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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden

If you have/had a FWB....what attracted you to them? What was it about them that made them go from a FB to FWB?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did and we had the most amaxi g time . It was a roller coaster of emotions.

We remain friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was just a natural progression from larking about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their willingness to have my penis in their vagina.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Both times we were friends long before sex got involved, so the social side was already there.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Their willingness to have my penis in their vagina."

great answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust was a huge part of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were friends before the benefits. It's great when it progresses like that as we already knew everything there is to know about each other.

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

the fact that she was atracted to us both and was prepared to spend time equaly with us both

that and she was a truthfully a nymphomaniac

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laid back attitude. It wasn’t long after I moved to hampshire, I just went through a breakup, wasn’t ready for anything too heavy but missed sex so I started dating a guy who was in a similar situation. Was brilliant. Dinner, drinks, sex and sofa sundays with no expectations for more, just two people enjoying each others company in that moment. We’re still friends now

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden


"Laid back attitude. It wasn’t long after I moved to hampshire, I just went through a breakup, wasn’t ready for anything too heavy but missed sex so I started dating a guy who was in a similar situation. Was brilliant. Dinner, drinks, sex and sofa sundays with no expectations for more, just two people enjoying each others company in that moment. We’re still friends now "

It's great when that happens x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only ever met on a potential fwb basis, that was the mutual agreement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They were all friends first before we had sex

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

If u can get that special connection. U know from the word go that its goin 2 be more then fb .

U enjoy every part of that person not just the sex x

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Wot about u op ? X

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden

My latest FWB got me hooked on our 1st social. Confident but shy (for a whole 2 mins) We clicked even before meeting in person and just seemed to slot together when we did meet. We have a laugh (mostly me at his expense to be fair). We connect outside the bedroom, which makes it explosive once we get there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact that they stay around even when life gets in the way. Even years later. That you can talk about other things not just sex in the times between when you can meet. Trust in them as a person outside of fab.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I was ‘in’ from the first time we met and not through fab. He has the most confident, sexy and utterly witty personality ever. He introduced me to so many new experiences.

We are still the best of friends several years later and yep, I would trust him with my life. A bloody amazing FwB

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden


"I was ‘in’ from the first time we met and not through fab. He has the most confident, sexy and utterly witty personality ever. He introduced me to so many new experiences.

We are still the best of friends several years later and yep, I would trust him with my life. A bloody amazing FwB "

My very first FWB is still a friend 30 years on....no benefits now but still a friend who I cherish x

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

Have known my fwb for 42 years just lost touch for 28 yrs and then got in touch where we been fwb for 3.5 years. From 11 always wanted him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Became good friends and we really got on

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Their willingness to have my penis in their vagina."

Hahaha best explanation!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Definitely trust and a willingness to be open and honest and enjoy shared experiences both in and out of the bedroom.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Ely

It would be a Good start if she laughed at my jokes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust. I thought I had a FWB earlier this year, but looking back he was just a FB as I didn't trust him (rightly so too as he often lied).

I've now met a great FWB (been meeting 2 months nearly now). We laugh, we have fun and I trust him. He has my mobile number and recently he lifted me up while we fucked (Normally causes me anxiety.) xx

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden


"Trust. I thought I had a FWB earlier this year, but looking back he was just a FB as I didn't trust him (rightly so too as he often lied).

I've now met a great FWB (been meeting 2 months nearly now). We laugh, we have fun and I trust him. He has my mobile number and recently he lifted me up while we fucked (Normally causes me anxiety.) xx"

I'm glad it's working out for you xx

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

After giving this some thought, because he makes our time together and sex total fun. Which is exactly how it should be. In 5 years we have never had a bad connection or cross word. Happy days - still.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden


"After giving this some thought, because he makes our time together and sex total fun. Which is exactly how it should be. In 5 years we have never had a bad connection or cross word. Happy days - still."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have/had a FWB....what attracted you to them? What was it about them that made them go from a FB to FWB? "

People are often too quick to judge and my FWB was someone I got to know really well before it progressed. She is so much different to the 'bat shit crazy' person she thinks she is. First and foremost I've made a life long friend.....the sexual part is an awesome extra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking for a Fwb...

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden


"If you have/had a FWB....what attracted you to them? What was it about them that made them go from a FB to FWB?

People are often too quick to judge and my FWB was someone I got to know really well before it progressed. She is so much different to the 'bat shit crazy' person she thinks she is. First and foremost I've made a life long friend.....the sexual part is an awesome extra "

I think the friendship part is the most important part x

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By *oveGiving44Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Twice now I've met people just for sex and we've ended up as FWB. Both times because we could sit, maybe with a bottle of wine or two, and chat for hours about all sorts of things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two of them were quite open sexually and weren’t backward about coming forward when they decided they wanted more.

