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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you ever been turned down when you tried to initiate sex by the other person saying. 'sorry I had a wank and can't or don't want to?'

Previous relationship I had this a lot.

How would you deal with it if it was a repeated thing?

How did it make you feel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say I'm a pretty chilled person and if it was just now and again I'd probably find that quite funny - if was happening all the time though, I'd definitely be pissed.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Why would you have a wank if you were in a healthy sexual relationship with your partner?

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

It's a bit like not having tea together because they've already eaten. Antisocial.

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By *nto the LouWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"Why would you have a wank if you were in a healthy sexual relationship with your partner?"

It’s a mood thing surely?! Nothing wrong with doing both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why would you have a wank if you were in a healthy sexual relationship with your partner?"

I'd really like to know that answer.

Laziness? Impatience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's what my vibrator is for.

Née bother pet, i'll get myself away.

you just lie there and look pretty.

Px

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By *nto the LouWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"Why would you have a wank if you were in a healthy sexual relationship with your partner?

I'd really like to know that answer.

Laziness? Impatience? "

For me I sometimes just want to get off quickly and without the effort of involving anybody else, especially if it’s evening and I’m tired

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Why would you have a wank if you were in a healthy sexual relationship with your partner?

It’s a mood thing surely?! Nothing wrong with doing both"

Sure, but only if your gf doesn't feel horny/headache or whatever, and buggers off to bed for an early night

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Uhhhm repeat performance?

Sometimes people just aren't in the mood and that's fine.

If its regularly then there's possibly an issue somewhere that needs an open discussion.

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By *urtyGentMan
over a year ago

eastleigh

As a man that wanks quite a lot, I’m not sure it’s a valid excuse for not wanting to bump uglies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you have a wank if you were in a healthy sexual relationship with your partner?

I'd really like to know that answer.

Laziness? Impatience?

For me I sometimes just want to get off quickly and without the effort of involving anybody else, especially if it’s evening and I’m tired "

Yeah exactly, there's nothing wrong with wanting a wank. And if a guy has just had a wank, then I get why he might not want sex for a while.

If it happened a lot though, then maybe some communication would be helpful - tell him you're horny and want him later, for example?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"For me I sometimes just want to get off quickly and without the effort of involving anybody else, especially if it’s evening and I’m tired "

Have you ever fallen asleep whilst having a wank

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By *nto the LouWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"For me I sometimes just want to get off quickly and without the effort of involving anybody else, especially if it’s evening and I’m tired

Have you ever fallen asleep whilst having a wank "

No, but I’ve given up because I’ve decided I’m too tired to be bothered

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

We all have urges and need to satisfy them at times. I'd have no problem if it happened occasionally but if it was a regular thing there is obviously something wrong and that's prbbaly the time when you know things are done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me I sometimes just want to get off quickly and without the effort of involving anybody else, especially if it’s evening and I’m tired

Have you ever fallen asleep whilst having a wank

No, but I’ve given up because I’ve decided I’m too tired to be bothered "

I've done this too

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

What is this to tired or can't be bothered, even post wank - nope doesn't compute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever fallen asleep whilst having a wank "

Yes. Many times. It takes a looooooong time for me to get off by myself.

Most of the time I just give up cos my arm aches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can honestly say never had that happen

And never done it ither but mind you I have a very high sex drive

So I could have a wank and then stright sex afterwards and wouldn’t mind

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"For me I sometimes just want to get off quickly and without the effort of involving anybody else, especially if it’s evening and I’m tired

Have you ever fallen asleep whilst having a wank

No, but I’ve given up because I’ve decided I’m too tired to be bothered "

Me and you both, I think sod this for a game of soldiers, it can wait until tomorrow

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

Honestly, I'd find it strange if I had a partner that didn't wank. Occasionally going overboard or me wanting some action when he's just finished I can understand...but we'd need to talk if it was happening regularly. In that situation I'd just lay beside him and have a wank myself...I'm sure it wouldn't be long before he was interested again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be in a relationship with a lass who once I sorted her out I’d have to go wank and finish myself off. It used to make me feel like shit but I’m over it now. I’m living my life and she’s enjoying hers under the patio I’m

Sure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to be in a relationship with a lass who once I sorted her out I’d have to go wank and finish myself off. It used to make me feel like shit but I’m over it now. I’m living my life and she’s enjoying hers under the patio I’m

Sure.

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That really made me laugh!

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