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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

YOU are an ASSET..but not in the way that you think.

You are an asset in £

IF there were less of you £ wouldn't be flowing so much around the club/event scene.

I would rather have fewer options and encounter the haphazardness of integrity found around here than ultimately £ over the odds for it.

Which you are doing when the financial burden falls on you.

Now if entrance fees to such places were equal you wouldn't be £ for them.

You would be playing on a level footing and not mere £

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I love a good £-ing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a good £-ing."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

..and you wonder (laugh) why you are so disrespected around here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try my best on Fab but mostly make a # of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A word that springs to mind...Chattel.

Are you Chattel on fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had compliment on my ass-et before, but thank you

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"I love a good £-ing."

Need some help with that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

When there's a surplus of women men will have to pay less.

Don't hold your breath.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"YOU are an ASSET..but not in the way that you think.

You are an asset in £

IF there were less of you £ wouldn't be flowing so much around the club/event scene.

I would rather have fewer options and encounter the haphazardness of integrity found around here than ultimately £ over the odds for it.

Which you are doing when the financial burden falls on you.

Now if entrance fees to such places were equal you wouldn't be £ for them.

You would be playing on a level footing and not mere £

"

I have read this three times now and I still don't know what you are trying to get across.

Incidentally, Haphazardness of Integrity was the name of my third album when I was in a prog rock group.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Do you mean poor men can't thrive here?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I love a good £-ing."

Kerching.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Op yours seem to be the only posts I never comment on . I swear you speak a totally different language to me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are you thriving when you pay more £ than others?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

That makes all men £ then so who are the certain ones that won't thrive? Those that are valued at less than a £ or has fab turned into £land?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here?"

Rich or poor we can all thrive here, and anywhere else

Life itself, for everyone, has its struggles, joys, ups and downs so where does cheddar come into it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here?"
No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here? No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!"

Unless there are concessions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eh? "

That's what I was thinking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When there's a surplus of women men will have to pay less.

Don't hold your breath. "

It's the economy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op yours seem to be the only posts I never comment on . I swear you speak a totally different language to me! "

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

Don't think I've had enough caffeine for this

K

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

£-$= (.)(.) = Rex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That makes all men £ then so who are the certain ones that won't thrive? Those that are valued at less than a £ or has fab turned into £land?"
It all depends on what a person considers it to be to thrive..for me paying more than others isn't thriving.

Others may see it differently..just the fact of being a cash cow prevents me from participating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think I've had enough caffeine for this

K"

I don't think there IS enough caffeine for this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here? No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!"

It does though. I have to pay more to enter the circle. Even more to get into a private box.

All the world's a stage and we are merely players !

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By *obby777788Man
over a year ago

Dalton


"I love a good £-ing."
thats the attitude

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here? No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!

It does though. I have to pay more to enter the circle. Even more to get into a private box.

All the world's a stage and we are merely players ! "

Fair enough..I did mention concessions.

You have now added an extra level of fee paying and thanks for pointing that out.

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By *obby777788Man
over a year ago

Dalton


"Eh? "
my thoughts exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here? No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!

It does though. I have to pay more to enter the circle. Even more to get into a private box.

All the world's a stage and we are merely players ! "

Maybe you should have written that some are content to be the subsidizing payers?

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Vote with your feet, if that’s how you feel personally.

Otherwise, I’m not sure I quite see the result of the collective action you seem to be suggesting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When there's a surplus of women men will have to pay less.

Don't hold your breath. "

She has the integrity to answer OP in her own way.

Others play dumb.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Vote with your feet, if that’s how you feel personally.

Otherwise, I’m not sure I quite see the result of the collective action you seem to be suggesting. "

I have voted with my feet.

When I first came around these here parts I participated at such events and had a good time.

It's just that now (for me) it's a no no..simple fact I'm not willing to pay more.

In the first flush of involvement such things never entered the picture.

BUT I learned a little.

I see no collective call to do anything here I'm pointing something out and if I'm wrong? Let me know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sure sign of a gold digger is if they have a string of exes who are progressively wealthier than the previous one.

Power of £

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I qualify for OAP concessions

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here? No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!

It does though. I have to pay more to enter the circle. Even more to get into a private box.

All the world's a stage and we are merely players ! "

The theatre isn't gender based..right?

Neither are football matches or festivals...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A sure sign of a gold digger is if they have a string of exes who are progressively wealthier than the previous one.

Power of £

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Interesting comment.

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Vote with your feet, if that’s how you feel personally.

Otherwise, I’m not sure I quite see the result of the collective action you seem to be suggesting. I have voted with my feet.

When I first came around these here parts I participated at such events and had a good time.

It's just that now (for me) it's a no no..simple fact I'm not willing to pay more.

In the first flush of involvement such things never entered the picture.

BUT I learned a little.

I see no collective call to do anything here I'm pointing something out and if I'm wrong? Let me know."

Nothing wrong. It’s an interesting position you’re taking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When there's a surplus of women men will have to pay less.

Don't hold your breath. "

I do not believe the underlying culture would change even with that as men must ultimately somehow be made to 'pay' for it.

It's good for business.

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

Is it not a question of expectation?

If your approach is to gain, let’s say £, and you only gain £ over 2, then result disappointment!

If your approach is for no gain and you get a smile

Then result : we’ll it’s got to be worth a smile !

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Always been like this, even night clubs used to do it. One of the rare occasions it's cheaper to be a woman, can assure you that doesn't happen often

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By *mmMandyTV/TS
over a year ago

Southampton

how odd!

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"YOU are an ASSET..but not in the way that you think.

You are an asset in £

IF there were less of you £ wouldn't be flowing so much around the club/event scene.

I would rather have fewer options and encounter the haphazardness of integrity found around here than ultimately £ over the odds for it.

Which you are doing when the financial burden falls on you.

Now if entrance fees to such places were equal you wouldn't be £ for them.

You would be playing on a level footing and not mere £

I have read this three times now and I still don't know what you are trying to get across.

Incidentally, Haphazardness of Integrity was the name of my third album when I was in a prog rock group. "

I think the point being made is that for whom it is still financially viable, single men are treated as cash cows and being made to pay over the odds for club entry.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Are you making a public service announcement, wanting people to agree with you or just registering your complaint with us?

I’m unsure what you’re hoping to gain from this?

It kind of reads like one of those anti feminist diatribes that claim to ‘free the downtrodden male’ OP. It’s not a good look

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Are you thriving when you pay more £ than others?"

No, you're opening up new avenues for sex.

Some are guaranteed sex; some aren't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always been like this, even night clubs used to do it. One of the rare occasions it's cheaper to be a woman, can assure you that doesn't happen often "
Thanks for highlighting the nightclub thing..your right!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"YOU are an ASSET..but not in the way that you think.

You are an asset in £

IF there were less of you £ wouldn't be flowing so much around the club/event scene.