Not only was it very nice to be ‘pursued’ (they didn’t have to chase for long! ) but I always struggle with how open it direct to be when approaching sex. They were both really relaxed, not the type to be offended by anything suggested, which made me really at ease with it going further.

The third was more timid, but still admitted she fancied me; things moved a little slower there but we still had plenty of fun in the end.

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By *wlmanMan
over a year ago

Rugby


"If you have/had a FWB....what attracted you to them? What was it about them that made them go from a FB to FWB? "

She was the dirtiest woman I have ever met.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden


"If you have/had a FWB....what attracted you to them? What was it about them that made them go from a FB to FWB?

She was the dirtiest woman I have ever met."

That helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here, and were Fb first, it developed into fwb, and now he’s the person that knows me best in all the world, and I would trust him with my life.

He’s introduced me to so many new experiences, and allowed for so much development .

I feel completely safe when I’m with him.

Hippy

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Garden of Eden


"We met on here, and were Fb first, it developed into fwb, and now he’s the person that knows me best in all the world, and I would trust him with my life.

He’s introduced me to so many new experiences, and allowed for so much development .

I feel completely safe when I’m with him.

Hippy"

Thats so nice x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Not sure really. Only met 3 people (for more than a social) on here and all 3 turned into pretty long term FWBs. It just happened.

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By *wlmanMan
over a year ago

Rugby


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She was the dirtiest woman I have ever met.

That helps "

She was lots of fun!

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

My last FB turned into my FWB till feelings started to sprout, I was seeing 3 other regular friends, but soon realised it was turning into emotionless sex with them, but more emotionally stimulating with my last one, we clicked on so many levels, inside and outside the bedroom

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Leeds

They were both lovely people, who I enjoyed spending time, out of the bedroom with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use to have one not no more, she went into a Relationship lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one for two and half years. We got on so well, had a laugh, chill and watch tv, as well as amazing sex. But ultimately he was a lying user. Would tell me one thing and do another. Lie, let me down etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had a FWB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met at basketball, we clicked over shared life experiences and we just got chatting and found each other attractive. We're mainly friends only now, so fewer benefits, but that's fine too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one but not now...

Looking again for one..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mutual respect for one another and utmost trust

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By *irtyold manMan
over a year ago

barnsley

Had a fwb for seven years.

Started as a fb but fell in love with her.

At the start it was a once a month but at the end she spent 4days a week with me and 3days with her hubby.

Sadly she died

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We kind of met for FB but turned out we liked each other so much we kind of skipped fwb and in to a relationship. When it works, it works.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

His sense of humour and how he makes me laugh, how we can chat about everything and he puts up with me when I'm tired and grouchy.Great sex is an added bonus. I know I can trust him also which is a big thing.

I've had fbs before but Fwb is definitely better if you are real friends and it's not just about sex .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never had a FWB "

It's not obligatory. Some are happy with a fb or even randoms. I like a fwb, although interpretations vary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It took a while for me to get used to the concept of a FWB, but once I did, the fun has been immeasurable. She has a great sense of humour, wicked personality, and we share amazing sex together....we want no more than that so it works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first kinky experience was also my first fwb. I'd be very happy to spend time with him again - we just found it easy to chat about all sorts and have a laugh. We like each other. The sex was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we could actually meet some fwb’s it would definitely be an attraction of personalities, obviously it helps if they’re hot but it would have to be all mutual attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They acknowledged that we are sexual beings and wanted to explore that side of life with as much passion as the rest of what life has to offer.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone I had admired from afar and fancied for months, when we met there was exceptional chemistry, easy chats and lots of laughs... Bingo!! we both knew it was more than FB stuff and that there would be adventure ahead

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Had a fwb for seven years.

Started as a fb but fell in love with her.

At the start it was a once a month but at the end she spent 4days a week with me and 3days with her hubby.

Sadly she died"

Oh wow that’s really sad. I’m sorry

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met on here, and were Fb first, it developed into fwb, and now he’s the person that knows me best in all the world, and I would trust him with my life.

He’s introduced me to so many new experiences, and allowed for so much development .

I feel completely safe when I’m with him.

Hippy"

This is exactly how it went for me too.

Halo

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

We were friends well before we did anything sexual. Then it was FWB as I wasn't looking for a relationship, didn't think I ever wanted a relationship ever again. And well shows what I know, in a relationship together now.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

I did and it was attraction from the first time we meet I’d say a rollercoaster of emotions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got chatting on here had an instant click, one thing lead to another but unfortunately after four years we parted ways

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

Heres hoping il find one then

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Ely


"Had one but not now...

Looking again for one.. "

Invite me round and I'll help you find one.

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