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By *inkyfuckery69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

We see alot of profiles with safe sex only!" .....question! How many of you would be happy to bareback swing if all parties could provide a clean bill of health ?

I know most single guys would but my question is aimed at couples and single fems !

If your a single male that still wouldn't, why not ?

If your a couple or single fem why not ?

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Nope. I'd still play safe. As a test is not a guarantee, neither is a condom but I prefer to add that extra layer. Plus I'd not like multiple people like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Play safe always x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even with a clean bill of health I would still opt for the safe sex option as accidents can still happen and also I wouldn't feel comfortable barebacking another man's partner plus I still like to protect my own equipment even if said person was all cleared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt unless with a exclusive trusted partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldnt unless with a exclusive trusted partner.

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This really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We see alot of profiles with safe sex only!" .....question! How many of you would be happy to bareback swing if all parties could provide a clean bill of health ?

I know most single guys would but my question is aimed at couples and single fems !

If your a single male that still wouldn't, why not ?

If your a couple or single fem why not ? "

Bit of a generalisation about single guys OP

I wouldn't as the test is only good for that day

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I wouldnt unless with a exclusive trusted partner.

"

This completely.

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By *_and_J2021Couple
over a year ago

Swindon

I wouldn’t, I would be too scared of getting something or getting pregnant. I wouldn’t be able to relax.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldnt unless with a exclusive trusted partner.

"

Totally this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe all the way , my anxiety would get the better of me and the enjoyment would be lost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We see alot of profiles with safe sex only!" .....question! How many of you would be happy to bareback swing if all parties could provide a clean bill of health ?

I know most single guys would but my question is aimed at couples and single fems !

If your a single male that still wouldn't, why not ?

If your a couple or single fem why not ? "

I think maybe you are trying to say if you as a couple being together for years knew another couple who has also been together for years then I can understand maybe you could all play bear back if you can trust there not going bear back with anyone else

I would be afraid to go bear back personally unless above or very trusted partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

even if the almighty Morgan Freeman came down from on high, and explicitly told me the person im about to have sex with, is completely clean of all things awful, and i'll come out the other side just as disease-free as i am now, also sans fetus....

i would still use protection!

safe swinging for me. only bareback with my partner.

personal preference and all that. Px

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Think you should do as you want you will not get an even-handed split in the forum people not wanting to damage their chance.

But if everything was 100% safe of course, the vast majority of people would prefer sex without.

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice


"I wouldnt unless with a exclusive trusted partner.

"

And we have a winner

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"We see alot of profiles with safe sex only!" .....question! How many of you would be happy to bareback swing if all parties could provide a clean bill of health ?

I know most single guys would but my question is aimed at couples and single fems !

If your a single male that still wouldn't, why not ?

If your a couple or single fem why not ? "

“Most single guys would”? I dispute that. Most guys see bareback offerings as a huge red flag. Too risky.

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By *andwCouple
over a year ago

South east

As a new couple We were surprised how many single guys have bareback photos on their profile. Does put us off...

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Safe allways as a test doesn’t guarantee anything. For example they don’t test for herpes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We see alot of profiles with safe sex only!" .....question! How many of you would be happy to bareback swing if all parties could provide a clean bill of health ?

I know most single guys would but my question is aimed at couples and single fems !

If your a single male that still wouldn't, why not ?

If your a couple or single fem why not ?

I think maybe you are trying to say if you as a couple being together for years knew another couple who has also been together for years then I can understand maybe you could all play bear back if you can trust there not going bear back with anyone else

I would be afraid to go bear back personally unless above or very trusted partner "

Personally I would never trust a bear. You just can’t predict their behaviour. Front or back.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"We see alot of profiles with safe sex only!" .....question! How many of you would be happy to bareback swing if all parties could provide a clean bill of health ?

I know most single guys would but my question is aimed at couples and single fems !

If your a single male that still wouldn't, why not ?