I would rather have fewer options and encounter the haphazardness of integrity found around here than ultimately £ over the odds for it.

Which you are doing when the financial burden falls on you.

Now if entrance fees to such places were equal you wouldn't be £ for them.

You would be playing on a level footing and not mere £

I have read this three times now and I still don't know what you are trying to get across.

Incidentally, Haphazardness of Integrity was the name of my third album when I was in a prog rock group.

I think the point being made is that for whom it is still financially viable, single men are treated as cash cows and being made to pay over the odds for club entry."

Cheaper to sit at home and wank over pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess as far as clubs go your probably right but but if I really wanted to play with someone and as I like to meet at clubs I'd happily pay the couple price for both of us if the man couldn't afford it at that time as I'd value a meet with them but outside of clubs money shouldn't be a factor in a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you making a public service announcement, wanting people to agree with you or just registering your complaint with us?

I’m unsure what you’re hoping to gain from this?

It kind of reads like one of those anti feminist diatribes that claim to ‘free the downtrodden male’ OP. It’s not a good look"

Never been interested in looking good here on forum.

To be compared to a feminist! I must be doing something right!!

Hope to achieve..or airing a view..if that's OK with you?

Are feminists downtrodden females?

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By *ussybagderMan
over a year ago

Salford

Been black and hung made me get pussy my way thank god for that

I never went to clubs paid 40 to 60 quid plus travel expenses accommodation on top of that n I don't understand why men do all that on the hope off getting pussy?

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here? No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!

It does though. I have to pay more to enter the circle. Even more to get into a private box.

All the world's a stage and we are merely players ! The theatre isn't gender based..right?

Neither are football matches or festivals..."

Because theatre and football don't rely on the gender balance of the attendees for the event to work.

You can have a football match with 100% male attendance. A straight swinging club with 100% male attendance probably wouldn't work so well.

It's objectively unfair. But this is the result of the culture we have.

Ask yourself why so few women are comfortable going to such events, rather than assuming men are being persecuted.

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"Always been like this, even night clubs used to do it. One of the rare occasions it's cheaper to be a woman, can assure you that doesn't happen often "

Not when you factor in the fact that women often spend a hell of a lot more on 'outfits'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guess as far as clubs go your probably right but but if I really wanted to play with someone and as I like to meet at clubs I'd happily pay the couple price for both of us if the man couldn't afford it at that time as I'd value a meet with them but outside of clubs money shouldn't be a factor in a meet."
A decent way of looking at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a good £-ing."

Weeeey

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here? No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!

It does though. I have to pay more to enter the circle. Even more to get into a private box.

All the world's a stage and we are merely players ! The theatre isn't gender based..right?

Neither are football matches or festivals...

Because theatre and football don't rely on the gender balance of the attendees for the event to work.

You can have a football match with 100% male attendance. A straight swinging club with 100% male attendance probably wouldn't work so well.

It's objectively unfair. But this is the result of the culture we have.

Ask yourself why so few women are comfortable going to such events, rather than assuming men are being persecuted.

"

Persecution?

That's strong!

Maybe used.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Are you making a public service announcement, wanting people to agree with you or just registering your complaint with us?

I’m unsure what you’re hoping to gain from this?

It kind of reads like one of those anti feminist diatribes that claim to ‘free the downtrodden male’ OP. It’s not a good look Never been interested in looking good here on forum.

To be compared to a feminist! I must be doing something right!!

Hope to achieve..or airing a view..if that's OK with you?

Are feminists downtrodden females?

"

You’re missing my point OP.

You sound like a bitter anti feminist. If you don’t like the clubs, don’t go, lots don’t. You don’t speak for men.

My question still stands, what’s the point in your post?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always been like this, even night clubs used to do it. One of the rare occasions it's cheaper to be a woman, can assure you that doesn't happen often

Not when you factor in the fact that women often spend a hell of a lot more on 'outfits' "

Who needs anyone to dress up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't all of this based on supply and demand, and the desperation/inflated ideas of men?

If all clubs charged a flat rate of say £££££, then all men would pay £££££ to get in the club's, and the clubs would be full of men all believing that their £££££ would get them a guaranteed shag.

If men weren't so sex obsessed and stupid, everyone would be paying ££ to get in and there would be an equal mix of the sexes.

Much like everything that involves £, if you don't wanna pay £ don't pay £ and don't complain that you're missing out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"YOU are an ASSET..but not in the way that you think.

You are an asset in £

IF there were less of you £ wouldn't be flowing so much around the club/event scene.

I would rather have fewer options and encounter the haphazardness of integrity found around here than ultimately £ over the odds for it.

Which you are doing when the financial burden falls on you.

Now if entrance fees to such places were equal you wouldn't be £ for them.

You would be playing on a level footing and not mere £

"

Power to the People!! Those whom know,they know. Many will ponder,many will wonder with a state of mind yonder!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you making a public service announcement, wanting people to agree with you or just registering your complaint with us?

I’m unsure what you’re hoping to gain from this?

It kind of reads like one of those anti feminist diatribes that claim to ‘free the downtrodden male’ OP. It’s not a good look Never been interested in looking good here on forum.

To be compared to a feminist! I must be doing something right!!

Hope to achieve..or airing a view..if that's OK with you?

Are feminists downtrodden females?

You’re missing my point OP.

You sound like a bitter anti feminist. If you don’t like the clubs, don’t go, lots don’t. You don’t speak for men.

My question still stands, what’s the point in your post?"

No, you want me to come across as a bitter anti-feminist..I'm talking about £.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the way, petrol prices are at their highest £ since 9 years ago, because they can get the £ from those who are desperate enough to pay it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't all of this based on supply and demand, and the desperation/inflated ideas of men?

If all clubs charged a flat rate of say £££££, then all men would pay £££££ to get in the club's, and the clubs would be full of men all believing that their £££££ would get them a guaranteed shag.

If men weren't so sex obsessed and stupid, everyone would be paying ££ to get in and there would be an equal mix of the sexes.

Much like everything that involves £, if you don't wanna pay £ don't pay £ and don't complain that you're missing out."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"By the way, petrol prices are at their highest £ since 9 years ago, because they can get the £ from those who are desperate enough to pay it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a good £-ing."

Maybe a €,¥,$.. lol

All A fucking lurid Currency created for the Masses to drown in deep.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love a good £-ing.

Maybe a €,¥,$.. lol

All A fucking lurid Currency created for the Masses to drown in deep. "

The love of money is the root of all evil

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral

Can we all have a whip around and collect £20 for this guy to go the club and end this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op yours seem to be the only posts I never comment on . I swear you speak a totally different language to me! "

Maybe what we think we dont understand or assume? Is alien,weird,different,strange so we keep away far away!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can we all have a whip around and collect £20 for this guy to go the club and end this."
I'm fine..and wouldn't even go if you did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That makes all men £ then so who are the certain ones that won't thrive? Those that are valued at less than a £ or has fab turned into £land? It all depends on what a person considers it to be to thrive..for me paying more than others isn't thriving.

