitely sounds like a block worthy scenario."

sad it gets to that point !

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By *oveGiving44Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"I don't even need a "no thanks". I send a message. If I don't hear anything I move on. I find that preferable in a way.

even if I ignored him - me kept on messaging

That definitely sounds like a block worthy scenario.

sad it gets to that point ! "

I agree. Unfortunately some people are just arseholes.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I'm too adorable to block.

Surely.

surely!! Not "

You know you luv me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was meant to be the grinning face, but hey ..."

Any face does me

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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago

BEDFORDSHIRE areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat

"Should this not be enough!! what do men get out of push Until they piss you off - no manners!!

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NO IS NO.

At least they got a reply

USE BLOCK TAB

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Should this not be enough!! what do men get out of push Until they piss you off - no manners!!

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NO IS NO.

At least they got a reply

USE BLOCK TAB

sorted"

I have !

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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago

BEDFORDSHIRE areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat

"Should this not be enough!! what do men get out of push Until they piss you off - no manners!!

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NO IS NO.

At least they got a reply

USE BLOCK TAB

sorted

I have !

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I just delete most of mine, as they haven't bothered reading my profile.

To be fair I don't get much grief for that, I found the problem more when I said no thanks.

I don't know what people get out of it, being a pest isn't attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete a lot! They haven’t read my profile and it shows they just send out messages in bulk. I’ll send out a few “no thanks” but it mostly encourages a dialogue of trying to be convinced, or abuse.

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By *iscreet-is-paramountMan
over a year ago

somewhere only we know.

What if, they have read the profile and feel they meet your criteria, then they get a no thanks. They likely want to know why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if, they have read the profile and feel they meet your criteria, then they get a no thanks. They likely want to know why. "

No is no, nobody owes anyone an explanation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if im not interested its delete n block ...ive done the no thanks thingy before it rerturns either abuse or why nots...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the pesky women here are just as guilty.......

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