If your a couple or single fem why not ? "

I am a single male. I do not have bareback sex. Wearing a condom is such a small, insignificant thing that has such massive positive benefits. To my mind, the question should be "Why would anyone ever go bareback if they weren't expressly trying for kids or an STI?"

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By *edheadjMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

STIs is obviously the big one, but not many considering the chance of pregnancy

Safe play all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldnt unless with a exclusive trusted partner.

"

Precisely this. No test can guarantee a person is disease free because the results aren't instantaneous. They'd have taken the test maybe a week ago, and given they're a lover of bareback, they could have had unprotected sex since that test and picked something up. The only way to guarantee it is to be able to trust that they haven't, and trust isn't quickly earned for me.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Safe allways as a test doesn’t guarantee anything. For example they don’t test for herpes"

Condoms don't really protect against herpes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We see alot of profiles with safe sex only!" .....question! How many of you would be happy to bareback swing if all parties could provide a clean bill of health ?

I know most single guys would but my question is aimed at couples and single fems !

If your a single male that still wouldn't, why not ?

If your a couple or single fem why not ?

I am a single male. I do not have bareback sex. Wearing a condom is such a small, insignificant thing that has such massive positive benefits. To my mind, the question should be "Why would anyone ever go bareback if they weren't expressly trying for kids or an STI?""

Because it feels nice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always play bare and I'm more than happy with my choice xx

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Bare only with my partner

I wouldn't trust anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There a an awful lot of people who say they only play safe but when you actuallu meet them they really prefer natural with selected people.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I wouldn’t in any circumstance. Freshly printed certificates or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely only play safe.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

There is 2 weeks of incubation period for STIs so doesn’t really matter if their test results shows clean for the time of the event. I only accept the possibility if I’m regular with one specific person/couple after sometime which is still a risk but it’s trackable if something comes up unexpectedly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single male here and I still wouldn't. I don't feel a big difference between sex with and without condoms. So the minor risk(in spite of health checks) is still not worth it.

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

I wouldnt risk it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day we're all adults here. We are fully entitled to make our own decisions. I myself have gone bare a few times with women from here and I'm not ashamed to admit it neither. That being said, I also play safe. It's made into such a Taboo subject on here when it shouldn't be because it's a natural thing. I've met with people on here that swear by playing safe but when it comes down to having sex they try and go bare in the heat of the moment so there can be double standards all over the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Safe sex" !!

Doesn't exist.

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By *oppy and Rugby BoyCouple
over a year ago

Herts

We would if all were clean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always safe sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An evening of bare fun..

For many years, of green cum..

Sorry.. something I got told many years ago. Kinda stuck with me

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Its the best but he ain't going in any old vaj

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By *aturegentdurhamMan
over a year ago

Stanley

Always played safe.

Always will

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By *andy2Man
over a year ago

Ealing

I know it’s wrong but bare just feels so right

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

No because tests are only a negative on the day it was taken. Also contraceptives do sometimes fail, and it's generally easier to know when a condom has failed. And to be honest it's a trust issue and I'm a cynic at heart

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By *avage.Magic.WomanWoman
over a year ago

North West

Absolutely would never consider it, a negative result doesn't cover everything that its possible to have or transmit.

I dont even consider meeting people who go bareback, and I get up and walk away in clubs if someone suggests not playing safe

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley


"An evening of bare fun..

For many years, of green cum..

Sorry.. something I got told many years ago. Kinda stuck with me "

Ooooo that little ditty hits home!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Durex thins should give the answer to everyones problems on here,can barely tell you have a condom on just make sure you try a few sizes out to get the most comfortable fit, no stds no pregnancy and lots of fun can't really see the down side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe sex yes...agree with vast majority. Though no one questions giving and receiving oral when STI’s are also transmitted this way hence the oral testing yet this is not questioned or considered. I know the risk is slightly lower but still present.

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By *r RoninMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

What do you mean by "most single guys would"

See this is the problem with fabs alot of couples have no respect for single male and its quite sad actually..