Others may see it differently..just the fact of being a cash cow prevents me from participating."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Op yours seem to be the only posts I never comment on . I swear you speak a totally different language to me!

Maybe what we think we dont understand or assume? Is alien,weird,different,strange so we keep away far away! "

An idealised picket fence?

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Are you making a public service announcement, wanting people to agree with you or just registering your complaint with us?

I’m unsure what you’re hoping to gain from this?

It kind of reads like one of those anti feminist diatribes that claim to ‘free the downtrodden male’ OP. It’s not a good look Never been interested in looking good here on forum.

To be compared to a feminist! I must be doing something right!!

Hope to achieve..or airing a view..if that's OK with you?

Are feminists downtrodden females?

You’re missing my point OP.

You sound like a bitter anti feminist. If you don’t like the clubs, don’t go, lots don’t. You don’t speak for men.

My question still stands, what’s the point in your post? No, you want me to come across as a bitter anti-feminist..I'm talking about £.

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I’m just saying what you’re sounding like.

The reality is that it’s about economics and clubs using pricing to maintain a balance of genders.

If you don’t like it, don’t go.

You’ve still avoided my question about why you’ve posted your economic rant/diatribe though

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Everytime I think I understand what the point is, I end up confused again. So I wont comment on that directly.

However I do think there being a price difference based upon gender/sex is wrong and should not exist for whatever reason. It would be getting slammed as sexist if it were reversed (regardless of ratios) and in almost every other transaction. People shout about equality and respect but then are fine with things like this.

I don't do clubs, I never will so my overall investment in the whole thing is low anyway. But the entire situation shows for most equality is very rarely the goal for most people and it really comes down to what is best for them as an individual.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you making a public service announcement, wanting people to agree with you or just registering your complaint with us?

I’m unsure what you’re hoping to gain from this?

It kind of reads like one of those anti feminist diatribes that claim to ‘free the downtrodden male’ OP. It’s not a good look Never been interested in looking good here on forum.

To be compared to a feminist! I must be doing something right!!

Hope to achieve..or airing a view..if that's OK with you?

Are feminists downtrodden females?

You’re missing my point OP.

You sound like a bitter anti feminist. If you don’t like the clubs, don’t go, lots don’t. You don’t speak for men.

My question still stands, what’s the point in your post? No, you want me to come across as a bitter anti-feminist..I'm talking about £.

I’m just saying what you’re sounding like.

The reality is that it’s about economics and clubs using pricing to maintain a balance of genders.

If you don’t like it, don’t go.

You’ve still avoided my question about why you’ve posted your economic rant/diatribe though"

I don't go anymore and it's an opinion.

Is that a good enough answer?

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

Not sure I understand even a bit if the first few posts other than wordplay - anyone translate for the hard of Thinking? Pref in private as i’ll only lose my place again

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over a year ago


"Everytime I think I understand what the point is, I end up confused again. So I wont comment on that directly.

However I do think there being a price difference based upon gender/sex is wrong and should not exist for whatever reason. It would be getting slammed as sexist if it were reversed (regardless of ratios) and in almost every other transaction. People shout about equality and respect but then are fine with things like this.

I don't do clubs, I never will so my overall investment in the whole thing is low anyway. But the entire situation shows for most equality is very rarely the goal for most people and it really comes down to what is best for them as an individual. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's simple economics. Supply and demand x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's simple economics. Supply and demand x"
Are you supplying a demand?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's simple economics. Supply and demand x Are you supplying a demand?"
Or demanding a supply?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's simple economics. Supply and demand x Are you supplying a demand?Or demanding a supply?"
Sex sells..am I right?

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"Always been like this, even night clubs used to do it. One of the rare occasions it's cheaper to be a woman, can assure you that doesn't happen often

Not when you factor in the fact that women often spend a hell of a lot more on 'outfits' Who needs anyone to dress up?"

What? Who says they're dressing up for anyone but themselves?

For alot of us it's the experience as a whole.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"It's simple economics. Supply and demand x Are you supplying a demand?Or demanding a supply?Sex sells..am I right?"
who buys.?.. the blokes.. apart from diet c*ke

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always been like this, even night clubs used to do it. One of the rare occasions it's cheaper to be a woman, can assure you that doesn't happen often

Not when you factor in the fact that women often spend a hell of a lot more on 'outfits' Who needs anyone to dress up?

What? Who says they're dressing up for anyone but themselves?

For alot of us it's the experience as a whole. "

For me it's whose paying for that experience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's simple economics. Supply and demand x Are you supplying a demand?Or demanding a supply?Sex sells..am I right?who buys.?.. the blokes.. apart from diet c*ke "
Don't turn this into a laughing match

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread belongs in ‘The Matrix’

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"Always been like this, even night clubs used to do it. One of the rare occasions it's cheaper to be a woman, can assure you that doesn't happen often

Not when you factor in the fact that women often spend a hell of a lot more on 'outfits' Who needs anyone to dress up?

What? Who says they're dressing up for anyone but themselves?

For alot of us it's the experience as a whole. For me it's whose paying for that experience."

I've better things to do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always been like this, even night clubs used to do it. One of the rare occasions it's cheaper to be a woman, can assure you that doesn't happen often

Not when you factor in the fact that women often spend a hell of a lot more on 'outfits' Who needs anyone to dress up?

What? Who says they're dressing up for anyone but themselves?

For alot of us it's the experience as a whole. For me it's whose paying for that experience."

Please refer to OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's simple economics. Supply and demand x Are you supplying a demand?Or demanding a supply?"

I'm definitely in the demanding a supply bracket

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's simple economics. Supply and demand x Are you supplying a demand?Or demanding a supply?

I'm definitely in the demanding a supply bracket "

Thank you for supplying that answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Word salad

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Word salad"
My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here!

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"Word salad"

rolf alphabet soup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That makes all men £ then so who are the certain ones that won't thrive? Those that are valued at less than a £ or has fab turned into £land? It all depends on what a person considers it to be to thrive..for me paying more than others isn't thriving.

Others may see it differently..just the fact of being a cash cow prevents me from participating."

so don't,end of thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! "
Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

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By *e CaffMan
over a year ago

Poole

I don't thrive on here, nothing to do with dosh though, I did when I had a couple's profile with my ex, but as a singley, it's fucking hard work! Mind you, I've a far to real life profile. Hey ho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Word salad

rolf alphabet soup"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here."
Of course those who having nothing to add roll in during the later stages..like d*unks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here."

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad

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over a year ago


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad "

I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed.

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over a year ago


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed."

hicc

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here? No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!"

