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How to approach going to a club as newbie single guy

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By *lasgowlad14 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Been considering attending a club night recently Ive had many private meets on this site and I have been more than comfortable/confident in the situation. I'm curious to know how to approach going to a club as a single guy. To be more specific, personally its something I want to experience as I like to watch and join in as do many.I understand in private meets a connection has been established prior to the meet, so the question I'm asking is.. When a single guy like me goes to a club for the first time, what are the do's and do nots?

Also, im straight but I do fuck with bi couples from time to time.

Remember be nice lol.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Treat it like a night out at a non swingers club, socialise and chat with lots of people and have zero expectations of sex

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Biggest thing to do is go with no expectations, treat it as a night out and use it as an opportunity to make connections. Put yourself out there, be friendly but never pushy and respect people's choices, if they are being unfriendly or guarded then you aren't going to get anywhere so say yr goodbyes and move on.

If chatting to a couple always include the partner/husband as he will often have a say in if things go further.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

We treat our trips to a club as a night out to chat freely about the lifestyle and have a good time.

Don’t expect to get a meet on your first time. Depending what club you’re looking to visit keep an eye on the forums as there’s usually a post about who’s going. Can be good to chat on here and takes the edge off your nerves

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By *lasgowlad14 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't have any expectations is probably the best advice.

Find out the specific rules of the club that you plan on attending.

Find out what different nights they do and what interests you out of those.

Personally I like clubs with Pools and or hot tubs, it makes it much easier to get chatting to people I think specifically for single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above..

Be yourself, talk to both halves of a couple, no expectations and just chat to people, similar to a private meet, build up the rapport and just have a good time.. IF you end up with someone, it's a bonus!

And good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walk in, kiss your ‘guns’ flexing your muscles, and then do the ‘helicopter’ move with your cock… that breaks the ice.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Dont over analyse it , as somone said treat as if going to the pub...after 5 mins you'll be fine..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont over analyse it , as somone said treat as if going to the pub...after 5 mins you'll be fine.."

In my local, After 5 mins someone is asking me to give them the money I owe them…I hope it’s not like that.

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