I wouldn't go bareback ever unless it's with someone I'm dating. I know alot of friends single guys that won't go bareback as well

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood

I wouldn’t but i know my history and health - only takes one mistake and your balls turn to mushrooms and your cock goes to spinach!! True - im actually a Dr!! But. It’s a no from me

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

No, never, not worth the risk at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust no one and double up

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By *oghicksMan
over a year ago

Brackley


"I wouldnt unless with a exclusive trusted partner.

"

Absolutely but the chance of that are extremely low unfortunately.

I would really like one exclusive partner.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock


"We see alot of profiles with safe sex only!" .....question! How many of you would be happy to bareback swing if all parties could provide a clean bill of health ?

I know most single guys would but my question is aimed at couples and single fems !

If your a single male that still wouldn't, why not ?

If your a couple or single fem why not ?

Bit of a generalisation about single guys OP

I wouldn't as the test is only good for that day "

Sadly it's true the amount of single guys whose profile even added again in their bio say safe sec only but then messsge me saying I love BB is unbelievable

I have had the reverse thou, 2 guys agree to a BB meet then on the day change their minds but they are definitely in the moinoriry from the number of messages I get

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I only do BB meets

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Routine STI screening doesn't test for herpes or HPV. I'm mainly worried about the HPV and reducing my cervical cancer risk. There's also an incubation period with most STIs so it's possible for someone to have a recent negative test but still be infected if they test too soon after contracting it. For bactetial infections that's usually a few weeks. For viral infections like HIV that's up to 3 months.

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs


"We see alot of profiles with safe sex only!" .....question! How many of you would be happy to bareback swing if all parties could provide a clean bill of health ?

I know most single guys would but my question is aimed at couples and single fems !

If your a single male that still wouldn't, why not ?

If your a couple or single fem why not ? "

I would still play safe. It’s one of the conditions my partner and I have in our open relationship and one of my personal boundaries.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Safe allways as a test doesn’t guarantee anything. For example they don’t test for herpes

Condoms don't really protect against herpes. "

Yes it's possible to still transmit it when using a condom but they do help reduce the risk, especially from the male partner. There's no 100% way to guarantee anything apart from abstinence but we all weigh up our own risks and make our own decisions based on the information we have.

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By *ig man 40Man
over a year ago

havant

Love bareback

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By *rincess 1973Woman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I love bareback however it's reserved exclusively with my partner playtime involves condoms although if we had a regular exclusive couple we met who we knew well it could be a possibility down the line but only when trust had been built

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my gf both went bb with two cpls at chams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only BB with one woman and she's my partner. Nobody else. It's just not worth the risk. Some things are more important than a relatively short period of slightly heightened pleasure.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Still never bareback reminds me need to get more condoms x

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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Not bareback with anyone but my partner.

That's our intimacy that I share with no one else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had a couple of club visits recently and was very naive ….I though people would bring condoms, or there would be condoms in bowels all around the place or something like that….NOPE! never seen a condom used yet in a club…with anyone. I was very surprised.

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By *red and Wilma 75Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

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By *red and Wilma 75Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"I’ve had a couple of club visits recently and was very naive ….I though people would bring condoms, or there would be condoms in bowels all around the place or something like that….NOPE! never seen a condom used yet in a club…with anyone. I was very surprised. "

That’s the opposite to our experience.

Most clubs keep them behind the bar. You just need to ask.

Though most do being them with them.

We found in clubs everyone is very safe.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley


"We see alot of profiles with safe sex only!" .....question! How many of you would be happy to bareback swing if all parties could provide a clean bill of health ?

I know most single guys would but my question is aimed at couples and single fems !

If your a single male that still wouldn't, why not ?

If your a couple or single fem why not ? "

Bareback is a pleasure for us only. No exceptions.

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

You can just search the forums for about 1234 other bareback threads ??