Yes but that's because it doesn't matter whether the people who go to a theatre are either men or women or anything else. It does matter very much at singers clubs because there are many more men who would go than women. What would your suggestion be for making sure clubs are not swamped with men if it's not pricing?

Why don't you just go to a gay sauna? You'll be treated the same as everybody else. Or maybe it makes a difference to you that there are no women there, unlike at a theatre.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Been black and hung made me get pussy my way thank god for that

I never went to clubs paid 40 to 60 quid plus travel expenses accommodation on top of that n I don't understand why men do all that on the hope off getting pussy?

"

Because they aren't black and hung?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed."

Bit early for alcohol.

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed."

That's a relief, I emoji as well as u punctuate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed."

When certain people have nothing to say they try to make things personal...the last bastion of the hold-out!

So I put the cannons on 'em and return fire!

Ready...aim...

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I like to think of myself as a rare penny than a £

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed.

Bit early for alcohol."

Nah Sunday lunch time is fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed. That's a relief, I emoji as well as u punctuate. "

To be or not to be that is the

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed.

Bit early for alcohol.

Nah Sunday lunch time is fine "

I blame the lemsip

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here? No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!

Yes but that's because it doesn't matter whether the people who go to a theatre are either men or women or anything else. It does matter very much at singers clubs because there are many more men who would go than women. What would your suggestion be for making sure clubs are not swamped with men if it's not pricing?

Why don't you just go to a gay sauna? You'll be treated the same as everybody else. Or maybe it makes a difference to you that there are no women there, unlike at a theatre. "

What's wrong with gay saunas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed. When certain people have nothing to say they try to make things personal...the last bastion of the hold-out!

So I put the cannons on 'em and return fire!

Ready...aim..."

Oooh you’re ard’ *must be said in the voice of Ricky Gervaise haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed. When certain people have nothing to say they try to make things personal...the last bastion of the hold-out!

So I put the cannons on 'em and return fire!

Ready...aim...

Oooh you’re ard’ *must be said in the voice of Ricky Gervaise haha "

Absolutely!

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed.

Bit early for alcohol.

Nah Sunday lunch time is fine

I blame the lemsip "

Dangerous stuff that

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed. When certain people have nothing to say they try to make things personal...the last bastion of the hold-out!

So I put the cannons on 'em and return fire!

Ready...aim...

Oooh you’re ard’ *must be said in the voice of Ricky Gervaise haha

Absolutely! "

[rolf]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit early for alcohol."

I've downed three bottles of Grant's just to try to understand this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed.

Bit early for alcohol.

Nah Sunday lunch time is fine

I blame the lemsip

Dangerous stuff that "

Tell me about it! It's sent me over the edge!

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed. When certain people have nothing to say they try to make things personal...the last bastion of the hold-out!

So I put the cannons on 'em and return fire!

Ready...aim...

Oooh you’re ard’ *must be said in the voice of Ricky Gervaise haha

Absolutely!

[rolf]"

Damn still can't do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit early for alcohol.

I've downed three bottles of Grant's just to try to understand this thread "

Did it help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed. When certain people have nothing to say they try to make things personal...the last bastion of the hold-out!

So I put the cannons on 'em and return fire!

Ready...aim...

Oooh you’re ard’ *must be said in the voice of Ricky Gervaise haha

Absolutely!

[rolf]

Damn still can't do it "

ROFL not Rolf

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here? No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!

Yes but that's because it doesn't matter whether the people who go to a theatre are either men or women or anything else. It does matter very much at singers clubs because there are many more men who would go than women. What would your suggestion be for making sure clubs are not swamped with men if it's not pricing?

Why don't you just go to a gay sauna? You'll be treated the same as everybody else. Or maybe it makes a difference to you that there are no women there, unlike at a theatre. What's wrong with gay saunas?"

I didn't say anything is wrong with gay saunas. I was recommending them to you if the balance of men to women is less important to you than a pricing policy that doesn't favour women.

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed. When certain people have nothing to say they try to make things personal...the last bastion of the hold-out!

So I put the cannons on 'em and return fire!

Ready...aim...

Oooh you’re ard’ *must be said in the voice of Ricky Gervaise haha

Absolutely!

[rolf]

Damn still can't do it

ROFL not Rolf "

[ROLF]

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed. When certain people have nothing to say they try to make things personal...the last bastion of the hold-out!

So I put the cannons on 'em and return fire!

Ready...aim...

Oooh you’re ard’ *must be said in the voice of Ricky Gervaise haha

Absolutely!

[rolf]

Damn still can't do it

ROFL not Rolf

[ROLF]"

Oh. Shit.

[ROFL]..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed. When certain people have nothing to say they try to make things personal...the last bastion of the hold-out!

So I put the cannons on 'em and return fire!

Ready...aim...

Oooh you’re ard’ *must be said in the voice of Ricky Gervaise haha "

Your a woman right? So where does my supposed hardness come into it with you?

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed. When certain people have nothing to say they try to make things personal...the last bastion of the hold-out!

So I put the cannons on 'em and return fire!

Ready...aim...

Oooh you’re ard’ *must be said in the voice of Ricky Gervaise haha

Absolutely!

[rolf]

Damn still can't do it

ROFL not Rolf

[ROLF]

Oh. Shit.

[ROFL]..

"

Still no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here? No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!

Yes but that's because it doesn't matter whether the people who go to a theatre are either men or women or anything else. It does matter very much at singers clubs because there are many more men who would go than women. What would your suggestion be for making sure clubs are not swamped with men if it's not pricing?

Why don't you just go to a gay sauna? You'll be treated the same as everybody else. Or maybe it makes a difference to you that there are no women there, unlike at a theatre. What's wrong with gay saunas?

I didn't say anything is wrong with gay saunas. I was recommending them to you if the balance of men to women is less important to you than a pricing policy that doesn't favour women. "

Why would you recommend a gay sauna to me?

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed. When certain people have nothing to say they try to make things personal...the last bastion of the hold-out!

So I put the cannons on 'em and return fire!

Ready...aim...

Oooh you’re ard’ *must be said in the voice of Ricky Gervaise haha Your a woman right? So where does my supposed hardness come into it with you?"

Ohhh I know this one! Your dick?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did it help? "

Let's just say, I'm heading to the shop to try out the new ££££100 contactless limit

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By *isurreyguy2019Man
over a year ago

surrey


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here? No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!

Yes but that's because it doesn't matter whether the people who go to a theatre are either men or women or anything else. It does matter very much at singers clubs because there are many more men who would go than women. What would your suggestion be for making sure clubs are not swamped with men if it's not pricing?

Why don't you just go to a gay sauna? You'll be treated the same as everybody else. Or maybe it makes a difference to you that there are no women there, unlike at a theatre. "

Even some gay saunas charge students and younger people between 18/25yrs a bit less than someone older.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here? No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!

