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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve been on and off here a while now

Don’t seem to have no luck , just after some fun fwb , after a handful of messages convos seem to thin out , I’ve been let down on meets numerous times and still haven’t had a actual meet yet, advice ladies ? I no the ratio of males to females are a lot larger . Help help

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

You don’t stand out unfortunately and only dick pics and nothing about you in your bio so I wouldn’t be interested

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Maybe consider asking for profile advice. We are not permitted to give advice unless you consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My main advice would be to include more variety in your photos. Best of luck OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want some advice change your approach, put some different pictures up, make yourself stand out. Go to a club or socials to meet others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe consider asking for profile advice. We are not permitted to give advice unless you consent."

Hmm I assumed he did when he said "advice please". If not, I shall await my ban like a good girl lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe consider asking for profile advice. We are not permitted to give advice unless you consent.

Hmm I assumed he did when he said "advice please". If not, I shall await my ban like a good girl lol"

He did ask for advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe consider asking for profile advice. We are not permitted to give advice unless you consent.

Hmm I assumed he did when he said "advice please". If not, I shall await my ban like a good girl lol"

Who could ever ban you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you thought about actually writing something for your profile other than cum for girls ? Oh and not enough cock photo’s! Lolol

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Maybe consider asking for profile advice. We are not permitted to give advice unless you consent.

Hmm I assumed he did when he said "advice please". If not, I shall await my ban like a good girl lol"

Things have eased a little over the years on here. At one time you got a ban if you so much as mentioned the word profile if they didn't specifically ask for profile advice. I guess I am kinda twitchy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every single photo is of your cock mate …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a look at other people's profiles and see what you like about them. Mine is a terrible example because it's a bit silly.

Get involved in the forums. That's how I get to know people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to mushroom farms that had less mushrooms...

Seems a good lad but but again... Too much ??...

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"I’ve been on and off here a while now

Don’t seem to have no luck , just after some fun fwb , after a handful of messages convos seem to thin out , I’ve been let down on meets numerous times and still haven’t had a actual meet yet, advice ladies ? I no the ratio of males to females are a lot larger . Help help "

I've not looked,

I read your post..my two cents,

if your approach isn't working change it, if you've been let down numerous times you're the common denominator change something,

Einstein said to do the same thing over and over again and expect a different result is insane..

change something

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By *aturewomanloverMan
over a year ago

staffs/cheshire

Different photos would be good. Drop the football bit (whose going care about that?)

Other than that seems ok, keep it vague, any mention of a preference and all of a sudden women like to decide for you what you do and don't like, i.e you say you like curves - everywomen messages back I'm too thin for you, say you like thin - even the thinest women decides for you that they are to fat.

Good luck

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Maybe consider asking for profile advice. We are not permitted to give advice unless you consent.

Hmm I assumed he did when he said "advice please". If not, I shall await my ban like a good girl lol"

Instead of a ban... If you'd care to bend over,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s nothing in your profile to entice people in.

Try putting different body shots on there, and out more if your personality in the bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some good advice here bantz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my advice if asked would be....just be more like me and enjoy all the attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go stalk some male profiles, especially ones who are verified, and see if you can spot themes.

Also see of you can spot themes of those less successful ...

Success leaves clues.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

It’s your choice of bedding mate. Change that and watch them come out of the woodwork

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough


"I’ve been on and off here a while now

Don’t seem to have no luck , just after some fun fwb , after a handful of messages convos seem to thin out , I’ve been let down on meets numerous times and still haven’t had a actual meet yet, advice ladies ? I no the ratio of males to females are a lot larger . Help help "

1. Face pic - all I see is a small dick pic.

Not exactly enticing, is it?????

2. Tattoos - show them!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally I’d say try and write a honest Bio, add what you’re looking fir add some banter maybe a little about your interests in life as well as on here.

Don’t write to much and like it’s been said take part in the forums, be inclusive, fun respectful and you’ll be surprised how people warm to you

Abd enjoy yourself. It’s not a race, take your time on here and don’t expect women to throw themselves at you.

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