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"[Removed by poster at 17/10/21 18:18:52]" Elaborate??? | |||
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"Being overly confident is like being arrogant, isn't it? Yes, being confident is sexy, attractive but if it's in your face then nah, fuck that." I deleted it! Thought it maybe was a little crap. Lol | |||
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"Being overly confident is like being arrogant, isn't it? Yes, being confident is sexy, attractive but if it's in your face then nah, fuck that. I deleted it! Thought it maybe was a little crap. Lol " Go on, you have our attention. Have another crack at it  | |||
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"Being overly confident is like being arrogant, isn't it? Yes, being confident is sexy, attractive but if it's in your face then nah, fuck that. I deleted it! Thought it maybe was a little crap. Lol " It isn't. Go ahead and post it. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 17/10/21 18:24:26]" I saw that and I'm glad you deleted it. Your reply wasn't in the spirit of the support you were given in that post. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 17/10/21 18:24:26] I saw that and I'm glad you deleted it. Your reply wasn't in the spirit of the support you were given in that post." I saw it also | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 17/10/21 18:24:26] I saw that and I'm glad you deleted it. Your reply wasn't in the spirit of the support you were given in that post." ? Really confused now. Not sure how asking opinions is attention my god some post here dally. Lol | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 17/10/21 18:24:26] I saw that and I'm glad you deleted it. Your reply wasn't in the spirit of the support you were given in that post. ? Really confused now. Not sure how asking opinions is attention my god some post here dally. Lol" Yeah I post daily whats your point? | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 17/10/21 18:24:26] I saw that and I'm glad you deleted it. Your reply wasn't in the spirit of the support you were given in that post. I saw it also " Oh you blanked me on your posts you are hot and cold. Yasmeem stop jumping on my post you don't own this forum. Hahaha | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 17/10/21 18:24:26] I saw that and I'm glad you deleted it. Your reply wasn't in the spirit of the support you were given in that post. ? Really confused now. Not sure how asking opinions is attention my god some post here dally. Lol" I can assure you I don't do it for attention I do it for fun and get people flirting and chatting | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 17/10/21 18:24:26] I saw that and I'm glad you deleted it. Your reply wasn't in the spirit of the support you were given in that post. I saw it also Oh you blanked me on your posts you are hot and cold. Yasmeem stop jumping on my post you don't own this forum. Hahaha " I never said I did And it's not hahaha | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 17/10/21 18:24:26] I saw that and I'm glad you deleted it. Your reply wasn't in the spirit of the support you were given in that post. I saw it also Oh you blanked me on your posts you are hot and cold. Yasmeem stop jumping on my post you don't own this forum. Hahaha " What's your point about my post? I've posted a subject my god hahahaha | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 17/10/21 18:24:26] I saw that and I'm glad you deleted it. Your reply wasn't in the spirit of the support you were given in that post. ? Really confused now. Not sure how asking opinions is attention my god some post here dally. Lol" She did not say you were trying to garner attention. It's a figure of speech that we are aware of you, not ignoring you. It was a sentiment of support, not criticism as you seem to have mistaken it for. | |||
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"Seriously this is class, a mysterious subject being commented on and the confusion. Can't get better. Girl, that's why I love the forums. Anyway, I personally think of someone is over confident, it's off putting, isn't it?" It's more drama than Eastenders my god. How do i delete this forum post? Im going to Narnia Hahaha  | |||
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"but am i arrogent for being so darn sexy? or is that just a sexy confidence i ooze? " | |||
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"If they love themselves A LITTLE TOO MUCH, then it’s a big NO from me. My vajeene just dries up even if you lube it up. " Need more cock then if it's drying up. Hahaha Do you think girls get more flack than guys for being more confident? | |||
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"but am i arrogent for being so darn sexy? or is that just a sexy confidence i ooze? "Hahaha maybe too sexy for your shirt? | |||
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"I am Confid because I am a absolute wreck inside And if I keep saying it a bleveing it maybe it be true It may come across as over conftind to someone looking in from the outside because that’s the way I want them to see it I don’t want them to know exactly what I really think The most unhappy people put on the most fake smiles ever day " Aww bless you! I know what you mean it's easier sometimes to put on a facade and face, Personally humour and laughter is my way to deal with things and probably laugh when i shouldn't. You never seem over confident on the forums? | |||
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 Well, my self-esteem is pretty intact anyway. | |||
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"If they love themselves A LITTLE TOO MUCH, then it’s a big NO from me. My vajeene just dries up even if you lube it up. Need more cock then if it's drying up. Hahaha Do you think girls get more flack than guys for being more confident? " Pretty girls can get away with a LOT more yes, particularly if they wanna get in our panties