Yes but that's because it doesn't matter whether the people who go to a theatre are either men or women or anything else. It does matter very much at singers clubs because there are many more men who would go than women. What would your suggestion be for making sure clubs are not swamped with men if it's not pricing?

Why don't you just go to a gay sauna? You'll be treated the same as everybody else. Or maybe it makes a difference to you that there are no women there, unlike at a theatre. What's wrong with gay saunas?

I didn't say anything is wrong with gay saunas. I was recommending them to you if the balance of men to women is less important to you than a pricing policy that doesn't favour women. Why would you recommend a gay sauna to me?"

Oh for goodness sake. You want yo go somewhere you can have sex but you don't like a pricing policy that favours women. Gay sauna. Job done.

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here? No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!

Yes but that's because it doesn't matter whether the people who go to a theatre are either men or women or anything else. It does matter very much at singers clubs because there are many more men who would go than women. What would your suggestion be for making sure clubs are not swamped with men if it's not pricing?

Why don't you just go to a gay sauna? You'll be treated the same as everybody else. Or maybe it makes a difference to you that there are no women there, unlike at a theatre. What's wrong with gay saunas?

I didn't say anything is wrong with gay saunas. I was recommending them to you if the balance of men to women is less important to you than a pricing policy that doesn't favour women. Why would you recommend a gay sauna to me?

Oh for goodness sake. You want yo go somewhere you can have sex but you don't like a pricing policy that favours women. Gay sauna. Job done. "

Why are there no lesbian saunas?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here? No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!

Yes but that's because it doesn't matter whether the people who go to a theatre are either men or women or anything else. It does matter very much at singers clubs because there are many more men who would go than women. What would your suggestion be for making sure clubs are not swamped with men if it's not pricing?

Why don't you just go to a gay sauna? You'll be treated the same as everybody else. Or maybe it makes a difference to you that there are no women there, unlike at a theatre. What's wrong with gay saunas?

I didn't say anything is wrong with gay saunas. I was recommending them to you if the balance of men to women is less important to you than a pricing policy that doesn't favour women. Why would you recommend a gay sauna to me?

Oh for goodness sake. You want yo go somewhere you can have sex but you don't like a pricing policy that favours women. Gay sauna. Job done. "

So you are recommending a gay sauna to a straight man because he raised an issue of men paying £ here?

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here? No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!

Yes but that's because it doesn't matter whether the people who go to a theatre are either men or women or anything else. It does matter very much at singers clubs because there are many more men who would go than women. What would your suggestion be for making sure clubs are not swamped with men if it's not pricing?

Why don't you just go to a gay sauna? You'll be treated the same as everybody else. Or maybe it makes a difference to you that there are no women there, unlike at a theatre. What's wrong with gay saunas?

I didn't say anything is wrong with gay saunas. I was recommending them to you if the balance of men to women is less important to you than a pricing policy that doesn't favour women. Why would you recommend a gay sauna to me?

Oh for goodness sake. You want yo go somewhere you can have sex but you don't like a pricing policy that favours women. Gay sauna. Job done. So you are recommending a gay sauna to a straight man because he raised an issue of men paying £ here?"

You'd pick a fight with your own reflection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed. When certain people have nothing to say they try to make things personal...the last bastion of the hold-out!

So I put the cannons on 'em and return fire!

Ready...aim...

Oooh you’re ard’ *must be said in the voice of Ricky Gervaise haha

Absolutely!

[rolf]

Damn still can't do it

ROFL not Rolf

[ROLF]

Oh. Shit.

[ROFL]..

Still no. "

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over a year ago


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed. When certain people have nothing to say they try to make things personal...the last bastion of the hold-out!

So I put the cannons on 'em and return fire!

Ready...aim...

Oooh you’re ard’ *must be said in the voice of Ricky Gervaise haha Your a woman right? So where does my supposed hardness come into it with you?"

Ooo-er Matron!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here? No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!

Yes but that's because it doesn't matter whether the people who go to a theatre are either men or women or anything else. It does matter very much at singers clubs because there are many more men who would go than women. What would your suggestion be for making sure clubs are not swamped with men if it's not pricing?

Why don't you just go to a gay sauna? You'll be treated the same as everybody else. Or maybe it makes a difference to you that there are no women there, unlike at a theatre. What's wrong with gay saunas?

I didn't say anything is wrong with gay saunas. I was recommending them to you if the balance of men to women is less important to you than a pricing policy that doesn't favour women. Why would you recommend a gay sauna to me?

Oh for goodness sake. You want yo go somewhere you can have sex but you don't like a pricing policy that favours women. Gay sauna. Job done.

Why are there no lesbian saunas? "

I have been invited to a women's only play event. I think they have a sauna? Non-gendered pricing too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did it help?

Let's just say, I'm heading to the shop to try out the new ££££100 contactless limit "

Ooh dicey

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here? No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!

Yes but that's because it doesn't matter whether the people who go to a theatre are either men or women or anything else. It does matter very much at singers clubs because there are many more men who would go than women. What would your suggestion be for making sure clubs are not swamped with men if it's not pricing?

Why don't you just go to a gay sauna? You'll be treated the same as everybody else. Or maybe it makes a difference to you that there are no women there, unlike at a theatre. What's wrong with gay saunas?

I didn't say anything is wrong with gay saunas. I was recommending them to you if the balance of men to women is less important to you than a pricing policy that doesn't favour women. Why would you recommend a gay sauna to me?

Oh for goodness sake. You want yo go somewhere you can have sex but you don't like a pricing policy that favours women. Gay sauna. Job done.

Why are there no lesbian saunas? "

This!!

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend


"It's simple economics. Supply and demand x Are you supplying a demand?Or demanding a supply?Sex sells..am I right?"

mem have more need/ desire for casual sex, we cant help it but it makes us vulnerable to being exploited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's simple economics. Supply and demand x Are you supplying a demand?Or demanding a supply?Sex sells..am I right?

mem have more need/ desire for casual sex, we cant help it but it makes us vulnerable to being exploited "

Oh FFS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a good £-ing.

Maybe a €,¥,$.. lol

All A fucking lurid Currency created for the Masses to drown in deep. The love of money is the root of all evil "

Can be white washed and bathed away! Hear no evil,see no evil,do no evil!

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Fab is one of the few equal opportunity sites around.

Although I do agree that single guys are charged more to get into clubs, it a way of keeping the numbers down, if you want to go to a club, you pay the price and visa versa, it is all about balance, you have to remember that the single ladies hold the power both on here and in the clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here. Of course those who having nothing to add roll in during the later stages..like d*unks."

Pernod,snowball,thunderbird,

Punch d*unk on this sweet FCUK life!! " Wow last of the summer wine "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here. Of course those who having nothing to add roll in during the later stages..like d*unks.