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By *um6a9funMan
over a year ago

Messy End

I’m both intrigued and frustrated with the whole bareback situation.

Intrigued firstly, as I decided about a year back to explore, and experience again the joys of what the element brings to sexual activity. My situation is that unfortunately we can’t have penetrative sex at home, so I seek and crave those that are open about their preferences.

What frustrates me is the constant uproar towards individuals that are open about what they want, and those that continue to hide behind fake interests list. If those that want condom free encounters want that, let us have our own fun, those that are safe only, fine too, but wanting bare and being open isn’t a sin, stating safe sex, but playing bare is, especially to those that only want safe.

I do feel the the site admin could address this by adding a few additional options to the interests list?

Happy fabbing all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condoms are an absolute ballache if your moving from F to F in a MFF situation …. But I’ve seen far to many medical notes and most have had an STi to ever risk it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t really see the issue with playing bareback

I am sti checked every 4/5weeks & can prove my results are clear every time & I had a Vasectomy in 2018 with a picture copy of the letter on my phone with me sperm test results are negative meaning I am firing blanks

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By *andy2Man
over a year ago

Ealing


"Even with a clean bill of health I would still opt for the safe sex option as accidents can still happen and also I wouldn't feel comfortable barebacking another man's partner plus I still like to protect my own equipment even if said person was all cleared"

I know but barebacking another mans wife is so hot

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

We bb

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By *heron212Man
over a year ago

London

Absolutely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I BB with my DD, but we started with protection.

Sex with others would always be with protection - and i guess we'd also have a conversation about whether we continued to play BB or went back to protection

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By *anchestercreampieloversCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We only play bare back and are very happy with our choice !!

But we are upfront about it so people have the choice to meet us or not !!

We are often contacted by single men, women and couples who insist “safe sex only” on their profile page but can’t wait to play bare lol xx

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Safe allways as a test doesn’t guarantee anything. For example they don’t test for herpes

Condoms don't really protect against herpes. "

Let us not consider the risks associated with kissing either.

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

Bareback due to have a allergic reaction to normal condom's and I can't cum if I ever wear a non latex one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think you should do as you want you will not get an even-handed split in the forum people not wanting to damage their chance.

But if everything was 100% safe of course, the vast majority of people would prefer sex without."

This is the perfect summary for us.

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By *ilva69Man
over a year ago

stockport


"We only play bare back and are very happy with our choice !!

But we are upfront about it so people have the choice to meet us or not !!

We are often contacted by single men, women and couples who insist “safe sex only” on their profile page but can’t wait to play bare lol xx"

Think It’s an informed choice between consenting adults who know the risks and enjoy there pursuit

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Even with Sti tests there are certain things that are not tested likes herpes and hpv

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I absolutely wouldn't go without a condom, even if they had a screening done on their way to meet me! That's something I'd only do in a committed relationship where we both used condoms with anyone else.

Each to their own, I know some will call me a hypocrite because I'm very happy to give and receive oral without protection, but everyone needs to judge situations according to their own risk profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We see alot of profiles with safe sex only!" .....question! How many of you would be happy to bareback swing if all parties could provide a clean bill of health ?

I know most single guys would but my question is aimed at couples and single fems !

If your a single male that still wouldn't, why not ?

If your a couple or single fem why not ? "

Play safe every time. I only go bare if in a relationship or we have been fwb for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldnt unless with a exclusive trusted partner.

"

100%, but then I'm a one fwb at a time kind of guy, and they wouldn't have lied to me would they.....?

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By *lutForYou69Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

Have in the past

But definitely wouldn’t now, just a complete change in attitude and realised I’d been lucky so far but maybe next time I wouldn’t be so lucky so now it’s condoms every time

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

I met a couple once and a condom was insisted to be worn ( by them) After playing for a while the condom was mentioned. We stopped to put it on. After finally getting it on we started again but not long after I lost my erection as too tight, no feeling. They said get it off it doesn't matter and carried on without it. Just saying that, nothing set in stone.

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