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"[Removed by poster at 17/10/21 18:18:52] Elaborate???" | |||
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"I quite like shy men "  | |||
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"I quite like shy men " Thought it was just me! So how do you approach guys if both are shy? Because no one will get any action. Hahaha | |||
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"I am Confid because I am a absolute wreck inside And if I keep saying it a bleveing it maybe it be true It may come across as over conftind to someone looking in from the outside because that’s the way I want them to see it I don’t want them to know exactly what I really think The most unhappy people put on the most fake smiles ever day Aww bless you! I know what you mean it's easier sometimes to put on a facade and face, Personally humour and laughter is my way to deal with things and probably laugh when i shouldn't. You never seem over confident on the forums? "Thank you | |||
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"It's like everything, some might feel they are just confident while others would look at it as arrogant..where some might think an arrogant guy is just confident..it all depends on who looks at it l suppose and makes their own call on it ..." Good point and quite true! It depends on the individual.  | |||
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"Confidence is sexy, arrogance is a total turn off x" x | |||
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"Arrogance is never good. I am confident Well, my self-esteem is pretty intact anyway."x | |||
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"There's a big difference but at the same time some people think it's a fine line I'm very confident but I'm very old fashioned and approachable and treat everyone the same otherwise I'd be arrogant " So true! Sorry just seen your post. Well everyone is equal no one 8s more special than anyone else. We all poop hahahaha | |||
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"I quite like shy men Only if they're tall.   "Jaws is tall! But he would more than likely bite someone's neck. Haha | |||
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"I quite like shy men Only if they're tall. "This is true  . And beardless haha x | |||
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"There's always a very fine line between the two I think" x | |||
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"I like men that are confident without having to say they are Quietly self assured probably best describes it" That's a good word and i think that's a good point. x | |||
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"I quite like shy men Only if they're tall. Jaws is tall! But he would more than likely bite someone's neck. Haha "Oh good grief, those metal teeth!!  | |||
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"I quite like shy men Only if they're tall.
This is true . And beardless haha x"Two strikes. Go on, go for the kill!! | |||
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"Confidence is ok with me (although mine is shot to pieces). Arrogance is the number one turn off " Big turn off for me too! Can i ask why your confidence is shot to pieces? | |||
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"People say I’m arrogant. I disagree. " Your not arrogant xxx | |||
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"There's times when I'm confident and there's times when I'm shy, but there's never, ever, EVER a time when I'm tall. " Too funny! Not green giant then? Hahaha | |||
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"People say I’m arrogant. I disagree. Your not arrogant xxx" Thanks. Didn’t think I was xx | |||
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"People say I’m arrogant. I disagree. Your not arrogant xxx Thanks. Didn’t think I was xx" Your honest xxx and real x | |||
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"I quite like shy men Only if they're tall. Jaws is tall! But he would more than likely bite someone's neck. Haha
Oh good grief, those metal teeth!! "I find him quite kinky like Michael Myers! Must be the choking. I'm not normal ooppps a daisy hahaha | |||
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"People say I’m arrogant. I disagree. " Why do they say that? x | |||
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"Confidence is ok with me (although mine is shot to pieces). Arrogance is the number one turn off Big turn off for me too! Can i ask why your confidence is shot to pieces? " Just having a bit of a wobble with being on here. But thanks for asking | |||
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"Confidence is ok with me (although mine is shot to pieces). Arrogance is the number one turn off Big turn off for me too! Can i ask why your confidence is shot to pieces? Just having a bit of a wobble with being on here. But thanks for asking " Aww bless you! I have days like that if it's any consolation. You ain't alone so don't think you are xo | |||
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"I am confident in my field but otherwise quite introverted." What is your field? I definitely don't fit in really either. It's not always a bad thing to be your own person though! | |||
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"I am confident in my field but otherwise quite introverted. What is your field? I definitely don't fit in really either. It's not always a bad thing to be your own person though! "As in work related fields. I have lead teams, jobs, projects. Done radio and TV, public speaking, but in a social situation I'm in the kitchen or the quiet corner of the garden. | |||
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"I am confident in my field but otherwise quite introverted. What is your field? I definitely don't fit in really either. It's not always a bad thing to be your own person though!