Pernod,snowball,thunderbird,

Punch d*unk on this sweet FCUK life!! " Wow last of the summer wine " "

Ooh, what's a thunderbird?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread belongs in ‘The Matrix’

"

We all are tangled deep deep in the Black holed " Matrix" you cant smell it.nor see it,nor touch it! Yet its there all around us Daily.

They got us smart enough to do what they want. But make you think it is your very own idea!!

I say oh chap/chapesse's what is the way out?? Over there,here,over there?? I say do help us,off your lazy ass..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed. When certain people have nothing to say they try to make things personal...the last bastion of the hold-out!

So I put the cannons on 'em and return fire!

Ready...aim..."

Boom boom boom. To smithereens!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is like Brexit.

Nobody understood it to start with, it's gone on so long nobody even cares anymore and the outcome is going to be the one who started it feeling like a bit of a tit.

All we need now is two resignations, a pandemic to interrupt it and a swinger shortage leading to panic shagging when it's all settled down a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here. Of course those who having nothing to add roll in during the later stages..like d*unks.

Pernod,snowball,thunderbird,

Punch d*unk on this sweet FCUK life!! " Wow last of the summer wine "

Ooh, what's a thunderbird? "

Lol got you curious now heh? Lol. Thunderbirds away! Seek and you shall know & find.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here? No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!

Yes but that's because it doesn't matter whether the people who go to a theatre are either men or women or anything else. It does matter very much at singers clubs because there are many more men who would go than women. What would your suggestion be for making sure clubs are not swamped with men if it's not pricing?

Why don't you just go to a gay sauna? You'll be treated the same as everybody else. Or maybe it makes a difference to you that there are no women there, unlike at a theatre. What's wrong with gay saunas?

I didn't say anything is wrong with gay saunas. I was recommending them to you if the balance of men to women is less important to you than a pricing policy that doesn't favour women. Why would you recommend a gay sauna to me?

Oh for goodness sake. You want yo go somewhere you can have sex but you don't like a pricing policy that favours women. Gay sauna. Job done. So you are recommending a gay sauna to a straight man because he raised an issue of men paying £ here?"

Yes. It's called making a point. If a gay sauna is not appropriate for you, maybe you are acknowledging that you want some women there. A club with an equal pricing policy is likely to be swamped with men, and most men's chances with women wouldn't be any better than at a gay sauna. So I'm just saying that if that's what you want, then go to a gay sauna and at least you'll pay the same as everybody else and you can still have wank before you go home.

Please tell me somebody else understands the point I'm making.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here? No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!

Yes but that's because it doesn't matter whether the people who go to a theatre are either men or women or anything else. It does matter very much at singers clubs because there are many more men who would go than women. What would your suggestion be for making sure clubs are not swamped with men if it's not pricing?

Why don't you just go to a gay sauna? You'll be treated the same as everybody else. Or maybe it makes a difference to you that there are no women there, unlike at a theatre. What's wrong with gay saunas?

I didn't say anything is wrong with gay saunas. I was recommending them to you if the balance of men to women is less important to you than a pricing policy that doesn't favour women. Why would you recommend a gay sauna to me?

Oh for goodness sake. You want yo go somewhere you can have sex but you don't like a pricing policy that favours women. Gay sauna. Job done.

Why are there no lesbian saunas?

This!! "

There's one in Ipswich, at least on one day each week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here? No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!

Yes but that's because it doesn't matter whether the people who go to a theatre are either men or women or anything else. It does matter very much at singers clubs because there are many more men who would go than women. What would your suggestion be for making sure clubs are not swamped with men if it's not pricing?

Why don't you just go to a gay sauna? You'll be treated the same as everybody else. Or maybe it makes a difference to you that there are no women there, unlike at a theatre. What's wrong with gay saunas?

I didn't say anything is wrong with gay saunas. I was recommending them to you if the balance of men to women is less important to you than a pricing policy that doesn't favour women. Why would you recommend a gay sauna to me?

Oh for goodness sake. You want yo go somewhere you can have sex but you don't like a pricing policy that favours women. Gay sauna. Job done. So you are recommending a gay sauna to a straight man because he raised an issue of men paying £ here?

Yes. It's called making a point. If a gay sauna is not appropriate for you, maybe you are acknowledging that you want some women there. A club with an equal pricing policy is likely to be swamped with men, and most men's chances with women wouldn't be any better than at a gay sauna. So I'm just saying that if that's what you want, then go to a gay sauna and at least you'll pay the same as everybody else and you can still have wank before you go home.

Please tell me somebody else understands the point I'm making. "

Yes. I think it's wasted though, sorry! This isn't a thread for reasonable points.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here? No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!

Yes but that's because it doesn't matter whether the people who go to a theatre are either men or women or anything else. It does matter very much at singers clubs because there are many more men who would go than women. What would your suggestion be for making sure clubs are not swamped with men if it's not pricing?

Why don't you just go to a gay sauna? You'll be treated the same as everybody else. Or maybe it makes a difference to you that there are no women there, unlike at a theatre. What's wrong with gay saunas?

I didn't say anything is wrong with gay saunas. I was recommending them to you if the balance of men to women is less important to you than a pricing policy that doesn't favour women. Why would you recommend a gay sauna to me?

Oh for goodness sake. You want yo go somewhere you can have sex but you don't like a pricing policy that favours women. Gay sauna. Job done. So you are recommending a gay sauna to a straight man because he raised an issue of men paying £ here?

Yes. It's called making a point. If a gay sauna is not appropriate for you, maybe you are acknowledging that you want some women there. A club with an equal pricing policy is likely to be swamped with men, and most men's chances with women wouldn't be any better than at a gay sauna. So I'm just saying that if that's what you want, then go to a gay sauna and at least you'll pay the same as everybody else and you can still have wank before you go home.

Please tell me somebody else understands the point I'm making. "

Crystal clear to me. Cottaging is free if £s truly are a factor.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here? No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!

Yes but that's because it doesn't matter whether the people who go to a theatre are either men or women or anything else. It does matter very much at singers clubs because there are many more men who would go than women. What would your suggestion be for making sure clubs are not swamped with men if it's not pricing?

Why don't you just go to a gay sauna? You'll be treated the same as everybody else. Or maybe it makes a difference to you that there are no women there, unlike at a theatre. What's wrong with gay saunas?

I didn't say anything is wrong with gay saunas. I was recommending them to you if the balance of men to women is less important to you than a pricing policy that doesn't favour women. Why would you recommend a gay sauna to me?

Oh for goodness sake. You want yo go somewhere you can have sex but you don't like a pricing policy that favours women. Gay sauna. Job done.

Why are there no lesbian saunas?

This!!

There's one in Ipswich, at least on one day each week. "

Is there really? I’ll message you if that’s ok x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here. Of course those who having nothing to add roll in during the later stages..like d*unks.

Pernod,snowball,thunderbird,

Punch d*unk on this sweet FCUK life!! " Wow last of the summer wine "

Ooh, what's a thunderbird?

Lol got you curious now heh? Lol. Thunderbirds away! Seek and you shall know & find. "

I've had very few fancy drinks in my life. Thunderbirds are GO!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is like Brexit.

Nobody understood it to start with, it's gone on so long nobody even cares anymore and the outcome is going to be the one who started it feeling like a bit of a tit.

All we need now is two resignations, a pandemic to interrupt it and a swinger shortage leading to panic shagging when it's all settled down a bit."

Op Shall we Promote this fella forth Wiff??

To the higher levels for his problem solving foresight. The honourable fella has contributed with Gusto..

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

OP, you really are quite an inflammatory personality aren’t you.

The title of your post bares little relevance to the point you’re trying to make within.

There will always be disparate pricing as the market dictates it.

It’s an inverse economy of scale. The minority (single women, couples) need to be incentivised to take part and the majority (men) pay for that incentive.

You won’t change it by bleating about it or trying to start a Revolution. If you want equality, follow Luke’s suggestion and go to a gay sauna where all pay the same and have equal opportunity.

Fab will always reward those who try harder. You get out of here what you put in.

Just try to have fun

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here. Of course those who having nothing to add roll in during the later stages..like d*unks.

Pernod,snowball,thunderbird,

Punch d*unk on this sweet FCUK life!! " Wow last of the summer wine "

Ooh, what's a thunderbird?

Lol got you curious now heh? Lol. Thunderbirds away! Seek and you shall know & find.

I've had very few fancy drinks in my life. Thunderbirds are GO! "

Lol i had sitll have somewhere hidden,my Thunderbird toys.

All my mates used to get Smashed! Or "mashed" back in the day on Thunderbird's drink and puff..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op yours seem to be the only posts I never comment on . I swear you speak a totally different language to me! "

He does. Probably to get attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm uncertain what the link is that you are proposing between being an asset that is required to pay a premium by virtue of simply being its gender for entry into a club and the ability to thrive here.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Trying to convince single men that they are valuable to swinging establishments as they pay more?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I love a good £-ing."

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Eh? "

I’m guessing the op means the inequity in pricing when it comes to swinging clubs.

The reason is very simple - there are at least ten times as many men on fab as there are women.

Why? Probably because a single female swinger would be viewed as a ‘slag’ by the outside world - in fact often the men of fab seem to hold the women on here in little regard.

Op - when the world out there (and in here) grows up and accepts that women have every right to be as sexually active/non monogamous as men without being derided for it - then perhaps the numbers on fab will even up - and the pricing policy in clubs might do too.

Can’t see it happening in my lifetime though unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here? No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!

Yes but that's because it doesn't matter whether the people who go to a theatre are either men or women or anything else. It does matter very much at singers clubs because there are many more men who would go than women. What would your suggestion be for making sure clubs are not swamped with men if it's not pricing?

Why don't you just go to a gay sauna? You'll be treated the same as everybody else. Or maybe it makes a difference to you that there are no women there, unlike at a theatre. What's wrong with gay saunas?

I didn't say anything is wrong with gay saunas. I was recommending them to you if the balance of men to women is less important to you than a pricing policy that doesn't favour women. Why would you recommend a gay sauna to me?

Oh for goodness sake. You want yo go somewhere you can have sex but you don't like a pricing policy that favours women. Gay sauna. Job done. So you are recommending a gay sauna to a straight man because he raised an issue of men paying £ here?

Yes. It's called making a point. If a gay sauna is not appropriate for you, maybe you are acknowledging that you want some women there. A club with an equal pricing policy is likely to be swamped with men, and most men's chances with women wouldn't be any better than at a gay sauna. So I'm just saying that if that's what you want, then go to a gay sauna and at least you'll pay the same as everybody else and you can still have wank before you go home.

Please tell me somebody else understands the point I'm making. "

I can still have a wank before I go home?

So I would attend a gay sauna to wank?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Eh?

I’m guessing the op means the inequity in pricing when it comes to swinging clubs.

The reason is very simple - there are at least ten times as many men on fab as there are women.

Why? Probably because a single female swinger would be viewed as a ‘slag’ by the outside world - in fact often the men of fab seem to hold the women on here in little regard.

Op - when the world out there (and in here) grows up and accepts that women have every right to be as sexually active/non monogamous as men without being derided for it - then perhaps the numbers on fab will even up - and the pricing policy in clubs might do too.

Can’t see it happening in my lifetime though unfortunately. "

This is very interesting point, and I have a question about it. How much would you say it's about shame (which I'm sure is a factor for some women) and how much of it is just that it's not what a lot of women want. I personally would have thought that far fewer women just naturally aren't interested in swinging, ethical non-monogamy and all the sort of thing this scene involves. I think it much more naturally appeals to men because their biology is such that they want to sow their seed. Many women don't crave different lovers in the way men do.

How much do you think shame and stigma are the driving factors for women not being on this scene as much as men?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed. When certain people have nothing to say they try to make things personal...the last bastion of the hold-out!

So I put the cannons on 'em and return fire!

Ready...aim...

Boom boom boom. To smithereens! "

Let's leave a few pieces for others to pick up on?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here? No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!

Yes but that's because it doesn't matter whether the people who go to a theatre are either men or women or anything else. It does matter very much at singers clubs because there are many more men who would go than women. What would your suggestion be for making sure clubs are not swamped with men if it's not pricing?

Why don't you just go to a gay sauna? You'll be treated the same as everybody else. Or maybe it makes a difference to you that there are no women there, unlike at a theatre. What's wrong with gay saunas?

I didn't say anything is wrong with gay saunas. I was recommending them to you if the balance of men to women is less important to you than a pricing policy that doesn't favour women. Why would you recommend a gay sauna to me?

Oh for goodness sake. You want yo go somewhere you can have sex but you don't like a pricing policy that favours women. Gay sauna. Job done. So you are recommending a gay sauna to a straight man because he raised an issue of men paying £ here?

Yes. It's called making a point. If a gay sauna is not appropriate for you, maybe you are acknowledging that you want some women there. A club with an equal pricing policy is likely to be swamped with men, and most men's chances with women wouldn't be any better than at a gay sauna. So I'm just saying that if that's what you want, then go to a gay sauna and at least you'll pay the same as everybody else and you can still have wank before you go home.

Please tell me somebody else understands the point I'm making. I can still have a wank before I go home?

So I would attend a gay sauna to wank?"

Oh my lord. Please can somebody explain this to him? Or maybe he is winding me up.

Just answer one question, OP. If you went to a club and there are 20 men for every woman, do you think that would still be worth going to? How confident are you that you would get somewhere with a woman in that situation?