As in work related fields. I have lead teams, jobs, projects. Done radio and TV, public speaking, but in a social situation I'm in the kitchen or the quiet corner of the garden."Oh wow! What TV and Radio shows? The garden is a good place to relax in nature. | |||
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"There is a great deal of difference between confidence and arrogance" Xxxx | |||
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"There is a great deal of difference between confidence and arrogance" I deleted the initial post. Lol So is over confidence not arrogant? Everyone should be confident but is their a fine line? | |||
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"I am confident in my field but otherwise quite introverted. What is your field? I definitely don't fit in really either. It's not always a bad thing to be your own person though!
As in work related fields. I have lead teams, jobs, projects. Done radio and TV, public speaking, but in a social situation I'm in the kitchen or the quiet corner of the garden. Oh wow! What TV and Radio shows? The garden is a good place to relax in nature. "Only news article related stuff but my unit was part of a documentary in the late 90's. All old hat now. The point being that I could come across as confident, even arrogant speaking about all that but in normal life I'm considered reserved at best. | |||
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"There is a great deal of difference between confidence and arrogance I deleted the initial post. Lol So is over confidence not arrogant? Everyone should be confident but is their a fine line?" A confident person is someone who believes in who they are but also knows that they can improve, an arrogant person believes they are already the best version of themselves and ignore any learning opportunities | |||
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"I love a man who exudes confidence , an arrogant man isn't for me " It's a turn off! Some people seem over confident, Though is that a mask to hide their real insecurity? I like hearing different opinions and frok different perspectives. x | |||
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"There is a great deal of difference between confidence and arrogance I deleted the initial post. Lol So is over confidence not arrogant? Everyone should be confident but is their a fine line? A confident person is someone who believes in who they are but also knows that they can improve, an arrogant person believes they are already the best version of themselves and ignore any learning opportunities " I like that so true! I think we are all learning in life all the time and everyone can grow as a person. | |||
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"There is a great deal of difference between confidence and arrogance I deleted the initial post. Lol So is over confidence not arrogant? Everyone should be confident but is their a fine line? A confident person is someone who believes in who they are but also knows that they can improve, an arrogant person believes they are already the best version of themselves and ignore any learning opportunities I like that so true! I think we are all learning in life all the time and everyone can grow as a person. "But an arrogant person wouldn’t see it that way | |||
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"I quite like shy men "Haha you’re not shy | |||
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"I quite like shy men
Haha you’re not shy "Damn I was hoping I was going to fool you | |||
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"I quite like shy men
Haha you’re not shy
Damn I was hoping I was going to fool you "Many have tried to fool me | |||
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"I quite like shy men
Haha you’re not shy
Damn I was hoping I was going to fool you
Many have tried to fool me "I would try harder but I’m far too shy | |||
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"There's always a very fine line between the two I think" Precisely, and context is everything. Those who are favourably disposed may call someone confident, but a jealous or insecure individual may term the same attitude or behaviour as arrogant. | |||
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"For me arrogance is confidence with the I’m superior attitude, arrogance is definitely a turn off. Arrogant people usually don’t see their arrogance" Agree about the superior bit which no one is. haha | |||
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"I think true confidence is knowing yourself, knowing your limits, presenting the real you and being happy enough with it to show it to others unguarded Bigging yourself up is not confidence in my eyes, infact it's often a cover for underlying insecurities" Well said! | |||
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