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed. When certain people have nothing to say they try to make things personal...the last bastion of the hold-out!

So I put the cannons on 'em and return fire!

Ready...aim...

Oooh you’re ard’ *must be said in the voice of Ricky Gervaise haha

Absolutely!

[rolf]

Damn still can't do it

ROFL not Rolf

[ROLF]

Oh. Shit.

[ROFL]..

Still no.

Lowercase ()"

[]

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed. When certain people have nothing to say they try to make things personal...the last bastion of the hold-out!

So I put the cannons on 'em and return fire!

Ready...aim...

Oooh you’re ard’ *must be said in the voice of Ricky Gervaise haha

Absolutely!

[rolf]

Damn still can't do it

ROFL not Rolf

[ROLF]

Oh. Shit.

[ROFL]..

Still no.

Lowercase ()

[]"

Ohhhh nailed it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Word salad My friend..Word Salad..your ass outta here! Your disrespecting many and solid contributions here.

Oh I just meant your OP is word salad I just meant you roll in here like a d*unk...no emoji needed. When certain people have nothing to say they try to make things personal...the last bastion of the hold-out!

So I put the cannons on 'em and return fire!

Ready...aim...

Oooh you’re ard’ *must be said in the voice of Ricky Gervaise haha

Absolutely!

[rolf]

Damn still can't do it

ROFL not Rolf

[ROLF]

Oh. Shit.

[ROFL]..

Still no.

Lowercase ()

[]"

Woo-hoo!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Not read it all as I'm not a revolutionary type.

But aside from any club revenue, many people are a total drain on Fab's resources, as they cannot even cough up £5 every few weeks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you mean poor men can't thrive here? No I mean..any man who is paying more than others to enter a place.

That doesn't happen at the theatre!

Yes but that's because it doesn't matter whether the people who go to a theatre are either men or women or anything else. It does matter very much at singers clubs because there are many more men who would go than women. What would your suggestion be for making sure clubs are not swamped with men if it's not pricing?

Why don't you just go to a gay sauna? You'll be treated the same as everybody else. Or maybe it makes a difference to you that there are no women there, unlike at a theatre. What's wrong with gay saunas?

I didn't say anything is wrong with gay saunas. I was recommending them to you if the balance of men to women is less important to you than a pricing policy that doesn't favour women. Why would you recommend a gay sauna to me?

Oh for goodness sake. You want yo go somewhere you can have sex but you don't like a pricing policy that favours women. Gay sauna. Job done. So you are recommending a gay sauna to a straight man because he raised an issue of men paying £ here?

Yes. It's called making a point. If a gay sauna is not appropriate for you, maybe you are acknowledging that you want some women there. A club with an equal pricing policy is likely to be swamped with men, and most men's chances with women wouldn't be any better than at a gay sauna. So I'm just saying that if that's what you want, then go to a gay sauna and at least you'll pay the same as everybody else and you can still have wank before you go home.

Please tell me somebody else understands the point I'm making. I can still have a wank before I go home?

So I would attend a gay sauna to wank?

Oh my lord. Please can somebody explain this to him? Or maybe he is winding me up.

Just answer one question, OP. If you went to a club and there are 20 men for every woman, do you think that would still be worth going to? How confident are you that you would get somewhere with a woman in that situation? "

Sex sells.

The prospect of getting it sells.

Are those women going to be getting their hair braided while at said venue?

If most men thought that it is unlikely men who attend in such numbers.

It is more likely that more females would attend for braiding tips?

What do the females go to those clubs for anyway..the atmosphere alone?

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over a year ago

Who gives a fuck about money, go and bloody enjoy yourself

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Eh?

I’m guessing the op means the inequity in pricing when it comes to swinging clubs.

The reason is very simple - there are at least ten times as many men on fab as there are women.

Why? Probably because a single female swinger would be viewed as a ‘slag’ by the outside world - in fact often the men of fab seem to hold the women on here in little regard.

Op - when the world out there (and in here) grows up and accepts that women have every right to be as sexually active/non monogamous as men without being derided for it - then perhaps the numbers on fab will even up - and the pricing policy in clubs might do too.

Can’t see it happening in my lifetime though unfortunately.

This is very interesting point, and I have a question about it. How much would you say it's about shame (which I'm sure is a factor for some women) and how much of it is just that it's not what a lot of women want. I personally would have thought that far fewer women just naturally aren't interested in swinging, ethical non-monogamy and all the sort of thing this scene involves. I think it much more naturally appeals to men because their biology is such that they want to sow their seed. Many women don't crave different lovers in the way men do.

How much do you think shame and stigma are the driving factors for women not being on this scene as much as men?"

Honestly? I’d say it’s 60/40 in favour of women not being as geared towards non-monogamy.

However - if you took all the women happy to have casual relationships on tin*er, po* and sites I’ve never heard of and brought them here where they’d actually be far safer (in a club rather than a random guy’s house) - then the numbers on fab - and in clubs would be far more even.

On a philosophical note - I think that things are changing out there - but slowly. 3 generations of contraception are gradually changing perceptions that sex is only acceptable/practical in a monogamous long term relationship. Prior to that - women were literally thrown out of society if they didn’t comply with this rule. The church - of every religion - certainly doesn’t help matters either.

It’s going to take a while to erode the conditioning of millennia of male dominated society.

The drastically unequal numbers on fab are simply an indication that we have a very long way to go.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who gives a fuck about money, go and bloody enjoy yourself "

Bump

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This thread is like Brexit.

Nobody understood it to start with, it's gone on so long nobody even cares anymore and the outcome is going to be the one who started it feeling like a bit of a tit.

All we need now is two resignations, a pandemic to interrupt it and a swinger shortage leading to panic shagging when it's all settled down a bit.

Op Shall we Promote this fella forth Wiff??

To the higher levels for his problem solving foresight. The honourable fella has contributed with Gusto.. "

A very strange economic proposal and one that needs a proper economist to solve it.

As for Gusto?

Yep..promotion!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Don't clubs limit the number of single men anyway? Not like they can just show up, pay and suddenly the building capacity is filled with single men. So why does the higher price on men keep being mentioned and refered to as if the price is meant to be a deterrent?

How many women or couples would suddenly stop going to clubs if they had to pay the same price as single men? Nothing around the rules changed, just that you pay more to attend?

As some have said its about economics, except it should not be supported.

As I said, I don't care so much about the club side of things, but the hypocrisy about somebody having to pay a higher price of admission for anything at all based upon their gender (ANY gender) when such a big deal is made about it if it were anybody else other than single men is hilarious.

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

Recommending a gay sauna to a straight guy funniest thing I've seen on the forums lmao. Unless of course he's secretly bi or interested in ts tv and cds. I do understand the difference in prices though but if I was straight I wouldn't bother. Tbh wouldn't bother even if the price was the same lol

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